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Kim
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ISTJ'S and having that Growth Mindset
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ISTJ'S and having that Growth Mindset
INTJ'S and having that Growth Mindset
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INTJ'S and having that Growth Mindset
INTP’S and having that Growth Mindset
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Typology and getting an Objective Type result
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Typology and getting an Objective Type result
Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙏🏻😊.
My husband and I are both innovative we have always been that way when we were kids so I think your wrong we both have tons of ideas, methods and systems we employ in our life We both are Ne doms my husband is Ne-Fi I'm Ne-Te whether you agree or not that isn’t my problem I’m not going to be someone I’m not just please people I’m all about being authentic and not blending in with the crowd I like to stand out that is who I’m take it or leave it .
Kim you understand ENTPs pretty well, I'm impressed! Laughed out loud when you spoke about how ENTPs like going to our connections to convince them to work with us to achieve a goal - that's exactly how I made my first million, and it is something I continue to do and love doing since it makes my friends rich but it doesnt feel like im just giving them handouts and we get to work together so its fun because us ENTPs get all our joy (child function) from Fe - when we uplift and help others and see their emotions light up, it fulfills our soul. There's genuinely nothing better - it is our life purpose and our lifeblood. Young ENTPs who have never tasted true appreciation (like when you go to a 3rd world country and save a family and give them work and break bread together) - ENTPs who have never tasted their purpose resort to lesser forms of it - like trolling others and getting emotional rises from people. It's still enjoyable, but it's not even close to the fulfillment gained from making someone laugh or smile. Fe child is truly a blessing and a curse - as if someone acts sad or is very good at emulating dark emotions, it can really affect our Fe child and our own joy and completely shut us down. Anyways - thanks for uploading, always fun to hear you ramble in the background while I roam around earth. Feelers are very important for integration and democratization of truth, so I genuinely hope you keep at this for as long as your mind allows you to - you're contributing some awesome pieces to the community - chow.
Thank you thank you it's been a slice making this video yeah I hope I can keep doing this lol!
I'm not an ESFJ as you think I am my shadow functions are not an ISFP I know myself pretty well I'm an ENFP I was typed by CPT and this type is truly who I am Ne-Te -Si-Fi and to the day I 'm 6 feet under I will not be swayed .Their are ENFP'S that are not the social butterflies most are not that extroverted but the most introverted extroverted types.
@@kimtopology4257 ok! No matter what expert tells you what - the truth will reveal itself in time as it will become inevitably clear to you as YOU become the expert through your learning, explaining, and evolving. As you learn more patterns and get better and better at typing complete strangers faster and faster due to your mastery of the information set, it will be impossible to avert your eyes away from your F hero. Please see the truth that the only reasoning you have given me in all our exchanges is "this random expert told me im this". That's not very convincing, especially to an ENTP. It might be enough for a feeler, but it most certainly is not enough to convince a thinker. Your own mastery of this content through teaching will allow you to see the truth. It's honestly completely ok that you don't see your ESFJ true nature yet - no matter what you think you are, I think what matters is that you are contributing good things to the community and you are learning an information set that is meant to bring peace to the world, whilst having the cognitive functions to bring people together and spread this information for the good of humanity. Give me 1 moment - there's this minecraft youtuber I randomly found yesterday that is an ENFP female around your age - maybe it will help you see how drastically different true ENFP females are than yourself. They are very very very rare and even the more shadow-oriented ones that play computer games all day are still clearly ENFP-esque in their mannerisms and perspectives. I'm in the middle of developing some VR shenanigans for minecraft integration for school education so that's why im perusing minecraft youtubers - just for reference. What a cool game, eh?
@@kimtopology4257 wow! "to the day I'm 6 feet under I will not be swayed" is the root of all war & evil. Might want to ponder that point of view a tad bit more before manifesting it so confidently like you are some know it all sage that has been bestowed divine knowledge by the magical all-knowing CPT god. Like seriously Kim a random human male using mbti for monetary gain made sounds with his mouth in english and somehow your brain respects him so much that you are treating his information like it came from god themself. Be careful.
As an ENTP surrounded by ENTPs every day - I'm not quite sure any of us truly care about "1-upping" anybody. We just care about the truth - and if someone is wrong in any way, we strive to "correct" it, no matter how the other party "feels" about it - which can definitely come off as "1-upping" Something interesting I've noticed about the less mature vs more mature versions of us ENTPs is that the less mature ones like leading people down a thorn riddled path for their own amusement. A mature ENTP who has conquered their demon and integrated their shadow will not allow something like that to happen, and will be very aware and purposeful with how they guide others. We are supposed to be the guides for humanity; the worst guides lead down the worst paths - the best guides lead us to Utopia. For example with your car reference of the friend getting a fancy car and the ENTP buying an even fancier car - I don't think that would ever happen. I can't see any of us ENTPs trying to 1-up in this way, and all of us hardly "want" anything, since our hero is Ne, not Ni. We are hyper aware of what everyone else wants, not what we want. It's extremely difficult for us to pinpoint exactly what we want - although it's probably even harder for yourself with Ni trickster to be concretely sure of what you want for your own future (what the best life for you is). In the fancy car example, a more accurate thing that would definitely happen that I've seen happen before is; ENTP already has a really fancy car that is better than their friend, but ENTP leads the conversation with the friend towards having his friend talk about their car just so the ENTP can show the friend a truth that will shatter their feelings - aka an immature underdeveloped Fe child that is playing around with peoples feelings - allowed to wreak havoc because Ti parent was disarmed by the truth (the ENTP is just telling the truth, but it is hurting the other person and the intent was around manipulating emotions for the ENTPs own amusement). Great vid - enjoyed listening to this one. Well done!
