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Buddhism: How Right Ideas Become Right View | Stream-Entry
What turns the instructions of another into an insight that frees the mind from suffering? A discussion of sotāpatti.
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Other talks that are referred to during the discussion:
↪ talk on _Authenticity_ th-cam.com/video/32K94HGsDHQ/w-d-xo.html
↪ talk on _Yoniso Manasikāra_ th-cam.com/video/K_NZ0AJCeu0/w-d-xo.html
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For a translation of _The Relay Chariot_ sutta (MN 24), as well as many others, see suttas.hillsidehermitage.org
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The Buddha's Surprising Definition of Mental Purity | Meditation
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A discussion of the threefold purity, with emphasis on understanding the nature of mind and thought. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa Hermitage, please visit www.samanadipa.org/sup...
Why the Right View Makes You Independent of Others | Awakening
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For a companion video, click here: th-cam.com/video/J4NrxsC_re4/w-d-xo.html If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa Hermitage, please visit www.samanadipa.org/support/donations "Kālāmas, don’t go by oral transmission, by lineage, by hearsay, by canonical authority, by logic, by inference, by analysis of properties, by the acceptance of a view after consideration, by the appearance of com...
The Essence of Meditation: Seeing the Mind | Buddhism
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Without seeing the mind, it is impossible to fulfil right view. A discussion of the sign of the mind (citta nimitta). 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 For more on this topic, see the essay _The Cues of the Mind_ by bhikkhu Anīg...
The Buddha's Direct Instructions for Full Awakening
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What is the gradual training and why is it important to apply the Buddha's instructions in the right order? A discussion on how the gradual training results in final knowlegde. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 Other talks that ...
Early Buddhism: On Time, Desire and Timelessness
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Is awakening sudden or gradual? And how can a dhamma which is said to be timeless be reconciled with the gradual training? A discussion of akālika dhammā. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 Other talks that are referred to during...
Early Buddhism: On Pleasure, Happiness and Freedom
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A discussion of sensual happiness and the happiness of renunciation (and how meditation cannot be based on both). 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 Other talks that are referred to during the discussion: ↪ talk on the difference...
Early Buddhism: On Endurance and the Four Noble Truths
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Suffering needs to be experienced in order to discern its origin and cessation. But is this true for every kind of suffering? 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 Other talks that are referred to during the discussion: ↪ "authentic...
How Lay Followers of the Buddha Became Noble Disciples
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The Buddha had many lay disciples who understood the Dhamma, often just by hearing a few discourses. But are practitioners today in the same position? Other talks that are referred to during the discussion: ↪ _Understanding the origin of attention_ th-cam.com/video/K_NZ0AJCeu0/w-d-xo.html The discourse with the Buddha's advice to Gotamī, mentioned at the end of the discussion, can be found here...
Is Non-Violent Communication the Same As Right Speech? | Buddhism
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What distinguishes the speech of the noble ones from the speech of ordinary people? A discussion of sammā vācā. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 Other talks that are referred to during the discussion: ↪ "wrong view: there is no...
Early Buddhism: Freedom Beyond Self-View
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How do you know that assumptions of self have been fully abandoned? A discussion of upādāna. If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa Hermitage, please visit www.samanadipa.org/support/donations To support this channel, SUBSCRIBE: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 Other talks that are referred to during this discussion: ↪ "authenticity" th-cam.com/video/32K94HGsDHQ/w...
Early Buddhism: Understanding the Root of the Wholesome
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Why understanding the root of the wholesome is the heart of stream-entry. A discussion of kusala dhammā. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa Hermitage, please visit www.samanadipa.org...
Early Buddhism: Distinguishing Feelings, Emotions and Sensations
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What is the difference between feelings, emotions and sensations? A discussion of vedanā. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa Hermitage, please visit www.samanadipa.org/support/donations
Early Buddhism: Did the Buddha Teach "Bare" Awareness?
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All things (dhammā) are constituted by the five aggregates. A continuation of the discussion on right view (MN 41), this time in conjunction with the Bāhiya sutta (Ud 1.10). For the previous talk on right view: th-cam.com/video/9LLOSZsOIt0/w-d-xo.html If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa Hermitage, please visit www.samanadipa.org/support/donations To help make this channel ad-free, co...
Early Buddhism: What is Right View?
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What is right view? A discussion of sammā-diṭṭhi. 👉 Advertisements can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. To help make this channel ad-free, consider subscribing: www.youtube.com/@SamanadipaHermitage?sub_confirmation=1 For a follow-up discussion on right view, click here: th-cam.com/video/jcyDCBbxalY/w-d-xo.html If you wish to support the monks of Samanadipa He...
Early Buddhism: Authenticity and Awakening
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Early Buddhism: Authenticity and Awakening
Early Buddhism: Why Patience is the Highest Discipline
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Early Buddhism: Why Patience is the Highest Discipline
Early Buddhism: Understanding the Origin of Attention
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Early Buddhism: Understanding the Origin of Attention
Early Buddhism: Peace Beyond Precepts and Spiritual Practices
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Early Buddhism: Peace Beyond Precepts and Spiritual Practices
Early Buddhism: Discerning the Middle Way
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Early Buddhism: Discerning the Middle Way
Early Buddhism: Approaching the Buddha's Teaching
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Early Buddhism: Approaching the Buddha's Teaching

