Fr. John Bayer
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Cistercian Life - SEEK25
Monastic life is a gift from God. It is something we can only undertake at his invitation. Through it, God helps us to purify and integrate our lives, and to enjoy the stability of committed relationships rooted in the self-sacrificing love of Christ.
This January, Our Lady of Dallas Cistercian Abbey will head to Washington D.C. to attend SEEK25! We made this video to play there.
SEEK is an annual conference presented by FOCUS. Every year, thousands of attendees-including college students, parishioners, ministry leaders, diocesan professionals, clergy and more-come together to answer the call of modern-day missionary discipleship. At SEEK, attendees are invited to abide with the Lord in prayer and adoration, to participate the sacraments, to spend time in fellowship with the greater Church community, and to be inspired and equipped with the practical skills for living out the Great Commission in their homes, schools, parishes and beyond.
Learn more about the conference and sign up to join us there by going to seek.focus.org/
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Iconography & Bl. John Brenner - Interview with Oleh Skoropadsky
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Oleh Skoropadsky is a Byzantine Catholic iconographer from Ukraine. In this interview, I learn from him about growing up under Communist persecution, his vocation as an artist ("the Church demands creation"), the tradition of Eastern iconography, Church unity ("breathing with both lungs"), and his beautiful icon of Bl. John Brenner, a Hungarian Cistercian who was martyred in 1957. This icon was...
"The Creation of the World" - Science, Philosophy and Theology
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In this talk I try, first, to articulate the Catholic understanding of creation, and then to explain how this theological vision could dialogue with the natural sciences, such as physics and biology. I make the important point that theology and the natural sciences would only ever be able to talk to each other if another dialogue partner, philosophy, joined the conversation. Much of what I say ...
Facing Scrupulosity and Finding Peace on the Pilgrimage
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I meet many people who struggle with scrupulosity, and in different ways I think I've seen it in myself. Lots could be said about it, but it seems to me to involve a disordered concern or desire for our own righteousness. St. Bernard, following St. Augustine, once defined pride as a "love of one's own excellence." When we are being scrupulous, we are overly concerned with our own righteousness,...
Bishop Erik Varden OCSO - Interview
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Bishop Erik Varden OCSO - Interview
Bl. Franz - Husband and Father, a Man of Courage in Scandal and Martyrdom
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Bl. Franz - Husband and Father, a Man of Courage in Scandal and Martyrdom
Channel Trailer - July 30, 2024
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Channel Trailer - July 30, 2024
The Eucharist and the Crisis of Energy
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The Eucharist and the Crisis of Energy
"The world must know!" - The Glory of Life in the Eucharist
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"The world must know!" - The Glory of Life in the Eucharist
Discernment with Scrabble Tiles (Memory Palace)
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Discernment with Scrabble Tiles (Memory Palace)
Prophets in the Church, Homily by Fr. John Bayer
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Prophets in the Church, Homily by Fr. John Bayer
Resurrection, Reinterpretation and Reconciliation, Homily by Fr. John Bayer
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Resurrection, Reinterpretation and Reconciliation, Homily by Fr. John Bayer
Ascension Sunday, Homily by Fr. John Bayer
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Ascension Sunday, Homily by Fr. John Bayer
Michael Polanyi on Objectivity and Tacit Knowledge
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Michael Polanyi on Objectivity and Tacit Knowledge
Introduction to Balthasar's Project "From Above" (1 of 2)
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Introduction to Balthasar's Project "From Above" (1 of 2)
Balthasar: The Way of Divine Love (2 of 2)
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Balthasar: The Way of Divine Love (2 of 2)
Video Lecture 3 Suffering Servant Songs
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Video Lecture 3 Suffering Servant Songs
Rahner: Nature, Grace and Theology as Anthropology (2 of 2)
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Rahner: Nature, Grace and Theology as Anthropology (2 of 2)
Introduction to Rahner's Project "From Below" (1 of 2)
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Introduction to Rahner's Project "From Below" (1 of 2)
Proofs of God
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Proofs of God
Newman: Illative Sense (Lecture 6 of 6 for THE 5334)
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Newman: Illative Sense (Lecture 6 of 6 for THE 5334)
Newman: Real Apprehension of God (Lecture 5 of 6 for THE 5334)
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Newman: Real Apprehension of God (Lecture 5 of 6 for THE 5334)
Newman: Inference/Assent & Notional/Real - Continued (Lecture 4 of 6 for THE 5334)
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Newman: Inference/Assent & Notional/Real - Continued (Lecture 4 of 6 for THE 5334)
Newman: Inference/Assent & Notional/Real (Lecture 3 of 6 for THE 5334)
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Newman: Inference/Assent & Notional/Real (Lecture 3 of 6 for THE 5334)
Newman: Intro to GA (Lecture 2 of 6 for THE 5334)
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Newman: Intro to GA (Lecture 2 of 6 for THE 5334)
Newman: Biography (Lecture 1 of 6 for THE 5334)
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Newman: Biography (Lecture 1 of 6 for THE 5334)
Apologetics: Credibility of the New Testament, Part 2 (Kereszty).
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Apologetics: Credibility of the New Testament, Part 2 (Kereszty).
Apologetics: Credibility of the New Testament, Part 1 (Kereszty)
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Apologetics: Credibility of the New Testament, Part 1 (Kereszty)

