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I prefer one take videos.

You so right, friends and family, for me, has been a drain on me emotionally and financially.

I love your positivity and mindset. Thank you for your videos ❤

I have zip as family and I spend the holidays alone. I have a few friends. I get lonely at times but I enjoy being a loner.

your current landlord will probably hold you to the lease. maybe you could get a kick scooter for your trunk and park further away and scooter to and from your car? i like one take videos. that is what true crime loser does too. best to give notice on july 31, but maybe you could ask your landlord if, in the past, he has found a new tenant before the end of a lease as you were just curious.

What country do you live in? I think you should try to find a studio somewhere. Living with a stranger especially a landlord is not an ideal situation. If you have until August this gives you time to search for a better place where you can live and hopefully find happiness and peace. I wish you luck on your journey ❤

I believe friends are important when we are young. That's how we discover who we are, in a way. When we get older our groups get smaller. We discover who is really important and share our values. I'm the sole survivor of my family and and I'm very happy with 3 close friends. And

I think one-take or videos with cuts are both great. the version with cuts don’t seem less authentic honestly. And congrats on your successes so far on this new adventure :)

I hope the absolute best resolve for you, Martin 😊. Although your landlord now seems a bit overbearing , you will find a place and landlord that allows you to chill and be in peace. I dont know you personally but what is obvious in your traits is your willingness to embrace change and grow through situations that would have most of us stumped. We enjoy watching your self improvement journey so thanks for sharing with us. Your resilience is definitely a great trait to have while weathering these storms. ❤❤

Great video bro! Keep us updated

Parking is always tough, you are still new at the house so maybe these are just adjustments. For your videos, I like the length of the previous videos. And yes with this you seem more cohesive but the over all presentation is not clearer. I don’t find your other videos to be robotic. At least not in a negative way. You speak very very clearly and I prefer that. But I’ll watch regardless.

I totally understand the struggle of findimg out problems once you move to a new place. I wish you success.

I would avoid bringing up the chores or the unusual cleaning requirements - blame it completely on the parking so it's not personal. You don't owe him any detailed explanation. Find a new place first and then tell him you need to move. You will have just a few minutes or so of an uncomfortable conversation and it will be worth it to move somewhere more convenient and where you will feel more at ease. I hope you find something suitable soon!

1 take video was good. You are becoming more confident. Thank you for sharing, with us.

I agree with the advice from another commenter who says to look for another place now and give notice at the end of July. The parking situation is most important so your next place should have a much easier parking situation. In addition to looking online for a rental place, drive to a neighborhood which you think has rental rates that you can afford-you might get some advice from the people you have just met. Plus during your deliveries, take a look at the neighborhood you are in and if the opportunity arises, ask the customer if he knows of someone in the area that has a rental available. A month or two goes by fast so don’t fret too much. I suppose in a situation where you are renting a room in a house and the landlord lives with you, you are going to be expected to pitch in for cleaning and maintaining the facilities you use- shower, kitchen, laundry facilities. Just ask the next landlord what are the expectations…maybe they expect you to mow the lawn, shovel the snow/ice, too…take out the garbage,etc… Also, do you know about Nextdoor? I hav3 seen many postings by people looking for or offering rental accomodations.

Leave ASAP! Don’t stay just to put up with someone else’s unreasonable and wrongful “favor” requests in order to avoid further discomfort and having that dreaded conversation about how dysfunctional things are there. What keeps you “safe” and insulated from further discomfort can ultimately keep your world very small and then breeds resentment within you because you have now become unjustly boxed in by someone’s uncivil and ridiculous behavior. Minimize the stress in your life now just as you have minimized the physical items in your life as you have done before. I understand this is uncomfortable but remember that every challenge is a possible opportunity to learn something or gain a new skill. This could be a skill building chance for you. This is a huge part of gaining wisdom in the world as you grow and age. How well can you navigate something fundamentally uncomfortable (that conversation you will have to have to establish your boundaries in order remain there and keep your sanity the last two months or the equally uncomfortable conversation saying your boundaries have been crossed and now you must leave early). Also technically you wouldn’t have to do a darn thing that isn’t in the contract. Just see how long this landlord wants you to stay if you elect not to be a nice and courteous person to his outsized demands and likely this breach of contract going on here. I think he wouldn’t even want you to stay past a few more days if you didn’t bother to adhere to his “favors” !!! If doing “chores” for your landlord is not in the contract, don’t do them. I’ve had many landlords, doing things like “chores” or him enforcing clean up habits on you are not normal. If you leave now the landlord isn’t going to do anything. No landlord will pay $10K to go to court to sue you for the $400 bucks or whatever your rent for the next 2 months is. Just tell the landlord the truth - the parking situation is a big unanticipated inconvenience for you and doing chores or him telling you how to shower is not in the contract and you plan to leave as soon as you find a new place, if that’s 1 week or 1 month from now. Leave as soon as you can, the stress of living with this overly involved landlord is not worth it. So sorry to hear this living situation isn’t working out. If you have the money maybe paying him for the 3 months and leaving ASAP is the best option.

