I'm not this quiet, but in many situations people ask me again because they couldn't hear what I said 😔 So recently I've started recording my speaking so I can improve
Good videos for high functioning autistic individuals or socially unintelligent people, but I wish there were videos that could 'actually' apply to real life social situations. I'm not saying this video doesn't apply to social situations (it does), but what I'm trying to say is that social situations irl is more diverse than this and it has lots of variances that can't be just set to one.
There are socially savy ways to tease, but you have to be highly socially skilled to pull them off, and the video did indeed provide a good example of a terrible way to use teasing.
notice it's still better than the last one lol. Still bad but I wish I was more like this than the too personal one lol I struggle with the wait it takes until a friendship develops and we talk about personal stuff. I used to try and rush and Id make people uncomfortable. regret it.
yeah i dont understand, idk when im supposed to look away, but what do I even look at then if im not looking at them- without looking uninterested or bored
Thank you, nobody ever taught me about social interactions, my parents are abusive and I have an asperger syndrome, its really important to me bc i wanna meet new people (English is not my native language)
I'm in my early 30's and have had some degree of social anxiety for a long time, and now that i have made it through allot of that anxiety i have found my social skills are much worse then i thought. Some of your videos I have found really useful. For example i can ask too many questions because i think people don't want to talk about me, or maybe i struggle leaving a conversation because i think i should never interrupt anyone to say bye. I know its really silly, and intuitively i know my reluctance to speak about myself and interrupt is foolish but i'm sort of bound to my social principles/rules until i find a concrete reason because i often cannot trust my mind in other matters. Anyways thank you.
@@sacr4450 this is actually a hard question to answer. I reveal different parts of myself to different people depending on the relationship. I know what you mean though, I do feel pressured to be like this or that but I don't think that's wrong exactly either. I also made this post forever ago, I've grown a lot since then. Back when I made this I certainly felt I couldn't connect because I couldn't reveal myself.
That eye contact looks predatory
I'm not this quiet, but in many situations people ask me again because they couldn't hear what I said 😔 So recently I've started recording my speaking so I can improve
Good videos for high functioning autistic individuals or socially unintelligent people, but I wish there were videos that could 'actually' apply to real life social situations. I'm not saying this video doesn't apply to social situations (it does), but what I'm trying to say is that social situations irl is more diverse than this and it has lots of variances that can't be just set to one.
Is it only me that I feel ashamed about watching this conversation?
Good lesson
It is like what an inmate does when he or she gets too close to you.
There are socially savy ways to tease, but you have to be highly socially skilled to pull them off, and the video did indeed provide a good example of a terrible way to use teasing.
Lmfao
My social skills are so crap and this helps
I was like this in high school wtf.
This happens to me all the time online.
but you are so beautiful
Now I have proof that all my in-laws are autistic!
I have ADHD AND bad hearing. I worry that Im like this oof
notice it's still better than the last one lol. Still bad but I wish I was more like this than the too personal one lol I struggle with the wait it takes until a friendship develops and we talk about personal stuff. I used to try and rush and Id make people uncomfortable. regret it.
How are you doing now?
sounds forced💀
kind of hot video tbh nice good joob
My thoughts exactly
great work keep it up!
Well the other lady was making too less eye contact so it goes both ways
where was this my whole life?? ctm que rabia jsjsj
Why with more attitude?
because girls are sassy ;)
@@kikicvt ohh ok, makes sense. :)
I wish they would offer a model of the correct way right after the incorrect way. PLEASE
It is like hugging each other.
Hi Liz! We forwarded you a Connection request on LinkedIn! Your videos are amazing!
People with ADHD often do this, we are the ones who have to understand it
2nd good one...
So far this is been the only useful video!
Why you said that?
i will find you, see u soon
That is not the way to proceed
There were lots of closed ended questions
He's in the library to watch the game?
😂
Bruh momento
Im both autistic and blue-eyed so i guess im screwed
yeah i dont understand, idk when im supposed to look away, but what do I even look at then if im not looking at them- without looking uninterested or bored
Ok i were doing it wrong for my whole life
Thank you, nobody ever taught me about social interactions, my parents are abusive and I have an asperger syndrome, its really important to me bc i wanna meet new people (English is not my native language)
Thank you Dr.
That’s not eye contacts, that’s staring. There’s never too much eye contact, but you shouldn’t stare when they aren’t looking at you.
" Hey Mary how's it going 👀👀"
This makes me feel better about my crappy social skills
Me too
I feel like this is exaggerated
it is but its designed to be exaggerated so that everyone can understand
I'M AN ITALIAN. THAT'S HOW I TALK NORMALLY.
Some mentally disabled people talk like this.
He is so in with these ladies! A++++++++ 😃👏👏👏
I'm in my early 30's and have had some degree of social anxiety for a long time, and now that i have made it through allot of that anxiety i have found my social skills are much worse then i thought. Some of your videos I have found really useful. For example i can ask too many questions because i think people don't want to talk about me, or maybe i struggle leaving a conversation because i think i should never interrupt anyone to say bye. I know its really silly, and intuitively i know my reluctance to speak about myself and interrupt is foolish but i'm sort of bound to my social principles/rules until i find a concrete reason because i often cannot trust my mind in other matters. Anyways thank you.
Do you find it difficult to be yourself?
@@sacr4450 this is actually a hard question to answer. I reveal different parts of myself to different people depending on the relationship. I know what you mean though, I do feel pressured to be like this or that but I don't think that's wrong exactly either. I also made this post forever ago, I've grown a lot since then. Back when I made this I certainly felt I couldn't connect because I couldn't reveal myself.
Grew up with this
God bless you for this. I hope my friend will see it and get it. That’s gonna be awesome!! Wow, yeah this has been my experience. Such a drag!!
poor Mary haha