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Not necessarily. A high earning woman can get a higher earning man. For example a woman who makes 6 figures can date a millionaire or billionaire. Also, some men do like smart women because they are intellectual themselves or less insecure. You're also validating my point that women DO NEED to be hypergamous because men and women value different things.

Women's hypergamy = Men's love for beauty

@@DarkSkinITGirl well my point is that whether anyone deserves better is up to everyone else except themselves. There is idea that you think that you deserve better when you actually don't. It's basically being delusional. We men know this very well, that is why we are humble enough to know our place. And most men don't see intelligence as attractive and if he is attracted to an intelligent woman, that is because she has the looks. There is nothing for men to be insecure about when it comes to intelligence because if we want to, we can work for it.

@@hafizumar107 What? That first paragraph is so wrong! Are you trying to say if I say I want to be alive, because other people determine my worth, anybody can get up and kill me? What you think you deserve is SOLELY up to you. Your mindset determines what you get out of life and not other people. Minus exceptions like legal issues. Also, an insecure man will find an intelligent woman intimidating especially if he isn't well-read or intelligent man himself. You just described an insecure man to a T.

@@DarkSkinITGirl that is just straw man argument... Of course there are limits. You are just throwing away context. That is how life works. Your worth depends on how you are able to contribute to society and that is how women view men too. Just because you are a woman, you think your approval of your worth is valid? That is not how life works kiddo. And of course I am insecure anyone is better than me... Isn't that part of a healthy competition? Unless you are bitter and only want to win, there is no problem with being insecure. The problem comes is what you do with that insecurity. If you act unfairly because you are insecure, then you are a loser. But insecurity fuels motivation to do better. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with me trying to be better than anyone else.

I'm sorry, but what else is a man going to give if he can't provide? That's the bare minimum. Also men would date someone who makes less because they are not secure enough to date someone who makes significantly wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more than them.

​@DarkSkinITGirl We live in a military debt-slave complex, and you say men making slaves of themselves by providing for you through a lifetime of debt and labor is the bare minimum? I'm not dying in a desert for the federal government and I'm not dying at my desk for some pussy.

​@@DarkSkinITGirlYou must be a joker if you think that applies to men of this generation. Nobody is insecure to date a woman wayyyyyy more successful than them boo. You just only attract insecure men😂

@@DarkSkinITGirl flip that the other way around and it’s still a wrong thing to do. The problem is that people are okay with using others to the point where they make excuses to use other people. If I love a woman, I mean really love her I’d do everything I can for her. If she’s worthy of that love she will reciprocate. Same can be said about men. Insecurity be damned as an excuse to behave poorly.

@@outofhisdammind Obviously, she will reciprocate --the way women typically do. It's very unfruitful, in my opinion, to pay a man's bills or go dutch in addition to doing everything women typically do in relationships.

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No, not these men. I mean the good ones (in all races). Imo, if you have to date this kind of guy, it's best to remain single. I made this video to help us understand what a good partnership should look like (for the guorlies that want to be partnered up some time in the future). It's helpful to know what a good relationship looks like.

@@DarkSkinITGirl with the little amount of good guys there are, and the fact that men are secretly hurting and betraying their wives, how can you be confident that this good guys ARE in fact good??? Y'all arent getting that there is so much of them because THAT is how they are made from their male blueprint, exactly as winen are made with wombs. The reason most women have wombs is bc THAT is in the blueprint of f a woman. And the reason men echit these weird behaviors is also precisely bc these behaviors are in the blueprint of males. And the reason women largely don't exhibit these behaviors IS because it is not in the female blueprint, just like men don't have wombs because wombs is not IN they'd blueprint, just like his ants and bees both have hives in they'd blueprints but ants don't have wings bc wings are not in the ant blueprint. Y'all aren't stopping to understand that, that THAT is why their behaviors is widespread and global. Please I pray y'all wake up bf you put more women in danger

@@GhossupGurls I get where you're coming from. Men have a tendency to be violent and the patriarchy allows men a lot of privilege so most of them don't have much character development built into them. I get it. But it is unrealistic to expect every woman to boycott men or refuse to partner up with men. A large majority of women are waking up and choosing for themselves (i.e childfree, single, etc). Trust me, I'm happy that women are CHOOSING FOR THEMSELVES. But there really are exceptions to the rule (I mean men) and at the end of the day, I'm here to present the facts so y'all can choose for yourselves. If at some point you want to be partnered, here's how I think you should go about it. If at some point you want to be single and childfree, then do you. Okay, so is your solution singledom and 'childfreeness' for every woman on earth?