I know an ENTP who was like that he loved showing off his his material possessions he is well to do and he isn't very mature I had a discussion with him about being the person to get an INFJ's boyfriend jealous and I spoke the truth and told him he lacks integrity by thinking it's ok to do that so allot of my video really talks about his immaturity he got mad at me and has refused to talk to me that's fine but when it comes to my principals if someone thinks this is going to help a boyfriend be jealous it goes against my principals I don't regret this to me that's going to far and it's interfering with a relationship that is where I draw the line I was helping him to see the implication of his actions he got defensive so I do know about unhealthy ENTP'S . Glad I amuse you lol! .
@@kimtopology4257 Well if it means anything I think that you were absolutely correct and he was in the wrong based on the context you just gave. A very heroic usage of empathy (Fe) by you! You definitely wielded your hero well and your strong sense of ethics probably hit his Fe child hard. Even though he is not talking to you, if what you said is true (Ti) it will haunt him and he will eventually change, even if he stays in denial that you helped him as a catalyst to spark said change. All ENTPs and ESTPs can learn many things from humans that wield Fe at a high level. I think you did him a service, in the grand scheme of his existence. Also if an ENTP stops talking to you, they are definitely embarrassed, because it is probably the only emotion that can ever get us to shut up hahaha peace!
@ I’m an innovative person Have improved and designed an idea eg. a water bladder it punctured so I improved on the defective idea I can use a 4litre empty milk carton then cut a hole in the lid put the tube in and they’re you go you have full proof idea and invention I also designed my own ouija board when I was little ESFJ ‘s are not innovative ENFP’S are innovative.
@@kimtopology4257 ok I see where the problem is - you do not fully understand the nature of the definition of the word innovation and how it connects to what Ne perceives. You are also not fully understanding the power of Ne child, as well as how the functions develop. I don't know who told you ESFJs are not innovative / creative during childhood, but whoever told you that is incorrect and I encourage you to research it and see for yourself. The child function is what manifests first when we are children - hence the name child function. It gets overriden by the parent as we go through puberty and assimilate into our "tribe", and a main part of "loosening up" or "losing your ego" when in middle age is a rekindling of the relationship with the child - to finally allow the parent a break and to allow the child to play once more. This is why elder people are much more silly than adults - they have fully embraced their child again. As for my point on the nature of innovation and how it relates to Ne - your example you just gave does not prove Ne hero because your Ne would not even be activated yet as a child if you were a true ENFP. ESFJ and ESTJ are very inventive, creative, interesting children - and elderly. For example - me as a child - I was very bubbly and happy and always extroverting my emotions and giving people hugs and running around trying to make everybody laugh. I was not creative at all. After my hero began developing - I could not help but perceive possibility everywhere, and the perception of the best possibilities to improve the things around me has driven every single achievement / point of success that I have lived through until this day. Your response proves Ne child even further. Explain how I'm wrong - please.
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Hi Kim - me again. The most accurate (and also efficient) way to improve at any function is to be around the parent version of that function - as it is literally the parent function's job to always be on, tirelessly, supporting the hero and protecting the child. The parent's purpose is, literally - "parenting" in the sense of being our guides for said functions. For example, as an ENTP - when people are around me, whether anybody likes it or not - they will know more Ti (truths about how things work) as a result of interacting with me. ENTPs and ESTPs improve our race's Ti, just as all the other types do the same with their parent function. "Why not the hero function?" The reason why the parent function is better in terms of "improving" or "learning" a function is because the parent function is designed to democratize, teach, and guide. (whereas the hero function is designed to blaze through any objective - to be a role model - to be looked up to). Obviously, a role model means people look up - admire it. Admiration is the furthest thing from understanding, so the hero function usually cannot teach others as it is just so much stronger than everybody else's that it usually ends up making people rethink their lives. "I never knew there was someone like that - there's no point in even trying anymore" For example, an ESFP might think they are very hard working because of their Te child that loves to task complete and check off boxes and organize things. Then they meet a Te hero, and come to the accurate understanding that their place in the world is not Te. It's something all of our child function's go through as we grow up. I, for example, had to come to the understanding that I am just not talented at bringing people together and creating harmony, no matter how much I want to do so. It's genuinely what makes me happy - as any Fe child would be - but the hero cannot blossom until the child submits to the parent. (This is why the first two functions is known as the "fully developed ego block" in russian socionics, which is simply a slightly more accurate system than mbti, as the information set is less diluted) The parent is just weak enough to be reachable to the other 6 perspectives (child, insecurity, nemesis, etc.) - but strong enough to lead and teach them. It is not unreachable like the hero. As such, know that your hero is your gateway to wealth, as it is your 99th percentile tool - your "talent" per say. Since money is just value (anytime money goes from point a to point b, it is because value was exchanged in some way, which is the Ti of how money works) You are able to ascend your monetary status by ascending your value, which first comes from understanding what your value actually is. I have a feeling you will do great things connecting our race together with this information set. You have an open mind that is also empathetic, you are constantly learning, and you are very easy / relaxing to listen to, unlike me - who is very overwhelming and can only be taken in small amounts - but that is with any wind type. Wishing you all the best!
