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3 ways to pray 1 to Father direct,,, for confession of sin. 2 to Father thru Jesus, our only intersessor. 3 Father. Son Holy Spirit...Mary not God,, not intersessor,only Jesus intersessor... U R light life truth love Will zeal order wisdom understanding knowledge strength power of mind power of body judgement balance elimination justice freedom destiny victory with Jesus forever and ever U R forgiveness ,,God Bless

False teaching,,, chastity does not belong in marriage,,,, any form of birth control okay. Toys okay,, don't know... Think stay away porn, birth control ok, any form

The alphabet soup group typically were traumatized in childhood usually in a sexual way which in turn severs any existing faith in God. Then, they end up battling with demons who convince them to adopt confused thinking. The system put in place allegedly to help has been programming Tom girls and effeminate men into believing they're also T's.

" I need to follow my heart" Years later " this isn't for me". Moral of the story - listen to God.

So much clarity! But what if the man had a vasectomy? Or wife a hysterectomy? And not for medical reasons (prior to having full knowledge of the faith, also confessed as wrong).

Very well done.

We need to follow are hearts with Jesus ❤ because Jesus lives in are hearts ❤ that is the holy spirit in are souls ❤❤❤ if you think with your mind you are in more trouble 🙏 think from your heart that is the holy spirit that lives in are hearts 💕 💞 ❤️ ❤

Most women I know talk down to their husbands, talk over the top of them, talk about them, and continually complain to them. A moaning, complaining wife is a such a heavy cross to carry.

Psalm 37 ..Trust in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.

The Sacred Heart and the Immaculate Heart of Mary. What if your heart is full of love?

“ Theology of the Body “ is not “ Anatomy and Physiology “ of the body. I’m sorry, but the actual sexually explicit information is lacking. Men and women are very different in their sexual needs and responses. Father Alars comparing himself to a Doctor treating cancer and him, himself giving advice on what is “ chaste “ in a marriage sexual relationship is simply not valid. The Doctor may not have had cancer, but as former RN, I can tell you that he would be intimately acquainted with the disease - the diagnosing, treating and hopefully curing a patient. That requires years of study and hands on experience. This talk really gives no real information on sex in a Catholic marriage. We are human beings, not the Trinity, which is perfect, of course. Sounds lovely but not a down to earth explanation for me, personally.

I'm happy he is teaching us how to behave in marriage to earn heaven . We all know what is good or bad in a sexual encounter in marriage. If the couple finds God, they will know to do the right thing!. Husbands are the most hard-headed, and this become a problem if not finished in divorce. They don't understand nor support their wives. We wives need to pray for them to understand and live a happy marriage.

Thank you for sharing on this with absolute clarity. Blessed in hearing this discussion.

Thanks for the video! I first heard about the Flame of Love from Fr Jim Blount not long ago and I've prayed all my rosaries since then in that format for about two years now. My 3yo daughter has been praying her Hail Mary's like that and I'm trying to teach her the ordinary form in case she has to pray with other people 😄 She also prays the Unity Prayer. For a couple of days before this video I felt it was becoming burdensome to pray like that all the time. So this was providential to say the least. Thanks again!

Right now she doesn’t. 😂

Jeese! Is there anything in the Catholic church that is *not* a sin?

I feel like I am not respected by my wife

I love Steve! He also has an app Sensus Fedelium.

Thank you so much for talking about this topic snd being specific!

Questions I asked 40 years ago at our engaged encounter and got no answers

it what if they dont 1:29 respect you? font value ALL we do at home plus work full time ?

Harm caused lasts forever.

Thanks for the video 📸,I really enjoyed it.

I wonder what mine would have said if he had not passed away...

Wonderful program. Great resource with Mr. Gardner as faithful Catholics need access to these liturgical items. In Hoc Signo Vinces.

As I was sexually, emotionally and mentally abused during my whole llife i sought a divorce and what I thought would be freedom...little did I know that you're not free until you turn yourself over to the Lord and gain His love and peace. I still have difficulty in those areas but it was a benefit to my children who had seen things that no one should see let alone as a child. I am highly sensitive and have ADHD so I struggle a lot of ways. But I forgive through my Lord who sets us free.

This is a very difficult teaching and seems almost inhuman, but I fully understand what is being said and give ascent to it, to a certain extent,, as a Catholic, who is far from perfect. Of course this teaching applies to all of us. The terrible revelation that many many priests have molested children and raped girls and even boys, throughout the world and in some cases have had children themselves, makes this Holy Teaching almost esoteric and impossible to achieve, especially by the setting of this terrible example alone. May we offer all our imperfections, including those that happen in the bedroom, to Christ and ask Him to "perfect us in charity", as the words of the Holy Mass, say. We all learn slowly in life, sometimes by discovery. Love making is a beautiful thing and not simply about pleasure but about discovering the person, in their totality in their physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual. Afteall that is why it is called "Love" making. God is Love and the human body is God's creation and is in itself beautiful in every aspect including our passions. Our religion does not tell us to be stoics but to be fully alive in our total human make-up. Wasn't it St John of the Cross who taught us that Heaven is like a thousand orgasms, or words to that effect. The achievement of total chastity is a life long journey and the teaching of it has to be digestable and contextualised within the mileu from which a person or a couple live, including the consideration of their age. It is far easier for an elderly person to repent of their carnal sins on hindsight, as they do an audit of their lives , than it is for a young healthy and vibrant couple who are to be expected to achieve this highly challenging but truthful goal that God sets us, precisely in order that we may always be humble before Him, with our sins always before us, as the Psalmist says. Thank goodness, that God gave us the Sacrament of Confession, for He knows we often fail in many ways including in this highly challenging Divine teaching. We have to be careful , especially the professionals on here, in not gaining for themselves a false authority on something so delicate, for who knows what goes on behind closed doors, in their own lives. I do not think God would be pleased about placing heavy burdens on ordinary people who are simply trying their best to be faithful and good despite their own frailities and weaknesses.

