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To Be The Church
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Equipping the Church to be the church.
Preaching The Old Testament Correctly
At The Family of Churches, we began teaching through the book of Joshua. Andrew and Ben talk about how Northwest Gospel and the other preachers will be approaching this Old Testament Historical Narrative, as well as how to handle most of the OT. Tyler asks how this affects people who have heard preaching counter to how they do it.
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Today is Quitter's Day: New Years Resolutions at TBTC
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Today is Quitter's Day. Have you kept up with your New Year's resolutions? If you have, what are yours? Today, the guys talk about their personal New Year resolutions as well as a quote one of the local lead pastors shared with them on God's grace of giving us a fresh start. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch facebook...
Married Christians Commanded To Have Children
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Are Christians who are married commanded to have children? Is waiting a sin? Can a married couple be obedient and not have children? Ben, Tyler, and Andrew dive deep into this question. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
What Does My Pastor Do All Day?!
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What does the day in the life of a pastor look like? This week, Andrew, Ben, and Tyler discuss their average week as full-time lead and executive pastors. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
How To Do Youth Ministry In A Very Large Church
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Tim Keller wrote an article in 2010 on church-size dynamics. Does the size of your church change the way you do youth ministry? Should a youth group function as a church within a church? How much time should a youth pastor spend with each student and leader? This and more on this episode of To Be The Church. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: in...
Business Practices In The Church
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Should the local church be run like a business? How can a Pastor and leadership learn and lean on general business practices? Andrew and Ben discuss a book Andrew read recently and how it influences how he leads the church. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
Abortion and Cultural Conversation
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Andrew is joined by guest Cody Wisenbaker to talk about abortion and cultural conversations. How should Christians engage the culture in a meaningful way that doesn't devolve into shouting? They talk through both the local and global levels. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/user...
Pastors Equipping Their Churches Politically
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Four days out from the election, Andrew and Tyler discuss the role of a pastor and their responsibility to equip their congregation politically. To what level and how should a pastor equip his flock politically? Can you ask your pastor about their politics? Can you ask your pastor how to vote? Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tob...
Election Season And The Local Church
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Has this election season seemed quiet at NGC? Is this true? What has changed since past elections, and what are leaders doing to help equip the church to be the church in 2024? Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
Politics Fulfilling Our Spiritual Need
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Do Christians use politics to fulfill their spiritual needs and then go to church to have their political biases affirmed? Tyler and Andrew address this quote they saw on X and more. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
Ben Got a New Plate
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Ben shows Tyler & Andrew his new plate & it's rich back story. They also discuss church buildings, passing on the faith to the next generation & the historical significance of where we are as The Family of Churches. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch
This Song Seemed Fine Until You Hear The End
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Ben and Tyler analyze some lyrics of a song sent in by a listener. The lyrics seemed fine until the very end, but then it just got weird. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
Five Interdependent Churches: With Kenan Stolz
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The Family of Churches is a partnership between Northwest Gospel Church and Summit View Church, and today, one of the local lead pastors, Kenan Stolz of Summit View Church Westside, introduces himself to the TBTC listeners. Also, Andrew and Tyler ask Kenan what has changed and what he is excited about in this partnership. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. So...
Don't Use Your Cell Phone On Friday
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Andrew is back, and he tells us about his family's plan to do no-phone Fridays. Ben and Andrew also discuss a question about The Family of Churches, the partnership between Summit View Church and Northwest Gospel Church. Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
The Divine Council, Spiritual Beings, Earthly Rules
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A listener responds to Ben's sermon on Psalm 82. Is the divine council composed of spirits and other gods, or earthly rulers? Ben addresses an alternative interpretation of Psalm 82. Contact us at podcast@tobethechurch.com Ask a question by emailing podcast@tobethechurch.com or comment below. Social Media: tobethechurch tobethechurch th-cam.com/users/tobethechurch
Christians, Lazy Days, Sabbath, and Too Much Work
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Christians, Lazy Days, Sabbath, and Too Much Work
Christians's Expectations of Their Government
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Christians's Expectations of Their Government
Healthy Churches Partnering Together: The Family Of Churches
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Healthy Churches Partnering Together: The Family Of Churches
Trump & Christians: Taking Bible Verses Out of Context
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Trump & Christians: Taking Bible Verses Out of Context
Apocrypha Books: Why Were They Excluded?
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Apocrypha Books: Why Were They Excluded?
Ideal Marriage Ceremony, Pastor or Anyone?