I think being around people that share similar functions is not going to stretch our minds and get those gears going if we don't test our minds to the limit in improving our Ne and Ni the whole point of the exercise is our minds coming up with as many angles, solutions , possibilities and ideas I'm all about stretching my mind to the limit we don't get breakthroughs if we don't challenge ourselves that's my perspective and Your right about that I can only take you on a macro level lol! but then again I compartmentalize my feelings so it wouldn't phase me
@kimtopology4257 being around people that share similar functions is only half of the equation - it is the precursor. The other half is perception and intent of learning. You most definitely CAN expand your mind and perceive many more Ni and Ne perspectives through being around the parent version of the functions. If you don't have the first half, and try to only do the second half by yourself - it will still work, but just not to the same degree. I was not saying anything about your methods explained in the video. I think your methods are fine and they work and they are good intentioned, but the optimal, more accurate, faster way to improve at these functions is 1. To be around the parent version of said function so you have the opportunity to observe the patterns, strengths, and weaknesses of said parent function 2. Intent to perceive and improve and expand the information set through deep thought and analysis (this part you already have down). Was just offering a simple way to accelerate your learning, should you choose to take it, that's all. ✌️
@@ethanyosh www.sociotype.com/socionics/types/ILI-INTp
I have done this test couple of times and always get ILI lol!
@@kimtopology4257 lol - good thing we both know there is no such thing as a test you can take online to accurately type anybody. Most are marketing / email grabs. most people don't even know how to answer questions with brutal honesty, because it makes them feel bad. or they can misinterpret and answer by saying what they WANT to be the truth, rather than what is actually the truth All the online stuff is blegh. The fundamentals will always ring true. It's literally as simple as learning the 64 perspectives and observing which ones are firing as you are interacting with said human. Every other typing method is inferior - I'd love to be proved wrong. mbti is the absolute worst, most diluted version of royal psychology that exists today. Studying carl jung and the cognitive functions is much closer to the full truthful information set studying socionics is just a better version of mbti - it doesn't compare to learning from the big hitters themselves (freud, jung, plato, hippocrates, etc.) hope you are doing well out there - take care!
You speak like an expert in ISFJ's, but you sound like you're just referring to your own feelings.
I'm not an ISFJ my Grand ma and I are different personalities your way off the mark .
How many ISFJ's do you know??
@@kwahujakquai6726 my Grandma who no longer lives she was an ISFJ she embodied that type so logically the info in this video applied to her and this video was well thought out and taken to account the functions she used she didn’t like new things or ideas she was more of a person that thought about the past she didn’t like to think about the future she liked the way things are now and in the past so this video I made with her in mind I don’t care what you think it doesn’t phase me .
4:04 consider this change of perspective; Instead of viewing it as "some types like small talk and some types like deeper conversations" - the more accurate perception is - "Each type values different information sets, so each type likes talking about different sets of information". "deep", philosophical metaphysics, for example, would be considered "small talk" to ISTPs and ISFPs. (Ne trickster) rich sensory experiences, nostalgic talk, or preservation-worthy methodologies would be considered "small talk" to ENTJs and ENFJs. (Si trickster) So I think we all dislike small talk and are ALL looking for someone to have the "deep, meaningful conversations" with - but what is deep / meaningful is different for each type. cheers
Interesting point
i know we aren't supposed to have favorites - but I'll admit that ENFPs are my absolute favorite type by far. Maybe it's due to what I lacked growing up, as many traits that we end up attracted to end up being traits that were not a part of our childhood (things we missed out on) - but regardless of what the reason it - ENFPs are the best!! They're also the most ingenius when it comes to developing marketing material (slogans, digital art, catchy phrases, etc.) Great video Kim - keep it up! :)
Also one thing you are very wrong about is that typists should listen to the person being typed. If a typist has this belief they are citizen class and are just pretending or being a guru. You are not supposed to innovate within a logical system that is unbiased and truthful. Typists should ask questions with intent to analyze real time reaction, as that as how you determine which of the 64 perspectives are being used. Really good typists dont even need to ask questions and can simply analyze someone brain as they talk - how their brain moves, how it shifts from idea to idea as it talks - when you can see which perspective is being used it becomes glaringly obvious what each person is. When you've accurately typed thousands of people, you will be able to do it with minimal information because you know so many patterns that differentiate each type. If a good typist tells you that you are something, and you disagree, then tell the typist why you disagree - dont you think that is how we get to the highest truth? Discussion! Your disagreement turned out to be from your own ignorance. Your main point for why i was wrong is the inventiveness/creativity aspect which i already addressed. Anything else? I would be happy to clarify if there is a single sentence i have typed that you disagree with. Tell me exactly what you disagree with and why im wrong and ill respond back - if you wish. Cheers! 🥭🦢
I wasn't talking about you I mentioned this generally What I have observed and experienced your misinterpreting what I mentioned I'm in no mood to be trifled with .
