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Stranger Things 5 Behind The Scenes Breakdown and Theories
After what has felt like years, in my dramatic head, on Monday 15th July stranger things fans were finally blessed with a behind the scenes video, hinting at the plot lines and character groupings that will happen in season 5. There's a lot to unpack so I have tried to explain it using the knowledge I have, and speculate what I think some scenes mean.
Apologies for the far from great editing - I'm going away today and wanted this video to be done before I left. You will easily be able to find a lot of the other behind the scenes/leaks content I have mentioned, but I'm afraid in the video (as I didn't have time to find everything when editing) that a lot of it sounds like source: trust me.
The content used in this video is intended for educational and informational purposes only. All rights to the scenes and photos used belong to either Netflix's Stranger Things or Warner Bro's' IT (2017). I do not claim ownership over them.
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The Queer Coding and Internalised Homophobia of Mike Wheeler
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It is safe to say that Mike Wheeler's character has changed for the worse between season 2 and season 4 of stranger things. However, instead of this character change being out of nowhere, is this the result of his repressed queerness and internalised homophobia? TW for discussion of internalised homophobia and homophobia. The content used in this video is intended for educational and informatio...

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  • @yaraterveer6364
    @yaraterveer6364 55 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    You really hit the nail right on the head! I totally agree with you but have not been able to put it into words as well - Will be sending this to my friends :D

  • @EleiyaUmei
    @EleiyaUmei วันที่ผ่านมา

    Queer fans can be so convincing when arguing that bad writing is actually set-up for a good queer storyline T_T (cf. Sherlock)

    • @moveslikeninja1
      @moveslikeninja1 วันที่ผ่านมา

      stranger things is in NO WAY comparable to sherlock will is literally canonically IN LOVE with mike wheeler and mike does a 180 of his character out of absolutely nowhere and he is the only one to do so

    • @EleiyaUmei
      @EleiyaUmei วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@moveslikeninja1 Jim Hopper also did a character 180 out of nowhere. Do you have an in-universe explanation for that?

  • @sotruesoreal
    @sotruesoreal 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    started intrigued but skeptical but holy crap the later season evidence is just. THERE. bravo this was amazing

  • @kaleidoscopekayley
    @kaleidoscopekayley 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let's not overlook how important Eddie and his experience as the town freak impacted Mike. Mike clearly looks up to Eddie. (Or even has a little crush on him.) He grows out his hair, changes how he dresses, and starts playing D&D again. But the thing is, Eddie is queer-coded to hell and back. And Hawkins treats Eddie horribly for being exactly who he is. Mike may not realize that Eddie is queer, but he definitely internalized the treatment Eddie received for being different.

  • @eeosguri9156
    @eeosguri9156 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    4:13 this video seems good but please try to improve your audio mixing next time i almost had a heart attack

  • @billyh4655
    @billyh4655 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No captions???? Girl i cant hear good

  • @jevtheworm542
    @jevtheworm542 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hiii, just wanted to mention that there might be an editing error at the 19:40 mark, it seems like a snippet of the video of you talking got into the video, just telling you in case you mind being seen on the internet ^^'

  • @magicalgirl4
    @magicalgirl4 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've been focused too much on Lumax/Elmax to even notice what they were doing with Mike (but I could tell him and Eleven were... severely lacking intentionally), now I'm pretty gung ho for Mike being confirmed queer.

  • @yun_shuura
    @yun_shuura 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi can you enable auto captioning

    • @losersitsbyherself
      @losersitsbyherself 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@yun_shuura Hey TH-cam won’t let me enable auto captions on this video but one of my tumblr mutuals is working on subtitling the entire thing so I’ll let you know when that’s done! :)

  • @nearki4188
    @nearki4188 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would love for this to happen honestly… but it sounds too good to be true 😭 I hope they surprise me though! I’ll come back to this in 2025

  • @marianavillareal7154
    @marianavillareal7154 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every gay person who was a teenager during the 80's knows what Mike's behaviour is about.

  • @decayingfairy3996
    @decayingfairy3996 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    19:39 idk if you intentionally left a few frames of reading script in but they are there I do love the editing though, the clips are so great as a visual filler and especially at emphasizing the text with visual proof

  • @kirr.p
    @kirr.p 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a beatiful video, thank you so much for it❤

  • @adiamondfox-204
    @adiamondfox-204 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love the lowkey manipulation of "either this is a clever indication of mike's queerness OR it's bad and lazy writing" lmao

  • @D4N4Y4
    @D4N4Y4 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this genuinely has fully convinced me. i have never been against byler entirely, but I didn’t like how “one-sided” it felt to me. but this video has me begginggg for this aspect of Mike’s character to be true, and hopefully every moment from the previous seasons pay off satisfyingly

  • @joanacosta8561
    @joanacosta8561 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi! Please be careful with the audio, the difference in volume between you talking and scenes taken from the show is astronomical!