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  • @petver5259
    @petver5259 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The teacher / answerer sounds to have a Dutch accent. Groeten uit Nederland. I subscribed. Please no ads

  • @djanpo993
    @djanpo993 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent, sadhu 🙏

  • @venerablemettaji6944
    @venerablemettaji6944 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Another excellent, well-explained inspiring Dhamma teaching.

  • @simonsays525
    @simonsays525 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wonderful video! In future videos similar to this, would you be willing to include the name of the bhikkhus in the video description so we may reference them later?

    • @j.m.kocsis2557
      @j.m.kocsis2557 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you go to Samanadipa’s website, the monks are pictured there with their names and brief background information.

  • @One_In_Training
    @One_In_Training 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Venerable sirs, thank you so much for sharing such clear instructions and guidance on the practice. It has been an invaluable help for me. My deepest gratitude. 🙏

  • @CD-kl1dn
    @CD-kl1dn 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Bhantes

  • @djanpo993
    @djanpo993 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sadhu 🙏

  • @shapeshift1733
    @shapeshift1733 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It seems to me that anytime a sotāpanna recollects his responsibility he would simultaneously be recollecting his freedom. Is this accurate?

    • @stefanvidenovic5095
      @stefanvidenovic5095 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe not exactly as you mean it (the way I think you mean it). More like: The flip side of "I am responsible for X" is "The power is in my hands", so once one starts taking that seriously (the responsibility) it can become quite invigorating and much less unpleasant and that's a good thing. An example: I have terrible eyesight (-12 diopters in both eyes), so I could say: "I can't just go to Sri Lanka to ordain, I'll step on some snake that I won't be able to see in time and get bitten..." And, aside from Slovenia and Canada (both of which are at full capacity and with very few options available in general), Sri Lanka is pretty much the only place left where one can find decent practice conditions (in line with the suttas). I recently checked quite in depth... Anyways, death takes both people with good and bad eyesight, and existence will rob me of this super rare opportunity for enlightenment all the same, so it doesn't really matter what my condition is, as long as I can function on my own (which I can, for the most part, as I've got my compensatory tricks). And the payoff is very much worth the risk. Once one understands that one does not really have a choice, taking responsibility is almost inevitable. It is mostly things that narrow down the perspective that hinder it. Btw, I will be ordaining in SL in a couple of months. And sorry if I got a little sidetracked.

  • @venerablemettaji6944
    @venerablemettaji6944 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the specificity and generous intent. An enormous boon to deep practice.

