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The WORST viral career advice (trends that will get you fired)
Watch this before you get fired! In this video, we dive into the worst TikTok career trends that could harm your job prospects. Discover the top career-killing mistakes and tips you should avoid to stay on track and keep your job. Don't fall for these viral TikTok hacks - learn what NOT to do for a successful career. Subscribe for more career advice and tips!"
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  • @pretzel-meow
    @pretzel-meow 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This was very helpful but what if you're working remote and its your first job ever. Im stressed pls help I'm too naive for corporate.

  • @LordUni123
    @LordUni123 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Dresscode for men is stricter than for women in office.

  • @mariampetriashvili110
    @mariampetriashvili110 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love your office related content. It is so helpful for young people have knowledge in a certain profession but lack office experience. I had no idea how catty the office atmosphere could be and after listening to some of your videos , I feel so much better. Can you make more content on how to stay organized at the office, what tasks to take care of first, how to prioritize/organize tasks at work and etc.

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It means SO much to me that the content helps! I literally cant thank you enough for watching <3 omg I LOVE this video idea... hell ya!

  • @stevesalomon6109
    @stevesalomon6109 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My go-to's are "What was the theme for your bat-mizvah?", "Nice night for an evening, huh?", "Which Star Wars movie was your favorite?", and "You sound Canadian...so is Canada really like in the 'Scott Pilgrim' movie?" Gets an answer every time. ^_^

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      LOL wait these are so fun

  • @letscirclebackgames
    @letscirclebackgames 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Office Secret Santa sounds fun! A few years ago my team had a white elephant gift exchange and the most popular gifts I remember were 1) Starbucks gift card and 2) bop-it (yes the toy lol, I think the nostalgia got people excited)

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      omg a bop it kind of slays

  • @MikuHatsune159
    @MikuHatsune159 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I land closer in the Zillenial fold, so I would die inside if someone in my workplace said something like 'on god'💀💀being casual is okay around coworkers who understand the age gap and just chilling out when you aren't working on something for the company, but if your boss or manager is watching? I guess something about modern socializing of younger minds has no boundaries anyways

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I AGREE like with My work friends I’m chill… but in front of my boss like I cannnttt

  • @owloko1349
    @owloko1349 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A big problem I see is people thinking that just because you saw something on TikTok, it means it reflects reality. People fake a lot of things, and most big "influencers" don’t work in an actual office. So, they have no idea what they’re talking about. I really like that they don’t take crap from companies (something I’ve been trying to do for years but was stopped by boomers), but they have to remember that nobody wants to be at the office unless they’re having an office affair. Be careful who you trust and what you say. The dress code is usually pretty bad, but come on - it’s an AC room. Don’t come in wearing a skirt and then keep complaining that you’re cold. I'm a man, and my dress code is a shirt and social pants, it's very hot and most man in most offices have the same dress code, so a lot of us will sweat all day because someone turned the AC off not realizing that using a sweater is far easier than working shirtless. Have respect for your coworkers - they suffer just as much as you do, and they are people too. If you don’t like the company, start preparing to quit. But don’t be an asshole and stop doing your work. Do you think your boss is the one picking up that slack? No, it’s the guy who just had a kid or doesn’t have higher education and has no other options. He’s the one working for two because you don’t feel "fulfilled" at your job. Let me just say, you’ll probably never achieve that sense of fulfillment unless you’re ready to make sacrifices. This is capitalism, and you’re not more exploited than others. Hate your boss, not the older guy who has no choice but to work there.

  • @HiMyNameIsKim
    @HiMyNameIsKim วันที่ผ่านมา

    Glad you’re saying this. Because anyyyy fast fashion “Work” category is career ending 😵

  • @truckywuckyuwu
    @truckywuckyuwu วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why are you using a gluestick on your hair? Man.. They really can sell women anything.

    • @amelia6274
      @amelia6274 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @truckywuckyuwu That’s Vaseline 😂 (when you don’t know what ur talking about be polite)

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham วันที่ผ่านมา

      LOOL can confirm it's vaseline and its the best to slick back hair without a hard gel!

    • @truckywuckyuwu
      @truckywuckyuwu วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Emily.Durham I can't tell if the glue or Vaseline is worse.

    • @amelia6274
      @amelia6274 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      That’s why you can try to get educated 🥰

    • @amelia6274
      @amelia6274 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@Emily.DurhamDoes it like... moisture? I mean Vaseline is used to lock moisture in, is it the same for hair?

  • @morgantorium
    @morgantorium วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really good points!