@@kimtopology4257Nope. I have Ne hero my friend - I can see exactly what you are doing. I know this video is about our conversation and is about me. It's extremely obvious 🤣. There's your Fi nemesis again with your trifled with sentence. If you knew how Fi nemesis differs from all the other Fi perspectives, you would easily see that you are either ESFJ or ENFJ right off the bat just from that one piece of information. Your inventiveness points to Ne as opposed to Ni as you already know + there are a plethora of other Ne/Si spectrum things that you already do in your videos and responses - so ESFJ. Lying and trying to hide what this video is only makes you look gross. Especially since it was about me. My Fe child felt all your frustration and animosity towards me the entire video - very sorry for doing that to you, but honestly quite entertaining just the same. I'd recommend working on that so people like me can't affect your emotional state to this degree because we aren't even operating or trying to operate in that realm so it's literally you just getting worked up by yourself over there 🤣. Really wish I could lighten the mood somehow but it's hard to do with a Ti based brain and a keyboard - it turns us into emotionless robots lol! Anyways - just trying to help you learn how to type people, because there is a 100% accurate way and now you know how to learn it! 🥂✌️
Don't flatter yourself it wasn't about you and you are further from the truth about my type and the point I was making in my video I don't care what you think I was talking about some systems are biased and partial they type people who are not innovative and not telling the typist in which way they are innovative . Good typing system is one that is not partial and not bias but fair and can recognize what functions are being used when the the person who is being typed tells their story What type are are you ENTP or ENFP ? Do you have a typing system ? where did you get your training from I've been in typology since my early 20's how long have you been in typology ? You don't know me from a hole in the wall again it isn't about you if you don't believe me that is not my problem but yours .
@@kimtopology4257 "I dont care what you think" -> your Ti inferior is showing I understand you talked about general points and other concepts unrelated to our prior discussions. I'm saying this "mystery typologist" you speak of who "doesnt listen when you are saying you are inventive and they ignore it" makes it glaringly obvious who you are talking about. Literally nothing you say can convince me otherwise - I have already seen the proof with my own two eyes - it's like you are trying to convince me that 1+1 is not 2 - very fascinating. You do realize that it was our conversation that sparked your "feeling" to make this video, correct? Or is that something you are in denial about as well - am I flattering myself again, or simply connecting patterns together with Ne? Are you trying to say you would have made this exact video at this exact time, regardless of if we had ever spoken? Don't flatter yourself. :) Why are you asking questions I already answered? Every question you asked, I have already answered. I even told you exactly how you can type people with 100% accuracy in the comment section of this very video - please read carefully before responding to save yourself embarrassment! What are you even talking about with the hole in the wall comment? lol! Made me chuckle because I imagined me literally sitting inside a wall and having to come out of a little circular hole hahaha To rapidfire answer your stuff so you dont have to go through and read everything again. Entp. yes i have a typing system - the real one that isn't democratized to the public - i explained how you can type anybody with 100% accuracy in the comments section of this video. Try it yourself to prove that its real. It is the only way to prove it to yourself. I dont care about your training or how long you've been training for and neither should you - someone can spend 20 years reading the same book over and over again and come out the other side an absolute moron. It is about brain type, time, and depth of understanding. The best brain types to learn deep logical systems of thought from are Ti forward types (ENTP, INTP, ESTP, ISTP). The more years studied, the better. The more exposure to new, true patterns and information - the better. These are the 3 metrics in which you should judge all typologists, not "what was your training and how long have you been doing it" But to answer your question - ive "professionally" helped hundreds of people in person throughout the past 6 years. Before that, I studied the field behind closed doors with a Prince I befriended in college - this is where I learned the truth of how little I knew and had to reprogram everything in my mind to align with the truth. Was genuinely a very hard time - you can imagine the cognitive dissonance of everything you thought you knew being ripped under you - it really sucked as a Ti forward brain type. It is possible that you have more time than me in the field, but you most certainly do NOT have more information / access to information than I do (no normal citizen does) - and you are not a Ti forward type like I am. Also you say if I dont believe you its my problem not yours. That isn't true. The reality of the situation is that you are just a liar and I am trying to shine light on the truth. Regardless of if you admit it or not, its your problem, not mine. My perspective is more aligned with the universal ethic - it is superior to yours in every metric and every other human would agree with me in this. Ti always wins in the end, because it is the truth - and when everything falls apart - the truth is all we have. Hence why the entire world is run solely by ENTPs & INTPs - if you didn't know this already. Hope this clears some fog for ya! Ciao!
@@kimtopology4257 From one of the top discussions of royal ethicists - "The problem with shadow banning or deleting comments is that it places the individual commenter at the mercy of the individual channel owner who may have removed/hidden perfectly legitimate comments for wrong or less ethical reasons. An example; Sometimes a channel owner is clearly mistaken in their stance on a specific issue, but when called out with factual information, instead of putting their hands up and saying fair enough, I got that wrong, and being an adult about it, their ego gets involved, they throw a hissy fit, and end up censoring someone who has made them look bad out of sheer spite. It does happen, so it's important to see both sides. Sometimes the problem is the channel owner whose ego trip must trump others right to express an opposing point of view."
