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ADHD House
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 7 ธ.ค. 2021
I’m a wife, a stay at home mom of 3 and I have ADHD - all at the same time! In 2021, I got fed up with my messiness, disorganization and poor time management so I decided to make some changes. I grabbed my camera so I could document the whole thing and share what I learned. Thank you for visiting!
Post Surgery Update - FINALLY!!!
A little over 4 months ago, I had surgery on my shoulder. I posted a pre-surgery video discussing my surgery and all the things I did to prepare for it. If you'd like to see that video, click here th-cam.com/video/J6b26cV1hVA/w-d-xo.htmlsi=YM5VqAiNzSHFhM6q
If you have any questions or comments, please drop them in the comment section below.
As always, thank you for watching!
If you have any questions or comments, please drop them in the comment section below.
As always, thank you for watching!
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T-minus 1 Week Until Surgery (REVISED)
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I have one week to get some stuff done before undergoing surgery with a long recovery period and variables like: how bad the damage is and how quickly my body recovers. I'm nervous because, well, surgery. But I'm also nervous about how many things will be different after surgery and for how long. In today's video, I'm tackling tasks that need to be done before surgery as well as tasks that I kn...
I Wasn't Supposed to Declutter THAT!!!
มุมมอง 2762 ปีที่แล้ว
Well, this video took longer to make than I anticipated, but for good reason. Hopefully someday, this whole process goes smoother and I upload more regularly. Until then, I'd like to think my inconsistency provides a little mystery and drama. Disclaimer: Fictitious husband used for entertainment purposes. Any similarity to a real person is purely coincidental. No husbands, real or fictitious we...
Back at it Again With 3 Questions to Help You Declutter Better
มุมมอง 2082 ปีที่แล้ว
In today's video, I address the music and movies I'm no longer using, while experiencing technical issues. That camera blip where half the screen is blank? No idea. My GoPro camera capturing all the footage in the wrong orientation? I got nothing. Stuff in my teeth? That's for you. I know you find it hilarious! Thank you for watching! KonMari Declutter, Marie Kondo, Music and Movie Declutter, D...
Did I pull off February’s goal? What’s up in March?
มุมมอง 1502 ปีที่แล้ว
In today’s video I share the results of my February 2022 goal and reveal my goal for March. I also things up a bit with the production of this video because trying new things is good. #adhd #adhdgoals #monthlygoals #pleasecheckoutmyvideo
Decluttering A Ridiculous Amount of Papers
มุมมอง 29K2 ปีที่แล้ว
After a brief intermission from TH-cam, I'm trying to get back on an upload schedule and so I present to you my paper declutter. Be sure to watch until the end so you can see the time capsule I found in one of the files I cleaned out. You'll also get to see my dog. Yup, I'll totally use my dog to help promote my vids cuz I have no shame. Filling out the description box is hard. Enjoy!
February Goals Because Resolutions Suck!
มุมมอง 1002 ปีที่แล้ว
In today's video, I share why I think resolutions suck, why goals don't and how small, consistent changes create progress. For 2022, I've decided to set a small goal for myself every month, so I can make some progress in my health, relationships and my home. I also talked about some other stuff like this video: th-cam.com/video/LRuTbNEQbi4/w-d-xo.html and this recipe: www.thepioneerwoman.com/fo...
Decluttering Books I'm Never Going To Read
มุมมอง 3093 ปีที่แล้ว
In today's video I'm decluttering my books using the KonMari method by Marie Kondo. I'm following her book "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up" to tackle all of the unnecessary stuff in my house. At the opening of the video, I'm enjoying the comic stylings of Shayne Smith before I'm so rudely interrupted by, well, me. For a good laugh, check out his video here: th-cam.com/video/c2zsmXHAqg8/w...
ADHD and Personal Organization - difficult but doable!
มุมมอง 3723 ปีที่แล้ว
In today's video, I wanted to share how I've been staying on top of schedules, calendars and lists. I'm not perfect, but I've come a long way! I didn't get here overnight. I created systems - some worked and some needed revisions. The planner I use is a combination of free printables from the internet and whatever spare parts we had laying around our home office. If you're interested, the most ...