  • @henriquetv-hu6ks
    @henriquetv-hu6ks วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dress codes are oppressing for men too. We cannot simply wear what we want

    • @toothcruncher
      @toothcruncher วันที่ผ่านมา

      there's a difference between not being able to wear jeans to work and getting HR called on you because your natural afro hair is deemed "too unprofessional," (and being asked to straighten it, which damages it), or your top is too "risqué" while your skinnier coworker, wearing the same top, can get away with it. yes, dress codes are bad for EVERYONE, but they were specifically made to police women's bodies and the bodies of POC.

    • @owloko1349
      @owloko1349 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly, actually we have less options usually. Can't wear a short, or a tank top. Is either a shirt or a plain t-shirt, and always long pants some can be jeans but not always.

  • @mazapandust
    @mazapandust วันที่ผ่านมา

    as for quitting: i always say "don't quit a job until you've got another one lined up." i've seen way too many people quit on impulse and then flail, go broke and move back in with their parents. that's way more miserable than even the worst jobs

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham วันที่ผ่านมา

      this is VERY good advice

  • @ChronicHater
    @ChronicHater วันที่ผ่านมา

    I plan on wearing "office siren" fits for my job, but by that I mean wearing cute long-sleeve collared shirts and dress pants with cute heels. Office siren can work in an office setting with some tweaking IMO

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham วันที่ผ่านมา

      HELL YA! I think the vibe is SO CUTE as long as your tailor it to you workspace... youre good! Good luck on your first gig, queen <3

  • @M13C7
    @M13C7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gosh yeah so true. I just had one of those situations. Sadly tho my bully was actually my boss. I didnt go to her boss cuz i felt i shouldnt do that right? Like i shouldnt go to the next in line and put my boss on the spot. But in retrospect i probably should have. I took so much crap, told my coworkers but they told me to lay down (which didnt help) and to seek out a new job. I was but sadly i didnt find a new job in the whole 6months (still unemployed !). I tried to have a heart to heart wiht my boss but it felt like we re just never on the same page. We had no one to reach out for advice, like an independent 3rd party. I was told by all my coworkers not to go to my bosses boss, so i didnt. But i probably should have gone to union way sooner. Even tho union didnt help me much! I wanted a clear documentation but my boss was sneaky and would never say anything in writing. She would talk to me on the phone. Like literally if i asked her about a task or a project or something, she would call me. Not once did she reply via email. Of course when they fired me they claimed i havent done as i was told and that i was a difficult employee or some shit. But i tried my best being the bigger person, giving my boss the benefit of the doubt and i requested to have things in writting but she never complied. So yea. Fuck those old white women who think they need to ruin your career before they retire due to some petty ego trip.

  • @kristinknowles8665
    @kristinknowles8665 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes this does help in some situations but not all. Thank you 😊

  • @paigesix1912
    @paigesix1912 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every time I see the “get ready for my office job with me” and it’s the most risqué outfit 😂 I’m like “oh girl you’re getting HR’s attention and not in a good way” lol

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      NO SAME!! Like they look amazing but maybe let’s save that outfit for dinner lol

  • @coralMITOCHONDRIA
    @coralMITOCHONDRIA 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I swear a lot of these videos, the ones giving shit advice, aren’t real, but then real people see them and then try to do it in real life. And then end up sabotaging their career in a very risky job market…

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s true I feel like a lot of the fashion ones are just for the vibes and some people take it into work LOL

  • @sreenapakkath9200
    @sreenapakkath9200 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for calling them out 🤭

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      it is truly my pleasure LOL

  • @irolimo
    @irolimo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Recruiters never reply :(

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      if they aren't responsive go for the manager of the job! Or someone currently in the same position!

  • @irolimo
    @irolimo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But why would they use their connection in that company for someone they dont know properly?

  • @PoojapKale
    @PoojapKale 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mam, can u please tell me how to purchase refferal from reddit and fishbowl?? As u mentioned about it in your earlier videos...

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      totally! So there are usually threads where people offer to sell referrals!

  • @maddyandrews1895
    @maddyandrews1895 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video showed up on my recommended. I don't even work in an office but... 1. You are wildly entertaining to watch. You're very well spoken and funny at the same time 2. These are just good tips for gen z surviving anywhere in life. As a gen z I think making life less complicated and more casual is a good thing. But we have to remember there are people who have been out there in the real world a lot longer than us and we have to respect that they have a different idea of how society and the professional world should be run. Gen z can slowly make our mark on the world while being respectful and professional. We just need to find a balance.

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      omg this comment just MADE MY DAY! Thank you so much for being here!! Literally that is so sweet! And I totally agree, I love the perspective shift that Gen Z brings, we just need to balance it with how the corporate world is today!

  • @stevesalomon6109
    @stevesalomon6109 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if he's colorblind and he just can't see the signals the same way that you do? #colorblindpeoplearepeopletoo. ^_~

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      LOL STEVE you kill me

  • @allkindsamusicchick
    @allkindsamusicchick 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are such a gifted young lady. Do NOT give up all that you are...for just any buffoon. Put that crown back on....