Malachi 2:16 I hate divorce says the Lord God of Israel …. Priest said this word of God saved some , as they did but not know how much God wants unity , they are very good at explaining scripture rich in what God loves unity family children “ it’s a battle for souls “ only PRAY 🙏 AND try to hear those who can help to build understanding

Very traumatic and difficult , and unfair, the fanily is under attacks, pray for Families, it is most unfair to children vulnerable young and even older parents need to unite carry the cross and reality of the vows and most of all PRAY 🙏 because the devil loves division

A terrible reality for so many years ago it never happened, then slowly one or two I can remember a girl in grade 7 , how hard it was and it doesn’t get easier when more family have this , in marriage prep classes .. couples are told how serious marriage is and these effects

Did the innocent party in the divorce cause the children pain?

Nope, my childhood trauma wasn’t lifelong, it only lasted till I was Catholic and was given the understanding that I could offer up my suffering for the salvation of souls and my own healing.

I was always compared to my cousin, she was always more than A+ student in all schools and ended as pharmacist on high level. I couldn't believe when her son suddenly got Autism after a jab. All education didnt help her read ingredients and research that should be so easy for her. Now she spends most she makes and therapist and etc. I was the dumb kid, with middle/ low, grades, but i still believe i have knowledge i just didnt fit system. I still dont fit system....Thanks God!

Narcissism is the new word for verbal or psychological #DomesticAbuse. Not every egotistical man is psychologically abusive. But Narcissism (verbal or psychological abuse), in many cases depending on it's expression, can be a solid reason to file for divorce. Husbands are commanded to love and sacrifice for their wives as Christ loved and sacrificed for His church. (Ephesians 5:25) Arrogance, rudeness, selfishness, manipulation, insults, alienation, etc, are solid reasons to file for divorce.

Fr. Chris Alar, like most Catholics, is a misogynist who blames wives for divorces and annulments. Fr. Alar dishonestly blames wives for getting annulments based on the psycho Canon 1095. *I know of 7 Catholic professional men (3 doctors, 3 lawyers and a dentist), in my archdiocese - 6 from my childhood parish, who got themselves annulments because they themselves claimed they were too immature to make a valid vow.* Fr. Alar has it backwards. A Christian husband does not "respond" to his wife by "accepting his wife's need for love and care..." Husbands are the leader... remember? *So husbands are obligated to lead in love and wives respond in love.* Fr. Alar is #GenderConfused. He flip-flops from husband is the leader to wife is the leader and the husband "responds" to her leadership in service, by "accepting her need for love and care." That is backward, misogynist, unbiblical and unnatural. Men initiate and women respond. Everyone knows that! Clergy are always fixated on power and authority. Then they deny that they are fixated on power and authority - while they neglect responsibility. Clergy exaggerate wives' marital obligations and minimize husbands' marital obligations. Marriage is a 2-way street... or else it's abusive. Then clergy blame wives for divorce, even when the divorce is provoked by the common male vices: drunkenness, drug abuse, domestic abuse - physical or verbal, gambling, greed, selfishness, pornography, adultery and criminality. Men lust after power. Clergy lust after power. *The husband is also obligated to serve his wife and his children. Christian leadership is servanthood.* (Matthew 20:25-28) But priests never explain that. Priests ignore those Bible verses. Husbands are obligated to sacrifice for their wives, *daily,* not only in an emergency where he might die. (Eph 5:25) Fr. Alar deflected from *the husband's daily obligation to sacrifice for and serve his wife,* by jumping immediately to death. That is a quick trick to deflect away from the husband's day to day obligations. *Catholic clergy are misogynists.*

Luther stinks.. lol

The "Errors of Russia" include habitual male drunkenness, domestic abuse, no-fault divorce and abortion. As CA Gov, Reagan signed laws approving or liberalizing two of those. Russia enacted Prohibition in 1914 and the USA enacted Prohibition in 1919.

Catholic husbands don't lead, so wives have no one to follow. Fr. Chris Alar lives in theory and ignores reality. Per Ephesians 5:21 both husband and wife are obligated to submit to one another. Drunken, selfish, abusive, gambling, greedy, pornography using, adulterous and criminal husbands do not lead.

Such a great, inspiring message. ✝️🙏❤️

Could youask Father why orthodox and Russiam Orthodox Catholics approve contraception for married couples? They have valid sacraments and were founded by the original 12 apostles. They are as "Catholic" as we are.

Can you talk about fear.

Pray for priests Always🙏✨👑

Thank you Dr Christine and God bless you❤

What a beautiful story ❤. Thank God for a second chance

Yep, actually right now, feeling stupid, LOL

Just 1 more step. Go get your Catholic Divorce-Ah ah Annulment and you’ll be good. Even if you’ve been married for decades and have several children, they will grant it as most diocese have a 99-100% approval of finding nullity. What a sham