The KonMari Clothing Declutter I Wasn't Planning to Do
มุมมอง 2.4K3 ปีที่แล้ว
In this video, I start my decluttering journey using the KonMari method, which was created by Japanese author and organizer Marie Kondo. If you haven't already, I HIGHLY recommend reading her book, "The Lifechanging Magic of Tidying Up". Yes, she does have a Netflix series with the same name, but the book is better. Trust me! Dawn of The Minimal Mom titled her video “The Silent To-Do List” not ...
I got papers older than me
@pułkownikkaczodziobyzpodlasia Wow! It sounds like you inherited someone else’s paper clutter. Hopefully, you’re able to keep and manage things of importance 😬
Thanks!
No problem!
I was under the impression the tax rule was ten- phew! I looked it up after the video to confirm. I am so glad you relayed this info! Less for me to sort and maintain!
@@MayaNicoleN for the US, there are sometimes exceptions requiring you to keep them longer, but most of us are good to toss after 7 years 😁
That table is what im left with after 3 years of decluttering. 😢 I used to keep my high school things, my late mom's things. My siblings things,my 3 kids things, my old jobs things nd my past businesses things. Hhhmmmm, is this what healing feels like?❤
@@dineomotlalepule4586 it sounds like you have been through a lot. It must have been a long series of difficult decisions to let go of so many things. It sounds like you’ve found some peace through the process. You did an amazing job!
Happy Mother’s Day 💐💐💐💐💐💕🙋♀️
Thank you! Happy Mother’s Day to you too 💖
Progress is progress 🎉 you are human so it’s ok. I’m glad you still shared this because it shows your integrity and determination to declutter and it really helps. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤🙏🙋♀️
Thank you! In the end, I’m glad I shared my oops because there were lessons learned (for me) from both a decluttering standpoint and as a content creator. Thank you so much for watching.
Hi. First of all I pray your surgery was successful and that you have a better than expected recovery response to the surgery. And YES. 🎉 when you are able, please do let us know how you are feeling Sending you lots of positive vibes and healing ❤️🩹 light. Looking forward to seeing you.
Thank you so much! You are so sweet. I’m working on the follow up video but not sure when it will be ready, so stay tuned!
Thank you for this video! It really inspired me to continue to tackle the paper clutter in my home!
I’m so glad you found this helpful. I know you can conquer your papers too! You’ve got this!
If it doesn’t matter because everything is online or can easily be replaced with a phone call, why not just dump everything in the shredder? That would save a lot of time, Yes?
Yes, I suppose it would have 😳. What I meant was I tried to discard anything that could be replaced online or with a phone call: user manuals, account information or menus, among other items. Sorry for the confusion.
I enjoyed your video a lot. It gave me the motivation to get rid off all that paper I have in our file cabinets that need to go. No need to keep records of bills paid in 2018 😂
It’s amazing how easily unnecessary papers pile up, isn’t it? Thank you so much for stopping by!
If you accidentally delete a file, you can retrieve it with apps that can undelete files. The faster you do it, the more likely it can be saved. When you delete a file.. it is not erased. The file system just marks the space as free space. If you can get to it before the system decides to overwrite it, you can save it. There are even people who can bring it back after it has been overwritten. That is why people physically destroy hard drives instead of just throwing them away.
The problem was, I didn’t wait for the footage to completely upload onto my laptop, then I removed the memory card from my laptop and reformatted it in the camera. Bringing it back at that point was waaayyyy beyond my expertise.
@@andrea.adhdhouse sorry to hear that. Are you going to make more videos?
@@brendalg4 I’m always working on new videos. Getting them ready enough to share…well… let’s just say the last year and half have been insane! Recently, I’ve been focused on editing a batch of videos that I hope to have ready soon so I can resume uploading. Stay tuned!
Me watching your video. That I already watched & liked a year ago, while surrounded by papers that I am part-way through decluttering. Don’t judge me either 😂
Getting it done in your own timing is still getting it done. I’m in no position to judge - trust me! Good job on your progress!
@@andrea.adhdhouse I was reassured there is no magical way to do the decluttering of papers 😂 Just piece by piece 😀I didn’t get it all out at once. I learnt from your insight 😀 there is still more for me to do in boxes, but I went to bed with a clear space, which is awesome
@@SewHealthy8 aww 🥰 I’m glad you found helpful info and that you’re making great progress. Yay!
