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Amazing topic , i hope more poeple sees this

Desperate for help from this addiction. How can I get in touch with this guy?

My Grandmother always preached to me the evils if sex. Her husband was a cheating alcoholic narcissist piece of shit wife beater. But she wouldn't leave him because of the Catholic faith. Her Blind Faith destroyed her into a bitter sad unhappy woman

How many priests secretly visit Prostitutes ? Or molest children ? I love God but I couldn't stand the old asshole judgemental priests I met as a kid !!

You cannot on your own but through Christ who strengthens me I can. That's what's wrong with Christian s lack of discernment and thus conviction the Lord is the source of my strength ask Him He intervenes in any addiction. More time with Him in prayer and seeking to know Him not just during fellowship with others at church. As I see in bible church's were Christian s TRUE Christian s go. 🙏💜

If you like guys- it’s hard to pretend you’re attracted to women. White knuckling I guess.

I kind of feel hopeless in fixing my same-sex attraction. No matter how much we talk abt the origins, it's a life-long illness now. It's a curse for life for those of us doomed with it 😒

You are doing great work Drew. Gods work. Your videos have helped me a lot. Ill start giving back for sure.

Great video! Im currently changing the way God sees me. I don't believe he sees my relapses and I believe it was all oaid for on the cross if you believe we were even condemned in the first place. I'm not sonsure rhat Jesus died for my sins and instead came to show us Gods love for us that has always been and to show us how to love.

It's rare for a client to dwell on the past. I have some clients who get stuck ruminating on their developmental wounds. But most are just completely clueless about the importance of their childhood experiences, and some are absolutely averse to exploring their childhoods. Sadly, it's my fellow conservative Christians that need the greatest help with this all.

The problems (“myths”) that are listed in this video have been around a whole lot longer than the 90’s. I think that you are blaming “purity culture” for sexual teachings that have been passed down from many previous generations.

Thank you , i would like to thank you for this, hoping it will help me get stronger and learn how to resolve this thing that has messed up my freedom for so long. Much Love to you for sharing it.

Transitioning from fantasy-driven arousal to finding connection, vulnerability, and trust sexually arousing is a process that takes time, intention, and patience. It’s about rewiring your brain and heart to find joy and fulfillment in real, authentic intimacy. It will happen slowly ❤

The father having hook ups while his wife is staying with their daughter in the hospital while she’s having cancer treatments is absolutely the lowest man on the planet I don’t care what his upbringing or problems are. as a mom to a cancer child that has been cheated on, that is the absolute lowest of the low anybody could be and I hope that left him and he has nothing

Great video! I cried watching some of this. I can see where this can help someone heal some of their wounds.

I don't know how to be ok with gaining weight. I don't know how to heal.

I'm attracted to fat and bellies and I'm extremely self conscious about gaining weight. Gaining weight causes me to desperately want to masturbate.

Recovering from purity culture is just another way of saying: Let's make promiscuity great again!. Please do not be deceived by these New Age Christians! Seggs is good but there's more to life than dopamine hits!

Sexual immorality is not something that should be sugar-coated. Sex belongs in the boundaries of marriage. You guys are just "Christians" who don't actually read the Bible. You should be ashamed of trying to make people feel good about promiscuity.

I was expecting a generic video. But you hit me with the realness and it caught me off guard a little but I think it’s exactly what I needed. I’m listening to this at nearly midnight, just after porn use because I felt I couldn’t sleep. You got me thinking about childhood memories I wasn’t really ready for. Like bed time rituals and also sexuality as a younger boy with friends throughout childhood. Interesting.

Wow, very good video. Thank you for sharing.

I’m autistic and I love porn

You are just healing me. Now I discover fully what made me addicted to pornography. Every causes you listed happened to me.I was abuse sexually by both at my 5, No intimate relationship with my parents especially my Father, Abandoned by my parents on sex education, Always struggled to belong in my family and because of my spiritual experience at my early childhood I was called demon possessed child. This and many more struggles at my early childhood contributed to my addiction.May God Bless you

Feeling like crying

Everything thing you said is exactly

Drew, thanks for this timely video. I went to Andrew Bauman's mens workshop this past weekend and this was a huge part of my journey and how I've hurt my wife for over 15 years. I've been numb for about 30 years from sexual abuse as a kid. I was conditioned to embrace pain and embrace hiding and lying. "Trauma unhealed is trauma reenacted." I'm glad I've found your channel. Thanks for doing the work.