@@DarkSkinITGirl it is not actually unrealistic, will it take time, YES, hard? YES.But it is NOT in contact unrealistic beixas no one, no one, is made to be with someone who threatens or CAN threaten their life. That is literally encoded in every living thing. It's called survival instincts. But the part of the problem of this society is that there's a reason we didn't know men WERE violent in the first place and we're now just "waking up". I suspect some kind of brainwash, and it is the same one that made us think, still think we HAVE to be with men. But a mandate to be with someone who poses a life threat to you CANNOT and DOES NOT exist, in fact THE OPPOSITE is true, which is why when women TRULY get the nature of men, they walk the other way. They have no problem disengaging from men. And because not only is there no mandate to be with these men, but that the mandate is life preservation, there is clearly another form of social connection that doesn't involve men and certainly is not the nuclear family. We even see it every day. It's called a tribe, a community. Many women who have reported investing n their female friendships say they LOVE their lives. So if a life you can love and is San a particular danger, why does it sound you think that is unrealistic. I don't think you get that women have tried this man thing for thousands of years. Thousands of years' data says the sht doesn't work.. And every time we get stuck in this rigamarole brainwash, we prolong the suffering and increase the chances of men re-enslaving women to the 1800s level.

@@GhossupGurls Let me ask you this question. What about childbearing? I get that women can go to sperm banks. What about the aftermath of raising a child. If all women are childfree, then what happens?

I agree. He sounds very scary.

Thank you so much for watching😁

Holy s#$%. This made my night. Thank you so much for the kind words. I'm definitely gonna remember you

Awww, thank you so much🥰😘🤩😍

Like?!!! They are the loudest ones in the room

Right?! A free maid and then some

That last sentence cracked me up

OMG! You summed it up so perfectly! I noticed this too. They never mention the part where men are supposed to be submissive. They are obsessssssssssseeeeeeeedddddddddd!!!!!!!!

Awww that's so sweet. It sounds like you're one of the good ones. If this is what *submission* means (being sweet to each other and taking into consideration each other's needs in a healthy way) I 100% agree with submission. But like with all terms, they lose their initial intended value when extremists enter the chat.

OMG! I'm so happy! Thank you so much for your encouraging words🤩

OMG! Why get with an abusive man in the first place? You're literally proving my point. If you have to become a human dog just because your husband is aggressive or has 'mental illness' you shouldn't be with him in the first place!!!! I'm very concerned for you. If you have to take disrespectful behaviour just to prevent a man from exploding and spiraling out of control, HE'S the problem not you. That is not someone you want to be with. Today, your 'submission' stopped him from harming you and being aggressive towards the kids. What about tomorrow? Will you go on like this for the rest of your life? Such men don't deserve kids, IMO. They'll just traumatize them and start a vicious cycle of abuse. It sounds to me like you'd rather have your kids grow up with an f'd up mental health that they inherited from their abusive father. Seek help🙏 I wish you well.

@@DarkSkinITGirl Exactly I’m agreeing with you dominant men have mental issues this is exactly what I’m saying

@@justme-ef3kg Oh, I just re-read it. Sorry, because of the lack of full stops, I misunderstood some of the sentences. Thank you so much for commenting! I really appreciate it😘🥰😍

Awwwww, thank you so much! I hope you enjoyed the video😍🥰

It's that short attention audience type of editing. And it worked because I couldn't scroll through anything while listening to the video

@@VixxKong2 OMG! This is a huge compliment! That was exactly my goal. I guess I've found my style. I'll be doing this style from now onwards. It takes a while to do, so I hope y'all will still stick around while I do the next one🥰.

The word, 'submission' has been heavily abused to the point where it doesn't mean what it used to mean especially in the black community.

'Submission' in this context is very wrong. Women are also humans. The way submission is talked about suggests, it's a slavery bond vs an actual partnership. I think bw will be better off with some self-esteem. Maybe you will be better off with some self-esteem.

