วีดีโอ

I liked when you said: 'Some people have to prove themselves like metals'

th-cam.com/video/JWsKEPaBVbk/w-d-xo.html

Random but I love this guys videos lol youtube.com/@askjapan9669?si=4Xf8EStHtzaBa2Oy

I’ve already broken through here too. Seen my cat as worthy and deserving, just like I was back then. Some things are worth fighting for. This is one of them ❤

I love your glasses Adelle!

And of course, she came to me in her own time. My fun little friend who kept me company through the storms and earthquakes and the jumanji cabin from hell. The complexities of life.

I wish I were a better person. I will keep trying while having so much empathy for myself.

th-cam.com/video/EYtibMbpa3M/w-d-xo.htmlsi=QLJhEtcSnhCeQySz

I feel the world is narcissistic. When you are narcissistic about your survival and wellbeing, if you are selfish about yourself and your career, money, you will be fine. Its really sad but thats how the world works.

Stay safe. This is a great video with tons of lessons.

CPTSD Recovery Chat ASMR, awesome video keep up the great content

I resonate with you. Just be aware women are MUCH MORE generous with other women looks than men. In your own collectivity you have the same issues. I wouldn't like to live in a community where I am the most beautiful either. I don't make friends according to their looks and I find it completely stupid. The quality of our discussion is much more important to me than their looks. On TH-cam I watch mainly black people because they are intelligent, and I am white. So I don't think the color is the problem, but the IQ. Don't raise your children in a place with low IQ

@CPTSD Recovery Chat ASMR AT 6:29 You literally mention every (ALPHA, CHAD, THUG (AL Capone) type guy Why no mention of guys from church!!!!! Nice sweet guys with moral standard (don't believe in abortion, don't want a Divorce) Anti-War guys..... Dudes who like playing Video Games more than being Drunk /on drugs. Example: During Al capone times women wanted liquor and hung out with literal bad guys in the 20s. Why didn't they LOVE anti-Drug CONSTITUTION POLICIES OR WAS FAST MONEY THE GOAL!!!!! AND NO!!!! SNEAKING THE KIDS OFF TO BECOME BOOZE GUYS ISN'T OUTSMARTING THE SYSTEM!!!!! DOPE MAN

I agree lol no more running!!!

I've been on duolingo for a little over a year now learning Spanish. It's fun and hard but still free lol. Good luck and enjoy. ❤❤

Omg 😭 th-cam.com/video/2jzlSeFLr7A/w-d-xo.htmlfeature=shared

Can you find me in this one?? Hehe 🤭 th-cam.com/video/SVMMI3dQieQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=vnbR_871Uy5MTg62

Videos mentioned: th-cam.com/video/GP3Exc5tCtc/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Foffan2RyT3RmSpN

Whoever guesses my favorite incense wins! I only use it outside lol

I was seeing a guy who would cook for me, have me spend the night, great sex, and time spent together all in the very first month. Then, after the first month, it slowly went away. I feel now he’s a covert narc

First, I would like to tell you that you are beautiful and I enjoy looking at you. Second, I enjoy listening to you because your transformation is also mine. Third, where did you find the images moving? I think that's a great idea when we want to focus on what we say ❤

100% projection. It's women who do this. Men are punished in divorce court while women are given cash and prizes.

I would recommend you to talk about serious topics like relationships between men and women in a more neutral way. Im certain you have the capability to do that, you seem like an intelligent person. Im not saying that what you said is wrong and because you are a woman yourself I can understand why you chose to have this approach, however your stance doesn’t improve anything at all. You need to talk about how women change after marriage aswell. In your video It seems like men are these narcissistic manipulators, while Women are perfect and flawless. The goal should be to bring men and women closer together, not continue the divide. We need each other and we need to love each other.

Women change just as much as men after marriage. This is not a one sided phenomenon. Your Talk however makes it seem like it is.

