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There surely does exist an overall societal obsession with money, which while necessary to survival, is often elevated to the detriment of other dimensions of life. I'm curious what your opinion is of the "7 Cs of Resilience," and the trauma-based model for educators and social services, and it's implementation or lack thereof. The 7 Cs of Resilience is based on factors that are protective, and not always under the control of the individual. While perhaps more aspirational than practical, I think the knowledge is still valuable to individuals and social support organizations, in that these are valuable things to keep in mind and some of them are sometimes under an individual's control and can be addressed by the individual - not all of them all the time however. Putting the onus on the individual who is suffering is not helpful when there are lagging interpersonal and intrapersonal skills that are not addressed, including various issues such as difficulty with self-regulation from lack of access to or knowledge about coping strategies, lack of co-regulation to learn from, lack of opportunities for positive social experiences, possible undiagnosed or inadequately addressed neurodevelopmental challenges causing underlying rigid thinking or heightened baseline anxiety - especially without appropriate coping skills, and deeply ingrained trauma responses, and so on ... While trauma-based interventions rightly emphasize individual agency and a paradigm of not trying to control so much as meaningfully support the client, I've seen in my personal experience that there can sometimes be a lack of education and a lack of meaningful support to the individual whose agency they are trying to engage. Personally, I think that some somatic therapy ala Peter Levine, is helpful when self-directed, there is so much more to recovery when someone has been subjected to neglect and or long periods of abuse. I'm curious if you're aware of the works of Dr Bruce D. Perry, Dr Mona Delahooke, and Dr Ross Greene regarding ideas for interventions for children either in the school system or more holistically. I personally admire their work and have tried to learn from it. They explore concepts in neurodevelopmental theories, polyvagal theory, co-regulation, etc.

clouds became the earth first , the quantum entanglement of human consciousness is water/electricity/soul, the body itself is a cloud

I’ve subscribed to your channel ( in fact as of a few months ago ) However I don’t see any detail re your actual name and I’d be most interested in any and all additional details Very appreciated, 🪷L Rancho Mirage Ca Dec 1st 2024

My fears are crippling is there a way to be empowered to overcome?

Assigned fear is what exactly... Do you talk with people about this? How to calm fears and learn to attach and enjoy it seems far off...

I have that fear of constant hypervigilance always on. I have the fear of being overwhelmed too. How to calm my fears is something i need to learn... i have so much anxiety its hard to deal with...

Emotionally engage....how to express emotions when so afraid to engage?

WHats an assigned fear?

Very touching, Erik. Thank you for your words and the video.❤

💔 thank you VERY MUCH This is the first video of yours which presented to me I’ve watched a few of the earliest ones last night … they resonate deeply for me …. I will write to you as soon as I can balance myself I’ve Never encountered anything like this Even in family constellation therapy I’m still reeling from finding this I’ll share this. I was adopted at birth I was protected ( too much ) and loved without ever being SEEN ! I have been needing this forever. Your work is SO MISSING from this life Bear 💔L 🇺🇸 Aug 17th

i’m a post-birth adoptee who knew my birth family and was put through the foster care system and eventually adopted at age 10, so these videos have been super helpful for me so far. i’m slowly making my way through them, and a lot of what you’re talking about really resonates with my experiences coming out of the fog and trying to figure out my next steps and how to heal and sort of find myself i guess. for so long my identity was repressed by my adoptive family to the point where i don’t really know who i am. and learning about all of this and trying to understand it definitely feels like a really good first step towards figuring that out, so i’m genuinely so thankful for this series and wanted to let you know that.

Brilliant. Such a clear visual. I have such a hard time explaining this (implict/explicit)

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Thankyou this has given me something to think about ❤

Love it, much needed ! Ty

I find the Vagus so fascinating.

Thanks for the video. Just getting into polyvegal theory to try and help my anxiety and depression.

Very interesting

TRIGGER WARNING, ADOPTION TRAUMA AHEAD hello Bear, First let me say how sorry I am for what was done to you , your family of origin and so many other native and indigenous peoples. I have friends that were stolen from their families in Canada and placed with families in the US, I've seen the devastation that it causes. But that's not my story, I was a scared 15 yr old that needed guidance and support, what I found was exploitation in a crisis pregnancy center. They manipulated and conned me into turning my baby girl over to them at birth. And then they sent me on my merry little way, "to forget about it and take advantage of the second chance that I had been given and never look back." that's all I can say, as I've just triggered myself. Thanks for making this channnel and speaking the unpleasant truth! blessings

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Insightful content! Thank you! ♥️

What do you mean by an ecology will work?

I was going to ask you if you were going to put something like this out. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, the great majority of my European-American family and friends have no idea this occured... forcibly taking Indian children... Same goes for residential schools and what happened there. So hopefully your efforts will not only heal but enlighten.

Hi Bear! I enjoy listening to your channel. I was wundering if there is a part 2 to no.25? Greetings Louicka

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It is so interesting. I have often thought about it, and maybee thats why, that sometimes couples are seen, who looks like siblings.They have simply sought the recognition..... It gives good sense.

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