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Woman or Man Enough For Marriage?
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 8 มิ.ย. 2020
Hi my name is Wumi Ajayi and this is WoMan (Woman/Man) Enough For Marriage?, a channel dedicated to shining the light of God's word on common issues relating to marriage.
A blissful and happy marriage is desired by most couples but unfortunately this is not their experience. Marriage is a beautiful union of two individuals who love each other, but oftentimes love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy marriage. It requires more.
On this channel we will focus on looking at the many reasons why marriage partners may become unhappy, unfulfilled and unsatisfied in the relationship - and how to overcome them.
For further information or confidential counselling contact us at: womanenoughformarriage@gmail.com
A blissful and happy marriage is desired by most couples but unfortunately this is not their experience. Marriage is a beautiful union of two individuals who love each other, but oftentimes love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy marriage. It requires more.
On this channel we will focus on looking at the many reasons why marriage partners may become unhappy, unfulfilled and unsatisfied in the relationship - and how to overcome them.
For further information or confidential counselling contact us at: womanenoughformarriage@gmail.com
The Big C’ of Conflicts: Part 4 (Dealing with conflicts)
The Big C’ of Conflicts: Part 4 (Dealing with conflicts)
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The Big ‘C’ of Conflicts: Part 2
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We all have various biases that affects our judgements,actions, etc and especially our behaviour during conflicts. Becoming aware of them and taking necessary steps to mitigate against will go a long way to help us in navigating through conflicts.
The Big ‘C’ of Communication: Part 4 (The power of the tongue)
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This concluding episode of the communication series looks at the power of the tongue and the words that we speak. Proverbs 16:24 says ‘Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones’. Our words can affect the health of our soul and body positively and negatively, and of course ultimately, our relationships. Fortunately, the power to choose is in our hands. As we ...
The Big ‘C’ of Communication - Part 3 (Common errors of communication)
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Still on the all important topic of communication, I will be looking at some of the common mistakes we make in communication. Please drop a line in the comment section and let me know your thoughts. Thanks.
The Big’C’ of Communication: Part 2 (Listening & Speaking)
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Speaking and listening form important aspects of communication. Doing it right enhances the quality of our communication as a couple and the relationship as a whole. Feel free to share your thoughts on this important topic.
The Big ‘C’ of communication: Part 1 (Levels & Styles of Communication)
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Communication is the bedrock of any relationship. As married couples, we are all well aware of the importance of good and effective communication to a thriving and fulfilling relationship but this awareness is not enough, we need to actively improve our understanding and work on our communication styles and skills to actually enjoy effective communication and close friendship and intimacy with ...
Seventy-seven times: The joy of forgiveness Part 4
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Join me in the concluding part of this all important topic. Your thoughts, comments and contributions are welcome!
Seventy- seven times: The joy of forgiveness Part 3 (Special Easter Edition)
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As humans we err, this is why forgiveness is a must in all our relationships and especially in our marriages. As we celebrate Easter, remembering God’s ‘once and for all’ provision for our sins, join me as I continue on the series of forgiveness. This part explores the role that the offender has to play in the process of forgiveness, the dangers in unforgiveness and the benefits of forgiveness.
Seventy- seven times: The joy of forgiveness Part 2
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Forgiveness is truly freedom. However, it takes willingness on the part of the offender to go through the process of forgiveness to experience true healing. In marriage, as in our other relationships; offence, misunderstandings and conflicts are inevitable. It is imperative therefore that husbands and wives get better at forgiving each other in order to preserve their marriage joy and unity.
Seventy- Seven: The joy of forgiveness (Part 1)
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It’s been said that ‘to err is human but to forgive is divine’, this is why forgiving someone who wrongs us can be one of the hardest things we have to do as humans. This is especially so in a marriage relationship where the one we love, who is meant to protect us from hurt, now becomes the source of our hurt and pain. But we can not have a blissful and successful marriage without getting bette...
Wives…Part 3
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In this concluding part of charge to wives, we look at how we can be beautiful inside and out as women. Outward beauty is fleeting. The world capitalises on this and use physically attractive women as sex and advert objects. We need to be different and think differently because we are worth more! We also look at the Proverbs 31 woman to identify things that we can emulate from her.
Husbands….Part 3
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In this concluding part of charge to husbands, we look at masculinity, spiritual leadership and wooing your wife.
Wives….Part 2
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Join me as I continue to look at what the Bible says about our roles as wives and examine how we can be the best wife that God wants us to be. God bless you as you watch.
Team ‘We’ Part 3: Complementing NOT Competition
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Team ‘We’ Part 3: Complementing NOT Competition
Team ‘We’ Part 2: Partnership in Marriage
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Team ‘We’ Part 2: Partnership in Marriage
The benefits of touch: 1001 Reasons to hug and kiss your spouse
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The benefits of touch: 1001 Reasons to hug and kiss your spouse
His Light shall continually light your heart to see more of His wisdom to help our generation. God bless you ma.
Very practical and straight to the points. God bless you more ma.
Very insightful series 👏
Thank you ma’am for sharing!!
Thank you for being a blessing. This teaching is a ‘must listen’ for every married couple .
I got value listening to this cognitive biases . Thank you for sharing from your fountain, God's blessings are on you ma
@@bethelomeife1908 Amen. Thanks the 'Odogwu of Romance'😊🙏🏼
More grace Sis❤
@@ademolabukola156 Amen. Thanks Sis🙏🏼
Well done.More grace, more anointing. May the Lord make many more couples to come in contact with this ministrations and receive the Spirit and life in Jesus name. Amen.
