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How Not to Be Lonely in 2025 👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾
Why is adult friendship so hard?
This year, I went in search of finding my people - having more fun, and creating meaningful connections. In this deeply relatable episode, I'll tell you about three platforms that helped me out and share exactly what I thought sbout them.
Was I successful? Watch and see. If you’ve been feeling lonely, left out or like your friendships are not as strong as they used to be, you’ll feel empowered and encouraged by the end!
00:00 Introduction: The Friend Contract
00:27 Welcome and Overview
01:26 Addressing Loneliness and Building Community
02:01 Exploring Time Left
06:47 Reviewing Skip the Small Talk
11:02 Discovering Real Roots
18:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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This video was edited using Descript: theajayieffect.co/4eZ1Dr5
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#AdultFriendship #FriendshipJourney #Loneliness
#MeaningfulConnections #FriendshipStruggles #FindingCommunity
#socialconnections #BuildingRelationships #FriendshipGoals
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The Most Festive Scents for the Holidays (2024)🤶🏾✨️
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Internet Gleeful over DEMISE of United Healthcare CEO
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Two major stories this week have me thinking deeply about how broken our healthcare system really is. From Anthem’s attempt to limit anesthesia coverage to the tragic death of UnitedHealthcare’s CEO with those chilling messages on the crime scene-'delay' and 'deny'-it’s clear Americans are fed up, and for good reason. We pay for a system that’s supposed to care for us, yet so often, it feels li...
Whoopi CHECKS Charlamagne!
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Drama on The View, Y'all - I LIVE! 🗣️ Whoopi Goldberg and Charlamagne tha God had a fiery exchange over the idea of a Hunter Biden pardon. The debate touched on politics, race, and accountability. Is this conversation opening the door to important dialogue or just creating more division? Let’s discuss! 🧐 The View Segment: theajayieffect.co/3Vo0bHU Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to...
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Are you ready to take your personal brand to the next level? Whether you're a solopreneur just starting out or looking to refine your strategy, this step-by-step guide is designed for YOU. 🎯 In this video, I’ll share how to: Define your niche and attract the right audience Create magnetic content that speaks to your values Network like a pro and grow your brand with confidence You’ll walk away ...
🎙️The Ajayi Effect Podcast - Episode #10: Creating a Captive Audience 🎧
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Ever wondered what makes a podcast irresistible? In this episode of The Ajayi Effect Podcast, I’m sharing insights from my 20 years as a brand marketer and communications expert. From crafting compelling hooks to building an engaged online community, I’ll give you actionable tips to attract and retain a loyal audience. Whether you’re just starting or looking to refine your show, this episode ha...
Build Your Personal Brand | Easy, Actionable Steps
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Bingeworthy: Why Reasonable Doubt Season 2 is a Must-Watch!
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Drake's Karen Behavior 🫣
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The View's Hot Topics Chaos 🤯
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Mary J. Blige: The Queen's Evolution in Music, Fashion, and Philanthropy
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Black Women and America’s Predictable Betrayal.
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Black Women and America’s Predictable Betrayal.
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Harris v. Trump 2024: Final Campaign Ads! #electionday2024
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Oprah’s Special Exposes Tech
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Oprah’s Special Exposes Tech
You Need to Hear THIS.
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Big Ellie: A Winning MASCOT!!! 🏀🐘
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Big Ellie: A Winning MASCOT!!! 🏀🐘
Use THESE Steps.
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Candles to Set off a Cozy Fall 🍂🕯️
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💔 NYC's Sob Parlour: A Safe Space to Cry It Out? My Thoughts! 🥲
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4 Ways AI Makes Me Unstoppable (& Can Do The Same for YOU)! 🤖
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4 Ways AI Makes Me Unstoppable (& Can Do The Same for YOU)! 🤖
🎙️The Ajayi Effect Podcast - Episode #9: You'll Never Achieve the American Dream 🥹
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🎙️The Ajayi Effect Podcast - Episode #9: You'll Never Achieve the American Dream 🥹
Celebrity Endorsements Are So Unserious 🤩 🙄
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Celebrity Endorsements Are So Unserious 🤩 🙄
Become A Marketer with ZERO Experience!
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Become A Marketer with ZERO Experience!
LIVE Reaction: 🇺🇸 Kamala Harris vs. Donald Trump First Debate! (2024 Election) 💁🏾‍♀️👨🏻‍🦳
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LIVE Reaction: 🇺🇸 Kamala Harris vs. Donald Trump First Debate! (2024 Election) 💁🏾‍♀️👨🏻‍🦳
Too Old and Too Expensive: Ageism in Marketing 👴🏾 👵🏾 🚫
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🎙️The Ajayi Effect Podcast - Podcast Episode #8 - Your Friends Hate You🎙️
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Brat Green: A Marketing and Branding Expert's Analysis 💚💛

