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Thank you so much

Excellent information

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Very insightful and introspective. So much to take from this conversation.

Do they really forgive them do they really or is it just because we the villainize it so much that everybody knows that Nazis are bad in Japanese at that time period under imperial rule was bad but would we have help them then

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Is it healthy to dream.

Well said ❤

This is blasphemy and a fool’s belief…..flee from women who preach this gospel

Too many people have no idea what the Bible says thank you for this

Talk about reading through a lense 😑 The story is about GOD delivering the israelites. Moses plays a secondary part as does everyone else.

So God had nothing to do with that part of history? It was all the woman hu? Maybe, God put those inclinations in the woman ? I’m just spitballing here.

That's NOT a myth.

All the people in this community are weird and gross

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Or how easy they are to not remember.

Great job

People here thinking this is too hard on the kids. Lmao Where are my fellow Asians?

My advice? Never take a word of advice about parenting from this woman.

I took the toys away that weren't cleaned up after asking for like a month and they still had imaginative toys like some dolls, blocks, and books. This is just cruel for a 5 or younger...

Her voice reminds me of that shandra vander ark lol

Yeah cos a kid who has a meltdown over an oreo or a choc chip cookie is just a bad kid and not struggling with anything else

Wow. The comments against this rational parenting reflect why we're such a mess as a society right now. Children learn to regulate their emotions as a result of needing to regulate their emotions. There will have been attempts to find the right incentive before removing the toys. And if that hadnt worked, there would have been other strategies to follow. As a parent, one of the things you must do is teach your child how to be a functional member of a community - leaving them to indulge every emotion without consequence is not that.

This is straight from the 60s

And that kid is going to tell his friends in school years later that you cleaned out his room for no reason because they do not understand the difference between privileges and enrichment. One toy at a time whenever he acted up until he had none, instead of taking them all at once would have been more effective. Yeah, maybe it worked, but I bet once he hits 14, he'll be back to terror.

I would really like some insight on alternative methods from all the commenters saying this is a terrible idea. From my perspective what happens when children don’t have consequences is they continue the troublesome behavior (whether developmentally appropriate or not) and never learn to be a functioning citizen in society. There are long term consequences to not setting boundaries with children…this includes entitlement, lack of motivation to change and over all shitty behavior as adults. It’s totally appropriate to set a boundary with a child and say “No, you cannot have these toys if you continue (insert behavior here). I will help you regulate, help you build the habit to learn to calm down (deep breathing), but screaming will not get you what you want” This is teaching children that screaming and making a fuss does not result in getting what they want. The ones that have no discipline are the same children that end up taking advantage of others, lying, stealing..etc because they cannot regulate themselves and believe they deserve the thing they want, even if they have done nothing to earn it.

That's not leaning in. Leaning in would be to emotionally be available to them

Just know that doing this now, to make life easier for YOU, the adult, who knows how to cope. Is guaranteeing years and years of work to build your child's trust back later. His world shifted in that moment and you became something else to him. You're no longer his mom, in that moment. I hope you're comfortable with that and with what it's going to take to become a mom again. Know this. You're not his mom to him anymore.

Punishing kids for developmentally appropriate behaviours is not only mean but also stupid. If you take away one thing and their behaviours continue why would you keep taking away more things like it would suddenly work? This lady is gonna be so confused when their kid leaves at 17 and never speaks to her again.

Kids literally need toys to develop and learn. Not only would that be punishing a child that cannot understand emotions and how to control them, you’re taking away some essential tools for emotional regulation and learning in general. Doing this isn’t going to help your child, it’s only scaring them.

And this is how you teach children to bury their emotions and become emotionally unavailable adults. Good job making his emotions about you.

I did the same thing with my daughter for the same reason.

Aaaaand that’s how you guarantee a spot in the nursing homes.

Vaccines

Kids need to learn pain is ok with trust. Some gotta wait till they get away from their parents to learn that tho

Are you kidding me taking away toys to punish your 3-4 year old who aren’t great at regulating there emotions?!

Finances are only a tiny portion of this conversation. This is about connectedness.

Thank you for sharing this information. The influence of familial connectedness is so important. Not only for the 'sandwich generation' but for their children and their parents. So much knowledge and nurturing have been lost because of the separated and individualized pattern of living that we've adopted.

What? That has nothing to do with “multigenerational families” and every thing to do with the younger generations not being able to afford housing. Parents and grandparents were actually able to buy a house when they were in the market to buy one. My generation will never be able to afford to buy a home so we are reliant on our parents to pass that to us or we’d be homeless or renting for the rest of our lives. Living with my parents is not a choice that either of us want it’s a necessity.

Experiencing the love of Jesus is amazing for sure.