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It takes a long time to heal from leaving a long term marriage. Maybe you can focus your attention on training the pups to sit/ stay in the car. You will benefit from focusing your attention on something else, and they will benefit from the time you spend with them and the training. I left my marriage after 28 years. It does get better.

i so believe in spirits and ghosts . you have several strange things going on in ur building . sometimes i hear odd things at night then i get freaked out cause i’m home alone 😂😂😂😂 maybe document date and times just to see if theirs a pattern . my neighbor across the street from us claims they have a friendly ghost that flips lights on and off in different rooms or moves things no one has touched .

I usually watch with earbuds while I’m doing chores so I’m not always in front of the screen. When the dogs started woofing the sound was so real I literally started looking around to see which animal was making that noise. 😂 I think it’s fine to hear a one sided view. After all this channel is to support you. I hope you enjoyed your relaxing snow day and have a great rest of the week!

Sending u love ❤️ subscribed to follow you healing and journey❤

He is a guy. He will eventually move on. There are more options for him out there than for you, unfortunately. If you made a decision to divorce, you need to stop relying on him and figure it out. You are not helpless damsel in distress.

it’s ok to have lazy days winter time is a time to let our bodies relax and heal and rest and live life in a slow pace . it rejuvenates our body and restores our energy levels . it’s crazy to me how people can’t accept other people differences in political views i can be friends with anyone i just think people need to support different views of others . we can all agree to disagree . it’s -8 here today ugh ! i’m tired of winter . i want spring . Renee i know it’s a hard thing ur going thru with divorce i went thru one when my son was 3 years old . but to help you you need to cut ties with ur ex otherwise ur going to keep going backwards on ur healing . you have to get it in ur head you gotta move on !! in order to heal and move forward . i hope u have a great therapy session today .

I listened to you but u never said what he actually did to get u to the point u want to divorce him.I take it he did not cheat on you so I assume he took money and gambled it away sense he does this every so often.I want to know what the man did that was so horrible for u to file divorce.I say this with the most respect you don't think u can fix it with your husband,Being his wife u could figure out a plan to force his hand and make him knock off and recruit your kids and his family to keep him on the straight and narrow.If this man is the father to your children I would reconsider the divorce.You be in charge of all the money etc...switch roles if u have to.I have been separated from my husband for 2 yrs and we live in different homes but we still work together everyday so I don't tell u this lightheartedly.I am 10000000% certain that unless this man is a pedophile my situation is a million times worse than yours and I'm double minded still after 2 yrs if i want to divorce my husband.(my husband is not a pedophile was just using that as example).

You mam are no longer in love with him anymore and that’s ok you need to do yourself and HIM a favor and work on doing separate activities, if your searious about this divorce don’t leave any room for grey area. Hope all works out hun❤

If he didn’t cheat on you .. and he is struggling with cancer… you have to remember the vows you made - until death to us part for better or for worse.

Idk know how this video wound up on my homepage when i open the app, but based on the deranged and poorly educated comments, I'll just soft shoe on out. Good luck to earthlings. Divided they fall. Maniacal laugh

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Lots of hugs Renee❤. Divorce is not easy. It’s ok to be struggling. It took me years to process my divorce and we weren’t married anywhere near as long as you two (no kids either). As with so many things give yourself time and grace.

😢 right here with you Renee, sending love and big squishy hugs, and you do what feels right to you 💖

Maybe divorce isn’t the answer?

You have had a lot to deal with in more than one emotional way. Give yourself time to heal, one day at a time. It's all new territory now. Develop new friends, reconnect with old friends and rediscover all the strong things about you. Try to enjoy the journey my friend.

I'm sorry you're down at the moment, Renee. You are going through very big, painful changes & it's a lot. I feel your sadness & emotional pain & hope you know that while there's not much we, your viewers, can say to help, we're here with you in spirit. And people who think it's easier to separate & leave when you're the one filing, just haven't been through it. Often, when we leave (I'm separating from hubby right now, too), we still very much love our partner but can't condone/tolerate/live with their behaviors &/or actions, along with repeated disappointments, every time we give them a 2nd/3rd... chance. Unfortunately, the only way out of the pain is through. Sending loving, comforting, healing hugs your way, Renee. 😥💖🤗

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Agreed BOTH sides have DESTROYED this country! Trump is not a part of either! He is trying to FIX this mess. I'll NEVER EVER believe one damn word our govt says again. Praying for the next 4 years.

