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Stop saying "It could always be worse" | S3E25
"It could always be worse" has been a common phrase that people use when we are trying to empathise with others. However, did you know that this can sometimes be harmful to others depending on how you use this phrase?
In this episode, we explore why we shouldn’t use this phrase "It could always be worse" especially during difficult times. Don’t get us wrong, we’re not saying you can’t use it but hear us out!
Join us on this episode as we share our own experiences in how these words have hurt us and also how we have used these words to lift others through rough patches in their journey.
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⌇ TIMESTAMPS ⌇
00:00 Intro
01:27 Initial thoughts
05:04 The positives
06:11 The negatives
08:04 Asian parenting example
11:02 Experience after uni
15:41 Not great to say to yourself or others
20:04 Someone saying it to us
24:05 Saying it to yourself
26:32 Stress is not always bad
27:56 Healthy vs unhealthy stress
28:57 Healthy approach to empathise
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Have we plateaued?! | S3E13
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What are our deepest regrets?! 😔 | S3E12
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Effective communication is different to just talking w/ PepTalk Speech Pathology | S3E10
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ความคิดเห็น

  • @pawkyyy
    @pawkyyy 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@pawkyyy we hope this helped you 🙏🏻!

  • @zoltanfabiansk5795
    @zoltanfabiansk5795 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am here. And nobody wanted to reach me. :o

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zoltanfabiansk5795 😥 so sorry to hear Sometimes it's also a matter of us reaching out to people too. Hopefully you find people you can connect with!

  • @EnbyTragedy
    @EnbyTragedy หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some boundaries absolutely can be flexible. Some days are better/worse than others relating to some boundaries. Communication is key :)

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah definitely, totally agree to this. Communication is so important and everyone's level of boundary means so differently to each others too.

  • @profreshtothedeath
    @profreshtothedeath 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent video!

  • @profreshtothedeath
    @profreshtothedeath 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome!!!

  • @vfernando1977
    @vfernando1977 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The models look so cool 😎

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you, glad you like them too!

  • @georgesamios_madd
    @georgesamios_madd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like it, good on you guys. Don’t stop, keep it up!

  • @user-hu6kf8dv7z
    @user-hu6kf8dv7z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm still trying to figure out who I am I feel the same to all I know is that my only purpose in life is to protect and I'm fine with that:)

  • @xy22ful
    @xy22ful 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations for the great video!

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the lovely feedback!

  • @Isabellaplayed
    @Isabellaplayed ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah that's how I am

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast ปีที่แล้ว

      Aeems like it's quite common in a lot of us but it's definitely something we can work on to unlearn :) and to learn how to sit with our own emotions so we can learn how we are feeling.

  • @Isabellaplayed
    @Isabellaplayed ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah

  • @Isabellaplayed
    @Isabellaplayed ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah

  • @IForgorMyHW
    @IForgorMyHW ปีที่แล้ว

    라면 먹고 갈래?

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast ปีที่แล้ว

      How could you pass up a good bowl of ramen 😁 🍜

  • @sandy0502
    @sandy0502 ปีที่แล้ว

    im the first one to watch ❤

  • @kingjohan1335
    @kingjohan1335 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow deep, if you are only just figuring this out as a grown ass man, you have bigger problems

  • @omixstudios
    @omixstudios ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the editing style

  • @jamyangsingenubriwa3587
    @jamyangsingenubriwa3587 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤so good voice both of you❤❤😊😊

  • @spudgun1590
    @spudgun1590 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sure bro it was the paints fault that your ladder collapsed.

  • @Orion_VII
    @Orion_VII ปีที่แล้ว

    omg

  • @storyandersen-pl3hv
    @storyandersen-pl3hv ปีที่แล้ว

    Um I don’t get this

  • @G00bst3r1
    @G00bst3r1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry 🥺😰

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast ปีที่แล้ว

      it's never easy seeing our parents go through pain 💗💗

    • @G00bst3r1
      @G00bst3r1 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can agree :(

  • @WatMelonCat
    @WatMelonCat ปีที่แล้ว

    First?

  • @slimazn69
    @slimazn69 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ye noice mate

  • @bigounce2416
    @bigounce2416 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats crazy

  • @DoubleDTB
    @DoubleDTB ปีที่แล้ว

    Bubbles!!! -Mr. Lahey

  • @carlalapish8116
    @carlalapish8116 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ummm sure for some people. I have my best friend sense we where in elementary school. We’re adults now. Thank about that one.

  • @5106ammieDam
    @5106ammieDam ปีที่แล้ว

    😂

  • @colapilled
    @colapilled ปีที่แล้ว

    i personally hate the term "friend zone" - its just called being friends. if they only see you as a friend then theyre not interested in dating you, so dont persue them, move on

    • @asktheduopodcast
      @asktheduopodcast ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a great way to see it, not everything needs a term to it either. Life is about continuously moving forward

  • @thecooldoodc.o3276
    @thecooldoodc.o3276 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes exactly