One-take video uploads are fine. However, I think it also depends on the content. For instructional videos, informative, and educational content, video editing is more important.

My suggestion: Hold off until July 31st to inform your landlord that you will be moving. The landlord already knows that you will not be living there beyond the three month lease agreement. But telling him or her now would only cause more tension. So, start searching for a new place to live, take notes, but wait on making calls until July 31st. You are likely to have several good prospects still available if you have been collecting data for six weeks. Once you find a place that you like, inform the new landlord that you can move-in on August 31st or September 1st, at the time that your current lease expires. If for some reason, you do not find a new place to live, ask your current landlord if he or she would be willing to offer you a 30 day tenancy until you find a new place. This is, of course, if they do not already have a new tenant lined up. Again, start your search now, collect data, and don't give notice to your current landlord until July 31st. All the Best to You.

In my heart i know i love to be alone. Being an indian i can tell you its the hardest thing to ask. People are socializing all the time around me, pulling you in. Its hard to find the time to be alone, like you mentioned abt your friend. My Whole life probably will be gone before I find this opportunity. I think the worst thing is to get married- its just endless after that.

listen the smallest circle of frends u have the less BS u gotta deal with. love yourself. youre welcome

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Great video. I’m just now seeing your channel. Wise young man.

People are too toxic for me. I get lonely but I’m not desperate & I’m not a follower.

There are so many advantages to being alone and not relying on others. In my experience, many people will let you down, many will show they are not trustworthy and relying on others is a mistake. It's a sad reality but on the other hand, if you put the focus on yourself and your life you can find true happiness. Happiness cannot be found from others but you can enjoy others company much more when you find self happiness. Great video Martin!

Meeting new poeple 👏🏽 We’re not worried. We trust that you got this 💪🏽 @3:18 - “If these problems are my reality, i might as well see them as opportunities” ✨

I have my bf and a few ppl I keep in contact with here and there. Used to get me down… now I’m used to it. At least I don’t have to guess where I stand or be constantly let down by the ppl I still have connection to. Most ppl say one thing and don’t follow through or keep up consistently when you’re not obligated to be around one another (ie: school, work etc.)

Peace of mind is more important than friends or family.

Stellar mindset my man! “My reality, my responsibility” is a good mindset

Yes, move when you want to , then solve the remaining problems. Then you will be good at solving problems.

Am still living in a rural area. I want to be able to go to meetings in the city but live in the rural area. I understand that transition.

My mum always said "You Have To Learn To Like Your Own Company"....She's gone now..... She was Right...

No growth in the “Comfort Zone”.

Gems at 2:44. I moved two times within six months. Of course,it was unexpected but I rolled with it. Turns out that each move was a better situation for me. Don't be so rigid in life that you resist change.

Jesus is your friend , forever, talk to him.

Thank you Martin for sharing this, appreciate it lots

Im isolated and its killing me. Its doing it a little slower than I'd like. It takes a lot of inner strength and stability to be content alone, i wish i was.

Awesome channel and your so freaking hot 🔥 sorry i must tell the truth

Liked just from the title

I am 60 and during cancer treatments I couldn’t sleep..figured out the best way for me is on a thin underlaying with an even thinner blanket and a towel or something under my head.I can’t imagine to sleep otherwise..even travel with the stuff to avoid beds..I am by no means a minimalist or a thoughtful,trendy person,this was born out of pure survival mode. I learned to watch my body and listen to the body to keep the weak thing in balance..if couvade young and strong mistakes are forgiven,not when you are old and ill.. But the other video?! No friends..????oh no👯

The same here.

NICE VIDEO BRO. KEEP UP THE GOOD 👍🏻 POSITIVE MESSAGE.

I love sleeping on the floor.

I’m glad I don’t have any friends anymore. I’m winning .

Its so real that the older you get, the harder it is to build friendship. Treasure the ones you made in your younger years, for those are the ones who know the real you and accepts you as you are.

Life for most has gotten expensive. Social media and TH-cam we look at as "free" entertainment and an easy dopamine fix. Not a good long term habit. ..........Was so much better when I had a partner and wild sex as a hobby :)

I started isolating myself when I was 24 because I realized how fake and toxic people can be. I grew up having no friends and never had a relationship before. I love isolation because it protects my inner peace and preserves my sanity.

Never just to say hi. How ya doin. It's hey , can you ............

I have no friends either . Except for my cat 🐈 ❤

can all the people with no friends come together and become friends...

So inspiring. Thx for your encouragement. Keep up the good work!