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Ahhhh thank you - I’ve gone even blonder since 😮

It’s all part of life’s experiences - makes for a good story and glad everyone was safe ultimately 🙏 I know I think I might be an all inclusive convert 🥳🥂

I think these situations are what you make of them (and the ADHD kinda loved the drama of it all 😅). But if you’re going to be stranded anywhere, paradise is the place to be. Just wish we weren’t in the airport as long haha. And oh gosh that must be SO difficult. I used to work in hospitality so had a lot of training around Celiac and it must be so stressful avoiding any potential food dangers. The food was wonderfully presented and to be fair, tasted completely grand. So much choice! I’m just a textures fiend so I can find it tough 🙃

@@bhurll dropped in a forgotten spot in the Caribbean

@@Builder_T 🌴🌴🌴

@@demiaspeywriter the biggest struggles in life that I have, and still am overcoming, is that I am a hard worker, dedicated to doing the best I can at everything I do. So when I'm not at accomplishing like I want, it can be a huge disappointment. I have and still do struggle to hold onto personal relationships because of my utilitarian attitude. For instance when I date, I look for a woman that is smart, my downfall is that I also look for one that wants to enjoy my hobbies also, if building airplanes to sell. I know it's wrong, and I struggle with it with every woman I meet. Maybe I have too high of standards that's why I'm single. Maybe you can do a show about the struggles with separating bus and personal life. To enjoy life. I sure would love to hear your take on this because you sound like you've figured it out. Mrs. Awesome PhD. 👌

I know you hit on the money aspect but what about work/time to relationship balances. And by the way, your not at all chaotic, quite the opposite, extremely interesting😊

@@Builder_T , you know your experience sounds similar to that of the main character in a book I just finished. It's called The Rosie Project. I think you will enjoy it. It's about a very successful man who has undiagnosed autism (not suggesting you do. I do, and my psychiatrist recommended it to me.) But I think it is a very relatable story that might be helpful for many people. It's uplighting but also deep regarding human relationships and how we create our identities. Will definitely add what you've suggested to my list for future video topics :) thank you!

@@Builder_T 10000% - adding to the list. I also wrote a Substack article on something similar after watching Severance last weekend: demiaspeywriter.substack.com/p/would-you-sever-your-home-from-your

@@Builder_T ah I was a shell of a person to be honest, but you find your truest self through those times! Much love for your kindness 💛

@@demiaspeywriter I can tell by listening to you, that you are a very special person who has a big impact on everyone who come in contact with you.💯❤️

@@Builder_T appreciate you!

If I every get a chance to see you at a meet and greet speaking conference, it would be my greatest day to buy you dinner and have an intelligent, interactive conversation with you. Just a small pond stopping it😊

Thank you! 😃

My way of making the more difficult times worthwhile 💛✨

I'm so happy that you've realized that your worth is priceless😊

I hope you never, ever use avoidance again, 😊

Challenge accepted 🫡

@@electriquenikki always fill your life with as much pizzazz as possible 👏👏

@@electriquenikki ahhh thank you queen 💛💃🏻✨

So glad it was helpful 💛

@@nehajadeja1134 thank you lovely 😻

@@Builder_T awww I really appreciate it - I’m glad I can help in some way 💛

@demiaspeywriter watching and listening to an intelligent beautifully bright person warms my heart. As a person dealing with logistical challenges 6 days a week, then listening to you positivity, shows me how amazing a woman 🤗🤎💯

@@Builder_T ahhh I really needed this - thank you so much for being so wonderful!

You’re the best!

@@demiaspeywriter no I believe you are not only the best, but you have so much to offer the world, that You should never hold back. That would be our loss. True angel.

Thank you so much 🤗

@@Builder_T ahhh I appreciate you so much, thank you 💛

@@demiaspeywriter your energy IS something I wish more people had.

@@kittyfitty473 this is such a wonderful comment to receive - I appreciate your kind words so much 💛

Words cannot describe how much love I have for this comment - THANK YOU! This is a whole video/series of wisdom in itself, and I adore your points of view and references from experience. I hope you'll stick around a while - I'd love to learn more from you 🩷

@@GoodVideos-ry5ie you think men are that important? Especially men who have these kind of views. I feel incredibly sad for you 🫤

@@demiaspeywriter The message was actually delivered with compassion. I feel for you. You are now facing 50 years of box wine and cats. Each year you can add another tattoo on your body for that douche who promised you everything just to find out he was only looking for fun for the night. Miaw.

@ nothing about your message was compassionate. But you do you. I’ve got some wine and cats to tend to 🍷🐈‍⬛

@@demiaspeywriter I recommend therapy. It takes a professional to remove the damage left by the 50 men women around 30 on average have been with.

@ I’m in therapy. May I suggest you try therapy?