Not only were the paperwork on thentable, but they are vulnerable business papers, not a good feeling to have your dirty laundry on the table.
No, no it’s not! Yikes!
Thank you for this video. I am motivate to go through my papers.
That’s awesome! I know you can do it. You’ve got this!
ARIES!! 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻
Woo hoo! Go Aries!
New subscriber. Love the intro 😂😂😂. Thank you for sharing your ideas.
Thank you!
❤your authenticity. Thank you 🙏
Thank you 🙏. Just subscribed to your channel. You are brilliant and brave 🎉❤. Thank you. Going to try your system. I’m liking how you described “ how you have “meetings” with yourself and your binder/command station. Awesome. I’ll keep you posted. Thank you again ❤
Your comment made my day. Thank you and best of luck on finding a planning system that works for you. You’ve got this!
Thank you for sharing your experience with paper clutter. I have several decades I'm currently processing. My spouse purchased a scanner that has been helpful for keeping important/useful items. Would you mind sharing how long it took you to go through everything once you started taking action? Thanks again! 🙂
Thanks for your question Marie. I didn’t keep careful track of the time invested but here is a guesstimate: I started on a Friday and spent about 3-4 hours going through papers. I’d say I invested another couple of hours on Saturday and another hour or two on Sunday filing the papers I kept. I was able to recycle most of the papers because they didn’t contain sensitive information. Depending on how many papers contain sensitive information, it’s safe to say you’ll probably need another couple of hours shredding or redacting papers. My husband graciously took care of the shredding by taking the papers to work and feeding them to the industrial strength shredder there. I hope this helps. Best of luck to you on your paper declutter - you’ve got this!
I don’t find watching you at all helpful. Where is the advice … plllleeeaaassseee!
Thank you for your feedback. I’m always looking for ways to improve video content. What advice would have made this video more helpful? Thank you!
Excellent content and hilarious delivery! New subscriber. ❤️ 🥰🤗
Thank you and welcome! I'm glad you're here!
I love the "rustic" planning! I never thought about using that word for my planning system! I use a pocket DayTimer since I only have to plan mostly for myself. In my business, I use my Google Calendar for events. I notate in my DayTimer a time and keyword only (6pm performance). This reminds me to look at my Google Calendar for more info. I must consciously stop to add a note in my planner, so I don't forget. Sometimes I get a phone call, and I'm driving. I'll pull over to the next safe area and jot down essential information from the call. It's a work in progress! Thanks for sharing! ~ Alex
Im trying to transition to Google calendar and solely use it. The first planner I ever learned to use was a Franklin Covey, so letting go of writing it down is a challenge
@@andrea.adhdhouse I’m a Franklin Covey planner enthusiast. And although some appointments get put on my phone; I need my old school rustic hands on agenda
@@yavrum22 same! I love the portability of a planner on my phone but need a physical calendar to feel confident about scheduling things.
Just found you channel! Yay! I've a long history of paper clutter anxiety. My late husband, known for hoarding would not let me throw anything away. After he passed away I went threw boxes and boxes of paper. Some from the 1970's!! Yes we were married 50 years. Now I am 95% organized. I can live with it. I feel liked I betrayed him sometimes, but I just could not live like that anymore.
I'm so sorry for you loss. You've been through a lot and I'm happy for you finding a system that works for you. Good job!
@@andrea.adhdhouse Thank you so much! I also am a Breast Cancer survivor. I feel blessed I can continue my life.
That was so cute! Full of information. I’ve dumped 3 bags of paper, already. Taxes- I’ve been audited n approved now 2013-2020. That makes sense 7 years. Kool! So I can trash these papers?! ??? Mtg . Papers. Bank still questions me - in prepaid at the monthly payment. They re checked there entry so they say. Should I try to prove my point? Or accept there errors, of judgement. They lost to certified. Bank checks . To date they corrected. Except I’ve yet to hear them say why did you pay? And you didn’t take the don’t pay this month? Cause! The bank expects full payment or they charge interest n late fees . Oh they even took out insurance on my account without my knowing While I Had cover age!
