“How’s your heart ?”Podcast
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Do MALE and FEMALE friendship work? | Defining male friendship with Thulani and Takunda |
Do men have BFFs? Do they openly share their feelings with their friends? Can men and women truly be friends? If you've ever pondered about the nature of male friendships, please join us in this episode as we delve into the topic. We'd love to hear your thoughts on what you consider to be the defining characteristics of a friend.
0:00 Intro
01:44 How’s your heart?
04:41 Friendship vs Acquaintances
10:01 Covenant relationships
12:37 Let’s talk male friendships, Do men have BFFs?
17:47 How friendships change when men get married /Your spouse as a friend vs other friends
25:04 The impact of physical distance in friendships
40:57 Compartmentalising friends
43:33 God as a friend
50:06 Female and Male friends, can married men have female friends?
#friendship #podcast #southafrica #marriage
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Growing up Coloured and RACISM in SOUTH AFRICA
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After 30 years of democracy, what is the plight of a Coloured person in South Africa? Join us as we discuss race, culture and faith amongst the coloured community and experiencing racism in South Africa. Mumtaz Podcast youtube.com/@MumtazUnfiltered?si=845vNi3VdhtBnLaM #racism #podcast #democracy #southafrica Timestamps 0:00 Intro 03:19 How is your heart? 06:33 Parenting the inner child 06:33 Ch...
How my FAMILY ended up in ZIMBABWE from SOUTH AFRICA |Journey to CA(SA) |Mentorship | EP.18
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In today's episode, we hear from Thulani about growing up in Zimbabwe with a South African heritage. We discuss the importance of mentorship with specific reference to the journey to becoming a Chartered Accountant in South Africa. We are excited to share our stories and hope you find it inspiring. #podcast #career #southafrica #zimbabwe #mentor
MONTHLY VLOG | TRIPE IN LONDON! BIG CHURCH FESTIVAL and HIKING
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Joint me as I am explore London, here’s what I got up to recently ; Big church festival- Biggest Christian Festival www.bigchurchfestival.com Chinese Hot Pot happylambuk.com/restaurants/holborn/ Hiking/Walk in Brighton www.alltrails.com/en-gb/england/east-sussex/brighton/walking #bigchurch #festival #chinese #hotpot #hiking
Is the CA(SA) qualification WORTH IT ? | Journey to CA(SA) with Grace | Working at BIG FOUR| EP.17
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In the upcoming episode, the second part of my discussion with Grace will delve into her personal journey in becoming a Chartered Accountant (South Africa). Her journey did not start out in the conventional way, but we hear how hard work and talent can help you reach your goal. We are excited to share this inspiring episode with you and hope you find it insightful and motivating. #career #saica...
The Truth about growing up and Living in South Africa as a FOREIGNER | XENOPHOBIA | IDENTITY | EP.16
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Apologies for the inconsistency in audio In this special episode, we are honored to have Grace as our guest. She shares her experience of growing up in South Africa as a Nigerian. Grace explores the intricacies of how this experience has impacted her identity, as she never fully identified as South African and never felt truly Nigerian either.
Against all odds,from SOUTH AFRICAN TOWNSHIP to LONDON | My CA(SA) journey with Amanda Hobana |EP.15
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In this episode, Amanda Hobana, CA(SA), shares her journey of achieving her dream of becoming a Chartered Accountant. She discusses the challenges of facing failure and how she overcame it on multiple occasions, and how this experience has influenced her relationship with failure. Additionally, she talks about what this success means for her and her family. Links SAICA Thuthuka fund www.saica.o...
Finding myself BACKSLIDING...Is there HOPE? |EP.14
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Sometimes, the Christian journey can feel like being on the mountaintops, while other times it feels like being in the valley or in the pit, similar to Joseph's experience. I'm not sure about you, my brother or sister, but at times it feels like I'm just not getting it right! Am I bound to my sinful nature, or is there hope? Songs referenced: Run to the Father by Cody Carnes th-cam.com/video/HT...
TRAVEL VLOG | Spend 4 days with me in IRELAND | CLIFFS OF MOHER and TITANIC experience
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Spend Easter Weekend with me in the second biggest city in Ireland, Cork. Shout out to my awesome, beautiful and long lost host ☺️ #ireland #travel #vlog #friendship
Why I stopped drinking alcohol
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Why I stopped drinking alcohol
Why I have not been on social media for 5 YEARS | EP. 13
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Why I have not been on social media for 5 YEARS | EP. 13
VLOG | Perfume making class, celebrating birthdays and London SHOWS
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VLOG | Perfume making class, celebrating birthdays and London SHOWS
ONLINE DATING in the UK | CHEAP DATES and BEING GHOSTED | EP.12
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ONLINE DATING in the UK | CHEAP DATES and BEING GHOSTED | EP.12
Work Ethic and Stewardship | Reflecting on 2 years in the UK with Zanele | EP.11
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Work Ethic and Stewardship | Reflecting on 2 years in the UK with Zanele | EP.11
DATING: Disappointments and TRUSTING GOD with my LOVE LIFE | ONLINE DATING | Ep.10
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DATING: Disappointments and TRUSTING GOD with my LOVE LIFE | ONLINE DATING | Ep.10
VLOG | London Markets | MOVING HOUSE | #LindoinLondon
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VLOG | London Markets | MOVING HOUSE | #LindoinLondon
I’M BACK from South Africa 🇿🇦 | Reflecting on the ROLE OF FAMILY in our lives | EP.09
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I’M BACK from South Africa 🇿🇦 | Reflecting on the ROLE OF FAMILY in our lives | EP.09
NAVIGATING CHANGE | RELOCATING | Leaving AUDIT | RELATIONSHIPS |EP. 8
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NAVIGATING CHANGE | RELOCATING | Leaving AUDIT | RELATIONSHIPS |EP. 8
HOW IS YOUR HEART ? with FRITZ
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HOW IS YOUR HEART ? with FRITZ
Marriage culture in GHANA vs SOUTH AFRICA | SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS | EP. 7
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Marriage culture in GHANA vs SOUTH AFRICA | SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS | EP. 7
TESTIMONY | Heartbreak , Depression and homosexuality| EP. 6
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TESTIMONY | Heartbreak , Depression and homosexuality| EP. 6
TESTIMONY | Losing a parent and the power of a church community | The role of Godly Men | EP. 5
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TESTIMONY | Losing a parent and the power of a church community | The role of Godly Men | EP. 5
Introducing a new segment “Men’s Corner “| The importance of vision | EP. 4
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Introducing a new segment “Men’s Corner “| The importance of vision | EP. 4
Adulting| The joys and difficulties of starting new friendships| EP. 3
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Adulting| The joys and difficulties of starting new friendships| EP. 3
Do it afraid | The role of faith in our lives| EP. 2
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Do it afraid | The role of faith in our lives| EP. 2
How to get get an honest answer to “How are you ?” | Get to know me | EP. 1
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How to get get an honest answer to “How are you ?” | Get to know me | EP. 1

