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Having kids or being pregnant is not a mistake you knew what you was getting into

41, father of 3 and I love them more than anything... That being said, kids are not an accessory or a right of passage. ITS WORK. Have them because you want them and never because society makes you feel like you should.

reusing videos from the first part? really??

I’m 41, no kids. Me and my husband get happier about that decision every year it seems. And if in some alternate timeline, I were to regret it, that’s my problem to deal with. If I did have kids and regretted that, then it would affect the children, my husband and myself in extreme ways.

I see marriage as an outdated worthless custom. And romantic love as total BS. Life is sooo much essier without all that unnecessary Drama. I am very proud that I never dated, never wasted my time with men but build a Business and a carreer as a professional athlete. I had an affair, got preggo at 18, and the abortion was the best choice of my life. I am extremely proud that I made a very rational and self loving decision. I just had foundet my own Business AND was really getting off with my Sport. I am 22, I make 6 Figures a year, nrtto, I travel A LOT because I have trustworthy employees that keep my Company running when I am not there. I am deeply involved in my community, I know hundrets of people and have a few great female friends. I look at women my age staring at dating Apps and think "I am ghe smarter one".

A nuclear family isn't a good place to raise kids, it's a breeding ground for problems. Mommy groups are the future. And no, kids don't need men around, that's a lie men tell women to stay around. Looking at most men, they shouldn't be allowed to be nearby children.

4:18 True! Therapy is the way to go for this.

I think people say "welp, you never know" is because they had an accident baby. Over half of conceptions are accidents.

Completely agree. Ty to all the moms out there telling us younger women what having kids is rly like. Bc our mothers won't in the name of grandkids

Well from what i see, everyone with kids is miserable. So im going to trust my own observations in real life around me rather than some red pilled men who, in reality, just hate women but won't directly say it. . .

Never depend on a man or anyone else. I’m a mother of 3; no abortions, retired by 30yr and more fulfilled than ever and openly welcoming new views and experiences. Never depend on anyone else.

At 20:50 she was telling the truth. A lot of parents, moms esp, hate their kids. Working at a school moms would drop thier kids off early and pick them up late. These same parents often tell thier kids "you get on my nerves". They cant wait to get rid of them. Lmso!

We have a friend who has a kid, she wanted two. After having her one she changed her mind because she didn't realize how hard it would be. And that's with her having a partner that is involved with child rearing while still being the sole financial provider. I couldnt help but think, "Yes? Why did you think it would be easy?" Then I found out a lot of people purposely lie about how hard having kids is.

Literally this is so true like people r always like well you will want kids one day and you don't wanna be a cat lady do you? And I'm like yes! Yes I do! The worst thing a cat can do is step on my ribcage and swat at me occasionally

I agree they resent being mattied

It's shocking 😮 so disrespectful 😢

I'm 47, married, and childfree. We're having a simple, happy, quiet life.

The lady at 6:20 dodged a huge bullet. So many dudes ask for children from their wives/girlfriends and then bail because being a parent sucks. Meanwhile, the mother is damned to single motherhood. Never worth the risk.

It’s so funny about how my mom always “forgets” that I don’t want kids until the next time I remind her

Kids are only a blessing if you CHOSE to have them. Kissing are living nightmare if you don’t want them. I work at a preschool and am exhausted every day after my shift is over and that’s only for like 2 hours. I can’t imagine being a parent. And I actually do like kids and enjoy working at the preschool

People with children who bash on child free people are just envious of the child free lifestyle. It says more about them than us.

4:12 ❤. 12:52 wow. Profound honesty!

Lady at 2:28 is so right. Life is already chaotic as hell and a struggle. Being childfree allows so much calm and clarity among the chaos.

Keanu Reeves and his girlfriend are happy childfree and definitely not lonely or unfulfilled. No better example than that, that would make it easy for anyone to understand.

Like my mom got upset when I said that I don’t want kids. It’s always the bad parents that want grandkids smh.

Millennial mom here! I’m in no way against anyone being kid free just wanted to say that first. I think I always knew I wanted kids, always! I got two one boy and one girl. I love them both they both make wonderful grades help me out at home and even with everyday frustrations they don’t add to it more than having a new puppy or new job would. I have a degree, work from home, and I manage my stress well. We eat well and exercise. We have a debt free home, I drive a brand new luxury SUV, we go on tropical vacations every year, we visit Florida to see my grandparents, both kids in private school and a husband that works hard but comes home to his family every night by 6:30 never works weekends. With all that said, if you really want kids I think it’s all in how you plan. I’ll admit we had to save a lot in the beginning but it was worth every penny to be able to bring two world changers into this life! Also I’m still young only 34 hubby 38 and by the time we retire my kids will be about to leave for college or whatever they decide to do! It’s the best of both worlds really.