Hello my lovely - sorry for such a slow response, you know how it be 🫠 yes, I have shared my story previously but I didn’t do it to the standard I’d like, so perhaps I will refilm it this month if it would be useful 💛 How have you found the journey post diagnosis so far?

@@demiaspeywriter Oh it would be lovely if you'd refilm your diagnosis story! 🌸 I browsed your videos but probably overlooked it. Diagnoses really helped me. I don't know how to better describe it than that all the gears fell to their places finally and life makes sense now. I turned my life around and I am aiming for much better future now 😊

@ I took it down sadly! But consider it done - will upload in the next week or two 🙏💛

Yaaaaay so awesome to hear it - wishing you all the luck in the world <3

No. No, you cannot. Unless you've managed to buy yourself a Delorean with time-traveling ability. Either way, pretty gnarly interpretation, my friend.

She doesn’t care

@jokerpilled2535 you will be lonely and miserable for the rest of your life. That's something no one actually, cares about. Speak for yourself, and not for others who are not already forsaken.

@GrandFyre Keep going with your projects and creating more of what the world needs! I appreciate your kind words so much 💛 thank you for stopping by.

@@LightYagami-rz6su I love listening to women cry on the internet after they rejected all the good men when they were hot 😂

@jokerpilled2535 lol yup! Its all because they been lied to thinking thay they can have it all! XD

@@justaprogrammer3764 maybe you should have watched the video 🫰

lmao!

@@demiaspeywriter im sorry but youll know one day that age is a major factor.

@ ok 👍

Yeah I agree. But pass 27 women are about to hit the wall especially if you want a family. If a women is in her late 20's unmarried their is a reason why. Shes a 304! Plus if you want multiple children, her clock is ticking hard pass 27!

@@LightYagami-rz6su oh man you really are in the wrong corner of the internet with this take 🙃

@@LightYagami-rz6sufacts 😄

​@@LightYagami-rz6suand the reason is she could not want to get married. Did it ever occur to you that not every woman wants a husband (basically a big child) and kids?

@@jokerpilled2535 baby doll, who hurt you?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on these areas! Perhaps I can do a deeper dive in a future video 😊

@@JasonAtlas it is spooky season 💀👻🎃

It depends on the age of consent

@ 1000/10 - consent always depends no matter the age

@@demiaspeywriter what if a 16 yr old consents to a 36 yr old?

@@jokerpilled2535 are you asking for your own agenda or? This video has nothing to do with what you're talking about, but we can go on this wild tangent if you really feel it's an appropriate use of your time? 🙃

@@azmike3572 this is legit the coolest thing ever! 😍

@@demiaspeywriter But no groupies to meet! 😟

@@demiaspeywriter I'm 56 introverted, never married, no kids, average looking, 20 years of being single. Smartphones have destroyed dating. Dating is dead. Women don't look or smile anymore. All on their stupid cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. 80% of the women are trash. I've given up on women.

Yessss! Love this for you!

@@dwdwone spent my whole 20s thinking otherwise and I think it’s important we stop putting so much pressure on ourselves 🙏 is there anything you’d add? ☺️

​@@demiaspeywriterYes. Do you write for yourself or others or both?

@@dwdwone I do both! I got my PhD in screenwriting earlier this year but I work full time as a copywriter & own a creative agency 😊

@@demiaspeywriter I mean metaphorically. For example, my writing will likely have no commercial appeal, yet I continue doing it because, well, that is what writers do. It's a compulsion. Tying in to your original theme, should you write stuff that you are pretty sure few will read? The positive is that you can write what you want, the way you want, as offensive and unpopular as you want, because the only one you need to please is yourself. I think Kafka mentioned a similar dilemma!

super happy you found it useful <3

@@najatitati7177 aww this is so lovely to hear, I hope you’ll stop by often 💛

It always leads me back to listening to Vienna by Billy Joel on repeat! 😅 But you’re right. When the joy is gone, when you’re hating waking up or when nothing you do makes you feel fulfilled, it’s time to take a step back and reassess 💛

@@abovewater6918 yaaay - let me know if you have any you’d recommend!

Thank you so much - appreciate your kind words! :)

Ahhh appreciate you!

More coming up 🎬🎥🎉

Thank you so much for the kind words - I'm debating where to continue with this educational content style. And, of course - you can explore what we're all about here: sonderscript.com/

@@demiaspeywriter Wait, wow, that's so cool, that's damn cool! Go for it, girl! We love you!

@@Varsha.2008 you're the BEST - Thank you so much <3

Honestly it work like a treat and it is so simple - 8/10 times it works. Another life hack I’ve found helps me is a standing desk and under desk treadmill. My ADHD loves it 😅🎉

So glad you found it useful :)

Thank you! I filmed these a while ago but now my editor is back and I can leave it to the professionals 🙏 much more to come soon! Glad you found this one valuable 💛