Had a feeling you would respond this way. Here is the truth. Firstly you basically solidified that you have no idea how to type yourself and others in this video. Since you do not know and everything seems like it is foggy - it will lead you to questioning your own type which is a good thing in the end because although you might see it now - my intervention caused you to ask the question, and asking the question will lead to the truth. The true typing system is royal class information. The general public does not have access to it. However, there are some patterns i can share. The learning and deep work is your responsibility though. If you dont listen its on you. The typing grid is fake - there is no such thing as interaction styles - all of that is new age garbage. The reason why is because every type can be any interaction style depending on the environment they grew up in and what was selected for. You cannot tell someones interaction style because we all forge so many social masks of varying types. The 100% accurate way to type humans is to understand the distinction between the 64 perspectives that govern reality. Each of the 8 cognitive functions has 8 perspectives (hero, parent, etc all the way to demon). Once you understand all 64 perspectives very well, you will be able to see what perspective a human is using when they are reacting / responding to stimulus. I can tell from your words and demeanor that your main frustration is that i was not listening to you talking about your inventiveness. I should have addressed that point - i did not mean to ignore it or overlook it - because i did not disagree with it!! I did not know you had the false belief that ESFJs are not creative. When you spoke about your creativity and inventiveness, to me it only served to reinforce that you were an ESFJ - as that is a trait of all 6 personalities with Ne in the top 3 slots. I was not ignoring it - i agree that you are creative and innovative. You just thought that meant your Ne was a hero when in reality it is a child. We all enjoy using our child function as you know. Ne is something you have and like using. Nobody is disagreeing that you arent innovative lol. Also, ENFP and INFP innovation is more in alignment with moral alchemy - different feeling perspectives and narrative building. Hope this helps, especially to clear the fog on how to type people - sorry for frustrating you and making you feel unheard - as you know it was not my intention at all and i apologize.
TLDR: Learn the distinctions between each of the 8 perspectives of each of the 8 cognitive functions with real life video examples of each of the 64 perspectives. Take video clips of humans reacting to information, and match their reactions with one of the 64 perspectives. Repeat process until fluent at typing. 👋🎯
I'm not an ESFJ my parent function would be Si Si for me is I don't care about routines structure being detail oriented which I'm not that way I am I'm not aware of details as an ESFJ would be good at that I don't plan every moment of my day I only make future plans that are important to me my thinking function is quite strong and my Ne is not third but my dominate function my hero function I was typed in CPT as an ENFP Ne-Te convergent Si-Fi divergent he has my type right whether you agree or not it doesn't matter to me what people think I know that I use these functions naturally not ESFJ'S functions I'm not Fe lead or the hero function I don't put on many masks to please others If someone has trampled on my values I will speak my mind and not care about the group harmony or not rocking the boat so you have my functions wrong .
@@kimtopology4257 I already know CPT has no idea what he is talking about because you started talking about convergence and divergent types. Those are systems that are newthink and designed to confuse citizens away from the truth. There are 16 types - there are no subtypes or a-b-c types or any of that garbage. You can care about what you care about - but the truth will be the truth regardless of if you care about it or not lmao. If you want to stay ignorant and spread false knowledge, you do so at your own peril - the one who will suffer in the end is YOU, because the truth is what will eventually come to light with all the humans studying and verifying and iterating - and the ones who choose to see the truth regardless of if they care are the ones who will be able to wield the truth in objective reality. You and CPT are getting things wrong and have crazy beliefs like "no typing system is perfect" or "oh i only get it right about 70% of the time" - open your eyes!! If it only works 70% of the time, that IS NOT THE RIGHT ANSWER lol! Try my system out, seriously - instead of just dumping it and saying you dont care about it. You didn't even try it to prove to yourself that it is wrong or right - if you try it you will see that it is correct, 100% of the time, because it is literally just the codified version of what is actually happening in reality... Reality doesn't care about how you feel about it sweetheart. Yes your parent function is Si. We do not like using our parent function as it is strainful and takes energy from us - you prefer using Ne over Si, just like I prefer using Fe over Ti. Learning and logic is my "work" - just like duty - aka doing what you are "supposed to" according to the ones around you - is YOUR work. You much prefer to be in Ne, just like I much prefer to be in Fe - the child function is our "play". Si does not have anything to do with being aware or not aware of details. For example, Ni is very detailed, but the details are within a vision. Introverted functions are detailed (depth), extroverted functions are big picture (breadth). Both you and I like being big picture, NON detail oriented (NeFe vs your FeNe). If you think CPT has your type right, prove it. You'll quickly find that you cannot. All you are doing is saying "Ethan you are wrong and CPT is right" without giving any examples as to why he is right and I am wrong lmao - I truly wonder what it is like to have your brain and make decisions like you do - very interesting. Anyways, pick any sentence I've written to you over any of our comments and tell me why im wrong, and how that leads you to be an ENFP instead of an ESFJ. I'm eager to see what your Ne child comes up with. :) If you don't - accept that you are an ESFJ and stop wasting your breath and time on fighting for a lie. Study the 64 perspectives so you can type yourself and others accurately - as soon as you start wielding the 64 perspectives everything else will fall into place like butter. It really is that easy when you have access to the full truth, rather than just bits and pieces of it. ciao!