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you are so sweet omg thank you

    • @allkindsamusicchick
      @allkindsamusicchick 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Emily.Durham I'm sincere. You have it all...with or without...a honey. Hold out for the Best!!

  • @stephenasmith4192
    @stephenasmith4192 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is how I feel about some of my fantasy football players

  • @jean-yvessirois999
    @jean-yvessirois999 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you worth what you are accept your self u would u be okay you are more then the average you looking gougeous Carey on u Beautiful and intelligent ❤❤

  • @BabyYass
    @BabyYass 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful.

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you are so sweet thank you!

  • @shahrukhc
    @shahrukhc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Emily, I wish.... I could be as confident as u

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can!!! It just takes practice! I still work at it every day!

  • @kathosprime986
    @kathosprime986 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your smile is so contagious ❤

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      youre so sweet thank you

  • @BeanM007
    @BeanM007 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She said I gave her mixed signals but I literally bought her flowers and brought her favorite restaurant to her house just because she was sad, pretty sure that’s a clear signal that I like and care for you a lot

  • @Its.Me.Shortss
    @Its.Me.Shortss 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your videos!❤

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      thank you <3

  • @DougLazy-j3u
    @DougLazy-j3u 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You dress size is still in the single digits. Lane Bryant is popular in much of the United States for a reason.

  • @chookvalve
    @chookvalve 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what book

  • @christopherparbs
    @christopherparbs 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂

  • @jellywithjamz
    @jellywithjamz 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Saturday! I'm Angelica and I'm a QA Analyst for a mobile gaming company. I am extremely passionate about coffee and breakfast foods. I wanted to reach out and shoot my shot. Please hit me up if you're ever in the Dallas area. I have the biggest girl crush on you. 💀❤😂

  • @PardyN2
    @PardyN2 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Also, don't say "I hope to be in your office", apparently they think that means you're going for their job.

  • @northsouthize
    @northsouthize 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video, Emily! And ofc a bit late birthday wishes! I knew you’re a Scorpio Queen ♏️👑 I turned 28 years 15/10 this year and getting pretty much same hard lessons… in my case it’s regarding toxic workplace that I was forced to leave in order to protect my peace and health ❤️‍🩹 I am watching you since 2020 #OG. Your content helped enormously every time before any interview. Never give up and continue with your mission, because it’s truly have impact on real people 🥹🩷 Thank you and I hope you are and always will be happy 🤗

  • @juliacatalano382
    @juliacatalano382 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    is size 6 what we call taking up space?? lord help us 😂😂 😂

    • @smallaxetube
      @smallaxetube 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I thought the same thing. It's like we're back in 2004 and I hate it.

  • @moniraflora8922
    @moniraflora8922 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Which lipgloss is it

  • @EvaHill-z4n
    @EvaHill-z4n 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    priity

  • @joeyossarian4689
    @joeyossarian4689 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So informative. Your quirks are hilarious as well. Keeps the serious convo light. Keep it up!

  • @joeyossarian4689
    @joeyossarian4689 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Here from Spotify! Thanks for your time!

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      that makes me so happy! Thank you!

    • @joeyossarian4689
      @joeyossarian4689 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ anytime! I do TH-cam videos on another channel so I understand how important engagement is. I have tried to like and share your content as much as I could! Have a great day!

  • @elaines2839
    @elaines2839 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cool❤

  • @Omar_313_
    @Omar_313_ 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Manager is the issue

  • @selenayvonne7653
    @selenayvonne7653 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I help you get money, I help you get confidence, I help you get happy girl” 😂 she really does!! Your advice has helped me so much over the past year! I even got a promotion out of it! 🎉🎉

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      omg my friend!!! SCREAMING!! This means so much to me! Thank you!!!! I am so happy you are here xox

  • @christopherparbs
    @christopherparbs 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Glad I tuned in!

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you my friend <3

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is the answer we need for the "how" part of dealing with bullies! Excellent! 👍

  • @andreahaug4236
    @andreahaug4236 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your mathskills 🙏🏼😂❤️

  • @Noelle-j8v
    @Noelle-j8v 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Emily, thank you so much for sharing about your journey with Binky. I too went through a similar situation with my fur child and the puppy blues are serious! I cried every day for a month straight. Now, she's my bestie for life. (As she steals the slippers off my feet as I'm typing). Thanks for being you and your amazing content!

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The puppies blues are actually soooo painful! I am so happy you and your bestie came out the other side <3

  • @thegirigat
    @thegirigat 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Inteligent and beautiful ❤️

    • @Emily.Durham
      @Emily.Durham 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you are so sweet thank you!