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My Narcissist Journey
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 15 พ.ค. 2010
This youtube chanel has been created to help spread educational content in order to raise awareness about narcissists in your own life through my own own personal narcissistic relationship I have had for the past 27 years. It will give you the tools to help you indentify this type of relationship early on so you can ultimately get to a stage of going no contact which will help to propel you into becoming the strongest version of yourself physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially.
AWAKENINGS 2 MONTHS NO CONTACT WITH A NARCISSIST PARENT
BRUTAL AWAKENINGS 2 MONTHS NO CONTACT WITH A NARCISSIST PARENT #spiritualawakening
1. You will experience a shift in frequency. Your vibration will raise and as a result you will find yourself not able to tolerate negative of toxic behaviour from people.
2. Your boundaries is now become extremely strong and you don’t budge or think about letting them slip for anyone.
3. You will know if it’s the right decision due to how all the other areas of your life are going post relationship with the narcissistic parent.
4. You will find yourself now becoming selective as to who you spend your time around or possibly help or give your energy to in order to help protect yourself.
5. Your life is you know it will never be the same. Your newfound reality is outstanding and gives you hope for a bright future ahead.
#inittogether #healing #love #narcissisticparenting #narcissism #narcissist #spiritualawakening
1. You will experience a shift in frequency. Your vibration will raise and as a result you will find yourself not able to tolerate negative of toxic behaviour from people.
2. Your boundaries is now become extremely strong and you don’t budge or think about letting them slip for anyone.
3. You will know if it’s the right decision due to how all the other areas of your life are going post relationship with the narcissistic parent.
4. You will find yourself now becoming selective as to who you spend your time around or possibly help or give your energy to in order to help protect yourself.
5. Your life is you know it will never be the same. Your newfound reality is outstanding and gives you hope for a bright future ahead.
#inittogether #healing #love #narcissisticparenting #narcissism #narcissist #spiritualawakening
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1 MONTH NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST What you can expect and notice upon going no contact: Benefits: 1. Your libel of focus will improve in day to day tasks that you carry out dramatically. 2. You will start developing new thought patterns and releasing the old thought patterns you had when entangled in the narcissistic fog. 3. Your energy will increase dramatically. Now your energy will be a...
THE NARCISSISTIC ENABLING PARENT
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THE NARCISSISTIC ENABLING PARENT Things they may say to you: 1. That narcissist had a tough back story or up bringing 2. The narcissist didn’t mean it 3. I never had a problem with the narcissist 4. It will get better just be patient 5. It’s not that bad(minimising and gaslighting) 6. Stop complaining that narcissist takes care of your material needs 7. They are still your parent 8. Well that’s...
IGNORING THE NARCISSIST - EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED
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IGNORING THE NARCISSIST - EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED 1. Educate yourself by any means necessary to help stay strong during the ghosting process. 2. Speak up during this time and really advocate for yourself to those around you that may question why you are doing what you are doing. 3. Walk away and remember not to bother giving an explanation to the narcissist. They know what they have done. 4. Expe...
IS YOUR PARENT A NARCISSIST?
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IS YOUR PARENT A NARCISSIST? 1. Does your parent break out in severe rage fits and have road rage while driving? 2. Does this parent’s mood change at the drop of a hat? 3. If you say no or don’t want to cooperate with them will they yell at you or threaten you that if you don’t do it you will pay a price? 4. Do they steal the joy out of an exciting event or time of celebration for you? 5. Do th...
TOOLS IN DEALING WITH A NARCISSISTIC PARENT
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HOW TO DEAL WITH A NARCISSIST PARENT 1. Utilise grey rock (become dull and boring) 2. Create healthy boundaries, distance yourself from them and create separation between the 2 of you. 3. Be aware of the flying monkeys once separation has been completed. They will communicate to you via the flying monkeys. 4. Gradually over time do less and less things for the narcissistic parent so they become...
🚀 5 REALISATIONS GOING NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST 🚀
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5 REALISATIONS GOING NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST - 2 weeks no contact 1. I was extremely reliant on the narcissist and would always go to them seeking help, wisdom or guidance in times of need. 2. Self sabotaging habits like watching adult websites and playing video games kept me in bondage and end enslaved to the narcissist. 3. I wasted so much of my time, energy and resources on the narcis...