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  • @yolandasibanda25
    @yolandasibanda25 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🔥 🔥 Looking amazing

  • @mathapelomahlaba6768
    @mathapelomahlaba6768 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Love the fits smash💯 smash👌🏽all of them.

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    55:55 made me laugh sooo hard!!! Lmaooo, YOU ARE HUNGRY hahahahahaha

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But why are you lighting candles 😂😂💀

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Host is looking GORGEOUS, she's serving looks and I'm here for it!

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm excited to hear the mandem 😁

  • @mayalippert2046
    @mayalippert2046 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Coloured people have to prove themselves much much more to be taken seriously.

  • @karabonkabinde7290
    @karabonkabinde7290 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro, Nigerians need to stop playing with us. Is she telling us Americans, and everyone else who has issues with Nigerians is possessed by a spirit? Like everyone is wrong except Nigerians themselves?

  • @emmanuelparsotam5028
    @emmanuelparsotam5028 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks ladies for that insightful discussion. ekt so gelag 58 min in about whites in London have to work hard because their entitlement umbrella is gone that is classic for me. goetjoe!!! Feel our pressure. I used to have an account at the sea point bank. Then I would sit with the white manager and every question I would ask him he would go into the system make like he was searching for like 10 minutes. he can't navigate the system and he would call a coloured girl in to help him within a minute I have my answer. Frustration nation. now how is he the manager?? because of entitlement of his white skin colour but he was utterly useless. every time I would go sit with him. they are embarrassing themselves.

