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TheSillyOldDude
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Well, he survived but they definitely tried to impeach him.
05:00 this reminds me of discussions I've had with people about transport in the Netherlands. Despite common belief, Dutch people don't cycle a lot just because of their nationality.
Hey Mister, i miss your videos.
Can you just come back already please 🙏🏻 I really miss your content and your perspective on things. Especially with so much happening in the world these past 5 years, I've just really missed you mate. It's time for the silly old dude to return.
I have no idea if this comment will ever be seen by anyone, however, I want to write it anyway. I first saw this video when I was a Sophomore in High School way back in 2016. Currently, I am a secondary school teacher trying to inspire students to take on and capture their slice of the world. Every now and then, something lures me back to this video. In some ways, it serves as a reality check for me and makes me critically think if I am on the right path. I just wanted to thank you for the creation of this and many of the other life advice videos on this channel. Your creations are something that have truly helped me in life and I do tend to look upon your creations a few times a year.
This is why I'm afraid to visit Australia, I'm convinced everything out there wants to kill you. Hippos with danger sword sharp teeth, kangaroos that will kick you to death, & now koala bears that will rip your face off. This is before we get into the real predators like the lions, gators, & snakes that want you for breakfast. Considering the kinds of dangers I imagine Australians surviving on a daily basis, I would never pick a fight with one. I don't care if the Australian is 5 years old.
Glad you're now free of this destructive practice.
I agree! Until good people don't start to seriously stop bad people and take the decision making and power in their hands, this world will be a living hell for all.
Shooter: TERRORIST. America deliberately uses the term "shooter" for the terrorist men that are its own citizens when they conduct such terrorist attacks but calls anyone that isn't its own citizens who conduct such acts of terrorism "terrorist" as a pathetic way to brainwash people that americans are always 'good' but nonamericans and especially those from western parts of Asia are "terrorists" to justify its own terrorism against such countries.
He's clinging to his little gun of terrorism because he knows he fails at a real fight with the muscles OR his wits OR logic or knowledge or humanity or anything else. Typical gun nut. lol
Having been in a field that regularly deals with felons, a full lack of insight on self and one's self words and deeds and a severe selfentitlement attitude and full failure at comprehending how revolting and vile it is to be harming other living beings for no reasons and not being on good terms with animals, kids and women generally tend to be the more obvious signs of them.
It's nice that you're helping people identify and not be burdened by psychos but the example you named first which are those who spoke facts about karma and made relation between disasters and how animals in japan are done wrong to aren't among them at all (even though if they were precisely right in that example then China should have already been annihilated from this world by how it tortures, abuses, kills and eats anything that breathes and even tortures BILLIONS of cats and dogs yearly through torture methods that can only come from deeply evil and fully diseased tiny heads). Some examples of REAL psychos: On YT I was watching a doc about suicide when I saw some Afghans have left comments saying that they hope all people in the countries that have deported them including Germany, Iran, Italy, England, etc. commit suicide!!!! Another example, misogynistic incels that grab guns and conduct terrorist attacks in or outside schools. More? Those that trip that every soul on this planet was made for them to kill them and all objects were made for them to abuse and destroy them. All psychos even though in their cases they fully lack that artificial charm.
Also there is something that originally was introduced to the world from around where you are rn which is collective karma. There are many different kinds of karma and according to those who believe in collective karma if some memebers of a group cause harm to others for no reason and the decent ones fail to stop them then collective karma will hit back at ALL of them even if some among them are innocent or kids or women or whatever. I'm sure the ones you were talking about in relations to whales were refering to that and no one can prove that karma doesn't exist so technically and ethically they're still correct to believe in it.
Objectively and subjectively speaking, I can't agree with what you said about whales and those people who are trying to shield animals from getting killed or abused to death are "psychopaths" because they're not. Not sure what you have against whales or dolphins or animals or animal rights activists but no soul is as caring and needed on this planet as those who are even mindful of animals who can't speak or pay them anything back and direly need protection against the vile creature that is man.
