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great speech.

I really needed to hear this actually, thank you for the hints!

Groomed much? It is why these children are not maturing to full potential.

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Or how about you’re a liar and I hate all liars. That and I love you but I sure don’t like you right now is what I’m familiar with.

If I bring up something that hurt me, and my parents immediately deny or deflect, there is no letting go. I own my mistakes. All of them. If my parents genuinely refuse to own ANY of theirs, they will not be forgiven. Children are always told "let go of your blame". Parents are never told "own your mistakes".

Good advice.

Thank you!!! I needed this advice!

Thank you. Very insightful. 😊

Thank you…

I was a very young mother and I would just like to hear my adult children say that they know I always done my best for them.I know I always tried but to know that they seen my efforts would make me feel validated in some way. I have close relationships with all three and maybe that should be enough and it is but that unsure young mom wants to know she was enough.

as an adult child who’s largely left the faith I was ready to cringe but this was good advice, thanks for putting it out there

Love this! No one ever changed their behavior because any other human made them feel judged, disliked, or any other negative emotion.

or just don't have kids.

What is an adult child..

❤🎉 AMEN TO THAT 🙏💞❤️💕💞.😊

❤Thank you

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Amen.

This is actually amazing I wish more mothers could be like/have the same mindset as you! Your a great role model to other mothers out there.❤

😢 treat us like actual functional adults? What? This hit hard. Struggling with my incredibly well intentioned but oblivious mom. Words like I love you are wonderful but actions speak louder. Thank you for this.

constantly staying busy thank you

stay calm 🦌 don't allow 🦙 e~motions to overtake (you) appearance of inner confidence .. that God will work things out

This is definitely a video to meditate and learn from!!!! Thanks for your help.

I experienced this with someone I've known my whole life! I got to the point where I had to completely distance myself from her.

Thank you for your encouragement, Kathy! You help me so much and I'm so grateful for you! Sending you hugs! Love you and hope you have a beautiful day! 💙🙏 Love, Rachel Van Nice

Love you, Kathy! Thankful for you. I honestly do learn so much from you! Grateful for all that you do and for sharing your wisdom and insight! I feel like I have grown closer to God since I started watching and reading your content! You have such a loving and caring heart! Keeping you and your family in my prayers and thoughts! Love you and wish I could give you a hug! You inspire me, Kathy! Hope you and your family are doing wonderful!💙🙏 Love, Rachel Van Nice

She describes Leftist.

Omg all these behaviours are in me 😢

Uff, my ex So long ago I’m so happy now 🙏🏼

❤Thank you for this positive message.

🪞 🚨 6/9 (perspective)

Why do we feel responsible for others and want to fix everything?

Kathy why is it scary or difficult for us to move into the red zone? What can we be doing in the stretch zone to help us get to the red? And What can we experience when we do?

Thank you

The grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it

Yeah my problem is going out by myself and meeting new people is outside my comfort zone. If I have a friend with me it's in my stretch zone. But I have to meet people by myself to make friends first.

Shut up

That's deep 😢

No

Does this include being in a marriage where the spouse does not love you?

What they say..."You need to stop taking everything so personal"... What they mean..."Let me continue being rude and elevating myself"😮

Christians are no better than Muslims and Jews. Just be quiet and keep your books to yourselves. After all they are written by humans to control humans.

Seriously

Your kind of right and kind of wrong,stopping to listen is Christian ,so is being thankful,often there are no answers to tell ? Yes people use platitudes to blow people off,but let’s not through the baby out with the bath water

thank you

I am not religious, but it is nice to see a person who believes in accountability and acknowledgement instead of using religion to dismiss or justify a lack of personal growth or responsibility. It is very important.

🙌🏻 processing 🧠

Sounds like co-dependency…🌈🦋🌻🌲✨

Please stop trying to be the peacemaker for the entire family. Wake up......we were abused. I don't WANT to be reconciled to people that did us harm. Just. Stop.