  • @bronwynpaulsen1469
    @bronwynpaulsen1469 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was an excellent watch ladies 💚

  • @alfrednods9435
    @alfrednods9435 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am new mntase, love it here🇿🇦❤️🙏

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Enkosi mntase ☺️ you’re welcome 🥳

  • @rosekg2716
    @rosekg2716 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Coloured people have separated themselves from black south africans they r the step kids of the white apartheid

  • @apollosmartyn
    @apollosmartyn 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great work hope to collaborate with you 💙💙💙Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe one day 😃Thank you for watching ❤

  • @guy_daimond
    @guy_daimond 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This has been a great conversation. ❤

  • @MumtazUnfiltered
    @MumtazUnfiltered 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved doing this episode with you! 🥹🫶🏽

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It was lovely indeed, thank you for sharing your heart with us ❣

  • @sibongiledhliwayo8386
    @sibongiledhliwayo8386 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm the other sister that also moved to south africa ❤

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lovely to have you here 😊🙏🏾

  • @SuleJonathan
    @SuleJonathan หลายเดือนก่อน

    My question to south Africa is it the only Africa that Nigeria people are staying that they always complained of Nigeria citizens are that and these.Ghana, Cameron Sénégal and Togo they don't complain about why always South Africa? A failed child will always gave excuses of his failure. Xenophobic hatred is virus in your Vien the more show hatreds it's spread.

  • @sizakelediya3872
    @sizakelediya3872 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To grow up in SA it's doesn't mean you South African you Nigerian that's it. It your parents issue that you didn't learn your culture. It fun that other Africa countries have a lowest unemployment it us who highest but they come here.

  • @siyabulelamlungwana8181
    @siyabulelamlungwana8181 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sis, bulawayo (zimbabwe) has xhosas, basotho, tswanas, ndebeles, vendas, and San speaking people. Just TH-cam search like i did.

  • @WilliamKhumalo-n8q
    @WilliamKhumalo-n8q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So when people don't follow the law and disrespecting our country we have to keep quiet

  • @ipaint3sing
    @ipaint3sing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New Subby Alert🚨‼️

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome and thank you sis ❤️

  • @ipaint3sing
    @ipaint3sing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeeees

  • @ipaint3sing
    @ipaint3sing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How did I not know about this? 🥲I need to go ASAP🙌🏽

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s such an amazing experience , definitely check it out.

  • @cheledirakolote8454
    @cheledirakolote8454 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The anchor does not know there are Ndebeles in Zim? Ya neh I think we must reinstate Bantu education

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is why I had the conversation, to be educated. Thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @juba9000
    @juba9000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is no history of civil war in SA, so to say there is a thing between Xhosas and Zulus which she compares to Yorubas and Igbos is false. Rurals in South Africa behave similarly, the treatment/warmth she got in Limpopo she is more likely to get in elsewhere in any rural parts of South Africa.

  • @mrss1357
    @mrss1357 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pupupuuuuuu ....silaaa❤

  • @takundamutombodzi3877
    @takundamutombodzi3877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hahaha Man like BA, how you ended up on my timeline i will never know😂😂dope interview brother

  • @yolandasibanda25
    @yolandasibanda25 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well articulated 😊

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yho guys thank you, I watched twice 🎉 - I just had to

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oah this is such a good episode. the quality has improved so much!

  • @fisstudies320
    @fisstudies320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is definitely a Nigerian who was born in Zimbabwe. No South African will ever be ashamed of acknowledging who they are anywhere in this world. But then again South Africans are never really interested in Africa. We prefer to be here at home among our own people and not with outsiders.

  • @boitumelo1006
    @boitumelo1006 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation ladies,truly inspiring 🙌🏽❤

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for catching and we appreciate the kind words 🙏🏾

  • @charlesgelo6578
    @charlesgelo6578 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations to both of you Ladies (CA)SA's(imbhokotho) you have realy inspired a lot of S.Africans and Africans as a whole especially for those who come from humbling backgrounds I had seen God in your testimony Amanda when you broke down on your first fail results you felt that you were in the dark and God heird your cry and brought you instantly to light by refreshing and restoring you with His power through faith and when He paid off your tuition for the whole year Praises to God He is good 🙏🏾🙏🏾 🙌🙌❤❤❤

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for those kind words and the encouragement 🙏🏾

  • @sellomonama7797
    @sellomonama7797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's not the fear of the unknown. The truth is that some companies employ undocumented foreigners for low wages. South Africans are sidelined because they want to be paid a minimum wage. Forget not that there is a national minimum wage law in SA. People are just competing for jobs. Think of the building that collapsed on workers (mostly undocumented migrants) in CTN. They said they were earning R85 per day. That's slavery. ZIM people once fought with the Lesotho nationals in CTN for jobs. Was that xenophobia? If we really want to stop the so-called xenophobia, we must speak the truth.