Idont get christians who are so on about "God will punish you." Because Ephesians 2:8-10 in the bible says, "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast" You don't need to do anything to get saved, you just genuinely trust in Jesus. Then God slowly changes you're desires to good ones, if you're faith was genuine. We can't do good works to go to heaven. And good Scholars know this. So why do people even argue over this stuff.
AAAAAAAAAAAnd that's exactly how my country is in such a horrible shape ... decent knowledgeable sane wise fact/science oriented people are marginalized and stay silent while the most vile and ignorant and immoral and curropted religious ones are so loud that no one can hear a thing now! This is important for decent people to do, to be if not louder, as loud as fascist ignorant immoral religious abusers ... if not for themselves, at least for the sake of others.
This was so good and funny! 🤣😂
I just feel the need to remind anyone who sees this that Hijab is not part of religion or any culture. NOTHING that includes causing harm for innocent living beings can be "culture". Hijab is simply one branch of misogyny (and at the same time misandry) and a nasty way to oppress women and "robotize" them into slavery and to marginalize and limit them in the society. Hear this from someone whose people were naive enough to give these fascist islamics a leeway and as a direct result of that had to watch a whole free, progressive and glorious country and nation become a ravaged bloodbath regressive nasty hell on earth where the more innocent a living soul, the more they will get harmed and most likely killed. Also islam does force itself. How? When a kid is born in an 'islamic' country or from a muslim parent the dictator islamic regime will immediately register the kid as muslim and say a muslim will be killed if he or she tries to leave islam! That's a certain breachment of a person'r right! Don't make the same mistake my people did and for about the past half a century my glorious beautiful country full of respectful kind people have become a hellish regressive dangerous mess. Don't give legitimacy to islamization of your countries no matter what. As someone who has felt it in all my body cells how these islamics and their misogynist 'notions' cause destruction and misery and loss of life, I'm very glad and proud of any countries that are taking any steps against Hijab or islamization of their countries. Well done for defending your freedom and countries and people and standing up against misogyny and mindless religious fanaticism and the regressive vile religious notions. If only my people were wiser before and did the same back then ... millions of innocent lives and a great country would have been saved instead of this bloody dark hellish mess here ... . Also learn from how almost all dictatorships on this planet are islamic/religious, that's no coincidence since religion is a popular tool used by dictators against gullible crowds to keep them obedient and silent.
That entire talk about women being or not being virgins inside or outside marriage and being busybodies and nosy fascists about a woman's personal/sex life from misogynists and religious nutjobs is just a oppressing move to prevent women from getting power. Otherwise ANYONE with half a brain knows having sex have never and does not and will never change a woman or how pure her personality is or how much she does or doesn't love someone. Only these misogynist freaks trip that their junks can change a woman's through sex and their patheric cowrdly attempts at "robotizing and controlling and brainwash" women into submission and modern form of slavery! Couldn't agree more about religion being restricted to each person's mind. My country and nation has been ravaged, regressed and destroyed because of islam and these arab-born religious extremist fascists that are forcing islam on my people when islam has nothing to do with my people. My people and country even have our own religion yet they're using islam as their religious excuse to leave as much blood and destruction from my country as they can.