  • @light1518
    @light1518 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    24:40 - 25:55 Venerables, if you could please answer this question, I would be grateful. You mention here in this part of the video that which seems to be a contraction, in my understanding, as to what was presented before. Here, in this part of the video, thoughts rooted in the hinderances are to be “destroyed” - in the first part of the video, the unwholesome intention with regards to a state of mind occupied with hinderance(s), was simply to not be followed - to simply not “jump into” that state of mind, the mood, the thoughts, but simply to endure their arising, presence and subsiding. How can these two things be reconciled? Have I misunderstood what you have said in the first part of the video? Yet it seems to me the first part of the video was quite sensible, quite true, that just as a state of mind, whatever it may be, moods or thoughts, need no be “acted out upon” with regards to body and speech, just so, with mind. We need not “jump into” unwholesome action, whether by body, speech or mind, we need not “take up” those options or follow them at all. Thus, we truly abide peacefully, as a mountain in a rainstorm, because no rainstorm, in relation to any of the aggregates, affects us. But how is this the same as “destroying” thoughts connected with the hinderances, as mentioned in the time stamp? For previously, you had said the “destroying” refers only to destroying our unwholesome intention - not to anything the mind can present at all, but our choice to indulge it. Thank-you, for this is a very important topic that many seem to have different answers towards.

  • @CD-kl1dn
    @CD-kl1dn 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Bhantes, that's another important talk

  • @stefanvidenovic5095
    @stefanvidenovic5095 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Crucial distinctions! Btw, this talk reminded me of Anupādisesa and Saupādisesa Arahants, could you maybe talk more on that sometime ? (or write it here).

  • @alecogden12345
    @alecogden12345 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏 So would anagami still have ill will and sensuality arising as part of the 5 hindrances in citta? But, there's no mano or intention to act out of those? Or have those states actually ceased in the citta for anagami?

    • @SamanadipaHermitage
      @SamanadipaHermitage 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Through understanding, an anagami has abandoned any possibility whatsoever of acting out of the pressure of sensuality and ill will (by body, speech _and_ mind), since the fetters of sensuality and ill will have been uprooted. Whatever the “state” of his _citta_ might be, mental action by _mano_ cannot possibly be tainted by sensual desire and ill will anymore, though there can still be “craving for (non-)being”, which is of course subtler.

    • @alecogden12345
      @alecogden12345 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SamanadipaHermitage Thank you 🙏 I actually have further questions on vibhava tanha since it's something that I think keeps coming up for me. I'm not sure if it would be worth doing a video on the three types of craving in the future including how and when they're abandoned?

  • @kzantal
    @kzantal 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks 🙏

  • @noonespecial4171
    @noonespecial4171 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, this topic really is a struggle in laylife 🙏

  • @CD-kl1dn
    @CD-kl1dn 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Bhantes

  • @CD-kl1dn
    @CD-kl1dn 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Bhantes How lucky we are to have access to people being able to explain so clearly such a subtle teaching as the Dhamma and the Middle Way is

  • @CD-kl1dn
    @CD-kl1dn หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Bhantes

  • @kfr3823
    @kfr3823 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fyi, you have ads on your channel

    • @SamanadipaHermitage
      @SamanadipaHermitage หลายเดือนก่อน

      We know. They can be switched off once a channel has more than a thousand subscribers. So keep watching our videos, and hit that like and subscribe button...

  • @swagmeiser
    @swagmeiser หลายเดือนก่อน

    So insightful 🙏

  • @tomaszstarzycki7513
    @tomaszstarzycki7513 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @josephoutward
    @josephoutward หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is very interesting listening to you monks rationalize what YOU believe or want to believe. Funny how ALL religions do the same chest beating. There is no buddha; just like there is no god(s). No heaven or hell realms. Just life then death. Very simple to understand without all this nonsense. PS: I have practiced the path daily for five years in semi-seclusion. I have kept the five/eight precepts.