@@TitilayoOmofaye-rw8ix Amen and amen 🙏🏼 Thanks big Sis 🙏🏼
Thanks for sharing this vital information.
@@blessingairhihenvoe You're welcome Sis. I count it a privilege 😊
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Praise God, for bringing all things to light! I therefore bind one to desire to seek out if one's biased view of a thing, circumstance or person is justified and rooted in truth at all times while binding to hell every lack of desire to seek out if one's biased view of a thing, circumstance or person is justified and rooted in truth at all times in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents, the children I teach and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking desire to seek out if one's biased view of a thing, circumstance or person is justified and rooted in truth at all times, in accordance with this word and luke 12:2, matthew 7:5, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤.
So much wisdom .. thank you ❤
@@mungalusimuyi3782 Thanks Sis 😊
Well done. More grace, more anointing and, may many more couples get help and blessings through your ministrations in Jesus name. Amen.
Bias can then be referred to as a blindfold/veil that hinders seeing properly, may the Light of His Word continually unveil our eyes and hearts. God bless you ma. You look more beautiful in that dress.
You look very beautiful Ma. God bless you for this video
I see the big C of Communication having a big space in sorting the big C of Conflict. May His wisdom keep abounding unto you much more in Jesus name!!! AMEN!!! God bless you ma.
Certainly! We can’t resolve conflicts without effective communication. Thanks brother and amen!
Thank you for this beautiful word of wisdom ❤️❤️
You’re welcome Sis ❤
Thank you, ma, for your teaching. Yes, indeed, communication is essential, and I love you mentioning both the verbal and nonverbal communication. Even a smile and a nodd is communication. God bless you ma and grant you more divine unction.
@@mercye8123 Indeed...we just need to be more intentional and aware of what we're communicating to our spouses 👍🏼
Thanks so much ma for this effort, it shall bring forth droves of fruits in Jesus Mighty name!!! Amen!!!
@@olawaleadeoje222 Amen. Thanks dear.
Ye are gods. Yes if God, by word said "let there be light" and it came to be, we too should call only on positive things. We should be careful what we utter. We are gods.
@@jossychidiebere234Definitely! Our words carry more power than we can imagine. We especially need self control and discipline to ensure we speak positively to our spouses even when we are experiencing negative emotions.
Thanks for the series. It's been awesome. Saying / calling into existence what I'd love to see rather than affirm what I don't like - great wisdom!!!
@@salvationbookstores4381 Thanks ma. As we speak life and use positive words we are creating life 👍🏼
Thank you. So profound👏🏾
More anointing in Jesus name.
Awesome 🎉❤
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I'm guilty in some ways and would make amend by His grace. It's a video to watch again and again God bless you much more Ma.
Awesome ❤
I always look forward to your message ma. This is absolutely insightful 👌
The quality of our communication is directly proportional to the quality of our relationship. Apt!
Words of wisdom ❤
Thank you for pouring out yourself in this teaching. I gained a lot .
Practical and relevant. Thanks for sharing 🙏👍⭐
Unforgiveness is very bad. Has a lot of negative baggage. It's definitely best to avoid
This is eye opening, I watched everything
This is a great reminder that if Jesus could forgive our sins, who are we not to forgive others. We ask for grace to make it right with our spouses and ensure we live in complete forgiveness. Thanks ma'am ephasis on forgiveness
Amazing ❤
Incisive
Forgiveness is key in marriage. I got value listening to you
Forgiveness is mandatory in marriage. When offense is consistent with impunity, will it be wrong for the offended to guard himself even if it's not palatable? Just for personal sanity.
There is usually an underlying issue with persistent offending ( I will touch on this in the next episode) But depending on the weight of the offence e.g persistently leaving the toothpaste lid off versus persistently putting your spouse down in public - with the latter, definitely the harm is greater. In such cases, the spouse should seek counsel if possible and take steps to protect themselves from the offender.
It's not possible to separate a person from his action. As a man thinks in his heart so he is, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks and by their fruit you shall know them.
It is hard but not impossible. A good analogy is that God hates sin but he loves sinners, this can only be because he sees them as separate from their sins, otherwise he would 'hate sinners'.That's why forgiveness is an act of grace, it is a divine act that God wants us to emulate from him.
This is absolutely insightful, well done ma 👏
Awesome 🎉🎉
Forginess benefits the offended more than the offender because it reliefs the weight/burden. More grace ma.
What then if you can't resolve issues or you continue to forgive a partner who doesn't acknowledge that he's hurting you and continues same way? Is protecting one's self for sanity same as unforgiveness?
No, I don’t think that is unforgiveness. This is not a one size fits all answer because each situation is different, but the fact is that, unfortunately, sometimes in marriage relationships, it might come to the point where a spouse has to take steps to protect their mental health and sanity if an offence keeps occurring despite several attempts to stop it, but this should be the very last resort while still keeping hope alive that things can still change for the better.
Awesone, thanks for this Sis .
Forgiveness is not amnesia. I really wish it is😀
Forgiveness, a powerful key to break off chains and burdens. Thanks so much ma, God bless you more.
As always - loaded with so much wisdom.
This is a comprehensive scripture base explanations/analysis, i pray that everyone of us would always admit the Bible as the Ultimate authority over our lives. More grace ma.
Yes oo... Admit is the word. We tend to choose the scriptures that favor our emotions and values. May God help us.
@@jossychidiebere234 AMEN!!!
Well done. More grace, more anointing to fulfill the ministry in Jesus name.