Any mentally healthy and sane dude should be able to function normally and without delusions and sexual clusters in his head or vulgar crap from his mouth even among a crowd of entirely naked beautiful women who'd be doing all sorts of things just like how in tribes that has been the case and just like how the natural physics of a woman doesn't come with clothes or certain poses or whatever. If a guy can't handle something like that HE is the problem and it's HE who is being sexual (not the women) and it's HE that needs to change or get limited or judged or stopped NOT women. Not women's fault that some men have sick revolting heads with nasty crap in it and it should ALWAYS be the ones who have done something wrong who get subjected to being judged or punished or changed and that's those men in this case. Also I have had many super beautiful girl friends both inside and out and knew of many more too who went on to have great lives and be super happy and they chose the right men to couple up with who weren't superficial and who weren't with the lady because of her looks, as long as they learn early on that their beauty might attract some stinkers who will try to take advantage of them and for them to know how to detect and ward off and reject those nasty men and not to settle for superficial guys, I don't think them even focusing on their apparent beauty or showing it off will necessarily lead them to have bad lives. If they're smart they can even use that beauty to make exceptional lives for themselves just like how many celebrities do. I know many woman who actually used their physical beauty to achieve certain positions and success. And once again, NONE of the things guys interpret as sexual are in fact even remotely sexual from the girls. Such guys even try hard to claim women put on make up for men! Welp, NOPE! 😄 Women are beautiful and they like beauty too including their own beauty and honestly in all my life I have never met a woman who put her make up on or wore any clothes she was comfortable in (even heavy gowns) for men! They did those for themselves primarily or even exclusively. A lot of girls also do these kinda stuff for their girl friends, just like how kids take their cool toys to show them to their friends and have fun with those cool toys together, girls do that in the same way with their beauty and accessories and dance moves and all that. The exact same ladies I know who are into make up, put make up on even on days when they will not be going out the house or meeting anyone for that entire day! They put their make up on for themselves because they enjoy it! As long as men and I mean ALL men fail to learn this once and for all that women are not like them to make everything about sex and women don't have their attention or lives revolving around men or sex or relationships and basically as long as men fail to realize that they are NOT the center of the world and other living beings are NOT living their lives with men in mind and NOTHING that exists, is here for men and their use, there will always be revolting insane problems like this. The problem and what needs to be changed or marginalized or monitored is those men, their gross minds and their behavior including their words and deeds. Not this energetic cheerful innocent athlete girl or her dancing or her clothes or anything else. Even if she was standing there all naked and showing off some grinding dance moves, a fully mentally healthy man wouldn't feel or see anything sexual or offensive or arousing or ... about it.
I can't really agree with the advice part of this. I know the facts you stated are facts, HOWEVER, I don't agree that women should change how they innocently behave because of some mentally ill disgusting ape men out there and I don't agree that physical beauty (or taking pride in one's physical beauty) will result in women not having a good life. Telling women they should refrain from being themselves (and I just saw the clip and I can tell with 100% that there was NOTHING sexual about what she did and NO sexual intentions behind it, the dancy move thingies she did is in fact the basic motion in a aerobics exercises, so she didn't do anything extra, she is just showing her energy and high spirit and confidence in her ability while warming up by dancing like that) because some delusional disgusting sex-pest man out there will fail to resemble or behave like a decent human is like grounding a bullied child and let the bully go with the excuse that "you being punished inside your room will prevent the bully who is running around freely from abusing you"! And Should and Shouldn't do matter. They're the reason behind pretty much anything that the mankind has achieved. People SHOULDN'T get robbed or assaulted so laws came into being. Kids SHOULDN'T become paralyzed so vaccines were made. Men SHOULDN'T be given the leeway to abuse other living beings on this planet so feminism/women's rights/children't rights/animal rights/etc. were made. In this case, she is free to behave however she wants and the ones who need to change are those exact same people who are saying inappropriate sexual bs about her including those in YT who have made those inappropriate titles. Similar to that, instead of setting the cycle of oppression in motion by telling a young girl innocently dancing about to be subdued or passive or to look like a dead fish, those sexual comments need to get reported and deleted and the said users banned. That's how the message will be sent to the rest of dudes like that that their behavior and ill heads are not tolerated and they need to do