ESCAPE THE NARCISSIST - BUILD INDEPENDENCE
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ESCAPE THE NARCISSIST - BUILD INDEPENDENCE This is by far the most crucial aspect of your life. You NEED to build yourself in ALL areas of your life in order to become strong enough in order to escape narcissistic parents. These include: 1. Spiritual - prayer life with god 2. Physical - looking after your physical body which includes nutrition, sleep and rest. And hydration. 3. Emotional - get ...
10 GIFTS YOUR NARCISSIST PARENT CANT STAND TO SEE IN YOU!
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10 THINGS YOUR NARCISSISTIC PARENT CANT STAND TO SEE 1. To see you happy and thriving 2. For you to be spiritually connected to the most high Jesus Christ 3. For your finances to be on the up and up 4. For you to be not only partaking in your own hobbies but excelling in them 5. Knowing now that you are truly loved and appreciated for the beautiful person you are 6. Knowing that you don’t need ...
7 STEP GUIDE - ESCAPE NARCISSISTIC PARENTS
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A 7 STEP GUIDE - HOW TO ESCAPE A NARCISSISTIC PARENT 1. DO NOT LET THEM KNOW WHAT YOUR PLANNING TO DO OR YOUR PLANS ARE. 2. Need to become financially self sufficient - get a job and build up an emergency fund. 3. Once your are financially self sufficient you now need to become independent of yourself in all areas. Cooking, cleaning, driving, your own car. Build yourself up, don’t be co dependa...
7 SIGNS YOUR PARENT IS A NARCISSIST
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7 signs your parent is a narcissist 1. You could be out to dinner and they will constantly be on their phone either texting or messaging other people. 2. They will try to embarrass you or belittle you with random strangers with certain comments or remarks. 3. They will listen to music so loud and obnoxious thats it’s disturbing. 4. The hours that they live they’re life will be hours that suit t...
11 GIFTS UPON LEAVING THE NARCISSIST
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11 GIFTS AFTER LEAVING THE NARCISSIST 1. Your energy will start to return 2. Your spiritual connection will start to return 3. You may start to dream again 4. You are able to see reality clearly again 5. You are able to think clearly and logically 6. You will start to build strong and healthy relationships 7. You will now have internal and external boundaries 8. You will feel extremely powerful...
THE HOOVER - STAGE 4 OF THE NARCISSISTIC ABUSIVE CYCLE
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THE HOOVER - STAGE 4 What is the Hoover? The Hoover is stage 4 of the narcissistic abusive cycle. This is a stage after the relationship has come to an end, either you were discarded or you walked away from the relationship yourself. The Hoover is a tactic of the narcissist that involves them trying to get back into your mind for an extra second, minute, month or year. How will the narcissist d...
7 CHALLENGES YOU WILL FACE AFTER ESCAPING THE NARCISSIST
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7 CHALLENGES YOU WILL FACE AFTER ESCAPING THE NARCISSIST 1. Filling up your new found schedule as you will now have an ABUNDANCE of time. 2. Steering clear of the flying monkeys or the enablers. 3. Avoiding old places you would go to with the narcissist during that relationship. 4. Learning to live with and enjoy your new found reality filled with peace. 5. Continuing to accept radical acceptan...
HOW TO RUN AN ANTI - SMEAR CAMPAIGN
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HOW TO RUN AN ANTI-SMEAR CAMPAIGN This is a step by step guide to help navigate the smear campaign. A time when the narcissist will try to ISOLATE YOU from the people closest to you that you most love and care about. 1. Handling external impact Recognise ALL the important relationships to you and try to formulate a plan to save them. Explain reality to them like I’m doing within these videos I’...
