Lauren Cho
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this is why you're NOT confident (yet)
Welcome back to this week's video all about CONFIDENCE ❤️
~*~
your fav Korean American unnie 😘 ✨❤️
gorgeous gorgeous girls lift each other up, teach and learn from each other, and love themselves -- and that's exactly what I'm here to help you do! Learn all about self love, leveling up, navigating your cultural identity, and becoming your hottest, most confident self on this channel.
Instagram: @laurenminicho
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the mindset you NEED to conquer manipulation & gaslighting
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Welcome back to this week's video ❤️ ~*~ your fav Korean American unnie 😘 ✨❤️ gorgeous gorgeous girls lift each other up, teach and learn from each other, and love themselves and that's exactly what I'm here to help you do! Learn all about self love, leveling up, navigating your cultural identity, and becoming your hottest, most confident self on this channel. Instagram: @laurenminicho #manipul...
ROMANTICIZING YOUR LIFE is why you're BURNING OUT | why stoic is the new romantic
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Welcome back to this week's video ❤️ ~*~ your fav Korean American unnie 😘 ✨❤️ gorgeous gorgeous girls lift each other up, teach and learn from each other, and love themselves and that's exactly what I'm here to help you do! Learn all about self love, leveling up, navigating your cultural identity, and becoming your hottest, most confident self on this channel. Instagram: @laurenminicho #selfcon...
you're engaging in EMOTIONAL SELF HARM (& you don't even realize it)
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Welcome back to this week's video ❤️ Today we're talking about emotional self harm: very overlooked but a key reason why you're constantly self sabotaging yourself and your dream life. ~*~ your fav Korean American unnie 😘 ✨❤️ gorgeous gorgeous girls lift each other up, teach and learn from each other, and love themselves and that's exactly what I'm here to help you do! Learn all about self love...
DO YOUR SHADOW WORK. IT'S TIME TO STOP RUNNING AWAY.
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DO YOUR SHADOW WORK. IT'S TIME TO STOP RUNNING AWAY.
RESET SYNDROME | the reason you're forever stuck at square one
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RESET SYNDROME | the reason you're forever stuck at square one
TOXIC SITUATIONS 101 | let's see if your relationships are toxic & how you can handle them
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TOXIC SITUATIONS 101 | let's see if your relationships are toxic & how you can handle them
DARK FEMININE ENERGY IS THE KEY TO YOUR WINTER ARC 2024 | seasonal depression & consistency
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DARK FEMININE ENERGY IS THE KEY TO YOUR WINTER ARC 2024 | seasonal depression & consistency
you've got "VICTIM SYNDROME" & it's getting worse | how to END self-pity and ACTUALLY level up
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you've got "VICTIM SYNDROME" & it's getting worse | how to END self-pity and ACTUALLY level up
THE "INTUITION MENU" | why your intuition is your STRONGEST tool & how to use it to LEVEL UP
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THE "INTUITION MENU" | why your intuition is your STRONGEST tool & how to use it to LEVEL UP
how to TAKE UP SPACE | step-by-step on becoming confident & authentic
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how to TAKE UP SPACE | step-by-step on becoming confident & authentic
IMPERFECTION is the TRUE key to SUCCESS | why perfectionism is toxic & how to tackle fear of failure
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IMPERFECTION is the TRUE key to SUCCESS | why perfectionism is toxic & how to tackle fear of failure
GOOD GIRL SYNDROME | what it is, how it's holding you back, and how to break free
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GOOD GIRL SYNDROME | what it is, how it's holding you back, and how to break free
how to achieve the ultimate HOT GIRL MINDSET & go from insecure to CONFIDENT [12 steps]
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how to achieve the ultimate HOT GIRL MINDSET & go from insecure to CONFIDENT [12 steps]
how to THRIVE in COLLEGE (from a yale junior) | friendship, academics, budgeting, lifestyle, mindset
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how to THRIVE in COLLEGE (from a yale junior) | friendship, academics, budgeting, lifestyle, mindset
17 things you NEED TO KNOW to ABSOLUTELY SLAY HIGH SCHOOL (from a certified overachiever)
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17 things you NEED TO KNOW to ABSOLUTELY SLAY HIGH SCHOOL (from a certified overachiever)
THIS IS WHY you're not successful yet | the power of ASKING
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THIS IS WHY you're not successful yet | the power of ASKING
HOW TO EMBODY FEMININE ENERGY | what divine feminine actually is, habits, mindset & lifestyle
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HOW TO EMBODY FEMININE ENERGY | what divine feminine actually is, habits, mindset & lifestyle
the ONLY guide you need to become a HIGH VALUE WOMAN in 2024
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the ONLY guide you need to become a HIGH VALUE WOMAN in 2024
THE KEY TO SELF-WORTH | building boundaries & self-esteem as an Asian American
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THE KEY TO SELF-WORTH | building boundaries & self-esteem as an Asian American
INSECURE GIRL SUMMER IS OVER | breaking down toxic beauty standards & taking our power back
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INSECURE GIRL SUMMER IS OVER | breaking down toxic beauty standards & taking our power back
how to ACTUALLY start LOVING YOURSELF | finding our cultural identity for self-development
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how to ACTUALLY start LOVING YOURSELF | finding our cultural identity for self-development