  • @DaemonAuriel
    @DaemonAuriel 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Did you voice Radio active for starfield radio? if not I think you have a vocal doppelganger xD

  • @Singingshadowgirl
    @Singingshadowgirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There's also the classic, "Imagine if it was a hetero pair" If Will was a girl--- I'm sorry. There's no way the staying by his bedside like that in S2 would get glossed over as just a friend thing, same with Mike freaking out in S1 about finding him, same with Mike being super possessive in S2. It would 100% be giving they're endgame and in denial.

  • @alonachiong666
    @alonachiong666 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Honestly I see myself and Mike I even treated my bff I had a crush on horribly because I was afraid to fall deeper for her. Externalized homophobia really is a terrible thing.

  • @JoeStringfellow-z6b
    @JoeStringfellow-z6b 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    how can you say stranger things made netflix when lilihammer exists, how could you

  • @JoeStringfellow-z6b
    @JoeStringfellow-z6b 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i agree with you but i cannot imagine mike and will having a romantic moment it'd come across so awkward so i think it'll never go that far.

  • @Wandervenn
    @Wandervenn 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Idk, I'm queer but still not for it. Will deserves such a better love interest than someone who treated him poorly for two seasons, especially when the other two seasons he was missing/possessed. I would prefer rheir final confrontation be about how bad a friend Mike has been and Mike accepting Will and loving him as a friend over trying to fit a new romance in with everything going on. Our poor boy deserves better than Mike, even if Mike is gay.

  • @ashlynnrutledge3148
    @ashlynnrutledge3148 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think I've watched this video like 6 times please make more

  • @syxph3r
    @syxph3r 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "I'm not gay, Greg."

    • @losersitsbyherself
      @losersitsbyherself 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@syxph3r Me and my housemates reference this ALL THE TIME so you have no idea how excited I got seeing your comment

    • @syxph3r
      @syxph3r 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@losersitsbyherself lmaoooo

  • @nickhockings443
    @nickhockings443 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you seriously _underestimate_ the intensity and severity of homophobia in the 1980s. Merely being accused was cause of immediate and relentless physical assault. The idea of having teens coming out in a regular high school and not being instantly violently ostracized by everyone, is the nice but frankly least realistic part of Stranger Things. That sort of thing could only happen in the most radical communities in that decade.

  • @CREN13Queen
    @CREN13Queen 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was 100% a Mileven shipper until season 3, read all the fanfics about how their epic love would continue to develop as they grew up. Then season 3 happened and it felt like such whiplash to see their story suddenly become that so over done hetronornative trope of haha boys don't get emotions and girls are crazy right? And I was so frustrating because it felt like the characters and their relationship had been completely stripped back to basic gender norms which was just such a let down and so totally frustrating. Then he kept being weird in season 4 and I was just so confused until it finally clicked - he was acting just like I used to in relationships in my teens, playing the role rather than actually being myself in the relationship. I really really hope the plan is to make him canon gay/bi not just because yay Byler but because if that is what they are doing then it's so brilliantly written, but if that's not what's going on then honestly it's just a character assassination for the sake of dumb outdated jokes

  • @Elvele
    @Elvele 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love videos like this! Please consider putting subtitles or including a transcript for disabled viewers so we can fully enjoy it without having to rewind constantly 🙏🏽

    • @losersitsbyherself
      @losersitsbyherself 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Elvele hey TH-cam annoyingly won’t let me turn on automatic subtitles for this but my tumblr mutual is working on subtitling the entire video so I’ll let you know once it’s done! :)

  • @Dragonfern-ko8wp
    @Dragonfern-ko8wp 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want to point out as well that in this scene 42:33 , Mike reacts really weird to hearing argyle. He obviously saw him, so it’s odd that he’d kinda have such an exaggerated startled reaction. From personal experience, I do this when I desperately want to change the subject or get out of the awkward conversation so I’ll pretend to jump at the slightest thing to get attention off of me(idk why js my average way of doing things). Like, you could tell Mike was uncomfortable there, even if he was acting like he wasn’t ( the only question is why 🤨🤨🏳️‍🌈)