  • @mathapelomahlaba6768
    @mathapelomahlaba6768 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was really interesting and mind opening to watch. Thank you for sharing you story with us Gracey 🤗.

  • @sipheleledimaza5038
    @sipheleledimaza5038 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved it ladies! So proud of you Gracie (Not me sounding like a mom, eish😅)

    • @graceland_12
      @graceland_12 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha thank you ma!

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @gaobodiwentong3492
    @gaobodiwentong3492 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This thing of xenophobia in South Africa. In the Media is a big issue but on the ground there nothing like that in general .99.99999% of South Africans never experienced this in our areas. Africans are in Every small & big towns here but i have never seen people chasing Africans from another African countries .This happened someone in Johannesburg way back ,for the past 30 years only saw it on TV far back.Those people were fighting for a woman as we were told.actually it was like a gangster thing.Media was the one shouted this xenophobia in every news bulletin. Where is xenophobia in South Africa in reality & practical.??

  • @listenup2882
    @listenup2882 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope she learns Yoruba.

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish you expanded on the experience of writing the exam with God. I love hearing about those God kind moments 🥹

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe we’ll get her to come back ☺️

  • @elisahobana9677
    @elisahobana9677 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grace you will always be famous 🫵🏾❤️

    • @graceland_12
      @graceland_12 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha #wenodeycarrylast 😎

    • @elisahobana9677
      @elisahobana9677 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

  • @MercyOke
    @MercyOke 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow super inspiring 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @graceland_12
      @graceland_12 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Mercy!!! 😊

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it ❤

  • @TysonNgcobo-p5h
    @TysonNgcobo-p5h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @10:56 Nigerians really are all over😂😂😂 ...

  • @LorraineMosikari
    @LorraineMosikari 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like his girl xhem, she is relatable

  • @TebogoMashaba-i6m
    @TebogoMashaba-i6m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Africa unite ✊💕🙌🌞

  • @thabisogamede5064
    @thabisogamede5064 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let me support the girl.subscriber number 209🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for subscribing.

  • @ufundi1
    @ufundi1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So that we can bypass all of this inter-African xenophobia nonsense, I agree with using the new Pan-African identity term to cover 'Blacks' (Africans) of all persuasions: MwanaUbuntu ('Child of Ubuntu'), as promoted by the Kumbukeni podcast platform. 🙏🏿

  • @sulaak
    @sulaak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nigeria is also facing an immigration problem from the Sahel, which is the reason why Nigeria now have a farmer and Cattle herder clash today that has created over 2 million IDPs.'s across the middle belt of Nigeria. Immigration of Arab pastoralists from the Sahel is the root cause of the genocide of black Africans in Sudan.

  • @NkosikhonaMdluli
    @NkosikhonaMdluli 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cape town has lot of foreigners what are you talking about when you say you were not exposed to foreigners just because you are from Cape town

    • @HowIsYourHeartPod
      @HowIsYourHeartPod 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My point was that before moving to London, I didn't have any personal relationships with foreigners in SA, other than seeing them in shops or in the CBD. Living in London has allowed me to better understand their stories and experiences beyond what I see in the media. The podcast aims to understand people's experiences and appeal to their humanity rather than putting everyone in one box. Thank you for watching.

  • @mfundo6619
    @mfundo6619 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So you people are just gonna push propaganda without explaining what's causing the tension between South Africans and African foreigners? So u think South Africans just woke up one day and started despising foreigners for no reason? Every action has a reaction. Please don't disrespect us. This whole segment is shameful.

  • @ThebeMakgatho
    @ThebeMakgatho 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In terms of law you are not SAN, your parents are the problem because they didn't show you your roots. Because home is where your ancestors are.

  • @thabangtladi8057
    @thabangtladi8057 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SA has been providing millions of millions of you ungrateful creatures with free health care, free education, jobs, grants, tenders etc since from 1996. SA is carrying Africa's burden by hosting millions of African economic migrants yet you never mentioned all this. SA is the only African country that has never put fellow Africans in the refugee camps but you obviously not gonna appreciate it and be greatful for being allowed to even run businesses without any documents in SA mxm sis. World's largest mental asylum=Africa. Fix your own countries and stop expectring to be moore comfortable in SA more than in your own home countries