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Taming Frenzy
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2018
Welcome to Taming Frenzy!
I'm Shelley Merchant, a 60+ retired educator, wife, mom of 3, dog grandma, biz owner, fiction author, & cancer fighter.
I encourage women 60+ to continue their personal growth & development journey, to get past their fear and mindset issues, & to embrace an exciting, productive, and meaningful third chapter of life.
I believe:
-older women are a great untapped resource
-there's a purpose to for your life
-you have something unique & special to share with the world
-you have a unique combination of skill, talent, experience, & expertise
-you have wisdom others can benefit from
-you can be or do anything that you're willing to work for
You may have spent the first 2 chapters of your life being the good girl, obedient daughter, supportive wife, loving mother, & loyal employee. But now it's your turn & your time.
Embrace new opportunities, try new things, reach new heights, make lasting contributions, & do what you've always dreamed of.
If not now, when?
I'm Shelley Merchant, a 60+ retired educator, wife, mom of 3, dog grandma, biz owner, fiction author, & cancer fighter.
I encourage women 60+ to continue their personal growth & development journey, to get past their fear and mindset issues, & to embrace an exciting, productive, and meaningful third chapter of life.
I believe:
-older women are a great untapped resource
-there's a purpose to for your life
-you have something unique & special to share with the world
-you have a unique combination of skill, talent, experience, & expertise
-you have wisdom others can benefit from
-you can be or do anything that you're willing to work for
You may have spent the first 2 chapters of your life being the good girl, obedient daughter, supportive wife, loving mother, & loyal employee. But now it's your turn & your time.
Embrace new opportunities, try new things, reach new heights, make lasting contributions, & do what you've always dreamed of.
If not now, when?
Skyrocket Your Confidence With This Simple Secret
You've probably noticed how much more self-assured you feel when you're doing something you know you're good at.
Likewise, when you feel like you're pretending or lacking in skill, your confidence plummets.
Taking steps to increase your competence pays off in terms of increased confidence and willingness to tackle new challenges.
Time Codes:
0:00 Introduction
0:35 Impact of no/low confidence
1:00 Competence is key
1:42 How to improve competence
2:18 An example
2:45 Automaticity
3:30 The steps
Learn more at tamingfrenzy.com
Likewise, when you feel like you're pretending or lacking in skill, your confidence plummets.
Taking steps to increase your competence pays off in terms of increased confidence and willingness to tackle new challenges.
Time Codes:
0:00 Introduction
0:35 Impact of no/low confidence
1:00 Competence is key
1:42 How to improve competence
2:18 An example
2:45 Automaticity
3:30 The steps
Learn more at tamingfrenzy.com
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What No One Tells You About Goals
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Don't Skip This Simple Step To Achieve Your Goals
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I love your videos! You're so confident on camera and you have such words of wisdom. I remember when I graduated highschool and wanted to go to cosmetology school, instead of college, and my dad would not stand for it. I had to go to college because that was the right thing to do, the way things were. Well, that backfired - all I did was rack up a crap ton of school loan debt, learned how to party (more than I already knew how to), and after 1 1/2 years was kicked out because I couldn't get off academic probation. (Thinking back - why did I let my dad push me into college? I was an adult - I could have made my own choice... but I was such a different person back then). I'm so surprised by the women I come across who still, in this day and age, live by the old programing of what they were taught they had to do, etc. (women are meant to be wives & mothers). I had to do a lot of work (aka counseling!) to unlearn all that old programming of what I was supposed to do as a woman! I lacked confidence for many years; when I finally started learning how to be confident... a whole new world opened up for me ;-)
Thanks, Tish! I realize that some things that become ingrained in us aren't limited solely to a particular age group. Programming is deep and hard to overcome - which is why it's so effective. Getting past it takes a lot of work!
@@TamingFrenzy Yes, it sure does take a lot of work to get past this stuff!
You gave some great tips, Shelley. I liked that you opened with a quiz (I answered yes to 2 questions so I'd say I'm pretty confident!) One of the first things I learned, many years ago, when I went into AA was that people probably weren't talking about/thinking about/judging me like I thought they were, and even if they were - what they thought of me was none of my business! 🤣
So true!! 🙏
Amen to all you say! My "how" to your "why"s is to never give up on yourself and to practice, practice, practice every day.
I agree totally! Just because we're a certain age doesn't mean we're finished growing and doing.
Loved all these reasons! #6 was a hard one for me to learn! I went through quite a bit of life seeking someone or something to make me happy - pretty empowering to finally realize whoa, it's my job to make me happy & it's not something anyone else (or anything else) can do for me!
I think the minute we realize that then there is a huge mind shift that happens...and I suspect a huge relief for the people around us.
I am a negative Nellie but it is more that I try to think of all the things that have (or can) go wrong. Working retail has had a lot of hard lessons.
I think there's a difference between looking at all possible scenarios and being someone who tries to sabotage others. Considering all options and possibilities - both the good and the bad - is actually a skill and an asset in many situations.
Enjoyed this video, Shelley. Helpful tips. I'm great at setting goals... following through and action-taking to reach them, not so much. I recently realized that the words goals and habits were a bit triggering for me and too pressure-inducing - I was constantly beating myself up for not reaching them & putting more and more pressure on myself to set new ones and then not meeting those ones. It was a vicious cycle. I just haven't figured out a better word to use yet LOL
Another great video, Shelley!