    • @stefanvidenovic5095
      @stefanvidenovic5095 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep watching their videos, you'll start getting it eventually. :)

    • @tristanm8250
      @tristanm8250 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wrong view

    • @josephoutward
      @josephoutward หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tristanm8250 Please explain what you believe is 'wrong view". This is the truth I have found after five years of daily practice. This truth I have found is peaceful. I am happy to not believe/be free from the nonsensical.

    • @josephoutward
      @josephoutward หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stefanvidenovic5095 no thanks, I have no desire or need for fantasy.

  • @mrcat926
    @mrcat926 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awakening is gradual not sudden

  • @kzantal
    @kzantal หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @hz7988
    @hz7988 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏

  • @tordjansson5792
    @tordjansson5792 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another question: all five of these monks was created out of sensual desire and passion (through sex). To be reborn as a human is as likely as the turtle coming up every 10 000 year and hitting the flouting cirkle on he surface with his head. This is the chance. But, if every human was to become totally free from sensual desire, in one generation there would be no dhamma practioners left, no buddhism, monks or nothing. Only animals. There is something in this equation that I really cant grasp...

    • @SamanadipaHermitage
      @SamanadipaHermitage หลายเดือนก่อน

      The true dhamma is practiced by those who seek their own welfare. To say: “if everybody abandons sensual desire, in one generation there would be no dhamma practitioners left...” is to make a theoretical (or academical) objection. The _reality_ is that hardly anyone is prepared to put the Buddha’s teaching into practice. So there is no need to worry that humanity becomes extinct on account of people practicing dhamma. The task of a true practitioner is to completely abandon greed, hatred, and delusion in his own life. And to accomplish that is nibbāna, the goal of the Buddha’s teaching. Afterthought: if you take a look at the many problems that humanity faces these days, and the risk of global catastrophes that comes with them, you will see that they are all the result of human beings acting out of greed, hatred, and delusion. So if you are concerned with a sustainable future for mankind, what is necessary - if anything - is _more_ people who establish themselves in virtue and who restrain their desire for sensual pleasures, not less.
 But the dhamma is not about saving the planet. In fact, the Buddha himself was even reluctant to teach, because he saw entire generations being consumed by the desire for sensual pleasures, which is a direct obstacle to understanding the deep insights he had awakened to. But if you abandon greed, hatred, and delusion in your own life, you will _factually_ no longer contribute to the darkness of our times, and that is a very real contribution indeed.

  • @tordjansson5792
    @tordjansson5792 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thx for a great topic and discussion. This is also my problem as a lay man: how do I know that getting rid of attachments and cravings isnt just me "trying to be good", or perhaps distansing myself from others, being the "good guy" in a world full of people following their cravings? How do I know that this isnt my ego wanting to be something special, better, purer and different? I feel like its constantly there, this thought...

    • @SamanadipaHermitage
      @SamanadipaHermitage หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is wrong with being the “good guy” in a world full of people following their cravings? When you see that acting out of craving is unwholesome, that it is not in your welfare and long-lasting happiness (nor in the welfare and happiness of others), you give it up - and this is what the entire teaching of the Buddha is about (regardless of what other people might think or say). The gradual training begins by establishing yourself in virtue and generosity, and your “ego” will naturally be involved. There’s no problem with that, particularly. When you keep _including_ your sense of self in all your efforts, you will gradually purify your virtue and generosity of remaining traces of selfishness, and this is how there is progress in dhamma. But note that there can only be purification of virtue and generosity when you _actually_ establish yourself in these qualities first. And if your “ego” wants to make something special out of that, you just include those tendencies, but you don’t allow them to compromise your virtue and generosity. Finally, it is actually impossible to abandon the sense of self (or “ego”) unless your actions have been purified beforehand, and this is the whole point of the gradual training (gradual here does not mean that it is slow, but that things have to happen in the right order). For more on the gradual training, see this talk: th-cam.com/video/2gBSOK_8fXA/w-d-xo.html