something about their revolting mentality and lack of self control/misogyny/etc. The thing you mentioned is something similar to the extremely oppressing and unhealthy thing called Hijab in Islam. You know why they say women have to be in hijab? So that men won't get sexual arousal!!! Meaning they are objectifying women and limiting women with that philosophy and at the same time saying that men not only are brainless ape creatures with no sense of physical or mental control but that men don't need to have those or feel any responsisbility for their own sick heads and as a result of all that, women should be punished for men's mental shortcomings (and in Islam girls as young as 9 years old are forced to wear Hijab, you know why? because the pedophiles who wrote those islamic laws insisted that a 9 year old child arouses them!!!! So they decided to change the kid insead of sending those pedophiles who said that to some mental asylum)! What you said basically has the same (but much milder and without religious bs) behind it even though I'm sure you didn't mean it like that but now that you read it, it should be clear to you that whatever happens to a man, that's not the woman's fault! That's also a delusion of men who sees everything women do or say sexual! I can't even count how many times in school a girl said a simple hi (and meaning nothing by it even if she said it with a smile) and some obnoxious out of place lunatic gross dude tripped that "oh she wants to be my GF/wife then"!!! This is the kind of delusion that patriarchy and toxic masculinity has sullied the world with that even today some of it remains where such guys trip that anything a girl does or says must be about men or sex or romance or invitations or her sexuality while that said girl doesn't even know that freaky creepy self-centered dude exists! For that Hijab thing, if a guy is THAT weak minded and sick he can just walk around with blinders installed on his eyes or he can just look at the floor all the time instead since he's the one with the problem and not women and likewise here, those men can drool all they want, if anything that shows how pathetic they are and shows girls that not all men are worthy of their attention and can teach them to value themselves more and set high standards about the guy they might want in the future.
Scandinavian countries seem to be ranked first, second and third in terms of quality of life and progression and security and education and a whole bunch of other stuff for many years now. Personally, excluding countries ravaged by religion and dictatorships and communism and fascist rulers, I think the best country would be different for different people based on their personal preferences. If I could choose where to be born in this day and age though, I'd probably choose to be born in one of those scandinavian countries, mainly because it sounds like my life would have been so much easier and smoother there and they are progressive and modern and very much connected to other progressive countries and with a very efficient education system that would equip me with what I'd need if I wanted to move to anywhere else. Their passports are also pretty strong and I have so far seen no racism or prejudice against them anywhere. So, overall, an easy and comfy life with plenty of choices before me if I was born there. But Alas.
I both agree and disagree. Things like what parents one is born to, in which country or from what ethnicity one is born, what available resources one has, etc. are all purely luck based. Your moving to Japan and your success though is actually work-based. For example Hikikomoris from what I've seen do seem to have an element of bad luck about them since many of them seem to be from overly strict to even abusive families and many of them have had their jobs shut down so them and all those born in poor or dictatorships countries are unlucky imo because they have little to no chance of success even if they tried their hardest. Online though, there are some toxic jealous sad people who tend to be the same as cyberbullies and irl losers who do this as one way to abuse others. You can see them in games too where if anyone but themselves wins, they say "lucky" to imply that the winner or successful person hadn't worked for it or deserve it and to basically try to ruin the person's win or happiness but if it was themselves, they'd claim it was all skills and their own expertise. Another example of unlucky people (who might even be deserving good lives and be good people), there are some core things about a person's life that might take their drive complete out of them like if they have been abused as a child which explains why so many child abuse survivors still are unhappy and unsuccessful even after they move away from their abusive surroundings. So, personally I'd never think that an unhappy person is unhappy because of themselves or being lazy or anything else like that. I'd need to hear their stories first and with some individuals who are from fascist countries or born to bad families or born with health issues, I'd know that they have been through some bad luck and are at a disadvantage to others. But for those who are in free and decent countries those things you mentioned can be generally true.
Never heard of the sexist guy talked about in this vid.
Cool vid! 😆
I mean depends on what kind of viewers one wants ... .
SO cute! 🤩
Ah I don't remember what video it was but in a video before I saw that your ears are pierced and I was wondering how you looked with earrings and what kinds of earrings you had, now I see. Cool!