  • @lotticello
    @lotticello 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every day I'm torn between "there is no way mike doesn't end up loving will" and "you're crazy, do you really think they would make the protagonist of one of the most popular series gay" but videos like this one help me ease the conflict lol

  • @AmandaValentin-pf2dy
    @AmandaValentin-pf2dy 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like when Mike doesn’t say that he loves his girlfriend

  • @GoopieWoopie-xx2yz
    @GoopieWoopie-xx2yz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Video so fire i imediatelly started rewatching after it ended🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @GoopieWoopie-xx2yz
      @GoopieWoopie-xx2yz 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ive watched this 5 times now😭😭

  • @ErikaWilson-g7m
    @ErikaWilson-g7m 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I LOVE your take on this. Best hour and twenty minutes I've spent in a while

  • @catsinwonderland7473
    @catsinwonderland7473 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've been saying this, it always felt like Mike had internalized homophobia of some sorts because the way he acts around Will.... 🤔🤔🤔 in a queer lens, everything makes SO MUCH sense. He doesn't show proper love to Eleven, has to ARGUE to her that he loves her. He tells Eleven that that finding her in the woods was when his "life really started" or something like that, memory is tough. But he was looking for Will originally. In fact, if he was doing the trolley problem with 1 Will and 5 Elevens, he would've immediately ran over 5 Elevens. He was so incredibly loyal and protective to Will, until he got older. Then all the sudden he's obsessed about the fact that he's dating Eleven. And Will can get run over instead (hyperbole of course). The sudden change is so much more sensical in the context of gayness. 32:43 Oh my gosh, no way the actor wasn't directed to make an "Oh shit." realization face. Ahahahah just look at him, he has the same look that I have on my face when I realize I forgot to take my meds or something. I wouldn't believe this theory/analysis so hard if the writers didn't already dip one foot in the water with Vicky, then another foot with Will... mind as well go knee-deep in the water

  • @WeirdCoreRadish
    @WeirdCoreRadish 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:08:32 I think it would be funny if Robin saw Mike, and was like, “my gaydare is going of”

  • @buffoello
    @buffoello 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i fell of the stranger things bandwagon around s3, because i was tired of the amount of nostalgia bait they stuffed in that often replaced progression of the plot and development of the characters. i watched your byler/queer mike theory video and now watched this, and i'm probably the most excited for the new stranger things season as i was when season 2 was announced. i'm looking forward to more videos from you, they are all very well done! 💖

  • @goblinacorn1843
    @goblinacorn1843 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You totally sold me on mike being bi or gay so now if it doesn't happen I'll be sad. But great video regardless

  • @Pastel_PaletteTea
    @Pastel_PaletteTea 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Stranger things if it was a love story

  • @beezyqueen
    @beezyqueen 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    damnnn. damn. i really never thought of it more than will having a one-sided thing for mike but this video essay is hella convincing me. i don’t think netflix itself has the guts to go for a byler ending but that doesn’t mean it’s not what the writers wanted or intended.

  • @jumpingjellybean2000
    @jumpingjellybean2000 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ohhh your mention of the theory that Mike wrote a letter to Will which was signed it as ‘love Mike’… it got me thinking. What if that ties into the Will’s “forgotten” birthday plot line? What if the reason that Mike “forgot”, why he didn’t bring Will a gift or even a card, was that he signed it as ‘love Mike’ and freaked tf out over it. That’s why he refuses to acknowledge Will’s birthday

  • @fabi2994
    @fabi2994 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love the gay mike interpretation (i'm crazy about it. i am normal about it)

  • @STARFOXiswatchingYOU
    @STARFOXiswatchingYOU 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve never liked Mike (also I haven’t watched the forth season yet, and you said he acts awfully in it…so I’m genuinely disappointed, hoped I’d finally change my mind about Mike’s character in it), but I would love to see us finally getting an explanation to his behavior 🙏🙏 I pray on internalized homophobia Mike being canon, because that’ll just make him an interesting and deep written character

  • @STARFOXiswatchingYOU
    @STARFOXiswatchingYOU 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    19:39 oops, gotcha 👀👀👀

  • @elliart7432
    @elliart7432 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think it would be a great move to have Mike and El not stay with each other, if anything because they were literal children when they got together. The reason that they haven't been working in the past couple of seasons may simply be because they're growing up. Puppy love is cute and a very special stage of development in a person's young life, but it doesn't stand on the same foundation as _real_ love that's made to last, and that's communication and trust. Two things Mike and El haven't been able to establish together leaving childhood.