@@kimtopology4257 i just saw that there are a few points you said that i didnt address - did not mean to ignore them sorry was just typing too fast so i already addressed why its very normal for ESFJs to be big picture, future plan oriented because we all prefer to use our child, especially when alone, as it is the play function like I said. "If someone has trampled on my values I will speak my mind and not care about the group harmony" It makes me giddy and die laughing every time you do this and prove me right while trying to prove me wrong hahahaha I genuinely love debating with you this is so funny. Do you see that this exact quote - that sentence itself PROVES that you are Fe dom? There would be no "if someone has trampled on my values" if you were Fi dom!!! Please understand!!! Fi dom = I will speak my mind and not care about the group harmony no matter what because I need to be as authentic as possible to my own internal moral compass. As soon as you add - "if someone has trampled on my values" - it becomes Fe hero, Fi nemesis, because the Fi will only come out if Fe is harmed/shut down - aka if someone tramples on your values. Boom. I'd love to hear what you have to say now - there's no way that isn't crystal clear to you. "I'm not Fe lead because I dont put on many masks to please others" BAHAHAHAH Kim!!!! oh my goodness this is becoming adorable at this point. Don't you see that this sentence proves that you are NOT AN NE DOM?!!! This sentence is the ESSENCE - the literal essence of Ne hero - we can put on any mask and socialize with any group - we put on many masks, all the time. Look anywhere - I'm sure even your CPT guy will agree that a main characteristic of Ne heros = putting on many masks to please others. So you proved that you are not an ENFP. And you proved your Fe hero / Fi nemesis. Please, keep going!! Do you disagree with anything? If so, what do you disagree with and why do you disagree? I want to know your reasoning other than "this guy who i believe is an expert but could actually be a phony trying to make money off his studying the knowledge set told me"
@@kimtopology4257 The parent function feels like "work" to us, whereas the child function feels like "play". When focusing on details and focusing on what you should do - your duty - it feels like work. (Si parent) When focusing on big picture, imagining futures with others - it feels like play. (Ne child) When you first read or interact with new stimulus or information - your first interaction is with F, as you can see in yourself when you are reading my words you are probably having emotional chemical reactions happening in your body that you cannot control. Maybe you can suppress them once they happen, but since you are an F hero - and the hero cannot be turned off - you will be forced to feel those feelings, but it is those feelings that guide you towards your diplomat purpose. The flip side for comparison and deeper understanding would be the T hero, who would not have any chemical or emotional reactions when reading comments or interacting with new stimulus - rather they hone in and focus on the logical facts. They will remember things like that there were 3 chairs, 12 lightbulbs on the roof, etc - logical measurables that can influence decision making . They feel the least emotions of all 16 types, and are not meant to be involved with diplomacy at all. In fact, if a thinker tried to go into diplomacy careers, they would mostt likely fail because they would be the worst out of everyone who tried to do it. An F dom trying to be a philosopher is going to look the same way, just so you are aware. Wouldn't recommend it. The reason why you are F hero, T insecure is because when someone criticizes your T or offers a different perspective than what you thought to be true (T), you feel the chemical reactions / emotions (F hero) and the F motivates action to "solve the problem" or "do actions" If you were T hero, F insecure, you would only react the way you did if I criticized how im making you feel, or how I make others feel. Instead of being vulnerable to criticism of what is true, T heros are vulnerable to criticism of how their thoughts affect others emotions. As you can tell, I am neither of these. If you were N hero, S insecure like you claim, the only way to bother you would be to affect your senses - which is why it is impossible for you to bother me since you cannot reach any of my senses. Things like weather, yucky smells, sights, food - etc really REALLY bother N doms .
White liberal race baiting. Malcolm x said watch out for the white liberals they are the true racists. Don't be the White Knight everyone can see through that.
13:34 i dont agree - this is more for ENFJ. ENFJ's Ni parent influences them to constantly need to plan and have things planned out. ESFJs are much more comfortable and chill - they can glue communities together with their emotional perception and prowess around making others comfortable. You're the best - keep at it, lets all keep learning together!
I think your wrong this video is spot on for ESFJ this isn't about ENFJ'S I have a separate video for ENFJ'S what is your type just curious ? when the ESFJ's are healthy yes the are the glue that keeps people together but this video is talking about unhealthy or under stress they are not chill or making someone comfortable .
@@kimtopology4257 I know you have a seperate video for ENFJs and this isnt for ENFJs lol - I meant that the pattern you are talking about of planning towards the future is more in alignment with Ni parent like an ENFJ. Also, just to upgrade you for your future discussions so you aren't wrongly perceived as dumber than you are by a Te user that cares about this stuff - whenever you can say "you are" in a sentence, you write you're, not your. I genuinely do not care at all and have met many people who can't even write who are super geniuses - but anyone with Te will care because that is just how they are wired so im just saying all that to try and help your future and not for any other reason. im an entp ok sure the video is about unhealthy ESFJs but there's no loop where suddenly the ESFJ has super high Ni and can plan things out with clarity for their future - what grip or loop are you talking about with this planning at 13:34 then?