Sorry but that's not happening. From the moment when we meet someone and start hanging out a little we can see stuff what we don't like about someone. However the thing is we rejecting to see that cause we so hardly wanna to fell in love with that person. It is because of his looks or because he has money so he can support our lifestyle whatever that lifestyle is. And then it comes "I can fix him" mentality. Well guess you can't and it shows. Later when butterflies fly away and when his noble traits should keep us next to us we starting to realize that looks and money are just superficial lines what can't fulfill us. Also he becoming more open and relaxed near to us so his "hidden" not so good features become more obvious. For that reason many marriages fell apart. When someone gives you the money but he doesn't help you with various stuff as much as you would like from him. Or he has looks and he is divne but he isn't supportive to you or caring too much. I am sorry but a lot of women live in some fantasy land where they "have a feeling"🙄 they are special and that someone will change for them. That's what tells you society through movies, medias, influencers, cultures and that's not happening. And even now in modern age with social medias taking over the world, the problem with that becomes larger and women becomes more delusional. Also part of that delusion is that perfect men for you exists. You need to realize that men with looks or money doesn't need to develop his character to be a better person. Especially in these days where women are involved so deeply into hookup culture and they don't value themselves. Some privileged men doesn't need to be better to conquer a woman.

A neighbor girlfriend of mine lived with an older rich guy. She didn't have to work and they had a housekeeper. After they got married, the housekeeper didn't show up. She asked about it and he said, "Now that we are married, I don't need the housekeeper any more". She left him right away. Good for her.

When I was a little girl, I watched the princess cartoons and read the princess stories: if you are kind, loving, trusting, and beautiful, you will land a prince who treasures you. Then as a teenager, I watched the romance movies, like musicals: same message: The most beautiful, sweetest, kindest woman gets the BEST man. Then I went to church: "if you obey God and keep his commandments, God will lead you to the perfect man". I was ON TRACK. Mom sent me to ballet for a beautiful body, I had braces, I was sweet, kind, polite, read the beauty magazines, paid attention to my hair, make-up, fashionable clothes, be flirty and sexy. I was everything that a man could want. Finally, a guy recognized what an amazing woman that I was and we got engaged. I thought, "Wow! This is the man of my dreams! My prince! God's chosen one for me!" We dated for two years (every date was a church activity) and we did not fool around. He just gushed over how much he loved me. The first night on our honeymoon, he changed. He said, "Well, I own you now. There is something I have wanted to do all my life, so take off you clothes and lie still so I can do it to you". And that's what happened. Then he rolled over and went to sleep, and I laid awake in bed and cried. That's how sex was EVERY time. I wanted a divorce the next day, but I was afraid of going to hell. And it didn't get better. I was there to cook, clean, make babies and run the house, so he could come and go as he pleased. I was forbidden to know about our finances. He gave me $5 a week allowance. He controlled the car and I had to ask permission to go places. He would even ground me. All the pastoral counseling was that I just needed to submit more and then I would be happy. I was his trapped servant. I had to wait on him like a mother and he bossed me around like a little girl. I wish I had just left after the honeymoon instead of 10 years, when I would rather go to hell than be with him.

I am in my 61st year of marriage. My peers were also in long marriages. Something that we all learned was that it is not easy to get along in all things. When I look at the high divorce rate today my conclusion is that no fault divorce makes it easy for couples to give up, especially the women. It is risky for men to get married today and it seems to be related to feminism and careerism.

Many women will never be happy, because happiness comes from within, many women are looking for validation outside of themselves, thats why social media is a drug for them. My first wife was one of these women. She is 65 divorced for the third time, and her own children don't want anything to do with her. My second wife was happy just being herself doesn't care what others think. Married to her 45 years, and we are happy and supportive to each other.

11:53 - 12:12

The thing is, I don't want to be treated like a toyota or a porsche. Women aren't cars, we're PEOPLE!! I understand your point though lol. I'm sorry that your ex pulled a bait-and-switch on you.

The wrong men change before marriage. Well, we all change in a way but the goal should be to change for the better not the worse. Women should look for men with similar values, disciplined men, goal oriented men, and men who are abstinent. Just my thoughts!! Thanks for the video!!