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  • @Advicewithisabella
    @Advicewithisabella 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you so much for this video it really opened my eyes to see that though I need improve on my divine feminine energy and balance both them but it helped me realize things that I didn’t know

    • @Advicewithisabella
      @Advicewithisabella 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      about myself

    • @Advicewithisabella
      @Advicewithisabella 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i just wanted to express that I’m grateful that you made this video to help others :)

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! This makes me so happy 🥹🥹

  • @azulrosai2785
    @azulrosai2785 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I finally find a place that understand me 🤧

  • @arminjahan1201
    @arminjahan1201 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      thank you HAHA

    • @arminjahan1201
      @arminjahan1201 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @teaforthought101 you know what I am very happy because you responded. And one thing you are doing great your videos quality and everything is great. Keep it up

  • @schoolvideos3453
    @schoolvideos3453 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good message 👏

  • @medusa9022
    @medusa9022 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So cuteee 🥹 🥹

  • @medusa9022
    @medusa9022 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Look gorgeous and I love you so so much, it feels great looking at some one grow from the beginning. You're lighting is on stop and so is your make up! The voice quality again is perfect. The information is equally amazing. Now we gotta work on the background. Everything so far so good

  • @Cassiesinterlude
    @Cassiesinterlude 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know I’m late but I have some questions cause I’m thinking about applying (maybe!!) 1. What gpa did you have before applying 2. What gpa is required. And if you get a point lower for example (you need 3.4 but you have a 3.3) would you still get accepted? 3. How do you manage social life and school? 4. What’s the biggest challenge? 5. How will you pay off the student loans (sorry if that was personal I’m just curious for future reference!) 6. Can you get a dorm by yourself 7. Dorm or apartment 8. It would mean a lot if you replied if not that’s totally fine! (I wanna be a veterinarian in my future 🤍)

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hi! I'm planning to make a video about university life/how I got into Yale/Q&A soon and I'll make sure to address these questions there! Thanks sm for your support :)

    • @Cassiesinterlude
      @Cassiesinterlude วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ girl ofcccc! When u do a q&a do u mind hiding my user ?

  • @0trustt
    @0trustt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Underrated editing….

    • @0trustt
      @0trustt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And sound effects

  • @mahakhan432
    @mahakhan432 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You have such good camera quality!

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      HAHA THANK U ITS MY IPHONE IN CINEMATIC MODE 😭😭😭 glad to see its doin its job well

    • @mahakhan432
      @mahakhan432 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @teaforthought101 wait FR?! Dude that some studio mode istg

    • @azulrosai2785
      @azulrosai2785 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My mom is a narcicist. Thanks for the video. It helps me

  • @KautharSaeed
    @KautharSaeed 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you this is so helpful.. I’ve been in this situation n I’m at the moment of feeling guilty coz I keep distance but this this is deep for me n understanding that I’m not the only one going through this is a game changer.. so yes I choose myself it’s so nice I feel good wen I distance myself from her🥱♥️

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      never feel guilty for protecting yourself and putting yourself first. proud of you you got this!!