That's SO adorable! 🤩
I got nothing against snakes but ... I can't imagine coming home to a scene like that! @_@ Like what am I supposed to do if that happened? I'd be like "Oh, excuse me for invading your privacy guys ... " and close the door and leave and go straight to a real state agency and SELL that house and then move!
Oh I've seen way worse than this in many other countries including my own. 😄
Good thing that all these misogynistic incel "pick up artists" at the end of the day get banned just like how they're not banned from Reddit for how they're always promoting terrorism and violence and rape and even murder. Wished they could just be banned from using the internet even before they form any kind of infestation anywhere online.
Also I don't think desperation or even low self-confidence is the main issue (I know that's not what you said, I'm responding to some of the common saying online about it) especially when it comes to those who are trying to date girls. I have many girl friends who have told me that a guy who is desperate for specifically them (not to the extreme point though since that'd mean he'd be calling her every 5 mins and not let her do her job or have a minute of peace) is cute and many of them said they're actually more comfortable with being with a dude that has too little selfconfidence than one that is over-confident. Those become problems when the dude doesn't have the right mindset or amount of respect for women or a healthy psyche or if he's an outright misogynist. For example according to some girls, desperation for X girl + admiration/love/friendship/benevolence/etc. = romantic but imagine the combination of desperation for no one woman and lust! That's just absolute NOPE. That's where it gets creepy and revolting and repulsive.
Very ridiculous and infuriating that these same kinda dudes do nothing yet have that selfentitled sex-crazed delusions, basically not only having nothing to bring to the table to offer the woman but being abusive and disrespectful and predatory towards women, yet they expect women to pay them positive attention! What a joke! I also find it extremely dysfunctional of these 'men' that go to a hateful rapist misogynist incel that hates and disrespects women and know nothing about women and ask him for help! You'd think someone wise who is trying to win a girl over would at least go to WOMEN and ask them for help and ask THEM to teach him what he needs to know about WOMEN and ask WOMEN to let him know what WOMEN want in a man. The wrong stuff these kinda misogynists are just endless.
More important than anything else, if a dude is misogynistic or sees women as objects or just wants to use women for sex, he never even deserves to have a girl with him, EVER. EVER. Even if he had a billion different hobbies he still should never even be allowed to have any women near him. Most of the followers of these misogynistic rapist incel "pick up artists" are also exactly those! Those "pick up artists" themselves are also exactly those. Even from the woman's point of view, that's just basic logic, isn't it? A woman gotta be absolutely insane to ever agree or want to be in a relationship (or even friendship) with a man that disrespects or hates or degrades women. Those "pick up artists" see all these severe issues of these incel misogynistic men and easily feed them lies and take their money.
What you said in this video works with girls mostly and those guys who are all mentally healthy and good to go otherwise HOWEVER, the type that go after these "oh self-claimed womanizing master of one-night-stands and being sleazy, teach me how to pick up girls and objectify them and narcissistically use them as I please as if they're not even sentient" scammers are called incels and they're FAR from mentally healthy and all of them are extremely misogynistic and with their narcissistic selfentitled heads they see women as only objects and only see relationships as a hookup occassion and FOR SURE, none of this will work for those because those guys are mentally diseased and before anything need proper and close mental treatments and monitoring and if they don't change, they don't even deserve to have any GFs or wives. I have seen some places online where they have caused some kind of infestation and anything and everything they say will revolt any sane person. They're also the same nutjobs that encourage and have planned and carried out terrorist attacks and shootings (if you analyze them you'll see that in fact almost all terrorist attacks in history are done by these misogynistic incel nutjobs). For them, their only problem is themselves and their own mental diseases that often go well beyond just a few, for example, almost all of them seem to have some degree of autism, extreme schizophrenia, narcissism, sadism, psychopathy and more.
There are videos on TH-cam that restore my faith in humanity and they're all made by animal rescuers and animal rights activists. Not these fake scripted ultra superb visual quality brand or sponsored stuff.