  • @emblarovardotter
    @emblarovardotter 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The queercoding is impossible to miss but I am unfortunately very sure that the queer ships are not endgame, honestly im not even sure they are 100% intentional 😭 To me this is a bbc sherlock situation until proven otherwise.... 💔

    • @THE_END.ヽ
      @THE_END.ヽ 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Will was also queercoded before s4 came out, and now he's *confirmed* to be gay, so there's hope.

    • @emblarovardotter
      @emblarovardotter 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @THE_END.ヽ there sure is hope but I ain't hoping I've been burned too many times hahaha

    • @THE_END.ヽ
      @THE_END.ヽ 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@emblarovardotter nah don't doubt, because in this case the Duffers and everyone is *aware* of everything that they put on set. Every. Single. Detail. Is intentional, and as I said, Will was queercoded too before, and before s4 people who claimed he was gay were deemed as delusional. Sound familiar?

    • @emblarovardotter
      @emblarovardotter 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@THE_END.ヽ wish I had your optimism and I'll be very happy to hear the I told you so later

  • @traegermiles
    @traegermiles 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:18:15 to make Mike queer being a mastersteoke in writing vs. a sloppy narrative- you're absolutely right. but i would be STUNNED if they do. Johnlock shippers felt similarly-it WOULD have made sense to fully engage with the queer elements of the story, but the writers and creators WERE sloppy and frequently homophobic and actively queerbaited the audience. There was no secret good ending. Supernatural did the same, except they wanted to have their cake and eat it too, half-assed the finale, buried the gay, and fumbled the end of their series so hard it rivals GoT imho. Still no secret good ending. Maybe things'll come together for ST, but... yk. Its the kind of crowd-pleasing franchise that makes more money when queerbaiting & gay-burying tropes are used, so I suspect that's how it'll go.

  • @elliart7432
    @elliart7432 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I stopped watching after season 3 cause I just had too much going on, but I'm kind of glad I did. It used to be a show about the unyielding power of friendship and cosmic horror, but now from what I've gathered a big chunk of it interpersonal high school drama and the kid everyone was fighting for suddenly being sad and left out all the time once it becomes obvious that he's gay. Why the hell would I wanna see that? Having a friend who cared for you so deeply that they almost laid down their life suddenly giving you the cold shoulder and treating you like a nuisance most of the time is one of the most depressing things I can think of.

    • @THE_END.ヽ
      @THE_END.ヽ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Internalized homophobia.

  • @lully_2511
    @lully_2511 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im so exited for s5, and will angst for some reason, i really want to see him have his main character moments since hes always overshadowed

  • @lully_2511
    @lully_2511 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i think the duffer brothers are very open and informed on how to write queer characters, they dont just write them to be inclusive, because will has been hinted to be gay from the beginning meaning they speant time writing him a self discovery arc, they also gave robin a 5 minute long coming out scene, which is quite rare in media since they are usually rushed for the sake of inclusivity, seeing how mike and el have not been in a healthy relationship for a 1 whole episode yet, since they either aren't together like in s1 and 2 or are broken up or fighting in 3 and 4 i wouldn't be surprised if they made byler Endgame

  • @SophiaRuffo
    @SophiaRuffo 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i absolutely agree with the argument that mike’s arc is so much more interesting and important if he is queer. his experience is such a similar one to my own and i feel like that’s why i recognized it in season 2. i fully agree his relationship to will is essential to the show no matter how it goes, i’ve been advocating for this for what feels like ages it’s hell its horror in the streets.

  • @abibiholmes
    @abibiholmes 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i hope you somehow read this comment since i couldn't reach you anywhere else but is there any way you could activate automatic subtitles? im not a native english speaker and i also have auditory issues with adhd, so subtitles really help me to understand you better :)

    • @losersitsbyherself
      @losersitsbyherself 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@abibiholmes hey for some weird reason TH-cam doesn’t let me turn on automatic captions for this video but my tumblr mutual is working on subtitling the entire video so I will let you know when that’s done! :)

    • @abibiholmes
      @abibiholmes 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@losersitsbyherself oh my god thank you so much!!!! this video actually motivated me to watch stranger things bc i've only watched the 1st season so i'll definitely be back with context <3 <3 thank youuu