  • @djanpo993
    @djanpo993 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful

  • @StanleyFamilyFun
    @StanleyFamilyFun หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to listen to this 20 more times… awesome stuff Venerables

  • @shelinahetherington4661
    @shelinahetherington4661 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said, Bhantes, well said 🙏🏽

  • @StanleyFamilyFun
    @StanleyFamilyFun หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good morning Dhamma friends, love seeing new teaching to dig into

  • @kzantal
    @kzantal หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you !

  • @fruitionapt
    @fruitionapt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s helpful to emphasize this gradient nature of the training. It’s the same all the way down, to the most subtle.

  • @djanpo993
    @djanpo993 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sadhu!

  • @AS-np3yq
    @AS-np3yq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is just empty. There is nothing in you. You have to ask Jesus Christ to come to you.

    • @ThomQuinnHere
      @ThomQuinnHere 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is no creator God and Jesus was merely a man.

    • @SBCBears
      @SBCBears หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just say you don't understand.

    • @_VISION.
      @_VISION. หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everything is empty

  • @petertordjunehag1055
    @petertordjunehag1055 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is an experience, thx guys!

  • @davidchana962
    @davidchana962 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sadu sadu.... excellent talk for intermediate practitioners. Thank you!

  • @goofyduder2604
    @goofyduder2604 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much Bhikkhus, this talk is an invaluable gift.

  • @prakriti7894
    @prakriti7894 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    จิตที่ส่งออกนอก เป็นสมุทัย ผลอันเกิดจากจิตที่ส่งออกนอก เป็นทุกข์ จิตเห็นจิต เป็นมรรค ผลอันเกิดจากจิตเห็นจิต เป็นนิโรธ

  • @cynshim673
    @cynshim673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Venerables, thank you for this exploration 🙏. Please share what does it mean by "when one has to clean the house but when one removes the cleaning supplies ? "

    • @kzantal
      @kzantal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think he meant by that that things should be done in the correct order. You first need to gather the cleaning supplies to clean your house. Once the house is clean, then all these supplies are in the way (hoover, broom, cloths, detergent, etc.) and you need to remove them and tidy them up to really be done with the cleaning. It's the same with the dhamma.

  • @stefanvidenovic5095
    @stefanvidenovic5095 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wax On, Wax Off, Daniel-san! :D Katas are not the Karate, but there is no Karate without the Katas. Sīla is not the Dhamma, but there's no Dhamma without the Sīla. Through Virtue a person is learning the rudiments of non-suffering. :)

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you. The bar seems incredibly high to me Im afraid.🧐

    • @stefanvidenovic5095
      @stefanvidenovic5095 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do it gradually and according to your tempo (no matter how gradual or slow), and you will change your mind. In fact, many times will the mind go through the changes of values and wishes and such, as it progresses along the path (towards the Noble Eight-fold Path). :)

  • @jaroslav6109
    @jaroslav6109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me this was the best talk from Samanadipa so far. Appreciate it very much, thank you.

    • @kzantal
      @kzantal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely!

  • @zdrs_in_dvom
    @zdrs_in_dvom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many thanks for the excellent discussion, Bhantes.

  • @CD-kl1dn
    @CD-kl1dn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Bhantes

  • @1hullofaguy
    @1hullofaguy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sadhu

  • @boonraypipatchol7295
    @boonraypipatchol7295 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ... 4 Noble Truth... ... Buddhism....

  • @hz7988
    @hz7988 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello dear Bhantes 🙏 a lot of deep and profound teachings. Very good reminder. Good to listen often .. Thank you for this excellent sadhamma discussion. May you all be well 🙏 Sādhu x3!

  • @djanpo993
    @djanpo993 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Venerables for this insightful talk 🙏

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May you men find Peace.🧐