Thank you! With tax forms, it’s recommended we keep them for 7 years from the date of filing. If anything was audited or reviewed, it’s probably best to double check with someone like a CPA to make sure you’re safe to purge old tax returns. I’m not an expert, so I don’t want to give you bad information. As for bank statements, its always good to make sure your receipts and statements match. If there are charges that shouldn’t be there, the bank should be made aware so they can correct the problem. Hope this helps.
Oopsie Tax Good one!
Thanks!
It's nice to see more videos coming! You are very well-spoken and have great content.
Aww, thank you! I have lots of material for more content, just struggling to carve out enough time to get it together and uploaded 😬
I just found your channel and just subscribed..Im an office supply nerd, and have a HARD time getting rid of papers. I just found lots of old stuff that is already in the trash can outside 🙌 I was wondering how to stay on top of all this, and your suggestion for annual maintenance is pure gold, thank you! 😀 👍
Welcome Anna! Good job on your own paper declutter! The best way I've found to stay on top of papers is regular maintenance. I'm not perfect at this, but generally, I sort the mail right away by discarding junk, putting my husband's mail in his mail sorter and put my mail near my planner. Next is to go through the mail and any other papers at least once a week. I tend to plan on Sundays or Mondays so I make sure I have my papers handy at that time too. Then I set things in piles: one for action - anything that I need to respond to or follow up on; one for papers that should be saved/filed and one for recycling. The piles help organize things by task and it makes the papers less intimidating and more manageable. I hope this helps. Thank you!
@@andrea.adhdhouse it sure does! Thanks for the tips and the welcome 👍😁
Well after opening this wardrobe after 2 years- we managed to get rid of 50% of papers went in the recycling bin n the rest was shredded then burnt- oh my felt much better.
Good job! Doing the task is not always fun, but getting it done feels amazing!
I just found you and I love it! I’m doing all the same purging and you are local to me! Keep posting because it’s very motivating to turn on while I’m going through my stuff. 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
That’s awesome! I still have loads of stuff to declutter, so stay tuned! Thank you!
Did you just recycle all your papers or shred them? When I lived in Florida, I burned them in my fireplace, now that I live in Massachusetts, no fireplace. Some things I don’t want people to see (legal papers my my deceased husband fighting for custody of his deceased son for example-last paper filed was in 1995!) but those donʼt need to be seen. They are currently in two four inch binders. In MY ADHDness, I have left them because I donʼt know what to do with them. My office shredder would burn out about the time I do. Ideas, anyone?
Anything that had sensitive information on it was shredded. My husband has an industrial strength shredder at work, so I was able to delegate. Here are alternatives if you don’t have access to a shredder: check in with your local municipalities to see if they ever host shredding events in your area. They basically do all the work for you at little to no charge. Option 2 is FedEx Office - they used to be Kinkos but they have shredding services. I’m not sure of the cost. Option 3 is a security stamp that obscures your private info making it safer to recycle. If I had the ability to share a picture, I would. If you’re not familiar with them, you can search “stamp roller for privacy protection“ in Google or Amazon and you’ll see plenty of options. I hope this helps!
@@andrea.adhdhouse Security stamp rollers don't last very long
@@kathyhill9251 It sounds like those might be better for regular maintenance rather than a full house purge. Thanks for the info!
Do you bag & dump or shred all you are throwing away?
I recycled most papers and shredded anything with sensitive information on it. Luckily, my husband has a big paper shredder at his office, so I got to delegate that task 😁
Light make up looks sooo good on you! 🥰
Awww, thank you. That made my day.
I don’t feel so lonely NOW that I know someone else has 25 years of paper clutter. I think about it ALL the time. So ALL the time that I stop enjoying myself.
You are definitely not alone! When I realized we had papers that dated back to the 90s, I knew it was worth mentioning because there HAD to be others out there who could relate.
If your goal had been to exercise every second day you would have met your goal.
50% of days doing exercise is better than zero. Well done !
Thank you! I've since abandoned this habit because, well, life and stuff. It was a good experiment and I learned a bit about myself, so I still consider it to be a positive experience overall.
My takeaway from the video...systems are great if you use them. I love the way you edit. Jumping from you to you. I am sincere in this comment.