Oh Apple has always been against free speech. It has also always been racist and very much following after the altright. Remember the countries Trump has put on the "bad kids of the class that we are going to kick them out of our pillow fort even though none of those countries or their people did anything bad to us" list? Apple stores immediately and obediently stopped all their services to those countries and even the american people who were of those ethnicities! Can you believe that? There are videos of that on TH-cam even where one altright Apple seller even kicks out some american customers because they were speaking their own ethnic language with one another (and speaking fluent English to the seller). So glad I have boycotted Apple products since long ago.
Thank you so much for making this video. If nutjob incel misogynistic rapists like this scammer terrorist nuthead were immediately hammered down with all kinds of ban hammers, the other nutjobs like him would know that their sick heads and anything that comes from there won't be tolerated either. More attention needs to be brought into the issue of these misogynistic incel terrorist rapists to hopefully drive them back into whatever lunacy hole they've been in.
I see your point. However, I also see how things became like this. Any action and especially wrongdoings have their own response and reaction and reflection. When women and women rights activists and male victims of sexual abuse and sane men (who aren't misogynistic) and feminists and children's rights activists and basically anyone who is vouching for justice and is angered by injustice see that these nasty misogynistic kinds of men and pedophiles and rapists and harassers are running around causing as much harm as they want without being stopped or given the punishment they deserve while both the victims and us who are angered by seeing the abuse, are basically wounded and traumatized and angered even more by this, oversensitivity happens and in that situation, saying anything that makes that disturbing stuff seem any less than they are can cause an oversensitive response just like pouring salt on an open wound does the same too. I see both sides and I know Matt Demon meant nothing bad by that, especially since his life's center are his daughters that he loves them to death and has always spoken against misogyny. But don't worry about it, that hasn't slowed him down and he is constantly bringing more light and awareness about how misogynistic Hollywood and many of the men with positions are and how the abuse women face needs to be stopped. He probably understood it too that the timing when he said that was a bit off. At a time when rapists and misogynist harassers are being identified and there are demands being voiced to stop the abuse women (and men) face by these men, it's not the best time to be talking about the appropriate punishments yet. I don't know about the specific details of the context he said that in but I'm guessing that's probably how some rednecks in the US started insisting on being racist by responding to the "Black lives matter" with "Everyone's lives matter". See how the second saying in that specific situation goes against the first one and implies that the plight and pain the dark-skinned people in the US are facing is "less" horrible than what it is? I'm guessing this was probably similar to that one too so while I'm sure Matt Demon didn't mean anything bad by it, I do think he needed to choose the timing better. At a time when people are still angrily and with open wounds coming forth and voicing how they were sexually harassed/raped/discriminated against for being a woman/handsome/girly/feminine/etc., that's not the time to be talking about how the punishments should be proportionate to the crime. He should have waited a bit until the wave moved a bit from people coming forth and voicing their pain to the rapists and harassers being arrested and THEN when the subject of courts would come up, that would be a proper time to be discussing how punishments for those men should look like. How he said it sounds like when a house fire breaks out and while people are still trying to put it out and rescue any living beings that might be inside the house, someone back there that is watching saying something like "well this fire has caused about 200$ in damages"! Just imagine how other people who are struggling to make sure everyone will be rescued and safe would look at that one person saying that. (sorry if I didn't manage to fluently get what I mean across, my mothertongue isn't English but I'm sure you got the gist of what I mean)
Some suggestions for the safety playlist that might benefit everyone: Personal safety at home/ Personal safety online/ Personal safety in emergencies (natural disasters), Personal safety with money (financially being safe)/ Personal safety at school or university (I doubt you have much background knowledge on this topic but teachers and staff are also the people kids need to be wary of and it's important for them not to overly trust those individuals either but if you did, this topic will help your younger audiences a lot)/ Personal safety in travel/ Personal safety when moving from one country to another country.