8:06 look. Physical concrete proof of Ne child. Look at how the realization of the side tangent (usage of Ne) fired your dopaminergic circuit and influenced you to smile and laugh. The child function is connected to our dopaminergic circuits and when it is activated we get dopamine. If you had Ne hero it would be like myself or chase - where we would just say "anyway" - and then move on like it is normal to go on tangents - because for us it is - we see more tangents than anyone else.
Great work! 3:19 not quite. Fear comes from our Si inferior. Si inferior is afraid and insecure that when it looks back on its life, it will do so with regret. In essence, ENTPs and ENFPs are afraid of regret, and worried about how the choices they make affect their future. They are also worried that they won't be strong enough to persevere through the repetitive Si that it takes to get to the goal. ✌️🕊️
We have Ne hero - so we definitely are not afraid of ever running out of juice or ideas. I know that when I'm old and gray I still will be crazy and I won't be able to unsee the possibilities in any environment. The hero is the lens - the eye.
Anti-blackness dates back to the Trans Atlantic slave trade that started in the 1400s.
My point is that it's been around a long time and yes in the 1400s too .
Hi ms kim i am now feeling very lonely and friendless i been isolated from human interaction for a week now I recently drop out from school not because im feeling lazy or what ever its just the problems my mother and father just got divorced and my mother is in dubai and my father has a another wife with kids right now im living with my grandmother and i dont know what to do anymore i been mindlessy scrolling thru my phone i feel so hopless im such a disappointment.
I'm sorry your going through that I don't know if you believe in God but I know he is aware of your circumstances when I go through tough times I pray to God every chance I get and he gives me peace and he will for you in this tough circumstance your going through .
❤. Kim. Te. Adore. Matura. Nice. Amazingo. Kavalosu.
Is intuition (specifically Ni) a sense for chance?
I mentioned in the video physical intuition, Social intuition and Intellectual intuition I have a couple of videos on Introverted intuition and Extroverted intuition also intuition in general .
Hi, I just now seen your channel. I don't feel I have ever grieved over my Beautiful Mom and that was 1991. She was a true gift from GOD. God Bless You. I feel guilty and I feel guilty I was not with her when she passed. I was in another state. I worry she was all alone. But I have to believe GOD was right there with her.
Sorry for your loss and yes she is in God's memory
I had no idea there was a disorder called Prolonged Grief Disorder. I have been a mess since I was 16. When Eddie died (see below). I just read the definition and it is all me. PTSD, non stop grief, social anxiety disorder, i am now a LONER, i am seriously angry, i have so much guilt and anguish, i really don't know what grief is or how to get past it but i was so VERY LOVED and it has become IMPOSSIBLE for me to really live. I worked my entire adult life but was off a few times on STD after my dad died but i went back to work. I told my shrink I am a high functioning basket case. I made myself work and I worked 60-80 hours a week while raising my son who doesnt really speak to me anymore. I have no one that loves me. My spine is crumbling and I live with pain unless I pass out at night from medication. I have had 2 spinal surgeries. One lower back then 10 months later I had a fusion in my neck from C3 thru C7. Also replaced my discs in the neck. I am left with SERIOUS nerve damage. I take a shower when I get up the guts to climb over the bathtub. Most days I want to blow my head off but i don't. Suffering is a way of life...Oh and I cannot take antidepressants. My shrink thinks I may be bipolar and apparently most folks with bipolar that cannot take antidepressants. The side effects made me nuts. I had more side effects than I can name. I hate death. death will be the death of me. i just pray nothing happens to my son. I was so loved and now I am not. Like i said they are all gone. I am alone and a loner.
I hope things get better for you when I'm in a stressful situation I pray to God and he gives me peace .
I lost my brother at 17, I was 16. We were like glue. That was going on 48 years ago and I am still in shock. 1977. Then I lost my daddy in 2000 and this was more than I could bare. Then I lost my Bob in 2009. Then my mom in 2015. Everyone that loves me is gone, including my grandparents. My son I have not seen in a year and I am disabled, miserable and alone. I am so freakin HATEFUL all the time. I have zero patience and I want to get in my car and run.
Sorry for your loss I know what it's like to loose family members it's hard but I would think that they would want me to get on with my life but I have some good memories .
Queen Victoria was a prime example.
You are really cute!
I appreciate you doing this much effort trying to explain it. I'm looking forward to seeing ISFJ video 😁
I did a video on the loops and grips ISFJ'S fall into under stress it should be on the play list
@@kimtopology4257 ill look for it thanks 🌟
You look great
Seems pretty spot-on for me, especially the dwelling on negative possibilities, except for when you said we'd lose track of our values. That never, ever happens to me. Maybe it's a perk of being Catholic, haha!
Yeah that's a possibility Paul !
Why is this considered mutually exclusive with Autism Spectrum Disorder? People can’t have both according to the DSM V.
A personality Disorder like Schizoid resembles Autism but Schizoid is less complex I did my research and no they can't have them both .
