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It can show up in other ways too of course. I was a bit unsure about saying that in that video but there's probably something to it.

Thank you!

That definitely makes sense with that aspect.

@@jafarrih Thank you. I didn't know Janet has it.

Interesting, thank you for your input. People usually say I don't seem like Aries, and since I have Aries Sun as well, sometimes it seems a bit "much" that I would be a double Aries. But I am currently suspecting that perhaps I have Sun in the 12th house instead of the 1st, which would maybe explain some things. My official birth time would have to be at least 6 minutes off in that case.

@@MattoThinks Hi Matto. Concerning your thought that people don't think you are "Aries" enough to be a double Aries, to my understanding the Sun sign is something we grow into as life progresses - we don't come into life fully developed in those attributes so to speak. Our Rising sign is the path to this maturation. My feeling is that perhaps in past incarnations you did not have the opportunity/courage to express your ideas, and that this time around (with your Mars in Gemini), you are being called upon to do just that. Just an idea ...

@@GaryKirkham-ju8gw Thank you, that's interesting!

Thank you, wise one!

Sorry for not covering that specifically. I think any of the points could apply with the conjunction.

@@MattoThinks Yeah, I was guessing they might be because some of them resonated for me. 👍🏼🕉️🙏🏼🌏

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Interesting. I often don't see the point in two people "going at it" in that way either, a lot of it seems fruitless and oftentimes I can already tell it's going to be like that, so I don't bother. People usually don't change their perception or opinion in the middle of an argument, so it's useless to try to get them to do that. A lot of it is also people trying to 'win' or to prove themselves 'better' than you, etc.

I will add - I myself do sometimes get into those kinds of heated arguments too, I'm not immune to them! I have Mars in Gemini and I'm an Enneagram 6 which can be very reactive and projecting etc (although I do have 9 in my trifix which softens it a lot in my case). But I've begun to really _notice_ when I'm doing that thing where I'm trying to bring myself up by proving that my point is better than yours, and so on. It's all about noticing these things.

@@MattoThinks - yeah, this Instinct BTW ― evolved for a reason. In the reality of living In-The-Wile, and even more so - in a Society ― that's the only option you have; if someone acts Wrong ― you bite them. But they mostly still rule the Human-World.

@@MattoThinks - this world also putts you into these situations alot of times; where you don't really have a choice ― for instance when you have to live with people with bad behavior; and there isn't another option to try to change things. So yeah, it happens to all of us. Generally - in the Official world ― there simply isn't a way to change things through Logic. It all acts as an Ape Society and Hierarchy. I'm working on changing that. There's a link in my profile. As for your Mars ― I consider that to be Between Gemini & Cancer; which is a whole discussion. I'll just say - that I consider Mars to be in Tertiary Domicile in Gemini, and in Fall in Cancer.

Thank you soo much for this comment! I'm grateful that you took the time to explain. One of the things that indeed makes me wonder about INFJ is my tendency towards intuition. It's 'sudden' intuition, but also consistent in that it seems to be a constant pattern. Makes me think that maybe INFJ is my true nature. I'm not as much about exploring creativity or my identity, as much as I would love to be more creative. I feel pretty 'identity-less', in that my sense of self is quite weak and in some ways dependent on other people. Someone told me, and I think I said this in the video, that I seem to have themes of an Fi-Si loop, can you tell me something about that? People who know me know that I can talk about the past a lot and how it affects me in the present - things that I did or didn't do and how that is affecting my current state of mind and my current situation. Could this be something else? Can it fit with INFJ? I know Si isn't just about the past. I'm also wondering if there's much point in talking about how 'developed' my Ni is - I sometimes wonder if it's my dominant function, why is it not more developed? Or maybe it is, but I just don't always use it properly. Hopefully that makes sense.

@@MattoThinks - I mainly identify people's Type ― based on Recognizing how they: Look, Talk, Body & Facial Expression, Act etc; sort of like - Recognizing a Face of someone you know, or a Place you know; but actually more like recognizing a Style, like most people would easily recognize a painting in the Style of Cubism. Sometimes I would suddenly recognize a particular person's Type ― and then my mind will start to bring back - many people from memory - that are of that Type ― because they are somehow similar to that person. I might have even noticed, before knowing about MBTI ― that there's something similar between these people. My point is about how my Mind\Brain is ‘wired’. What that means ― is that my mind Stores the Information about particular people ― that includes their MBTI Type - in the first place! That's how Ni works. Also - when I'm asked a question that I need to think about & answer for the first time ― I recognize that my mind is able to reflect about, pretty much everything I know. So all information is stored in a Coherent, Ordered way. And it has to be very Abstract ― otherwise I wouldn't be able to contain alot of different concepts in my mind - at the same time. >...Fi-Si loop... >People who know me know that I can talk about the past a lot and how it affects me in the present - things that I did or didn't do and how that is affecting my current state of mind and my current situation. Seems like almost everyone doesn't understand this most basic principle ― that the first 2 Leading Functions - work as their Archetype suggests ― while the 2 Following - work only For the Leading ― and thus - in an Opposite way. Ne & Se are mostly about the Present ― not the Past, like Si. Ni is about Understanding\Recognizing. I think about my history often enough ― but it in the Purpose of Understanding how I already Progressed; and this kind of Analysis ― always helps me to Understand the Basic Principles of how Progress works, which I think alot about. >...Fi-Si loop... The 3rd Function ― is mostly an Extension of the 1st. Si for INFP & INTP ― mainly Stores their Created World; as opposed to Leading Si ― for whom their Past - Determines their Inner World. >I'm also wondering if there's much point in talking about how 'developed' my Ni is - I sometimes wonder if it's my dominant function, why is it not more developed? Or maybe it is, but I just don't always use it properly. There is a point talking about that. 2 things: ◇ I started to learn MBTI ― when I was 40YO; didn't know about it before. And I had no idea - just how central Ni is in my normal Mind. I only knew - that every once in a while ― I have a big sudden Revelation; and then I'm Analyzing it (Ti) ― and understand why it's true. Since then - I see more and more ― how it works the whole time. ◇ Even the 1st Function ― needs to be Developed your whole life. After all - you are Using it on Information\Memory \ what you Know. That's why I'm against using Memory Tricks ― because it's only a way to Store a piece of information - and being able to Retrieve it, when needed; for me - it needs to become Part of My Mind ― cause I Think With what I Know (Ni).

@@gnosis8142 I really appreciate this!

We have the same birthday. I'm not doing personal readings at the moment but I checked quickly and you also have your Moon, Mercury and Venus in Aries, so presumably Aries is a very important sign for you. You also have your Mars in Gemini like myself.

@@MattoThinks thanks for that

That's interesting, thanks for sharing! I also might be Aries Rising and Sun in the 1st house as that's what the official birth time gives me, but I have doubts. Maybe my Sun is actually in the 12th, would kinda make more sense. I also have Scorpio Moon! So we might share all the big 3, wow.

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