Glad you enjoyed it!
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Great review from start to finish! I'm a paper planner for at least 25 years. Thanks so much. Greetings from the Land of Enchantment - New Mexico!
Glad it was helpful! I use some digital tools, but I definitely prefer paper - and I love Planner Pad. BTW, Texas girl here so I'm kind of your neighbor.
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Thank you so much for this video❤❤❤
I'm glad you enjoyed it - thanks for watching!
Who is this old bag
I just found this planner and can't wait to try it. Thanks for the review!
I'm glad you found it helpful. After you use it a while let me know how it works out - I love mine!
I especially liked #5
I'm glad you liked it. I've had my struggles with all of these. Thanks for watching!
good ideas, thanks
@@davidvogel6359 so glad you found it helpful.
Really good video!
Thanks, David. I appreciate you watching and taking time to comment.
❤ Thanks for the advice. I really enjoyed this video!
Thanks for the kind words. I hope it was helpful.
Decision-making isbhard enough without being your own worst enemy. Some excellent points. Thank you.
Ain't that the truth! I've got lots of history being my own worst enemy but know I'm not unique there. Thanks for watchint!
Volume is too low, I can't hear what you are saying
Thanks for letting me know - I'll work on that.
So glad to see another current PlannerPad video. Very user friendly explanation!
Glad you found it helpful. I absolutely adore Planner Pad!
Terrific video as always!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love it! Such wonderful advice!
Thanks, Susan - I appreciate you stopping by!
Great tips! Thank you.
Thanks, Cathy! Glad you stopped by.
Hey friend😊 good to see you! I am going to step out of my comfort zone and work on my TH-cam Tube channel. I plan on adding my hobbies and share with others what I love to do. Cooking, cross stitching and quilting.
Awesome! I'll be anxious to see what you have to share. Take care and come back next Monday for a new video in this series.
Love being proud of moving out of your comfort zone is not arrogance!!
This one took me a while to make peace with. Old habits and upbringing is sometimes hard to shake.
Great video!
Thanks - I hope you'll come back next Monday for the next in the series.
💃 Promo-SM
Thanks - I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!
The links and handouts mentioned in the video are no longer available on the website.
Hi my name is Tish and I am addicted to planners... and pens... and notebooks 😂I've never tried this brand before. I'm trying a new one for the new year - we'll see how I like this one. So far I haven't found one that makes me uber excited, jump for joy! lol
Oh man... I went and looked up At A Glance and now I want to try their planner too!😂
@@TishiaLee I'm in serious need of a 12-step program when it comes to planners - I adore them! This company has several options but the one like shown above is my fav. Doesn't hurt that it's always a pretty cover color either!
@@TamingFrenzy We could create a club for all of us planner addicts 🤣
Thank you for this message. It was so needed (and I'm glad you sent me the link to check this out!) today. While I needed to be reminded to tame the voices I also needed to be remembered I am enough - we are all ENOUGH just as we are.
You're so correct - We definitely are enough! Time to tell those voices to sit down and shut up for good.
Thanks for the review! I love your nails, the dark index nail was eye catching to easily track where you were pointing in the planner (clever!).
Thanks for the kind words. I absolutely LOVE Planner Pad and already have mine for 2024 (yes, I actually do get started planning early). Actually, I didn't do the fingernail thing on purpose - I just love playing around with nail polish. However, since you pointed it out I think I'll be more purposeful about it - thanks for the idea!
Thank you Shelly ❤
I hope you find it helpful.
Brilliant! ❤
Do people really throw dabs out? I was raised by Depression Era Parents so nothing was every tossed or fed to animals. Thanks for sharing!
Great idea. I live alone and often had odd bits of leftover veg/meat that isn't enough for one serving. I'll try this. Thanks. It's a challenge to cook for just one after decades of cooking for a large family.
Sister you rock with this idea! Bless your heart ❤
Wish I could claim it as my own but my nana - and lots of other grandmas - used it first.
I really enjoyed this video✌💜💜💜
I'm glad. Have a great day!
Good idea for the frugal cook. We need to know these tips the way food prices are now-a-days. Thank you.
Always great to save money on groceries IMO.
I did this in early 80s.took my "trash" can to work.yum.made my wife shit crazy.w butter bread
I'm not familiar with butter bread - is it different from regular bread?
And remember …. Sometimes those veggie scraps need to be blanched before freezing.
This is a super awesome tip. Never have heard or thought it but super helpful.
Glad to hear it was helpful. Prevent food waste saves money.
i always have a scrap bag plus a bag of raw veg trimmings for soup stocks.
You make soup out of socks?..
Can we see what it looks like what is in the soup can?
I'll try to get a photo up before too long.
I learned the soup can trick when I was a kid. Good advice for today's high food prices.
We can learn a lot from our relatives who have lived through hard times.
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Some of us today are so poor there are never, ever any leftovers whatsoever 😢
That's a good point and unfortunately one that's all too true.
Will do this wounderful idea
I freeze my left over vegies fruit
With high prices it makes good sense to do so!
A can would be put in recycling bin in my house
Nowdays it's harder to find the big cans like coffee used to come in, but you get the idea. Any decent sized container will work.
This was incredibly informative and I thoroughly enjoyed it! Thank you! ❤
I'm glad it was helpful. Have a great day!