Some other ideas for those who like me are living in unsafe countries/regions/cities/etc. Carrying a small mirror can help if the person feels like they're being followed but don't want to turn around and look, they can just use the mirror to see what's behind them. Wearing boots, especially for girls and ladies, or any other shoes that are heavy and at the same time comfortable enough to run with, can also help since that can help them kick more effectively and if the assailant is male, then the boot goes extra miles if the lady or anyone targeted kicks the assailant in his nuts with the boots. Learning to target the assailant's crutch area (if he's a male) also is something everyone needs to learn and focus more on since that WORKS and there are many ways other than kicking where that area can be targeted such as punching it if the victim has fallen on the floor and it can slow/freeze the assilant for a few secs and if packed with enough force even cause internal rupture and organ damage and bleeding for the male assailant so that's also another thing that almost always can be used if the assailant was male. If being followed, another thing that can help is going in a shop with multiple staff and let them know that you're only there for safety reasons and then asking them to call the cops. Another thing to keep the home address hidden is not to walk straight home if being followed.
I feel like most of your general Dos and Don'ts videos (those not about educating us about Japan) are made while you only have decent free and advanced countries in mind. My country doesn't count as one of them and while guns and mace and those kinda extreme stuff are banned here, anyone with a bit of wisdom here will not set foot outside without some kind of defense devices be it a manual alarm or small tearjerker hand sprays or a small knife. I ALWAYS had at least two small knives with me going and coming to and from school thanks to how unsafe the streets are. And no, deciding to move, isn't always enough for a lot of people to be able to actually move otherwise by the time I'd be starting elementary school I'd already have moved to a country with superb educational system to be able to get a decent education on my back at least. Moving to another neighborhood or even worse, to another country is nearly impossible for those of us who are unfortunate enough to be born in countries that don't have their stuff together or are dictatorships and lacking enough money or props to be able to easily get visas and leave such countries. The ones you see and hear on TH-cam are often from free and advanced and decent countries while most of this world's population are trapped in countries that are dictatorships/poor/underdeveloped/war zones/etc. Oh and the knife does work in self defense at times. Just a few years back, there was a girl who was targeted by her own vile and mentally diseased cousin and she was fast and ready and smart enough to be able to defend herself with that knife and stabbed that rapist real good and saved herself and properly defended herself.
Lol so glad I just found this
The taxi idea is an interesting idea, although I wouldn't want a male taxi driver knowing I am vulnernable. Even the person at the end of the phone or whatever, could be a man and go and hunt me down on after his shift. I am conscious of people taking advantage of situations for their psycho sexual kicks.. However, it would be I could meet in a public place say and he or she won't know where my car is etc. and they shouldn't walk you to the car. That maybe another way round things. I have on my bicycle a loud bicycle horn and a loud bicycle bell. My friend was mugged outside a subway station and she made a lot of noise and the cowardly male ran away. She grabbed her bag back too, though that was a bit of a risk. So yes, noise is very important.
Take a dummy with you and stick it in the passenger seats, makes it look like you are not alone. I remember my car was not very reliable, and it used to break down, have punctures, get overheated, new alternator had to be replaced, so when I had a car I felt very vulnerable for all sorts of reasons, and often the rescue people were men, so as a woman that is a risk. I gave up my cars because I got fed up with my car breaking down on motorways and rural roads. I feel safer by bicycle. If things get scary, I could even leave it at the station and take the train or even go on the bike with the train. Can you do a personal safety video on personal safety and cycling, as there really isn't much on that at all.
I throughly agree with all your points. There is not many of us who think like this. People are very trusting and naive. I choose my friends wisely and none of them are into drugs, heavy alcohol drinking, have convictions, into violence. Even when I was a younger person, I avoided those people. Drinking friends are quite different to real friends who care about you.
Even being at home you can be drunk and then get attacked by someone at the house party, or you can fall down the stairs, leave the gas on... overdrinking is a health and public safety hazard. I don't get drunk and I am alert all the time.
I love personal safety topics