  • @sapnapandey5922
    @sapnapandey5922 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @satturmuruges
    @satturmuruges 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great lesson from NPD abuse, Love our selfs and focusing our wishes!!!.

  • @Nietskii
    @Nietskii 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whenever that self doubt arises we should always picture how others would feel being subject to such denigration.

  • @Yourbro8279
    @Yourbro8279 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is so relatable tho, but then im glad u made it through this stronger and wiser tho, thanks for the video appreciate it, good news for myself noona im going on a solo trip to china to visit my distant relative hoping for more growth and self development within myself after this trip

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      that's awesome!! have a good time :)

  • @faytelinegod9541
    @faytelinegod9541 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I constantly reset with video games, and I'm not the only one according to reddit. The only silver lining is that save money on video games cuz i take 4ever to beat them.

  • @eshvarakrupa5011
    @eshvarakrupa5011 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    idk about narcissist ,but the motivation is life is shit there is no happiness , no one loves me, no one appreciates ur struggle ,hardwork in ur career, i dont have bright future in life but i can see through dark(dark i mean i am just sick and tired cruelty happenned to me) so i am used to bre a failure

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The first thing that came into my mind was atoms ⚛️

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The worst thing about being a doormat is that, I don't even have that many boundaries but the one I do have, my mom wants to test it. I do not like sitting on my bed with outside clothes, so I have told my family about this same rule when they would enter my room. No one really sat on my bed anyways, but my mom, she just makes a face at me ask says, "Really? Not even your own mother?" And things like that to test me. I tell her not to sit on my bed and she has not done it, but she makes me feel agitated because she always does that routine when she enters my room. That's legit like my only boundary, and she keeps poking the bear 🐻 😭

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It really does hurt so bad to self censor. I didnt know how much I did it until I was surrounded by the people I love, and I couldn't speak honestly with them when I disagree with what they were saying

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    PREACH!

  • @Hfde6ingubi9h_vff
    @Hfde6ingubi9h_vff 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i think i found my home💛 considering the Asian culture, everything that was said is right on point !

  • @6즙
    @6즙 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hi!! i'm also a korean american student living in korea rn in an international school, and yale is my dream school. ur my role model-do you have any recommendations or tips for achieving this?? as of right now, i'm a freshman, and i'm not sure how to distinguish myself from others because the opportunities we have are pretty much similar.

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      my biggest advice is to find an extracurricular or subject that lights you up and you love to do, and just pour everything you got into that! genuine passion and interest stands out no matter what pool you're in. I know it can be daunting to think about "finding your true passion" because it's so commodified in the world of college admissions but just be honest with what you truly love and you can never fail <3 wishing you the best!

    • @6즙
      @6즙 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@teaforthought101 thank you so much for the advice! <33

  • @Reaydanaa
    @Reaydanaa หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love u ily ily ily ily ily

  • @thenewestmedia2424
    @thenewestmedia2424 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think burnout culture is also fueled by social media, especially short-form video content like TikTok and Instagram Reels. For a lot of people who consume SFVC every day, your brain gets rewired to want immediate dopamine hits like the ones that you get after watching a short video. If you faze out watching very short videos and infinite content, you'll be able to (re-)develop the patience necessary to do more monotonous work for longer periods of time.

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yup totally agree

    • @seabreeze4559
      @seabreeze4559 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the rewiring thing is a myth, neural pruning makes that impossible

  • @arachnid4910
    @arachnid4910 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s your major at yale thanks

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 หลายเดือนก่อน

      political science with a data science certificate!

  • @Reaydanaa
    @Reaydanaa หลายเดือนก่อน

    😘😘😘😘

  • @Yourbro8279
    @Yourbro8279 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg I'm back after so long, true I've been romanticizing my life too these days it's really all about learning and self improving after the age of 18, you've been improving alot unnie, but remember don't compare your beauty with others you already look good enough😊

  • @TwylasCouch
    @TwylasCouch หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ex good girl gone BAD GIRL here 😂

  • @bjbalva
    @bjbalva หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good girl syndrome gone bad.