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  • @IMANVANRULER
    @IMANVANRULER 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brother looks extremely similar to Nicholas Hoult!!

  • @IMANVANRULER
    @IMANVANRULER 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He is so good!

  • @gracekendall2617
    @gracekendall2617 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful message Fr. John :)

  • @brandic1630
    @brandic1630 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you

  • @nittani.
    @nittani. 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not saying u are though

  • @nittani.
    @nittani. 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ai bad :(

  • @hunterhall1575
    @hunterhall1575 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Of all the stupid dresses that religious men choose to wear, this is the dumbest by far. You look like a witch from Salem 😅

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @hunterhall1575, What an odd thing to say! The world and its history are so full of interesting things, things that might seem strange at first, but which could lead us into a far deeper and more exciting culture and life, if only we could approach them with less mockery and more curiosity.

  • @naisah8605
    @naisah8605 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved the video! Thank you father John.

  • @naisah8605
    @naisah8605 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes. I agree.

  • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
    @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is no god head. Only nature and energy.

  • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
    @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gods don’t exist. There is only nature and its only will is to survive.

  • @rayvanee277
    @rayvanee277 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also it os eye lash to eye lash with God as the priest acts in persona christi

  • @johnhervatin4793
    @johnhervatin4793 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Theology makes NO contribution to our knowledge of the natural world.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @johnhervatin4793, that is a very big claim! I suppose the truth of it depends on what you mean by theology. In the Catholic Church, theology is understood as an exercise of reason open to the widest and deepest questions of existence. As such, it most definitely contributes to our knowledge of the natural world. For example, the scientist ASSUMES in his or her investigations that the natural world is ordered and intelligible (that is why scientists expect there to be answers to their questions). But this assumption is taken for granted by science, rather than justified by it. It belongs to some other mode of reason -- a wider and deeper one, like philosophy and theology -- to consider it. Have you ever wondered why the universe is rationally ordered? Einstein considered this something of a miracle: "The eternal mystery of the world is its comprehensibility…The fact that it is comprehensible is a miracle." Have you ever wondered why the world is comprehensible? And have you ever marveled at the way our mind can mirror this comprehensibility? Do you think science -- which assumes these things to be true at the outset -- could alone offer an account of such marvelous truths? You might appreciate this little passage from a theologian I admire very much: "[M]odern scientific reason with its intrinsically Platonic element bears within itself a question which points beyond itself and beyond the possibilities of its methodology. Modern scientific reason quite simply has to accept the rational structure of matter and the correspondence between our spirit and the prevailing rational structures of nature as a given, on which its methodology has to be based. Yet the question why this has to be so is a real question, and one which has to be remanded by the natural sciences to other modes and planes of thought - to philosophy and theology." Take care! -FJ

  • @RichardStevenWalz
    @RichardStevenWalz หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're a moron!! Random mutation is absolutely true and has been researched quite thoroughly by biomathematicians. We have sequenced the genomes of successive generations of many animals, and the new code they did NOT receive from parents is all mathematically perfectly random in both position and value in the genome!!