My thing is who is her father to tell her she has to have kids as if it’s not her body….. wtf she’s a grown woman and that’s her vagina

4:34 they may post all of this stuff, but no one cares lol

I’m a man and I had a long talk with my boyfriend about not wanting children. I told him I just want us to be gay together, travel the world, get property together and be happy. Having kids would fuck all of that up. I just want a peaceful life and I feel kids will ruin that for me.

How is it possible to have children without thinking of on how that will affect your life? Its the most life changing thing you can do..I find that just 🤯

I'm an oldest sibling and the shortest gap is 12 years so I was IMMEDIATELY the parent, I've done my time.

Great video!! More comps like these plz

Only hundred years ago the human population was under 2 Billion. Now we are 8 Billion! The world is overcrowded and heavily poluted by us humans with our dyrt, our garbage and CO2. The earth wont get bigger only because we think, life is worthless without having children. If you really think you want to be a mother/father, have one child, maximum 2 but a number above that makes you, sorry to say that, a parasite. Your children wont be thankfull to you, when they have to deal with an even more poluted world made by 10 Billion humans. Only when the entire human-kind has finally realized that it has become a parasite destroying nature on the highest level, a change to the better can happen. As a start, don't look down on those people who don't want a child.

The crazy part about being child free is that you’re still expected to be a mother regardless of your circumstances or whether you want to or not. The same people who want to force motherhood on others who are NOT mothers are the SAME ones who WON’T support their OWN children or other people’s children. It’s SICKENING.

What is this trend of folks having to do personal grooming while making a video. I find this trend disturbing. Like they cannot focus their attention on just making a video for 60 seconds. It makes me as a viewer feel like I am an afterthought. Like I am so entertained by watching you wax your unibrow. That being said, I am 66 and child free. Every woman in this age should seriously consider their options before choosing to have children. It can be so freeing not having children on your hip.

If more people keep choosing not to have kids then humanity will go extinct and society will no longer exist.

I'm 25, South African🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦, I'm a woman. I am desperately yearning for these types of conversations to be held in my country😩😩😩😩 I feel like I'm the only one who understands this whole childfree thing. It's so lonely here🤦🏾‍♀️

The last guy killed me😂😂😂😂😂

Speaking as the child of a narcissist: I'm an expert at what true selfishness looks like - and no, actually, it's a completely normal level of taking care of your own well-being to not want to spend most of your life taking care of other people. It's not selfish at all. Somebody on TH-cam tried to bingo me once with a "But then who will become the next generation of doctors if you don't have kids?! 😩". Seriously. This actually happened.

No one questions when you say “I’ve wanted to be a mom since I was a kid” so to question the other way around is insane to me. I don’t understand why people think everyone wants children or that having children is the greatest thing you can do. It’s not.

Im lucky - when the 60yo+ ladies I've encountered ask me if I have kids, and I say, "No", they've unanimously tell me "good for you - you have fun Honey!" Or something similar. 😂

My father ( a horrible parent who i could only say "yea i know my dad " asked for grandparents saying " any day now " 🖕🏾

Fucking abusive this is 😡🤬

As a wife and mom of 3 I think it’s admirable to decide not to have children and not selfish. If I could have peaked into the future and seen this life I wouldn’t have picked it.

This is appalling and Sick..,This is EXTREME ABUSE..

These made me so sad but the last one was pretty sweet haha. He just forgot to feed her first! I feel like having something wholesome/sweet at the end is a real nice breath of fresh air.

I love that more women are realizing how having children, especially in your twenties can keep you both in poverty. I personally plan to have one and be done. But I'm waiting until we are financially and emotionally ready. If I just happen to no longer be able to have a child by that point it is what it is. Better to not have them at all than to bring a child into a neglectful situation or into poverty because we weren't prepared.

Therapy and maybe a plant is what so many people need.

I got the "well, you never know" type response right up until I was on the other side of 35. Now that I'm over 40 people have all but completely stopped questioning it. Ready to enter my Crone era lmao

I've dated someone with regretful parents, it was confusing, frustrating and just a bad experience. He's so emotionally detached yet so traumatised and it traumatised me. He only opened up years after we separated, after his father died. Both parents regretted having them.