Glad you like them!
Once you finish decluttering what are your videos going to be about? I say this with respect. I think you have some original content to get out into the world.
Thank you Emu! While I think there will always be *something* that needs to be decluttered in my home, I do have plans to diversify my content. The intention has always been to include a variety of things pertaining to our homes and ADHD: organization, decorating, DIY projects - in case anyone likes that, cleaning products and tips/hacks for motivation or productivity. Although I have been working on another decluttering video over the past few weeks, I felt I needed a little hiatus from it. I ended up filming a video where I present some of these ideas to see what viewers want to see more of. Please stay tuned...😁
@@andrea.adhdhouse also remember you don’t need to do videos like other people. You can do it your way. Edit the videos the way you experience things/life. And be unapologetic about it. They will resonate with who they resonate with.
@@andrea.adhdhouse also, I am not trying to put pressure on you😳you will create things in your own timeframe. But I have a sense you have got a lot of information/knowledge to share, that is unique. I know I am a complete stranger on the other side of the world. 🙄sharing my unsolicited opinion. Am trying to be encouraging 🌻👩🏻🎨best of luck with your channel
@@SewHealthy8 Thank you Emu! I appreciate your feedback and it came at a time where I was feeling burned out on creating decluttering videos. I still plan to make them, but was thinking of uploading a couple of videos that were a little different. Then I second guessed myself, as we sometimes do. Your comments came at the perfect time, a sign if you will, that now is a good time to create something a little different. I'm really excited about the latest video I recorded and am looking forward to editing it. Your comments are very much encouraging and I look forward to any feedback you have for my videos. Thank you!
The idea of going through the papers annually. This is a revelation to me too. It doesn’t really matter which month of the year. Great video.
Same! I don't know why routine maintenance on not just papers, but with most things in my daily life, hasn't occurred to me before. I didn't get to my annual paper declutter until September, but I did it and it's so empowering to know that I'm taking small steps to avoid a huge paper declutter later on.
I am currently FINALLY going through papers I have stored for YEARS in rented storage, moved several states south, taken from East Coast to West Coast then back again then back again AGAIN, then through 3 more residences before sitting untouched while self-isolating through 2+ years of pandemic IN THE SAME ROOM. Yes; this has been growing and been added to since the last century. So am I using the Marie Kondo method? NO. Before Marie Kondo was even an adult, I had planned to pull it all out and sort through it in one go...but never did. Over the years I could never get myself to start. The closest I came to starting was buying 3 large bins to sort into. The plan was to sort into 3 categories: -Essential Originals: Certified & official documents, like birth certificates, marriage licenses, car titles, education/training certifications, etc; also anything that should go into a Memory Box, like children's drawings, awards, etc. Those would be filed. -Necessary Data: Documents containing data I may need to retrieve at a later point. Those would be scanned and saved on an exterior hard drive and replicated on a backup hard drive (I lost data on an exterior hard drive that failed and was professionally unrecoverable). If the data can be obtained digitally, then scanning won't be required, just downloading. After scanning/downloading, the sensitive data would be destroyed through shredding and recycling. -Sensitive Useless: Unnecessary documents containing sensitive info. Basically, anything with identifying info on it or financial info, etc. Those would be shredded and recycled. -Straight trash would go directly to recycling. Very ambitious. TOO ambitious. The pile was too high, the work daunting, and I could never gird my loins well enough to dig into it. I currently live in a studio apartment which is bisected by what I call my "Box Canyon"; you have to pass through a 6ft high stack of bins & boxes on the right and a 4ft stack on the left to pass from the apartment entrance & kitchen into the combination living room & bedroom. I spent all pandemic staring at this monster as it mocked me and sapped my will to wrestle it down. So? Well, Marie Kondo (and me, too) were wrong about how to kill a monster pile this big. I am finding it works better to take it in bites. They say the way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time; it's the relentlessness that takes it down and eliminates it. Well, I am finding progress pulling out a box or a bag or a portion of a bin at a time and going through it. I'm seeing floor. I'm seeing heights shorten. I'm making my way through. So, is Marie Kondo wrong about pulling the entire problem out all at once to confront and resolve it in one go? Yeah. At least as far as paperwork goes. The One-Bite-At-A-Time method is working for me. I may not do it every day, but as long as I do it at least once a week, the piles will disappear.