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Ideal Marriage Ceremony, Pastor or Anyone?
Victims, Your Comments, and Hobby Lobby
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Victims, Your Comments, and Hobby Lobby
Biblical Baptism: Who, Where, When, And How
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Biblical Baptism: Who, Where, When, And How
What Does Making A Joyful Noise Have To Do With Our Sunday Gathering?
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What Does Making A Joyful Noise Have To Do With Our Sunday Gathering?
Can We Seek After God, or Does He Seek Us?
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Can We Seek After God, or Does He Seek Us?
Reacting to Ben's Preaching Schedule and a Few Instagram Posts
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Reacting to Ben's Preaching Schedule and a Few Instagram Posts
The Veil Was Torn, The Earth Shook and Others Were Raised From The Dead?
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The Veil Was Torn, The Earth Shook and Others Were Raised From The Dead?
Churches And Their Sunday Song Selection
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Churches And Their Sunday Song Selection
Since 2012 I have been regulating my use of cannabis because it does not upset my stomach like traditional medicine. I do not have to take a medicine to comfort my stomach when I use cannabis. I observed folks in extreme pain, hardly able to move, then within an hour after consuming cannabis they can move fairly well considering. (without the digestive issues that pills cause) At one time, all we had was flower. Now there are many methods available at our disposal which has made it easier to regulate consumption. My experiences tell me the plant is superior. "A Women's Guide to Cannabis" and "Cannabis is Medicine" by Bonni Goldstein, MD
8 years sober . Cannabis is Gods creation but don’t let it master ya . Same goes for caffeine which many are mastered by
Being legal has no relevance to Christian values. Abortion is legal, pre marital sex is legal, and abandoning your children is not illegal. The question is does it bring you closer to Jesus or push you away from him.
Rick strawcutter, gives info about cannabis,in the Bible in Genesis
Understand why the world governments kept alcohol legal, & marijuana illegal.
Question; should you be baptized before you partake in communion?
So proud of my son, bless you on your new ministry, love you Mom❤
The only religious demographic that has a majority consensus that abortion should be illegal is white evangelical Protestants. Every single other demographic: race, gender, education, citizenship... no matter how you slice it, agrees that abortion should be legal. So at 9:22 I think a very telling thing happens. Andrew Murch mentions the six-week ban as a victory, saying it's "pretty legit." But then he glosses over the "even knowing you're pregnant." I think this shows that you're aware of the biology. You know that women don't want to make a choice about abortion until they know what their options are. You know that women would rather have these bans at later times like 15 weeks (93% of abortions happen before 13 weeks, and 6% happen before 20 weeks). Reminder since it looks to be a total sausage-fest here: pregnancies are typically 40 weeks. The majority of abortions are provided to women who are already mothers. The majority of abortions are provided to women who have never had an abortion before. More women are having to cross state lines to get a necessary medical procedure. More women are dying and suffering injury due to abortion laws. More women are having abortions than were before Dobbs. If it's an argument from morality, you should also be arguing for gun control. Guns are the leading cause of death among living children. But the unborn are a MUCH more convenient group to fight for (Dave Barnhart's thoughts, not mine). If men could get pregnant, there'd be Abortion Edition pickup trucks. The cultural conversation starts with reality, not what your religious text says. I get that it's a foundational document for you, and that's wonderful. But MY foundational document as an American is the Constitution, and it doesn't mention God anywhere in it.
Thank you for your prayers. Man do I need them.
I really appreciate how you articulated this balance. EVERYTHING should be under the authority of scripture so there are principles to vote for as He gives us wisdom. But our hope is not in government.
NGC University is fabulous.
The biggest thing to remember is everything that happens is Gods plan. Whatever happens, He has said he is with us and will never leave us or forsake us.
Look at Titus 3:1-11
Another great discussion! Sadly, many Christians today lack spiritual discernment and want to relegate that 'exercise' to the local Pastor/Elder. Andrew made it painfully clear that THIS election between the 2 Presidential candidates is quite easy for the Christian exercising a biblical worldview. We have 4 years of Trump factual data, and almost 4 years of Biden/Harris factual data. These are not unknown administrations and their policies and appointments, rather its WELL-KNOWN! I also SO appreciated Andrew's sermon last Sunday that highlighted the Scriptural views on sexual immorality and how the current world messaging is accepting homosexuality and transgenderism as normal and compassionate. Once again, it's clear to see which political administration stance is on these topics.
“Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel. Whenever you hear a word from my mouth, you shall give them warning from me. If I say to the wicked, ‘You shall surely die,’ and you give him no warning, nor speak to warn the wicked from his wicked way, in order to save his life, that wicked person shall die for his iniquity, but his blood I will require at your hand. But if you warn the wicked, and he does not turn from his wickedness, or from his wicked way, he shall die for his iniquity, but you will have delivered your soul. Ez 3: 17-19. Why are we ashamed to use our gospel informed lives to stem the tide of evil in our land? Did Wilberforce - through the power of Bible message - see an injustice and use his voice to stand up against slavery? Did Sophie and Hans Scholl give their lives to wake their nation up to the evils of the Nazis? Did Esther stand up against political schemings to stem the tide of evil against her people? 32 million plus Christians did not vote in the 2020 elections because pastors didn't shepherd their sheep to call out wickedness. Abortion, child mutiliation, men in women's bathrooms, DEI, communism are all godless evils that WE allowed because we didn't use our voting voice. We, as citizens of a constitutional republic, have the great, GOD GIVEN gift to be able to vote for the leaders of our land. People DIED for that gift. So many other nations do not have that gift. They are ruled by dictators and evil leaders who subvert their leadership. We can be a light to our nation with our gospel centered, biblically informed vote from library boards, judges, school board members, senators, representatives, and presidents. Church shepherds need to help their sheep navigate clearly and biblically. Now is not the time for the middle ground. Speak clearly against the destructive lies swimming in from the culture before we are all pulled over the waterfall.
Thanks for covering this! I think the fatigue for me is twofold. 1. I hear about the election often , and I’ve reached the “can we just get this over with?!” 2. Fatigue from research. There is so much misinformation that I feel like anytime I read about something, I don’t know if it’s true. So having to deep dive everything to be well informed is exhausting!
What did I say this time? Continue to preach Gods word. Jesus is coming back soon no matter which party we might worship.
Great topic and extremely timely! I love Andrew's quote, 'The Gospel intersects with politics, but the Gospel is not partisan'. Great way to describe the reality of Jesus as King, but remembering our mission - to reach the lost and disciple the saved. We can scream our political convictions so loudly, that the lost won't hear the Gospel, or see Jesus in us. Years ago, I had 12,000 followers on Twitter, 2,000 on Instagram and 500 on Facebook. But 3 years ago, like Tyler, I honestly assessed the time I was spending on social media and the political back and forth was disturbing my spirit, so I DELETED EVERYTHING, and the change on my spirit was 100% improved! "All things are permissable, but not all things are beneficial." Social media involvement fits that Scripture quite well.
our bodies have a system called endocannabinoid. it is very much positively affected by proper medical marijuana. remember who created our body and who created the seed.
This is not so much as a game as it is an interesting unorthodox guided discussion. 😅 If this was rebranded, it could be way more successful 👍🎉
This was really cute to watch. These guys were obviously uncomfortable talking about these kinds of things with each other (hence some of the mockery & silliness), but at the same time, the game was a great scapegoat for them to actually talk about such things. ❤
Sounds to me like this guy's never smoked weed in his life and he wants to write a book on it. I would guess he's never been drunk either. Look I don't want to put anybody under any undue bondage that's extra biblical either so in lieu of what alcohol does I choose to smoke marijuana. And the Bible does not forbid alcohol it forbids being a drunk. Big difference. So if I'm thankful to the Lord or something he created that does help me relax and sleep and doesn't take me away from his presence or change my conscience why wouldn't I. Recreational might even be a bad word to use for my marijuana habit I would say therapeutically. I also enjoy caffeine nicotine sugar trans fat and red meat and I thank God for every bit of it and more. Everybody wants to worry about what is sin and what is not sin if you abide in Christ he will wash you
Yea, I read the book. It is written by someone who doesn’t know anything about weed. The book was very boring and it basically just outlines what weed is and how people use it and generic versus out of the Bible about it.
Genisis 1:29
Thanks for the laugh today. 😂
Humorous podcast today, and lighthearted to end the week. However, it did bring up something that has always concerned me. The worship songs that simply repeat over and over and over and over again. To be honest, at 70 years of age, I grew up with the classic hymns, with stanzas and repeating refrains..... But, to sing the same line over and over and over and over just seems..... well.... too simplistic, maybe? But, then, the Scripture declares that in Revelation 4:8-11, the four living creatures sing "Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty, Who was and is and is to come!" day and night..... So, I guess there's biblical support.. 😉
I guess it depends what we are repeating 😊
God gave us marijuana and He also installed the endocannabinoid receptor system in the human body. In light of Genesis 1, I think God gave us marijuana because He wants us to use it and enjoy it. Weed presents an opportunity to see where our heart lies - do we enjoy what God has given us because He is good, or do we shun weed and badmouth an aspect of God's Creation because it offends our religious legalistic flesh? Are you going to tell God He was wrong to give us marijuana? Liberate your mind from religious slavery!