Hey, thank you so much Kim. This is a very Informative video. In typical INTJ fashion, now I’m wondering if I should use my T function to act out my visions a bit more :)
Yes you should Te is needed to balance you out and to implement your visions in real time .
Hi ; hows it going.
I gues my Ti is always stronger than Si. My Ne is stronger than Fe.
Psychosis is one of the most hurtful things that someone can experience. Thank you for these informations - I hope you the best, darling.
Thanks I'm glad you got something out of it !
Hi here for you love you
Good video Kim, very informative
Thanks !
Good to see somebody even recognise this ... well done to you !
They tend to tremble at different frequencies. Get out your Fluke multimeter and probe em
Aloha Kim! In my opinion, the most unfathomable intelligence is the one where a person is super smart in book learning while having zero common sense. Now, just between us... I'd pay money to watch some of them try to survive on a deserted island. Or anywhere outside of the safety of the college campus. 😂😂😂
interesting i would love to discuss with u
I messed up when I mentioned Cognitive disorder I meant CBT .
I never realized how much of a safety freak I was until around this year, when I sometimes call my INFJ friend to say, "Are you still okay?" or telling my three-year-old niece, "Careful! That might hurt you!" Nice to have some validation!
I think being a safety freak is a good quality to have I think we need more of them or the world would go down the drain lol! 😃
Few comments from an estp- first I can see you’re nervous, but you’re doing it so continue to rock it. However to seem less self conscious; work on not saying umm and smacking your lips. When you got on a story you were much more comfortable and easier to follow. You got this! (Edit - everyone in this community thinks they are a IN** - so I’d suggest doing more based on them. It’s silly, but it seems to work for everyone else) Now the love part of us - just want someone who lets us be us and they are willing to go along for the ride. Play with us and let loose. I tend to be attracted to introverts, so I get the need for space, but be willing to try once in a while. I promise it’s worth it. Also, be patient with us when we aren’t as organized as you. For us to show love - we are very good at reading people; maybe not in an intuitive way, but in a body language way. Healthy ESTPs will use this to make sure you’re having a good time. Also, I will go out and make things easier for you when I’m into you. All we expect in return is loyalty and some effort.
I enjoyed this, and it's refreshing when INFPs are said to be a bit reserved and withdrawn and need time to trust people before they can open up. I think I have this fear that INFPs have this stereotype of being childish, naive and I suppose overly trusting, which is not something I see very much at all. Thank you for these videos.
Thank you for the compliment !
I can personally vouch that all this is 💯% accurate!
Thanks Esabelle ! 😊
Is this an April Fool's joke? 😳
No just forgot to put a title haha! 😄
great vid
Thank you .
As an INFJ, I can't say that I LIKE writing but I've always been pretty good at it. (At least compared to math and science.) But psychology and social work are certainly where I lean! 😋 I tend to cross into NT territory since I just BARELY score F (only 2 points from T) so logic and analyses also appeal to me too.
I think your type is balanced with feelings and being analytical.
@@kimtopology4257 That's a correct assessment, at least from my POV.
Man, my memory is terrible, so no way I could be an ISTJ! INTJ makes much more sense, because I just planned out the next five minutes of my day! Go me!!!!!
When we did that typing slash collaboration when I was not remembering the INFP functions you remembered and told me what they are I think you have a sharp memory probably better than INTJ'S since you have Si that function is about good memories your memory is better than mine I have at times forgot to turn off my coffee pot and also forgot sometimes to turn the hot water tap all the way so it would drip and I have gotten flack for that so not buying the whole INTJ thing lol!
I was absolutely joking, haha! While it is true that I forget some things, and my memory seems to have worsened with time, I think it's better than most other folks'. What's not so great is my ability to read peoples' emotions, but thankfully, I've learned to overcompensate by studying body language and learning from past mistakes.
so I got another typing @@EpicPaul64with Objective Personality I was curious and they typed me ISTJ but they said that I can come across as an INTP and that I can keep up with INTP'S don't know still processing in MBTI I'm an INTP crazy lol!
I don't know much about Objective Personality, but as far as Myers-Briggs, I don't think ISTJ fits you. Your filming and speaking styles are very sporadic, almost as if you didn't give any prior planning to what you were about to say or write, and you have a certain "warmth" to your speaking that typically only comes out in me on spiritual occasions, which suggests Extroverted Feeling. You also use a lot of abstraction and extra wording, which ISTJs wouldn't use because Sensing types prefer the tangible reality, and usually have a certain structure to their wording choices, even in an unexpected situation.
Yeah I agree with you Paul ! I try to keep my videos simple or concrete for my fellow sensors ! @@EpicPaul64
I liked this, I am very fascinated about the contrast between INTPs and INFPs - particularly since I've had so many close INTP friends who I really love. They're the type that makes me laugh the most, and I think it's interesting how, in my experience, the Fi and the Ti doesn't really clash very often. It's more like we're both intrigued by the differences and it allows for even more interesting discussions.
I know 2 INFP'S and both are really nice individuals and so authentic well I think Ne can make your type and mine quirky odd balls I wouldn't have it any other way .
Hey I think this relationship was depicted in the move Coraline. I think the mom is ESTJ and the dad is INTP.