Thank you for your comment Chris. You are very correct in the thought of attacking the pile in small, manageable pieces. It's great to have a plan that works best for you. In the end, if it doesn't work for you, you're not going to be all that motivated to do it (at least I'm not). Best of luck to you on processing all the papers. You've got this!
I hope your papers have been gone through and you are now at piece
I just threw papers away from 17 years ago 😵💫🥴 My decluttering was inspired by The Minimal Mom. Now your video was recommended to me
I love the Minimal Mom! She explains things so well and her reasons for decluttering certain things really help me feel more comfortable about decluttering my own things. Congratulations on clearing out your papers. Good job!
Now THIS is a REAL paper decluttering video!!!!!
This declutter was no joke! Thank you so much for watching!
Just seeing it scares me
Even scarier in person. Yikes!
I had several large plastic totes of miscellaneous papers. Kept 8 years of tax returns, and threw away/shredded the rest! Now I shred as soon as stuff I don’t need comes in the house , or at least weekly!!!!
That’s awesome Gina! Sometimes a big purge is great motivation to maintain the mess more frequently.
I love skin care declutters. Wait, am I fictitious?
Thanks!
In 2018, after my husband's passing, my daughter was using his computer and said, "I can't close the filing cabinet." My files were also stuffed. Enter Freedom Filer. Setting up the system took time and paying for the labels took money, but this was an excellent investment. I took 12 bags of shredded material out of the cabinets such as info on cars we no longer owned and tax returns from 25 years ago. Ten years is my limit. If it's older than that and it's not sentimental, out it goes.
I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been a very difficult time for you. I haven’t heard of Freedom Filer so I’ll have to look into it. Thank you for sharing!
@@andrea.adhdhouse Go to www.freedomfiler.com/ and you'll find out about this system. It's a great system and even if you "fall off the wagon" it's easy to get on again.
Hope you show the mess on the floor where you are tossing stuff lol
I actually put a small recycling bin next to me to make for easier clean up. I guess I’m finally learning to work smarter on this stuff. I did fill the large recycling bin that goes to the curb for pick up. I knew it was a lot but I didn’t know it was THAT much!
@@andrea.adhdhouse what a good idea. I toss them on the floor lol. And them have that mess to clean up
Have Trump come in and pack your paperwork up for you. Problem solved! 😉
I'm so glad to hear that there is someone else who doesn't agree with the Marie Kondo method. If I pull everything out, I will get overwhelmed (and bored) and it will take forever to get back to it. Case in point: we had the whole interior of our house painted in August. I am still putting away things that were thrown in closets that weren't going to be painted. So many closets that were decently organized are now overwhelmed with clutter that I just didn't know what to do with and had to shove at the last minute. I work part-time so I have plenty of time to go through it but it is so overwhelming and it is not getting done in any great hurry.
Isn't it amazing? I thought if i worked part-time, i would be able to have a perfectly decluttered, organised and clean house, a tidy oroductive and pretty garden and time left to discover hobbies. Lol.
In some cases, it makes sense and easier work to leave things where they are - especially if they’re already in an ideal location and declutter as time permits. In other cases, I have no choice but to gather everything thing up in one spot because that variety of stuff is squirreled away all over the house and I really need to see it all in one place before I can do a serious declutter on it. I have a couple of categories that need that kind of work and I’m not looking forward to it 😬
@@thatswhatisaid8908 I’m a stay at home mom and I can’t seem to find the time to get to all the things either 😂
That’s so true, I had to empty the loft (attic) which is our only storage place, for insulation 6 weeks ago. It’s only just being sorted now..
I have found that if I keep it out of sight, I worked on it less. When it was in my face, I worked harder
I find this to be the case with certain things too - if I tuck it away and don't see it, I won't remember to do it. Since the file cabinet was usually in the garage instead of in the house, I didn't think about it. I'm finding that each declutter needs to be handled differently. Not EVERYTHING needs to be pulled out of it's current home and into a pile in the middle of the room. I clearly didn't approach it that way, but want to mention when I could have done it differently.