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it was created by the Creator and also pharmaceutical companies are evil
It is mentioned. In Genesis. You were given EVERY seed bearing plant for food, ie consumption. It is a seed bearing plant.
KJV Genesis 1:29-31, ❤
I have stage 4 renal carcinoma/lung cancer I use it for that it helps, God put it here for us to use and said it is not just good but very good, so for me I would use it for preventive measures for maintenance for my body. I'm surviving 4 years now and I give my Lord in Heaven the praise and glory.
I knew someone who was cured from brain cancer using this recipe: The recipe for holy anointing oil in Exodus 30:22-25 calls for the following ingredients: 500 shekels (about 6 kg or 13 lb) of pure myrrh 250 shekels (about 3 kg or 6.6 lb) of sweet cinnamon 250 shekels (about 3 kg or 6.6 lb) of "kaneh bosm," also known as cannabis 500 shekels (about 6 kg or 13 lb) of cassia One hin (about 6 L or 1.6 US gal) of olive oil
Proverbs 3:5-7 … Genesis 1:29-31. Anyone who seeks another man’s opinion for their authority is a literal idiot.
But what about when new people come in should we not offer alter calls so they could have a chance to repent of their sins and then be a new creature in Christ.
Another great podcast! The benefits of 5 interdependent churches is becoming more and more evident as this topic is discussed. I write this after our absolutely wonderful 5 church gathering last evening. A future challenge will be to balance the desire for each church to keep its individual personality and letting the Holy Spirit move it 'uniquely', and not trying to conform all 5 family churches to be moving at the same speed. 🙏
Glad to see the Truly can is still alive and well
An honest and sincere question, but you guys answered it superbly. As a newcomer, it is so clear to me that this is a Holy Spirit guided move, and an answer to many, many prayers. I've been a part of well intentioned churches that 'talk' about collaboration with other churches and the desire to 'reach the surrounding areas with the Gospel', but it never translates into real movement.... Rather it just means the Senior Pastor has frequent coffee get togethers with other Pastors. Now, God is going to do some awesome evangelistic events with our NGC family of churches, while keeping all of them healthy, since we are keeping our focus on His Word and our Matthew 28 mission. 🙌
Any one that impersonate Jesus Christ is Cursed
Great reminders for ALL Christians, regardless of where they are in their season of life. Some seasons are more hectic and fast paced than others, but we must always STRIVE to periodically check ourselves as to whether we are intentionally getting the refreshing our bodies, minds and souls need! 🙌
Yeah but even animals have ways to feel a sense of well being by simply brushing up against certain plants 🪴
Is catnip off limits to cats for the same reasons??
This is nonsense. Marijuana is King.
I hope MJ gets you into heaven.
@@pckid6780 it gets me there a lot quicker than the hypocrite alcoholic cigarette smoking opioid pill popping drug addicted priest's and monk's from the monastery near me will ever get..
