Justin Sisemore, Mary Maloney, and Andrea Jones discuss the initial steps to take after being served divorce papers. Key points include acting quickly, understanding the 20-day response requirement, and the importance of a temporary restraining order (TRO). They emphasize gathering critical documents like bank statements and credit card records. Andrea advises seeking emotional support and legal counsel early. Justin stresses the importance of choosing the right attorney, suggesting multiple consultations and thorough preparation. They also highlight the need for self-care during the emotional turmoil of divorce. The panel underscores the importance of being proactive and informed throughout the process.