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, @RichardStevenWalz! I'm glad you are passionate about the topic. I enjoy opportunities to engage with passionate people, but I must say I especially enjoy them when no one resorts to name calling. 🙂In any event, your objection puzzles me, since I don't think I denied "random mutation" in my talk. Personally, I see no problem accepting random mutation and natural selection in evolutionary theory. The modern synthesis of evolution, in fact, bases itself heavily on Mendelian genetics, and it was a Catholic monk who put the "Mendel" in Mendelian genetics. So, far from denying the truth of random mutation, I'm actually quite proud of the Catholic contribution to the theory. Thus, I'm puzzled by your comment. Were you thinking about the point I made, or rather the point I related from some other authority, about epigenetics? In that case, there is no denial that genes can mutate on account of causes unrelated to the behavior of the organism ("random mutation"). The point is that genes can be diversely EXPRESSED according to the behavior of the organism. That seems to me to be an uncontroversial point. I hope that clarifies the issue for you! I wish you well. -FJ

    • @RichardStevenWalz
      @RichardStevenWalz หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fr.johnbayer1905 The point of mutations all being random in position and value in the genome is that it precludes ANY and ALL design by any intelligent agent, since random code can never improve a design unless by absolute accident!!

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RichardStevenWalz I'm still not sure what point in my talk you are commenting on. But if your comment concerns an "intelligent agent" in the composition of the genome, then I think I agree with you. At least I've not heard of any evidence for little elves or sprites (or other creaturely craftsmen) tinkering around during cell division to alter the genome! 🙂Of course, the absence of such evidence does not justify the refusal to recognize the manifest intelligibility that shoots through the entire natural order. Cell division, and the altering of the genome, take place according to processes that can be rationally or intelligently investigated. Indeed, all of creation stands open -- marvelously -- to the gaze of reason, such that we are rightly convinced, I believe, that the ultimate origin and guide of all creation is intelligent. We can still speak of "random" processes, even if we insist upon the ultimately intelligible character of nature; after all, a card can be dealt "randomly" (i.e., without the dealer having any ability to predict what card will be dealt), even as the specific card that is dealt is obviously not magically or arbitrarily determined but rather clearly the result of intelligible (even if unknown) processes, such as the human choices and the physics that were involved in shuffling the deck. I hope that makes sense! - FJ

    • @RichardStevenWalz
      @RichardStevenWalz หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fr.johnbayer1905 No, NO GOD makes any sense at all, in light of what we geneticists know now about Evolutionary genetics. You assume wrongly! The only "intelligence" involved is random mutation and natural selection of that which survives, the rest get eaten!

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RichardStevenWalz The way you are engaging me seems very dogmatic (lots of assertions and exclamation points). Perhaps we could engage in more of a dialogue if I asked you a question: Would you agree that intelligence is shot through the whole universe? That there are, in principle, rational explanations for all that happens (even if we might not be able to know them concretely, given our limitations)? - FJ

  • @marinka424
    @marinka424 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I go to Mass at Mount St Bernard Abbey. Father Erik used to celebrate Mass beautifully, then at the end ( after the knock on the chair) we regularly had the pleasure of hearing Father Erik sing Terce. He made a wonderful job of changing the monastery from being a farm to a brewery, and has probably saved its future. He also introduced a spirituality, musicality and intellectual input which permeated every corner of the monastery, and touched everyone. I am sure a lot of us are praying that God brings him back to us.

