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Coming out to seriously homophobic parents - my story
I had a pretty horrific time when I came out, hopefully this video might help some of you who are or have gone through coming out to either homophobic or super religious parents. I originally uploaded this back in 2009, but took it down a few weeks after a 'friend' threatened to spread the video around. Anyway, spooked me enough that I made it private at the time. Anyway, it's back again :)
Back then it certainly wasn't an easy time and it was pretty rough for the following year. Now that some time has passed, me and my mum are closer than ever.
It just takes time...
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Summerland Fire - Douglas, Isle of man - 1973
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footage from the summerland disaster of 1973 in the isle of man. The fire would claim around 51 lives. R.I.P.
Woolworths after closing down (Douglas, Isle of Man)
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The Woolworths store in the Isle of Man closed down for the final time on 29th December, 2008. The store first opened back in 1924. I too this short peice of video on the 2nd of January, 2009.
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I took the wrong lift. This one went RIGHT to the TOP ! Not hot. I began to think 'Hmmm this isn't right' when it got all misty and quiet.
Ashley Hill school trip to Wales - 2004 - PART 1
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Ashley Hill school trip to Wales - 2004 - PART 1
THE HITMAN AND HER - PARK HALL CHORLEY 1990 ! HIGH QUALITY !
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7:45 !!!! During the kylie song, check out the 'Ghost Buster' - Hmmm... Check out the super 90's hair and cloths!
THE HITMAN AND HER - PARK HALL CHORLEY 1990 ! HIGH QUALITY ! PART 2
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Oh my... During the kylie song, check out the super gay dancer - Hmmm... Check out the super 90's hair and cloths!
Garage band TELPHONE song.
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SUPER OMG GOOD Z
HIGH QUALITY !!! RICK ASTLEY ON BRITAINS GOT THE POP FACTOR (2 UP 2 DOWN) LOL
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Very very funny.
Gil Amelio on how he will fix Apple (1995-ish?)
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Good old gil
Dear Mr Scully (80's Official Apple video !)
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A video from the younger 80s fans I WANT TO BE AN APPLE PERSON, RYAN AGED 16
Sky ONE 1993 ident + THE SALLY SHOW !
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I found these on a old VHS tape ! I was well amazed... part of card sharks or something is on there as well...
Inside the burj al arab (Lobby !)
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Inside the burj al arab (Lobby !)
Funny dog bitting curtain LOL - MUST WATCH
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Funny dog bitting curtain LOL - MUST WATCH
The Martinettis Bring a computer home - Part 3
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The Martinettis Bring a computer home - Part 3
The Martinettis Bring a computer home - Part 2
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The Martinettis Bring a computer home - Part 2
The Martinettis Bring a computer home - Part 1
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The Martinettis Bring a computer home - Part 1
Cira (think thats how its spelt) gone silly
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Cira (think thats how its spelt) gone silly
Lucy .. She's cool
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Lucy .. She's cool
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Me + Safeways Carpark + A trolly - Bad back . .
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Me Safeways Carpark A trolly - Bad back . .
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Apple lisa Demo from 1983 Part 1
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Yet more peel
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  • @Glitch4Twitch
    @Glitch4Twitch หลายเดือนก่อน

    I grew up in Long Island and I remember this infomercial would air around 11pm on channel 55. I grew up some years without cable, and it was the only thing to watch. We'd watch it all the time---I thought it was a sitcom. It was such a good ad.

  • @johannkieser5006
    @johannkieser5006 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ryan, the Irish people with the RCC are known not to be au fait with the natural diversity of humans, especially when it comes to sexuality. Just about everything was controlled by the church and children were forced-taught how to live their lives. I am happy that you applied emotional intelligence to break free despite some negativity. You are a brilliant and handsome young man, which made things easier for you. Sharing your experience is important to encourage other guys to stop worrying and start living. I am very proud of you and wish you a wonderful, happy future. Much admiration and lots of love from Cape Town, South Africa.

  • @Ken2591
    @Ken2591 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was very touched by you sharing your story. I hope you are staying safe and thriving. I wish you love and happiness.

  • @matthewwhittington-jk9ep
    @matthewwhittington-jk9ep หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lesbian women also have this too

  • @toaster2428
    @toaster2428 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:00 Relatable, im Irish Catholic and 15, my parents aren’t homophobic but our family has history of it

  • @MarkWyatt-qm3gk
    @MarkWyatt-qm3gk หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊😊

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😊

  • @mikeconnor4906
    @mikeconnor4906 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @mikeconnor4906
    @mikeconnor4906 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great job. You are yourself now. Always talk to someone who you can trust.