5 THINGS YOU WILL NOTICE UPON REACHING STAGE 6 - THE BREAK FREE
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5 THINGS YOU WILL NOTICE UPON REACHING STAGE 6 - THE BREAK FREE
12 THINGS YOU WILL NOTICE EXITING A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP
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12 THINGS YOU WILL NOTICE EXITING A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP
7 SIGNS YOU ARE DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST
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7 SIGNS YOU ARE DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST
CHOSEN ONE’S GOD IS RESTORING WHAT WAS STOLEN FROM YOU
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CHOSEN ONE’S GOD IS RESTORING WHAT WAS STOLEN FROM YOU
WHAT YOU INVESTED INTO THE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP
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WHAT YOU INVESTED INTO THE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP
NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARE GOING NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST
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NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARE GOING NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST
WHAT THE NARCISSIST HATES SEEING IN YOUR LIFE
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WHAT THE NARCISSIST HATES SEEING IN YOUR LIFE
TRIANGULATION - THE NARCISSIST’S ATTACK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP’S
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TRIANGULATION - THE NARCISSIST’S ATTACK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP’S
COGNITIVE DISSONANCE UPDATE - STAGE 5 OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSIVE CYCLE
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COGNITIVE DISSONANCE UPDATE - STAGE 5 OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSIVE CYCLE
HEALING FROM NARCISSISTIC SCARS - PRACTICING RADICAL ACCEPTANCE
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HEALING FROM NARCISSISTIC SCARS - PRACTICING RADICAL ACCEPTANCE
4 SIGNS YOU’RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A NARCISSIST
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4 SIGNS YOU’RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A NARCISSIST
6 VICES KEEPING YOU ENSLAVED TO THE NARCISSIST
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6 VICES KEEPING YOU ENSLAVED TO THE NARCISSIST
7 SIGNS THE NARCISSIST HAS YOU TRAPPED
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7 SIGNS THE NARCISSIST HAS YOU TRAPPED
THE 7 STAGES OF A NARCISSTIC RELATIONSHIP
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THE 7 STAGES OF A NARCISSTIC RELATIONSHIP
Thank you for your videos, I am going though similar experience now. What you are describing is basically ADHD symptoms being faded over time... amazing.
@@reym7140 🙏
Thank you for continuing to post these. People need to know they're not alone ❤
@@maryclark1049 It’s a tough battle to face but well worth fighting and staying strong 💪🏻
Amen brother 👌🙏✌
@@michaelmecha5231 🙏
Yes 💯 the brain fog that occurs when you're being abused by the narc begins to lift when you no longer have to deal with their nonsense every day.
Thanks for sharing your own experience and helping others along the way. Your videos get better everytime! Even though these things are very hard to understand mentally and act accordingly, it makes you stronger.
@@laurenscart thanks for the support 🙏
i have faced most of the cases in that list but belittling me in front of strangers was the worst and in today's terms is a huge red flag ...the last case about education you didnt mentioned i have to add its not narcissists parent problem...narcissist doesnt want you to be educated ...its like risking letting you become better than that flawless and perfect self that narcissist thinks is
They are so bad
They are evil!
Day by day resilience builds, awareness deepens and freedom rises within 🙏
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Thank you. I dated a narcissist 4 months only, but the aftermath still endures a year later. Pscychology can whatever term they want, but the real world truth is; they are demons from hell seeking to destroy the influence of pure hearts. For men specifically, these spirits are after authority or to crush the voice of truth talkers. Great on you for using your voice brother. Keep going....it will restore and purge your soul.
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The coverts especially love to terrorize in the car. They are so predictable.
Good Job Brother 👌🙏✌
A friend of mines dad was always getting unbelievably angry over small things. He would be filled with rage. I never saw it but I did see him fuming before like he could explode at any moment.
@@maryclark1049 my heart goes out to your friend. Send her my videos - hopefully they may help her 🙏❤️
After going no contact with a narcissist husband in June 2022 I realised this year in February I needed to go no contact with my step Dad… sadly my Mum has sided with him… she is now trying to cause emotional distress upon my adult daughters, really wanting to divide our relationship. It’s actually so mind boggling… but knowledge is power, awareness is freedom, healing does come day by day 🙏🏼 We forgive but never need to talk or see them again, we forgive for our own peace…
@@zoebillerwell3320 Who is meant to be in your life will be there, the people that aren’t I have learnt we just need to accept it and detach from them as much as possible… even if it is close family members. Sad but you have to take care of yourself first in order to help build yourself up so ultimately you can help and look after others. Thanks for your comment 🙏
No contact keeps us safe and silence is powerful… day by day. Awareness and realisations help us to heal and continue to move forward… onwards and upwards 🙏🏼
@@zoebillerwell3320 ❤️🙏
Truth be told! keep it up bro 👌🙏✌
Right on the money bro, the narcissist hates my independence they are always trying to break me down to be dependent on them. thanks for heads up 👌🙏✌
@@michaelmecha5231 keep building yourself up no matter what. Lean onto god to give you strength 🙏❤️💪🏻
Spot on! You’ve nailed 5 top crucial things we need to do in recovery 💪🏽 I’m currently writing a book which is both confronting and comforting but has been a beautiful part of my path… keep up the great work 🙌🏽
Your never going finish it
@@zoebillerwell3320 goodluck on your journey! I’m sure if your story is anything like mine it will be one hell of a long book! 🙏
Living with a narcissist is really not easy, it causes a lot of pain and suffering.