  • @polemeros
    @polemeros 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gotta say, those little shirt collar things that some of these guys wear are off-putting. Looks like a funny costume rather than the habit of a monk.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @polemeros, Lol, some monks might agree with you! But at the end of the day, a monk who is too concerned about the aesthetics of his clothing probably has bigger problems. The collar is an evolution that took place a couple hundred years ago in Hungary and Austria, and in some monasteries it has already evolved away. In my own monastery, there is some affection for it still, since it is the very habit that members of our congregation were prohibited from wearing under Communism. It might not be the most elegant or "monastic" looking piece of clothing, but at least for now we wear it with pride (especially the older members who lived under Communism in Hungary). But at the end of the day, whether the collar goes or stays, cucullus non facit monachum! God bless! - FJ

  • @danielblake8956
    @danielblake8956 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another snippet of the pie chart in conversation; of the infinite thought of Earth Mankind on to Heaven . Let's not forget about all other things in Earth & Heaven; i.e Ecology et-c. The interactions of Mankind wouldn't be on Earth, if Earth was only bare rock salt water & air. It takes more to make us exist the way we are; weather good or bad. Some things we don't really need are really destroying this World, slowly but surely 🤔. Thankyou for your time again Erik🙂 .

  • @brandic1630
    @brandic1630 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hallelujah!! ❤❤❤ Let us walk on those waters lord in Jesus name.

  • @minui8758
    @minui8758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is backed up by an experience in prayer I had of Eucharistic grace pouring off the altar and through me while mass one morning. PS “letting God have his way with us” is an interesting choice of words from a UK viewers perspective and can either prompt deep reflection on God the ravishing lover of the soul or start a fit of school girl like giggles - thought you should know if you intend to use the phrase regularly

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @minui8758, Yeah, I think you're right. It is a phrase that can be misunderstood. My hope is that it leads people to become more alert to the way God relates to us. Scripture and the saints often have provocative ways of putting things. Sometimes, I think we're too afraid of being misunderstood or challenged, and so we resort to very abstract, common or "safe" ways of saying things -- ways that are less meaningful to people and therefore less likely to be censured. I'm sure I'll make plenty of mistakes, but hopefully generous viewers and readers will catch what I'm trying to say! God bless! - FJ

    • @minui8758
      @minui8758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fr.johnbayer1905 of course Scripture tells us our land shall be called married, there’s the whole church as bride of Christ and Christ as bridegroom imagery, and then there’s the Song of Songs. It comes a lot closer to an accurate description of my more fruitful periods of mental prayer than other metaphors have

  • @bayreuth79
    @bayreuth79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It seems to me that the etymology of the term “sin” presupposes sin as a form of ignorance. We aim at the good but miss. St Thomas Aquinas said that the will is always orientated towards the good, that it’s impossible to will evil qua evil. This implies that sin is in the final analysis a form of ignorance.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @bayreuth79 I think that's right, especially if we are considering the origin of the word in Greek philosophy. But with Scripture I think we should also recognize a relational character to sin: sin is now disobedience. If I "miss the mark" in archery, I shouldn't feel guilty. After all, it's not like I'm trying to miss the mark -- I'm just a poor archer. But if I "sin" in Scripture I've offended someone to whom I owe my love and obedience. To miss the mark here is to turn away from a friend. So, I think there is a development in the idea beyond what the Greeks considered. Nevertheless, the Biblical idea certainly still contains a similar insight as the Greek: to sin is to disobey God, and at the same to miss the mark on what will make us truly happy, what will make us most excellent, what is the "bullseye" on our humanity.

    • @bayreuth79
      @bayreuth79 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fr.johnbayer1905 Yes; there is a relational dimension to sin but I would argue that ignorance is always antecedent to the disobedience and the offending of God you mentioned. What is disobedience other than a form of ignorance? It is irrational and the apex of foolishness to disobey God (since he is the fount of all truth, goodness and beauty) and yet we disobey him all the time. Why? I suspect it can only be (in the final analysis) because of ignorance. "The truth shall set you free".