  • @localchild451
    @localchild451 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm currently trying to find all information as possible and from people's reactions it was big... And I hope for anyone that was involved and made it is alright and that I hope it doesn't stay in your head forever.

  • @billspooks
    @billspooks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My classmate committed suicide because he feared his parents more than death. Keep going my friend.

  • @dickloucks8853
    @dickloucks8853 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this sounds 'superficial', and I suppose it is....but I appreciate your message....and you are very handsome.

  • @castor007troy
    @castor007troy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I respect how long ago you uploaded this video. I'm reading the Steve Jobs book and it did not paint Amelio well.

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This why it is important that we Gay men have our own spaces to talk about affairs that affect us and connect with other Gay men; in the same way that straight men and women have their own spaces, and straight men and women must respect Gay spaces and respect our differences 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

  • @40022laconia
    @40022laconia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Closed 29/03/24 was the last night.

  • @garybregel4259
    @garybregel4259 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, his only son. Well dad, what do think about no grandchildren to carry on the family name. Preserving the family legacy, nope, not going to happen. I guess they should have had more children. People that are gay don't understand what they are taking away from their parents. They wonder why their parents are not jumping up and down with joy because their kid is gay. When their kid dies one day their family name and legacy dies with them. Some parents have trouble accepting that and rightfully so. Coming out gay is a very selfish decision in my opionion. That being said, I believe that most gay people are born gay. I think about 25% of gay people are a product of there surrounding, culture. Schools strongly encouraging young people to come out and be more accepting of this life style. I've actually gave it some thought that it's a form of population control. I hope to God that the government isn't putting somthing in the water that's causing this whole thing, but it wouldn't surprise me any if that were true. Sorry it got long but these are my thoughts on the subject.

  • @Idrick
    @Idrick 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am gay , to my knowledge I been gay since I was 5 , I want to come out , I know I feel better but I don’t know how , I came out to my ex wife , I don’t think all guys are attractive I know who I am attractive to , I love hanging out with a dude cas that’s who I am , so I love ur video an channel

  • @imwade3
    @imwade3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love the ending of the video!!

  • @qwertyTRiG
    @qwertyTRiG 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The world is better now in many ways, I think, but coming out can still be very hard for many people. Videos like this are important. Hope you're doing well now. From the video description, it sounds like things improved.

  • @clivehybart540
    @clivehybart540 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done buddy

  • @davidhorton2620
    @davidhorton2620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Howdy from Texas ! I enjoyed your video and you. A very dear Irish friend recently died. Your accent reminds me of him, Brinsley --- God rest him. I had planned to visit him in Ireland this year. Come to Texas !

  • @harolddavis2580
    @harolddavis2580 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your a wonderful young man. Be proud of yourself, you have nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Hold your head high and walk tall. Be safe and be true to yourself, love you, your beautiful ❤️ 🏳️‍🌈

  • @davidcopple8071
    @davidcopple8071 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop apologizing. You did wonderful. You're a lovely young man and I hope your mother has come to realize just how lucky she is to have such a brave and beautiful son. Carry on.

  • @ReturnofTheBunny
    @ReturnofTheBunny ปีที่แล้ว

    This playing after the Kids' WB block is what got me to beg my mom to finally get a computer and so she got a Performa (which we had to share). I don't care what anyone says about the Performa or any Mac from the 1990s, I had fun with the games on it it and the Power Mac and iMac G3 that came after. My subsequent Macs however have gotten have gotten more internet-friendly but less game-friendly and funnily enough I get less happy 🙃 Thx Steve Jobs

  • @888ssss
    @888ssss ปีที่แล้ว

    plenty of slappers in tonight.

  • @johnball8758
    @johnball8758 ปีที่แล้ว

    10 years and I'm just seeing this.I hope you sre happy and well.

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless and protect all the LGBT people from all the evilness of the world 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈✝️✝️✝️✝️ In this world full of evilness, hate, jealousy, gossip, envy, sufferment, pain, harassment, discrimination, anger, abuse, murder, theft, rape and endless negative feelings and dangerous behaviors; We, the LGBT people must be aware of the evilness that exists in the world and not allow that anything or anyone divide us, we must always be willing to help other LGBT people and we must not leave any LGBT person alone or left behind 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 We must be aware that we, the LGBT people not only face the same problems and situations that straight people face, but we also face hate for our sexuality, hate for being different, hate for being LGBT, and that is, the hate just for being who we are and likewise we must be aware that not all the people that says that support us really do so 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 I don't care who you are or where you come from or what reputation you have or if other people like you or dislike you, if you are an LGBT person you have all my love and support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We can make a difference and be a light of hope to make from the world a better place 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 Never allow that straight men and women divide us 💥💥💥💥💥 Gay Men together forever ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people together forever 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

  • @Paul-zu1iv
    @Paul-zu1iv ปีที่แล้ว

    This TV show started my 27 year life long career as a DJ! Thank you hitman and her!