@@ralbuquerque4705 Yes it can break you down so much so you become a shell of yourself… they take a huge toll on us.
@@mynarcissistjourneyI'm relieved to know I'm not alone, I had a narcissistic ex-boyfriend who hurt me so much I can't look at him. And they don't feel remorse or acknowledge their guilt.
@@ralbuquerque4705 Hard to believe people like this exist sometimes… we just have to learn about the red flags and work our way around them as carefully as we can. Evil souls.
@@mynarcissistjourneyTrue, unfortunately I met a being like that that I never imagined I would meet, but today I feel stronger.
True story… so let’s continue to thrive doing all these 10! Day by day! Love it 🙏🏼 (6 months no contact)
Good stuff buddy ,world needs to hear these words,
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They can't stand to see you happy. Envy.
48 yo finally making the split yes at this age I had to do all of these steps b4 i could leave of course they continuously kept kicking me out during the process so I've been completely homless the last 2 yrs. There's hope I got a van now and in the end of October will be touring America starting a new chapter. Even got my name changed. Ty for helping people this is a killer thing to put a person through. Repulsive behavior to endure and heal from while trying to grow and flourish
Goodluck with your journey stay strong we are in it together!
Never admits to being wrong Avoids emotions & accountability Rages if anyone challenges them Childish when they don’t get their way Instills doubts in their victims Stonewalls during conflicts Smears & slanders you In denial & gaslights you Subjects you to the silent treatment Triangulates you & tears you down Release the lie & false soul, they don’t exist Encourage yourself & self care Celebrate you are free Own your truth Very complex & slow & gentle Every day we let go & rise in Christ Receive peace &walk in purpose You survived, all set to thrive 🙏🏼
Beautiful comment thankyou for sharing!
Allowing Change & Compassion Embracing Peace Through Awareness Newness & Consistency Eventuates 🙏🏼
God showed me a huge spider web… it was going to be a journey of detaching from the deception and untangling from all the lies 🕸️ I’m very grateful despite still having overwhelming moments
Yes I do as well but just know others out there do too and we all need to support each other in doing so. Its impossible to fight them off ALONE. Support is essential.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you brother you hit the nail on the head with this one, been planning my escape from narc family members for over a year now. I've achieve 80% of the steps you talk about so hoping by the end of this year al be on my merry way. 👌🙏✌
@@michaelmecha5231 Goodluck brother, keep executing the steps and stay strong. I can tell you first hand IT FEELS AMAZING! Exciting times are ahead for us both 🙏❤️
@@mynarcissistjourney Thank you, looking forward to watching more of you content and watching your channel grow, Good luck, GOD bless, Peace ❤🙏✌
@@michaelmecha5231 Your comments made my day brother honestly Thankyou so much 🙏
Thank you for the video. Sometimes you have to strategize how you will interact with them, if you have to. Trying to set boundaries with the NPD/ASPD,/Dark Tetrad can be brutal, because they have little you no respect for you as a human being.
@@JenGable-Justeson yes nearly impossible, in the end I find it is myself I set the boundary with. The hard part can be sticking with it in every circumstance, they can be so sneaky and clever.
@@bettyjean740 diabolical, sinister, and highly cunning/deviant.
Oh wow. I just watched a video not half an hour ago where a guy filmed his narc father having a meltdown. It was awful. A girl I watched grow up and babysat just got abandoned by her whole family that is toxic and controlled by a narc dad. So sad 😢
Btw what is your first name? Sorry if I missed it. I'd like to address tpu by your name.
Wow, all so true!!! Been there. If only the other person in the triangle would recognize it and not fall for it. That is why we need and needed awareness on their tactics.