  • @minui8758
    @minui8758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Bible

  • @LeonMoka-nm6py
    @LeonMoka-nm6py 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    why indeed

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, what did you think about the short video? Did you catch the reason stated there for Catholic faith in the Eucharist? Simply put, it is faith in the words of Jesus. I hope that helps you understand why a Catholic (who wants always to take seriously the words of Jesus) believes in the Eucharist. If you want a more elaborate answer, try these pages from Catholic Answers: www.catholic.com/tract/eucharist and www.catholic.com/tract/christ-in-the-eucharist. God bless, -FJ

  • @michaelbernard760
    @michaelbernard760 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many great points. Well done! 🙏🏻

  • @OwenSebastian-o9k
    @OwenSebastian-o9k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊😊😊

  • @bayreuth79
    @bayreuth79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To 'sin' is to 'miss the mark', as Bishop Erik Varden said. It seems to me that what we miss (when we miss the mark) is the good. But to say that we _miss_ the mark surely implies that we were _aiming_ at the mark (i.e., at the good). I think that this points to the fact that (as St Thomas Aquinas says) our wills are _always_ orientated towards the good. We cannot will evil qua evil, only under the aspect of the good.

  • @Alanmad2
    @Alanmad2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found this conversation extremely helpful and a down to earth approach to dealing with the reality of our fundamental nature as human beings. Is it possible to get a transcript of this conversation. I would like to share it with some persons who have access only to the written word.

  • @brendasilk1159
    @brendasilk1159 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thànk you for the shattering of lonliness,how true we are products of our childhood.

  • @FenrirStrange
    @FenrirStrange 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If as a person you must solve all your own problems regardless of how difficult or easy they may be, then drop to you knees in reverence of some fantasy idea that can't be seen, measured, or recorded, expecting to give up what you worked for, what brings you joy and pleasure, and your limited time on this world just for the 'promise' of a a good afterlife which also can not be proven beyond a shadow of a doubt is in and of itself madness. If you need the threat of punishment to be a good person you are infact not a good person.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @FenrirStrange, well that wasn't exactly what I was suggesting. :-) To judge by your comments, you might enjoy this video by Bishop Barron. It's about why he liked to read Christopher Hitchens, who used to make similar claims as you did in your comments. Give it a shot, as it's less than 10 minutes. th-cam.com/video/vW8yBnpN48w/w-d-xo.html

  • @SykesThompson
    @SykesThompson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im happy someone said it 💜

  • @patriciaowens3479
    @patriciaowens3479 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks 😊

  • @kimberlyzeeman7473
    @kimberlyzeeman7473 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many thanks Fr. Bayer for this incredibly insightful conversation with Bishop Varden. I was especially inspired by his words “monks have the responsibility to live upright, truthful, whole, and holy lives”. Can you imagine the society we could create if all individuals lived in this manner as well? It is precisely that monks spend much of their time in study, prayer, and contemplation, this gives them powerful insights into the human condition and the ability to interact intelligently and intentionally with others. Our Lord Jesus spent much time retreating in to solitude to be with His Father in prayer and this is how His humanity was able to grasp and understand the brokenness of our souls - the very souls He came to save. I very much look forward to reading Bishop Varden’s books. The diocese of Trondheim is fortunate to have his leadership. I look forward each Monday for the latest edition of Coram Fratribus to arrive in my email inbox! God bless you both. Many thanks to all monastic men and women who pray continually for our broken but beautiful world.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kimberlyzeeman7473 Well said! Thank you for your kind words. Please pray for all monks and nuns: may we fulfill our vocations and indeed live "upright, truthful, whole, and holy lives" for the good of everyone in the Church and in the world.

    • @kimberlyzeeman7473
      @kimberlyzeeman7473 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Please be assured of my prayers for you and your community. I spent a year of discernment with Benedictine Sisters and instead the Lord Jesus called me to Himself and I was Consecrated as a Virgin Living in the World four years ago tomorrow (on the Memorial of the Queenship of Mary.) But I carry the monastic tradition close to my heart and cannot imagine a day without the Divine Office and Lectio. I found the website of Our Lady of Dallas and took note of your gentlemen in formation. I will include them in my daily prayers and will pray for more holy vocations to your monastery. God bless you and keep you!

  • @naisah8605
    @naisah8605 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We can’t do on our own when we are about to be killed when we are asked to to deny our God or beliefs. Just God can give us the courage needed at that moment. And Father Franz did it. Father Kolbe did it. Daniel did it. And many more died for their beliefs, for God. Amen and amem. Thank you for this video.