  • @Eric-1701
    @Eric-1701 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm watching this 11 years after you posted it. I loved it. You are, in the video, delightfully gay! :) On a serious not, I'm sorry that you had that initial reaction from your mom. I'm super glad that she is adjusting to it now though. I hope you are healthy and happy in 2023!

  • @gdutfulkbhh7537
    @gdutfulkbhh7537 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gil Amelio > Tim Cook

  • @danielwilda8167
    @danielwilda8167 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your a good man stay focused on your goals choose a man you love for who he is and how he treats you & you feel the same way about him . Wishing you a happy life ⭐️🏳️‍🌈👍💜🇺🇸❤️🌈💙

  • @claztube
    @claztube ปีที่แล้ว

    ...from the first 8 minutes I feel your angst and am maybe going to see what has happened since by going thru the comments. Also see if your still active on YT. HIV was very new when I came out, already living away from home, maybe 22 years old. Due to HIV being mis understood and the homophobia from my mum I was told I was still welcome to come to my parents home for visits but I was also told I couldn't bring a significant other over with me. So I wrote a note to my parents and told them if they ever thought they'd want to visit that my dad was welcome but not his wife, my mum. Sophmoric but it made me feel good to throw it back.

  • @lifewriter7455
    @lifewriter7455 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are gay guys so handsome and cute and beautiful?

  • @DonnieChoi
    @DonnieChoi ปีที่แล้ว

    Any updates Ryan? What has become of you? 😁

  • @fatherjay
    @fatherjay ปีที่แล้ว

    A beautiful testimony by an honest teen and step to wholeness

  • @ariseaman390
    @ariseaman390 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why the straight people don't have to come out? Or thieves? Homosexuality is still a crime in some countries. There can be a death penalty for being gay. Just being you gets you killed. Food for thought.

  • @86eastbay
    @86eastbay ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad was at the show where he got booed off the stage. We just watched Blackberry and Steve Jobs really reamed BB

  • @enemyghost2170
    @enemyghost2170 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude what happened... Now it's just Elsa beats up spider man with a baseball bat :(

  • @ER-sv1np
    @ER-sv1np ปีที่แล้ว

    - เหมือนไม่เก่ง แต่ไม่ใช่ Jobs อัจฉริยะ ต่างหาก - jobs เปลี่ยนวิธีการทำธุรกิจ disrupted ยกระดับทุกด้านขึ้นไปอีก Jobs เปลี่ยนโลกอย่างแท้จริง Gil เป็น ceo ยุคเดิม แต่ Jobs เหนือกว่านั้น เพราะ ไป disrupted ยุคเก่าทุกด้าน (นี้สินะ ระดับที่เราต้องหา) อีกคนที่เปลี่ยนโลกได้คือ Elon - Jobs แทบไม่ทำอะไรเหมือนเดิมเลย (คนมีประสบการณ์คือคนทำสิ่งเดิม มากสุดคือดีสุดในโลก ณ ขณะนั้น) (แต่เราอยู่ในยุค ทุกอย่างเปลี่ยนเร็ว disruption สร้างให้เทศไป disrupt เขา)

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 ปีที่แล้ว

    I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @captainamericaamerica8090
    @captainamericaamerica8090 ปีที่แล้ว

    So Sad 😢😢😢

  • @tahfaa66
    @tahfaa66 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for you. I know it’s been years. I hope your life has gone splendidly!

  • @jluda5557
    @jluda5557 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought Gramps lived in the nursing home with Jerry Seinfeld's Grandmother. Did the Martinettis put him there after he invited a stranger to the house?

  • @thank_you2933
    @thank_you2933 ปีที่แล้ว

    😘😘👏👏🌹👍🫂

  • @73malaki
    @73malaki ปีที่แล้ว

    Its so hard ! Not to admit to your family & friends But ... To yourself!

  • @KrummyBrinkleJr.
    @KrummyBrinkleJr. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:35 the legend of rose begins wonder how many nudes they shared on the opera lover's forum

  • @kennethchung4857
    @kennethchung4857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Gil, for saving Apple!

  • @michaelmegabit5162
    @michaelmegabit5162 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    01:45 - I love his gay test! "Do you fancy guys? Do you like them? Are they hot?... Yes, yes, and yes!".....Brilliant!

  • @danteorange2277
    @danteorange2277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro give us a life update wyd now?

  • @julianarias4085
    @julianarias4085 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's so pretty, I would like to know what happened to him now, are u still alive? lol