Oof. You've had a day, lol. I find so many people to be so self-centered & thoughtless these days, it's frightening. Good folks are out there (& I include myself in that category) but they're outnumbered. Vis-a-vis the parking signs, if your complex is on private property, I think you're limited in appealing to the property manager or, if there's a resident's association, you can rally support there to push for signage. If the roadways are maintained by the city, I'd go straight to them with a request to put up the signs. And I'm wondering, does the complex have cameras? Mind you, even if so, management may be reluctant to call out a resident if it's not in their own best interest. That said, if there are cameras, when calling out the driver, for your own protection, you might want to couch your concern in terms of their being seen driving too quickly, etc. With the short tempers & culture of violence out there today, I'd be cautious while still trying to do the right thing. It's scary to think we have to be careful, asking for consideration from others, but that's our modern world. And those carts? Lol, I hear your frustration & will take it you're joking about leaving them in front of someone else's door, especially since they're not necessarily the culprit(s). If you know who's doing it? Oh, by all means. Just please be careful; folks that inconsiderate are the same ones who'll turn around & blame you for harassing them & seek revenge. Here's hoping you're having a better day & a great start to your weekend with maybe, oh, I don't know? At least an hour of peace to yourself before someone needs you. Sending hugs of support your way... 🤗🤗

i live in a neighborhood that the speed limit is 25 mph but no one drives anywhere near that we have school buses on here and kids all over here and yet people fly down our street it’s flipping annoying . people drive like crap . no consideration at all today . we plan to move south but cost of housing is insane where we wanna go . i definitely would call the person out she should not leave a accident that’s illegal .

I’m an independent. I absolutely hate both sides now and how they have completely destroyed this country.

I don't agree with you at all politically. However, with due respect if you don't want to hear it, shut it off. I hear nothing about it because I do NOT watch the news. It's very easy to put a stop to.

i won’t talk politics but i disagree with you on we been a very divided nation the last 4 years and this current administration has been a shit show . his son is a criminal so don’t throw stones at glass houses . i’m thrilled with this administration coming in .

I looked for your other channel, couldn't find it. Maybe you can put a link below in your next vlog here!

I hope you don't mind a suggestion, Renee: I use the Tube Buddy extension & see that you haven't added any tags to your videos in the YT studio before publishing. Adding hashtags in your description is great & also adding them as tags, along with others, would be beneficial to helping the algorithm target audiences for your vids. While YT's AI is pretty good at figuring that out from your audio, tags speed up the process & using some of the keywords you mention in a particular video (like wellness check, aging parents, you get the idea) as tags is really helpful, making the tags specific to each vid. Again, hope you don't mind. If you do, please just let me know & don't block me, lol! You're doing great & I really hope both of your channels take off in '25!

Awe Olive we love you ! she is so cute . i went and helped our old neighbor clean his house today omg i had to wipe his floors 5 times to really get them clean . i spent 3 1/2 hours i volunteered to help him clean his house up he hasn’t been home he is a over the road truck driver and he has been letting someone stay at his house and the man is in the hospital so i stayed to help him get his house in order . the things we do sometimes 😂😂😂😂 i’m a clean freak . i like my stuff to be in order but i do have things we still need to go thru from our move but i can’t move stuff until my sister moves her things out this spring .

Olive 🩷🩷🩷 so cute 🥰

I think you are beautiful inside and out and I think you would benefit believing me. This is suppose to be the year of Renee so ditch the negatives!!!

Your soon-to-be-x sounds like a classic narcissist. Sounds like you have been and are being a responsible adult. God help you! I have been there. And, I am with you 100%…I do not want nor need to be married again, just to end up a care giver of an adult child. Amen!

Your soon-to-be-x sounds like a classic narcissist. Sounds like you have been and are being a responsible adult. God help you! I have been there.