  • @DavidFlockhart
    @DavidFlockhart 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Totally irrelevant in this day and age.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @DavidFlockhart, regardless of the "day and age," I suspect the relevance of the discussion will depend on the person. If I weren't on a journey, I'd find a compass irrelevant. Hopefully, the wisdom expressed by Bishop Varden can orient at least some of those trying to find their way to God! If it doesn't help you, then I hope you find what will! God bless!

    • @minui8758
      @minui8758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can agree at some level. It has nothing to say to consumerism and cheap superficial distractions except stop. However that’s more an indictment of this “evil and adulterous generation” than it is of the subjects addressed in the video

    • @PInk77W1
      @PInk77W1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Protestants have no doctrines Protestants have no unity Protestants have no history Protestants have no power Protestants have no authority Protestants have no sacraments

  • @francisphillips6991
    @francisphillips6991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found Bishop Varden's remark in his book on Chastity - referred to again in this interview - that 'Chastity is freedom from possessiveness in every sphere of one's life. Only when love is chaste, is it truly love', extraordinarily illuminating. We Catholics are generally brought up to think of chastity as 'Thou shalt not', i.e. a negative thing. And that it only applies to specific sexual behaviour. Bishop Varden shows how much wider and deeper this theological concept is. Indeed, it reminds us that the primary sin is 'possessiveness': 'I want to keep for myself' whatever it is: my intact ego, my material possessions, my relationships' and so on. But true love is freedom, release from this kind of deadly 'ownership' - and it applies to married love and to friendship as to everything else. One might say that chastity is coming to know the beauty of another person's soul. Being all too human a lot of the time, we struggle with this detachment from possessiveness. Even using the word 'detachment' makes it sound negative. I recall my late parish priest arguing that we should replace 'detachment' - which he saw as a cold word - with 'non-attachment'; that is, we are powerfully attached to a person or a thing, yet have to learn to see this attachment in the light of our greater 'attachment' - to Christ. It is only attachment to Christ that will put all our other attachments in the right perspective and thus to celebrate them with chaste love. As Bishop Varden points out somewhere else in this interview, to separate human desires from our spiritual selves leads to a false and unhealthy dualism, to an unnatural 'sublimation'. I think this word comes from Freud? He understood very little about human nature!

  • @tonyhamill8126
    @tonyhamill8126 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This conversation is wonderful. God bless you both

  • @nigelhard1519
    @nigelhard1519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would be interested to have your view as a monk, Friar Bayer, on Pasolini's film on Saint Matthew. How do you react to it? No strict link to the discussion here except perhaps to the 'dangerous' territory of the 'aesthetic' and the 'ascetic'? One closer link, on second thoughts, is that in that film Pasolini does perhaps capture Bishop Varden's notion of Christ 'actually seeing' people?

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @nigelhard1519, I've only seen the first half of Pasolini's film and so don't think I am able to take a definitive position. But from what I remember I thought his presentation of Jesus was a bit one-dimensional. The portrayal of Jesus seemed designed to overawe the disciples, like Zeus with lightning bolts (so to speak), rather than draw them into a transcendent relationship (e.g., I remember him shouting most of the time, even during moments that should have been calm or tender, at least in my imagination of the Gospel). But that's just a quick impression based on what I remember. Others have different (and probably more informed) opinions, I'm sure!