The true narcissist that entered my family acted like she was religious and that's what they fell for. She used religion but she was far from it. So people need to be aware of that. At that time, I wanted to do what you did and create a narcissist awareness program. But it wasn't as exposed as now. Thank you for your videos!! People need to see and recognize the initial signs. I could see through the golddigger from day one. You are so right. They don't want to see you happy!
Thank you! Definitely the benefits of getting away from them is having peace from their psychotic manipulation and accepting that it wasn't you. The problem was them. And you do have more money!!!!!!
Thank you for this video!! I dealt with a true narcissist and this is great advice!! They do try to use information, twist it and use it against you later is so true!!!
You are so welcome 🙏
I used to binge watch this crap back in the day phuc this im out . when im done im done no offense to you it's just it makes for crazy making .. just go on ..
Me too! I find myself coming back to it here and there..I started being in more contact again after leaving.and no contact.why I can't explain! But this helps refresh my memories and resolve. They don't change but sometimes go more " underground" ugh I can only change myself!
@@bettyjean740 that's true , very true . maybe one day they can get the help they need as well may Christ's grace be with you
What I noticed is not only did I begin to thrive and feel healthy after the ending of the narcissistic relationship but everything else within my house, my house plants flourished my pets, my cats weren't sick anymore! Also my daily migraines stopped and I no longer required prescription medication! Once the dark energy was gone even the sunlight came through my windows! That's another weird behavior of the narcissist, he was always trying to block out the sunlight!! It was DEMONIC and Iam just so thankful to GOD that it's GONE!
How to get rid of a narcissistic employee who turns victim anytime she is called out on her behavior?
fire her LOL
Sadly, my MIL is a controlling person. Idk if she is a narc but she definitely has some of those tendencies. She has been trying to control how we are raising our daughter since day 1. It makes it extra hard when it is family.
Truly sorry you have to go through that. Sounds like she is. I had a totally true narcissist marry into the family. It was horrible to watch how she manipulated the family and she put me through heck for seven years. I walked away and I felt so free.
@@alixp3411❤💯👍🏻🙏🏻
Thanks mate... All the best on your journey as well
Very good advice thank-you for the very good video! I watched it twice! The flying monkeys drive by my house regularly! I ignore them!
@@ShannonBlaikie Happy you found value in it 😀
You look very Serbian
Went no contact from narc mom, 7 years down the road it's the best thing that has ever happened to me. It's hard and painful at first but stick to it at all cost and you will heal and learn to build strong bounderies.
Thanks for the affirming video. I agree, these are all big pieces of recovery. Eight years out, I am actually really feeling good.
Great to hear! God bless you Thankyou for your support 🙏
My blessing was I had no money for them to suck, I was too honest and warm and I wasn't volatile.
@@JayTed2024 It’s a beautiful thing to walk in pure honesty and truth. Keep being you 🙏
@@mynarcissistjourney indeed brother. In fact I am blessed to see an Aussie do these channels now.. most r American and British which is good yet to hear you talk on this feels more at home
@@mynarcissistjourney interestingly the narcs ex defacto had alot to say abt her. When I was with her she was making him out to be the devil himself and even accused him of not wanting their 2 kids together.. her kids loved me and told their dad of how cool they thought I was.
@@JayTed2024 We are in it together brother. My heart goes out to you… stay strong. It’s tough when no one is on your side either possibly due to the smear campaign. Through this channel I hope we can all find peace and strength together in each others journeys 😊
@@mynarcissistjourney indeed brother
Keeping going brother I sub you.
@@SegaSavageMusic Thankyou for your support 🙏
Thank you sir! GOD BLESS
@@ChurchofChrist33AD 🙏❤️
Thank You. Very helpful and Encouraging video.
No.5 is very significant. We never knew Narcissism. I thot only Hitler n like were narcs. And there i was born in a narc family. A scape goat , victim. Bullied humiliated taunted. But i fought back. Hit back
@@prophet1782 All power to you 💥
@@mynarcissistjourney Thank you.
I left 30+ Narcs with only my Son. Been alone 6 yrs now.....Lots of extra time... maybe too much 😮❤
@@michellethelightworker5271 Now you get to decide what YOU want to do with your time. If nothing else enjoy your new found peace after the chaos from what was 🙏😊
@@mynarcissistjourney Yes!! Thank you!!💓