Never trust armed thugs for a "wellness check"

Renee my day was fabulous my hubby made me a appt at the louis Vuitton store and bought me a bag i been wanting 2300.00 ouch they gave us champagne as we shopped then we went to a brunch i got a cute new tea cup for my tea he brought me back from England . we went to dinner i got all you can eat large crab legs and they gave me a free bday shot 😂 it’s been a very spoiled fabulous day for me . enough about me i’m so sorry ur dealing with all this but sadly it sounds they need to be in a senior care facility . as parents age it’s a struggle . please make sure you keep urself sane cause let me tell you this crap can drive you insane i know i dealt with so much with my mom before she passed it was brutal . if i lived there i would walk ur moms dogs for them i love dogs heck i been taking care of stray kitties i bought a 300 insulated dog house to keep them warm and i buy them kittie food every month to keep them fed and warm in the winter . 😂😂😂 we have snow coming again tonight !! omg too nurturing 😂😂😂 i’m on the floor . Renee you do you and start ur new life focus on you !! make Renee happy . this is ur year lady . awe Olive is such a cutie … Renee you don’t look 58 i turned 57 today and i am looking forward to my face lift i really want one 😂 i workout daily and it’s something i want to do for me . keep us posted on ur step dad i’m curious all about this .

Oof. Bunches of comments to make: 1) I hope some doctor or agency has your stepfather's driver's license revoked. Especially if he isn't taking his meds reliably, he's a danger to others. 2) The forgetfulness, the looking 'older' (which I don't think you do) vis-a-vis a tired appearance, lackluster skin, all of that can be attributed in good part to the chronic stress you're under. 3) I always want to be kind & respectful when leaving a comment & it's certainly not a viewer's place to advise you how to conduct yourself or your life but I've had the impression for a while now that continuing such a close, intertwined relationship with your ex-husband is not in your best interests. I can appreciate the need for practical help & support while dealing with the issues surrounding your parents & hope you're able to resolve their living arrangements such that any future interactions with your ex-husband are limited to those that make you happy & you truly want. I'm keeping the following neutral because I can appreciate you still love him (though I'd have a few choice words for him; guess that's not so neutral, hnh? lol): let your ex-husband take full care of himself; if he matures in the process, maybe he'll come to realize just how blessed he's been & appreciate your worth. My thoughts & prayers are with you, Renee, for continuing strength. 🙏🤗💖

Sadly when it comes time. You have to be the parent. Now and do what's best for your parents .

So sorry you are dealing with so much. Aging parents are hard. Sounds like your husband just wanted to forget he had cancer and being taken care of forced him to remember. Hence you became over nurturing (but not really).

Good luck with everything. I hope you can get them safely situated somewhere. Not an easy time of life for them or you.

Happy birthday January baby. I’m turning 48 next week.

You can stay on the merry-go-round and never make a decision or make that call. At first, it will be hard, but BELIEVE ME it will be the best decision you ever made.

Home healthcare aides. Can be very helpful. Taking the burden of your shoulders. Of daily care. For your aging parents. I used to work for home instead senior care. If you have one in your area. They are a great company.

Awe Thank You Renee for my birthday wishes . so hubby started tonight with a homemade chocolate soufflé which is my favorite that he makes . tomorrow on my birthday we will meet our son and his wife for lunch but i’ll just have a coffee since hubby and i are going to dinner he wanted to take me to a steak place in st. louis but i rather go eat at a place with crab legs . looks like we will be running to the store more snow coming in tomorrow night for my birthday so we will be in for several days suppose to get really slick out . please don’t move in with ur parents girl you will go insane and we want you to be happy it would get ugly fast . best thing is to find them a senior living place for ur own sanity . i’ll update you tomorrow on my bday on how we celebrated it .

Your nails are lovely, Renee, & it's so nice to see you pampering yourself. As I'm also a member of the #whiteandpasty club😁& winters in the east for us (I'm in Montreal, Canada) are brutal, I also use Nivea lip balm, though I think mine has aloe as it's a green tube. I sympathize so much for the challenges you're facing with your Mom & stepfather. It's a lot, especially for only children. I'm glad you're looking into resources to help them & also help lighten your load & pray you're successful at getting some good support in place. Cheers for a good night & lovely day tomorrow.

Can't barely hear you

Happy Happy Birthday Renee 🎉❤ i hope you had a fabulous day !!my bday is Thursday the 9 th hubby is taking me out somewhere . i truly hope 2025 is ur year .

Happy Birthday Renee! When the roles get reversed with parents it's very difficult. I went through it, one of the hardest parts of my life. You have my thoughts and prayers. Have a happy evening!

Happy Birthday 🎉 🎂🎁🌻