@@pckid6780 marijuana is King ✌️
@@pckid6780 michael jackson will get him to heaven? 😂😂😂
No Jesus is king marijuana is just a creation he gave us
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Great topic and very timely, as well. If we are trying to 'win' unbelieving family members to Christ, we need to not only be able to explain 'why' we vote for certain individuals or political parties, but we must also be very sensitive and loving in our explanations. Our biblical 'worldview' must be 'seen' by them as we are living, acting and talking consistent with that biblical 'worldview', otherwise they will simply write us off as hypocrites and we will harm our future opportunities to witness to them. Voting is a right and a sacred privilege, so the mature Christian should do his/her research/homework on candidates for office and be able to say why or why not that person deserves their vote. Understanding that God is Sovereign and puts government leaders in place should in no way circumvent our duty to vote. This is similar to prayer, witnessing and every other aspect of the Christian life.... We do these things out of loving, grateful obedience to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Really appreciate further breakdown, explanations and history on the 5 churches. This is extremely helpful for newcomers to NGC, like my wife and myself, to gain a better understanding of the why's and wherefore's. It makes perfect sense to me, and I see it as a Sovereign and unique work of the Holy Spirit, and an answer to many prayers. I remember the unique work the Holy Spirit did at Willow Creek church (Chicago) in the late 1980's, early 90's and how many churches around the world tried to copy/paste that model to their own local churches, only for many churches to be disappointed later. I truly believe that God works Sovereignly, regionally and uniquely with His bride to accomplish the Great Commission. 🙌
Ben happy anniversary, I still remember the day where you sat by Andrea at lunch and became the first 7th grader ever to be invited to sit at the 8th grade table. Oh the days! 😂
When you decide to stop living in the world, I hate to break it to you there's no such thing as medical marijuana in christianity. Point blank. Mankind has taken advantage of the plants the jesus gave us in genesis 1 29,31. Also in the genesis 3 chapter, Adam and his wife ate from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, and jesus wasn't having it, there's a reason why, marijuana opens the doors to demonds okay? No matter how little you take, whether it gets you high or not, it sinks into your spirit which leads to more temptation, more sin, and a falling away from Jesus, it's sorcery, farmacia, and witchcraft. Case closed.
I just peed myself. I haven't laughed that hard in a while to hear someone compare purifying the priests with a man getting shot in the ear is ridiculous
Another timely and helpful topic! I can't tell you how many times over the years someone in my church family would come up to me and say, 'Stan I really messed up. I posted such-and-such on Facebook and now I'm getting really nasty feedback. I think my Christian credibility is shot'...... And for that person, it was true. Many of their followers now had a dim view or sour taste of Christianity due to their inaccurate post of taking Scripture out of context'. Good on you, Pastor Ben, for posting to your Facebook feed that admonishment! 👍
Cannabis does not always create Distortion of reality the cannabinoid system was designed by the body through Christ Jesus and God to forget pain ptsd is lowerd through this'as well as keep ozmatosi Which is the natural way that sells die and are replaced which is why cannabis helps with things like cancer a man in New Zealand who cured his cancer with high doses of cannabis his name was Rick Simpson and hence why people that take this today call it Rick Simpson Oil if you don't know anything about a subject except that it might get you to a different mindset then you don't have any right to speak on it
The Catholic OT Canon (also the numbering of the Psalms) came from the ancient Greek Septuagint Bible. Protestants wrongly place the deuterocanonicals (seven Old Testament books) as apocrypha. This is completely incorrect all ancient manuscripts like the dead sea scrolls and the septuagint have the 7 missing books. Almost every Christian for 1500 years accepting them as scripture 382 AD: The Council of Rome, led by Pope Damasus I, establishes the 73-book scriptural canon Martin luther a very deranged man started a movement to break away from the Catholic church and removed them from his Bible so he could teach false doctrine, he also wanted to remove revelation and James. To say these books arent scripture is rejecting gods word and his church.
Hey, So I don't know if you guys give shout outs. Skip this comment if not, But. My All time Best friends I've Ever had in my life, Just made there own podcast called ( Crossroads Conversations ) on TH-cam and soon Spotify, They made it with the motivation of being an inspiration to young Christian men, and in there first episode they talked about Loving the future generation, as Christ not only loved those in His time But also us Now. Quite a interesting subject especially for todays society and our questionable future generation. Point is I was wondering if you guys could give them a shoutout and or read this comment on a video, These guys truly mean so much to me and they have been So Beneficial for my faith and mental health, Seeing there podcast take off would be Awesome!. I love you guys Very much, you Always inspire me every day, Thankyou.
Happy Friday! Appreciated today's topic, as I grew up Catholic in New Orleans, was an Altar boy, learned the Mass in Latin and went to Catholic high school. But, at age 38 after hearing and reading the Scriptures I became born again and proceeded to leave the Roman Catholic church. Ben did a great job of explaining some of the points as to why we don't consider the additional books to be Scripture, but they make for good history just like the writings of Josephus. My heart still is very sensitive to reaching Catholics for Christ, as most live without assurance of going to heaven. Unless you die with an unconfessed mortal sin, which sends you straight to Hell, you are consigned to an unknown amount of time in Purgatory, atoning for all your sins before eventually reaching Heaven. Which is why if you ask a typical Catholic if they're going to Heaven they will often respond with 'I hope so', because they have no assurance. My testimony can be found at www.stanweber.com/id4.html
Can you speak to the other side regarding those who believe that marriage is only a spiritual union and that it does not need to be made legal in order for it to be a legitimate marriage.