This was very insightful 🙏🏽

Thanks for sharing & posting. 🙂🇨🇦

Reddit post. READ IT!! 💯 www.reddit.com/r/WomenDatingOverForty/s/JWUTTQIhIq

~~~ᴛʜᴀɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ғᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏɴᴛᴇɴᴛ. ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴡᴀɴɴᴀ sᴀʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ, sᴏᴍᴇ ᴏғ ᴜs ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴅᴇᴄɪᴅᴇᴅ ᴡᴇ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴘᴀʀᴛ ᴏғ ɴᴀᴛᴀʟɪsᴛ sᴏᴄɪᴇᴛʏ ғɪʟʟᴇᴅ ᴡɪᴛʜ ɴᴇɢᴀᴛɪᴠɪᴛʏ. ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴅᴇᴄɪᴅɪɴɢ ᴏɴ ᴀ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ ᴡʜᴇʀᴇ ᴡᴇ ʟɪᴋᴇ-ᴍɪɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴄᴀɴ sᴛᴀʏ ᴛᴏɢᴇᴛʜᴇʀ. ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍɪᴛᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴇsᴄᴀᴘɪɴɢ ᴇɴᴠɪʀᴏɴᴍᴇɴᴛs ᴛʜᴀᴛ ғᴏsᴛᴇʀ ᴄʀᴜᴇʟᴛʏ ᴀɴᴅ ɪɴᴛᴇɴᴛɪᴏɴᴀʟ ᴅɪsʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅ ғᴏʀ ғᴀᴄᴛs, ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴡᴇʟᴄᴏᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴊᴏɪɴ ᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ. ᴡᴇ’ʀᴇ ᴀ ɢʀᴏᴜᴘ ᴏғ ɪɴᴅɪᴠɪᴅᴜᴀʟs ᴡʜᴏ ᴠᴀʟᴜᴇ ᴇᴍᴘᴀᴛʜʏ, ᴜɴᴅᴇʀsᴛᴀɴᴅɪɴɢ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴜʀsᴜɪᴛ ᴏғ ᴋɴᴏᴡʟᴇᴅɢᴇ. ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪᴛʏ: ʜᴛᴛᴘs://ᴅɪsᴄᴏʀᴅ.ɢɢ/ᴠᴛᴘɴ𝟿ᴀ𝟹𝟿ᴅʏ

Also, being mixed race sucks, sorry to those who don’t want to hear it. I don’t fully fit in anywhere with anyone. Humans are tribal and visual. Even in places where I’d fit in visually, like Trinidad or Guyana, culturally I’m very different. It’s too late for me. I do think there are great benefits to my position considering the times we’re in. But in my heart, I really wish I had a culture, a country, “my people”. If you must have them, don’t raise your children in western countries. Raise them where they have kin and culture. Although that’s getting harder and harder these days, and that’s by design 😓

Sigh, just clarifying… I lived one half of my life with pretty privilege. I felt attractive in Canada. But it’s complicated when you’re “ethnic”. If you’re ugly, you’ll pay. If you’re pretty, you still pay but also get benefits. It’s complicated and I’m writing about it. People want to pity you as a minority because that is what they’re told to do in Canada and it makes them feel good. But if you are smarter, more successful or more attractive than them or their children, they think “how dare you!!” and want to see you fail. Even try to sabotage you. Of course this also happens within racial groups all the time. But in general, human life is hard enough as it is. It’s best for people to have culture and be part of a similar collective, not these western “melting pots” where everyone is confused and being molded by the government 😓

Take a picture of any object, then use google lens to identify it

Gotta make babies or we won't have enough slaves for the overlords to exploit and destroy.

Gosh I seem so chaotic back then 🙈

And already this morning, Maurice and I are lying there when a very creepy sound comes from one corner of the room. IMMEDIATELY she is on it like a hunter while I cower under the blankets lol. She found a big, strange but not too scary bug that was quickly doused with diatomaceous earth and sequestered under a yogurt container. Aw, MAURICE! 🥲❤

I couldn't find a woman who wants to be with me. I have never had a single date No woman wants me and I don't blame them. I have nothing to offer I am old, sick, disabled, poor, and I have personality disorders. I wish I had something that women wanted If I had money I would hire a live in nurse and personal assistants to do what I need in my life. I would pay each assistant 100k.a year plus all expenses I would treat them the way I would want to be treated and thank them for helping me. But, instead I am dying alone in pain in a welfare apartment.

Everything you described about parenthood at 4:00 is exactly what I'm going through and it sucks 😢

Love this... I'm so excited I found this.

Sending you love and good thoughts Adelle! 💕 thanks for the advice

Praying for you, Adelle. ❤🙏🏻