    • @nigelhard1519
      @nigelhard1519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fr.johnbayer1905 Yes, I suppose you have a point. But I have always found the film moving in a non-sentimental way. I wish your community all the best. For the moment, my personal problem (if it is a problem) is that I can appreciate religious discussions from the outside, that is I find them facscinating and I can recognise the value of 'good' people and the monastic life (very well explained by Bishop Varden in the discussion). But I remain cold hearted and distanced in a way. I suppose that is a classic lack of faith? I suspect you may have something to say on that! Many thanks for your time.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @nigelhard1519, If I follow you correctly, then I wouldn't necessarily jump to the conclusion that you are experiencing a lack of faith. The absence of emotion is not the same thing as the absence of faith; an act of faith is an act of the will; it is an act of the will to assent to the object of the intellect. We may or may not feel very much when we recognize or affirm the truth of the faith. However, I think that when we are fully purified and conformed to Christ, we will indeed feel the truth of the faith; that is, we will respond "integrally" or with the "wholeness" of our humanity (which includes our emotions). But in this pilgrim life, so much is obscured from our vision. But we can work for a more integral understanding of the faith. If we want a deeper or more integral apprehension of the truth of faith, we can cultivate what John Henry Newman called a "real apprehension" and seek to encounter the faith in a more concrete and living way -- through works of mercy, art, life, liturgy, etc. If our experience of faith is only "notional" then it will feel a bit like math: we might be convinced, but not terribly moved. But if our faith is rooted in a "real" apprehension, then it will make an impression upon our imagination and affectivity, and that could issue in a rich emotional life. I hope that helps! I have a few videos about Newman on this channel, if you're interested for more.

    • @nigelhard1519
      @nigelhard1519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@fr.johnbayer1905 Magnificent answer. Thank you. I'll look at what you say about Newman. Years ago I read a few pages of his Idea of a University (I think), maybe something else, and was most impressed.

  • @nigelhard1519
    @nigelhard1519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting (if that is the right word) to see that infighting in the comments commences almost instantly. Varden strikes me as very human, inspiring and interesting.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @nigelhard1519, I'm glad you enjoyed Bishop Varden! He strikes me the same way: human, inspiring and interesting. As for the comments section, I'm hoping what's happening is less "infighting" and more sincere engagement in a spirit of charity (which can at times be challenging). For my part, that is the goal! We must labor for love!

  • @frederickanderson1860
    @frederickanderson1860 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Monks no nothing about human nature. Jesus never became a solitary monk studying the tanakh in secluded silence.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @frederickanderson1860, Well, whether we do or don't know anything about human nature, I suppose each will have to judge for himself! But you might like to know that Jesus did indeed regularly retreat into solitude and silence (cf. Luke 5:16). For what it's worth, many have experienced the power of solitude to reveal the human heart. Of course, those who know the human heart will know that we are meant for communion -- and thus an individualist isolationism would not be right to cultivate (but that's not the same thing as solitude and silence, I think). In that regard, you might like what Bishop Varden says about monks engaging with the world (check out the section toward the end titled "Engaging the World"). God bless!

    • @frederickanderson1860
      @frederickanderson1860 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fr.johnbayer1905 in all religions you have similar the monks solitude and no part in the worldly temptations, the mystics whose total subjective isolation gave them some strange visions. Those who renounce the flesh and women ,this is not confined to just Christianity. John the baptist was liken to Elijah,but he was prophesied in scripture for his mission.the disciples had to wait 40 days l believe for the promised holy spirit on Pentecost,they became bold and open regards Jesus who was crucified had risen,if as Paul says he has not risen then it's all in vain!!!. Preach christ risen is the message not gained by silence or solitude.

    • @nigelhard1519
      @nigelhard1519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@frederickanderson1860 It seems to me that these monks do not remain in silence or solitude but engage with the world: see the last few minutes of the discussion.

    • @frederickanderson1860
      @frederickanderson1860 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nigelhard1519 l doubt they can communicate to people outside of their own perception of the world. Birds of a feather flock together.

    • @francisphillips6991
      @francisphillips6991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@frederickanderson1860 I think they can communicate to anyone of goodwill, lay or otherwise. The key is 'good will'.

  • @dylanfluet8205
    @dylanfluet8205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this Father. Do you have recommendations on books about monastic spirituality? I have taken to praying all 8 canonical hours of the traditional Benedictine office and am still interested in more on Benedictine/cistercian spirituality. Books that expound on the Holy Rule would be very helpful as well.

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @dylanfluet8205, I would recommend Louis Bouyer, "The Meaning of the Monastic Life" and Columba Marmion, "Christ the Ideal of the Monk". Those are two books by very reliable authors!