  • @twinklesharma396
    @twinklesharma396 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a big people pleaser i don't even play the song i like because my friends and family doesn't like it... When someone around me i will do everything probably i never do when I'm alone.. if the food is not effecient for us im the who will say i will not eat just to make my family members think how good of a person I'm..im fed up with my own behaviour it's tiring and frustrating but I'm doing it for almost 15 years I'm afraid if i act differently people gonna think I'm weird.

    • @TheZhenya19
      @TheZhenya19 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      People are thinking stuff anyway. They're having thoughts anyway. They're gonna have thoughts and opinions when you're good and when you're not "good". Allow them to have those thoughts. They may think you're weird, but hey, they'll survive, I'm sure ;) Plus, people will treat you with more respect when you'll start treating your wants needs and etc like you value them.

    • @twinklesharma396
      @twinklesharma396 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheZhenya19 yes I decided to change myself I've suffered enough I'm thinking I'm weird but the people I live with are more weirder than me. I will stop putting myself on pedestal. No one is thinking how their behaviour and habits affecting me so why should I be worried about them.

  • @ShravaniRawool
    @ShravaniRawool หลายเดือนก่อน

    Try a collab with another vlogger named as millie Liao. She's also in yale

  • @acertaineuphori4
    @acertaineuphori4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great vid! I usually find improvement channels to be boring but you engage with the audience great 💖

  • @florayfauna
    @florayfauna หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOVED THIS VIDEO, thanks babe

  • @pillowese
    @pillowese หลายเดือนก่อน

    ure doing great!!!! i see this channel is going to grow so much

  • @teaforthought101
    @teaforthought101 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BYE not me glitching towards the end 💀💀 hopefully it's not too distracting y'all 😭

  • @kalina7
    @kalina7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you 💙

  • @jenetasweety1033
    @jenetasweety1033 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @avipsasharma
    @avipsasharma หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish I found this video sooner

  • @starr779
    @starr779 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just know this TH-cam channel is going to grow so fast girly. Your vibe is amazing! Also you have new ideas I feel like so many other self-help TH-camrs are just repeating each other if ykwim.

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! The whole reason I started making videos is because I noticed that some of the deepest things I struggle with myself aren't talked about enough or at all. Please let me know anytime if there are any topics that you'd like for me to explore as well 🥰 🥰

  • @starr779
    @starr779 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you I needed this ❤

  • @lostkittenxx
    @lostkittenxx หลายเดือนก่อน

    I find shadow work so mentally draining when you're just starting out, which is why I ironically ran away from it for a long time. But using it for my advantage sounds like a better lens to see it through! Thank you, Lauren xx

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is such a perfect way of putting it, but I also realized the hard way that you can only grow when you face your fears head on. So glad I could help and I'm rooting for you babe 🥰 🥰 🥰

  • @eshvarakrupa5011
    @eshvarakrupa5011 หลายเดือนก่อน

    nice i am stuck and got stabbed by many false hope in past , u know its like if u place great wall in a centre of a country where men in right and female in left separated cause to prevent assault and both men and women find other partners abroad and not marry their own country because women hate men also the world is hell

  • @Vini7-f5l
    @Vini7-f5l 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm your 550th subscriber ❤❤

  • @arminjahan1201
    @arminjahan1201 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is a great video

  • @Yourbro8279
    @Yourbro8279 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks noona for another great video, im back again idk if u remember me, I've actually been at this phase of life recently where i deleted Instagram, and im improving my looks by buying toner and serum even as a guy, but great advice from you once again especially when u talk about the part where u were bullied oh gosh i was bullied too in the past so i completely relate to that but dang i wish u have a community or discord group, but noona im sure u will be very successful in future, it feels like we're in this journey together of self improvement and it feels so nice together with others in the same community

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much!! your support means so much :)

    • @Yourbro8279
      @Yourbro8279 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @teaforthought101 I will always be here :)

  • @medusa9022
    @medusa9022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude, try having better lighting, find your makeup style and a style of dressing that shows you. I can see that you're still in the process of growth and I think you are doing great. Lots of love from my side

    • @teaforthought101
      @teaforthought101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you!! I love your feedback <3

  • @medusa9022
    @medusa9022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your videos so fucking much I swear to God

  • @AkshitaKeshri
    @AkshitaKeshri 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @rutujasabde5086
    @rutujasabde5086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Heyyy….video was really amazing…keep going girl