I went to Dr. Andrew Bauman's workshop this past weekend and shared both of my major trauma stories from 10yo and 16yo. Hardest, terrifying, and most beautiful surrender to these stories to find my inner adolescent, regain healthy anger, and deeply grieve the abuse, manipulation, and deception that I've perpetrated since I was a teenager. I highly recommend Andrew's workshop. Overwhelmingly meaningful work. ❤

❤God Bless You Brother ❤

Great video, just found your channel. This is the best overview!

As a Christian one day you may not get married, people exposed to this purity message better hear that loud and clear and early.

Please keep up the good work!

I'm glad I caught this one. Typically when something goes sideways we are talking early signals, subliminal voices and little pain or damage before the semi gets totalled leaving an entire Christmas Market population dead on the floor. This one - the clip, the eyes, the attire, the church... I mean not only are the ingredients perfectly in place but dished up for me to pull out of you, USA for good and all foreseeable time, when the Lord and the Lady and the thing in a barn shell cradle have you dance around a fire place hoping to be seen. This is next level overboost in a department of level minded me plus few others and then some. This is red light dedicated to paidophil obsession catwalking my sidewalk of pristine innocence notoriously misinterpreted for tempting naivety. My Lord and Lady, with or without you won't make a difference anymore. They know better and will tank it in gasoline.

You speak directly into my heart past my fears and guilt and regrets and pain. I resonate with many of the experiences you relay and have for so long carried confusion and guilt which has held me locked in time. Thank you brother In the love of Christ.

Perhaps that is why bdsm resistance is appealing.

Men outgrowing porn.

Yeah I went to a tantra weekend and there was some blokes who felt very unsafe.

Yeah, I found that jiu jitsu solved inner wounds of male rejection and previous wounds and trauma.

Do many years PMO develop OCD

This is an awesome video! God designed us to be a gift to others. Jason's story and others' stories of transformation are gifts to the world.

relate to this quite a bit even though I'm a woman

Chris, you really inspire me. Thank you very much.

I was just looking at another of your posts but comments weren't allowed for some reason. The one about appropriate nudity between men. I was utterly dumbfounded after hearing your self righteous opinions that after about ten minutes l had to close it down. What a load of hypocritical, homophobic, god bothering nonsense you come out with. You really don't live in the real world at all & it's so deflating to see people like yourself still preaching your outdated, holier than thow, stupid garbage dressed up like a bunch of beautiful roses. Haven't you got anything better to do than churn out show after show of your offensive egotistical bile? You're so perfect aren't you? Straight, married, christian, white man living a 'normal' life so pure. Don't go near the gays, don't live a single life, don't look at naked bodies, just repent & tell others where they're going wrong. Really? You are so see through. You only fill your channel up with more & more posts because you know other idiots who believe what you preach will click on them ultimately making you more money. Repeating what the church does with every collection bucket. I bet you voted for Trump too. Cos he's so truthful & pure..... Unbelievable!!

How is a sail boat an alternative to sexual pleasure? Its an impossible message. Orgasm might be a narrow pleasure but its a huge one... Also, being single doesn't mean someone has an extra capacity to be mindful and enjoy other pleasures: you can 'get creative' with pleasure even if you're having sex...

I would not say absolutely addiction to rainwear however I cannot lie; it is exciting to me. It is a long story just as you have described to us about your love of teeth and braces. I actually have a subscriber to my channel that is completely consumed by his braces: is is all he writes about. All that said I have found several things about myself: 1) spending time in the word of God reading practically ways to lessen the "love" for shiny clothing. 2) talking to my spouse about the way I am. She does fall one way or the other on the subject. 3) guide my life into a constructive place. What I mean by that is stay away from fetish clubs and organizations in the city that specialize in this. 4) finally stay away from porn as much as I can. You will go to Walmart and turn the corner and see a pretty young women on a rain coat. I just caught myself and just move on. You cannot dwell on place you stumble. I really enjoyed you video. You truly understand how the mind works.

Today has been a though day with tentation but hearing you has been so helpful and reliefeable, gracias

I have been married 40 years. The wife is just too tied to do anything. I on the other hand am very active. I am unhappy i am living two different lives now. I am cheating on my wife with another person which is me. I suspect this is just as sinful as if i had a real women on the side.

I’m glad to be taking his course. He’s a wonderful coach and mentor. Super blessed to have met Jason Mellard.

I know from experience that you never find your true identity until you can identify with Christ. Since I got saved in '07, I have retired so many "masks" and I have never been more content being my SELF.

Wonderful discussion! Yes, we are masculine men now; we need to own our own masculinity.

Came back to this 4 years later to relisten. This is great! ❤❤