    • @minui8758
      @minui8758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One of the best I ever read was Casey’s ‘Strangers to the City’

  • @Neil-yx3rc
    @Neil-yx3rc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Erik Varden you are inspirational. Immense thanks for your availability,accessibility. Giving of your gifts and time in the spoken and written word to spread The Word. The gifts of the Holy Spirit abide in you and show abundantly,drawing others to the Light. Reaching me in New Zealand. We have a word in my country New Zealand that id like for you to hear..Taonga… You are a Taonga.

  • @gerardmcgorian7070
    @gerardmcgorian7070 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've only just found your channel, and thank God for it. What a wonderful, thoughtful, considered, and intelligent alternative to the inanities of many "Catholic" youtubers. Compared to the kindergartens all over this place, we finally have a graduate school for thinking Catholics. One great interview. Keep it up, Father Bayer!

  • @TheSaintemplar64
    @TheSaintemplar64 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I gave this interview another go. And I will listen again. Erik Varden is uplifting to hear. For example sublimation to duplicity and a better way of honesty and dealing with these things. Thanks

  • @josephjude1290
    @josephjude1290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting talk

  • @matthewsummers6939
    @matthewsummers6939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this interview! Insight after insight. I expect to relisten multiple times!

  • @Raggo12345
    @Raggo12345 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is brilliant! Thanks to both! So much to ponder over.

  • @1900trent
    @1900trent 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found this a very very difficult interview to watch. To me it was highly academic and distant, that focused on language rather than the person of Jesus Christ who must be the centre of all our prayer and life. I asked myself is this how the apostles would have spoken to Jesus when they were with him? I think not. I cannot imagine Jesus even speaking in such an academic language. Sadly, this interview did not hit the spot. It was like crawling through mud. Yet here was a bishop of a diocese, a monk who has had a meteoric rise to become a boshop and the interviewer wanted to focus on topics that failed to hit the mark. It was like an archer who’s arrows fail to score. This is a bishop who has so much to give through his life and writings but it did not come through in the video. It could have been far far better.

    • @TheSaintemplar64
      @TheSaintemplar64 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. This stuff has no resonance for me. Let us look honestly at the world. Changing demographics, cost of living. My heart finds rest in reading scripture, there is God seeking us out. Loving us

    • @fr.johnbayer1905
      @fr.johnbayer1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @1900trent I'm sorry you didn't enjoy the interview! It's true, these words cannot replace personal conversation with Christ. And you are right, Jesus must be the center of all our prayer and life. Still, I hope many people will profit from the video as an effort simply to discuss monastic theology and life. I know that many people are longing for intellectually stimulating discussions of the faith. Hopefully, this video can help to satisfy that longing in those who experience it. God bless!

    • @lorleetee1887
      @lorleetee1887 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thoroughly enjoyed this. Fantastic! Delightful to listen to thought provoking dialogue that addresses the most important thing in all our lives. So grateful for intellects like these 2 who have studied for years and can take my faith walk to a deeper place. 🙏 God bless you both!

    • @enidmorrison6103
      @enidmorrison6103 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It seems to me the whole conversation was infused with Christ beginning to end.​@@fr.johnbayer1905

    • @nigelhard1519
      @nigelhard1519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But there is nothing academic or distant, for example, about the reference to the man with the scars on his back....(25 minutes in).

  • @allhatnocattle
    @allhatnocattle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Almighty God, unto whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from whom no secrets are hid, cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of your Holy Spirit, that we may more perfectly love you and worthily magnify your holy name. This prayer is an immense help. Along with the suggestions of Bishop Varden , it can aid the mind and heart in torment.

    • @minui8758
      @minui8758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sarum collect for purity

  • @naisah8605
    @naisah8605 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We must share this to the whole world.

  • @Jomarina11
    @Jomarina11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what is the truth here?

  • @catherinebayer4871
    @catherinebayer4871 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fr. John. Terrific presentation. Loved the Memory Palace. Amazing how you tied it all together. Loved how clearly you showed us our true relationship with God.