@@DarkSkinITGirl I still think women need to submit. It's not that hard. Just be respectful.

@@melanatedchoco I think it goes beyond being 'respectful.' Obviously, be respectful to your partner. I think you shouldn't hand him your brain, though. You shouldn't have to do every single thing he tells you to do even if it goes against your needs. I prefer 'cooperation.'

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And the sound effects were hilarious too

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@AdventurersGuild23😂 exactly

Yes, that will be wild! Black women have been pedestalizing other people for so long that it can be easy for them to just transfer men of other races onto that pedestal. WE NEED to be on that PEDESTAL OURSELVES not other people and that's what I desperately want Black Women to understand. If we can do that, we've solved about half of our problems.

@AdventurersGuild23 We have better things to do.

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@@DarkSkinITGirl it’s not all black women. I unconditionally love my sisters regardless. Loved the video

Girl, I'm so glad you liked it!😁🥰

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What was well said, break it down? We need to put you all on all the heavy lifting work, you all behaving like it's you carry civilisation when you are benefiting, don't let a yoyo divester chameleon lead you astray

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@@DarkSkinITGirl seems everyone on TH-cam is a grifter these days, chameleons using words and buzz terms that aren't even part of their culture, we have an interracial pick me telling women not to be an interracial pick me

@@DarkSkinITGirl women like you just want to yoyo back and forth just to pick up resources, pro blackity black one mo, interracial slumming it the next, and when it don't work the internet kept receipts

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Girl, it's a full blown comedy show being acted in our faces.

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Also it sounds like „fetish“ thing they are doing

Who's gonna tell her?

Because he asked her out on a date, genius.

It is in fact a job, but let's not even go there. 'Job' or not, my point still stands.

@@DarkSkinITGirl according to the definition you are wrong, especially in this context. You could apply this to everything and therefore etymologically it loses all meaning. By your definition, crafting a moral framework and abiding by it is a job. Driving safely is a job. Maintaining friendships is a job. Just because something requires work or bears a responsibility to others does not make it a job.

"Your choice of language reveals you want benefits and financial reward from dating": That's exactly what men do, so why shouldn't women?

@@07Flash11MRC while it is changing I disagree that right now you can appropriately claim that men in general look at women as a means to a financial end. Regardless, this is madness. Cooperation is the best strategy in nearly all situations, but tit for tat game theory stratagem can only become the standard when a party chooses to trust the other and not fuck them over. If that never occurs, both parties will continually fuck each other over. The retort "well they do it so why can't we" is asinine and not valid. No one should do it, and using "well they do so why can't we" to defend a reprehensible behaviour is an excellent method to degrade any moral code.

This is a guy trying to be 'a provider' with no funds, but somehow you pay no attention to that.

Her presence.

Just by being married women's life expectancy gets reduced while a man's life expectancy gets extended compared to single women and single men respectively. And I'm not even including the huge risk and permanent consequences that a woman takes on by giving a man children. That is a literal blood sacrifice that can result in death. Google the statistics for everything I just said and the reasons why and you'll get your answer.

I'm glad you found the truth entertaining

You don't see an issue with a grown man taking all of a grown woman's money? One who is supposedly a 'provider'? If the 'allowance' and more comes from 'her' money, it's no longer provision.

As I said, we are speculating on only a very small portion of their income situation. And as I said I would personally give her a percentage of whatever she brings in. But, provision and providing does not necessarily mean paying for nails and beauty products. These things are not exactly necessary. Idk maybe/hopefully he’s using the money to save for a house downpayment. Who knows 🤷‍♂️

​@@anthonyvictor5916You are describing financial abuse. How are you going to control how a woman spends her own money that she *worked* for? It's one thing to decide together if both of your money are together in a pot but to control how much she gets to use is abuse.

@@Carpathianpixie not abuse if she consented to it. Also, if your mind is in a negative space when you think of the situation then you might think that. Having an allowance is not a bad thing. Women tend to spend more than men, so by going for that dynamic, she may be able to spend what she has, and they both can save for a house or something big. What you think?

@@AlaricTheArcane Somebody is so triggered!!!!!!!

This video is about dusty men

@@DarkSkinITGirl I'm interested in wild ladies like you