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  • @sharongillesp
    @sharongillesp 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This reminds me of the conflict by Israel against Gaza. People are outraged with Palestinians, while Israel commits *_GENOCIDE_* and laughs while doing it. This is her, *_FAKE OUTRAGE._***. *SARAH HINES.* et al., Disgusting🤮

  • @Connectionclip
    @Connectionclip 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We do feel this was the answer

  • @catherinem7441
    @catherinem7441 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think a lot of people are done with the wealthy getting away with everything and have 0 Fs

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly! are done with the mess!!

  • @davionthegreat14
    @davionthegreat14 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice pics.

  • @chrisbabcock615
    @chrisbabcock615 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It was the answer and everyone of not like this entitled white rich woman feel the same.

  • @gabrielmaroto18
    @gabrielmaroto18 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I stopped watching The view years ago. Whoopee was stumbling and tripping all over her words because she could not express her actual opinion and I realize then this is not The View. This is an infomercial disguised as opinions of different people. In medium manipulation. “We are surrounded by conservative media like a fish and water.” Professor Wolff.

  • @gabrielmaroto18
    @gabrielmaroto18 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The billionaires that own, the news have the millionaires that present the news to us through a filter of misinformation, disinformation, propaganda Protection of the wealthy.

  • @tangerinetomorrows
    @tangerinetomorrows 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Check in with your minister lol. I cannot believe that anybody in modern society, where science has made the idea so racially a christian god a complete impossibility, would be so afraid of death, so unbelievably stupid that they still believe in that ooga booga bullshit 😂

  • @w4dZ0o
    @w4dZ0o 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yeah them grocery stores ain't allowing my kids to eat either.

  • @user-uc3km2fb6f
    @user-uc3km2fb6f 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Subjective sound bite… She’s not saying check-in with your minister because you were denied. Clearly stating if you think that murdering someone is the answer you need to seek help from someone you trust.

  • @DH-uu5ps
    @DH-uu5ps 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Taking someone's money, w/ the understanding that you will provide access to healthcare, and then refusing to honor your commitment is an act of violence. You don't have to recognize this fact for it to be so. Wake up! Namaste, Ajay.

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The media gaslighting is maddening but not surprising 😒

  • @TrangPakbaby
    @TrangPakbaby 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The “White Rice” and “Fire” sounds right up my alley 😊

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm addicted to both 🥹❤️

  • @yubantwo2086
    @yubantwo2086 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    10 million was just Thompson's *BONUS.* That sum was not his total earnings for the year. Anthem reversed course, IMO bc of the Thompson case.... Furthermore, 47E has nominated BILLIONAIRES one in particular is an immigrant to strip American citizens and Veterans of Social Security, Medicare/Medicaid, which they paid into calling those programs gov handouts and the ACA they dubbed Obama Care bc they knew the racists wouldn't know the difference and would reject it. 47E and his cronies want to gut it and admit that they have nothing to replace it with. Hopefully, there will be more push back. It's amazing that bc the suspect comes from a well to do family that caring for people less fortunate was somehow off. First of all, privilege doesn't mean that his family are billionaires. And how sad that people find it odd that someone reasonably comfortable would have concern for others... Much good luck with your health challenges 💪

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’ve brought up some critical points here. The disparities and systemic inequities within our healthcare and government systems are deeply troubling. Thank you for breaking it all down

    • @yubantwo2086
      @yubantwo2086 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@theajayieffect Thank YOU for providing this space/platform for sharing points of interest.

  • @ltldxy71
    @ltldxy71 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What’s driving this is GREED

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely-greed is at the root of so many of these issues. It’s heartbreaking to see the consequences unfold on such a human level. Thank you for adding to this convo 🙏🏾

  • @lynnkraus6715
    @lynnkraus6715 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anthem only rescinded their policy after the shooting. The health care industry needs to go away completely.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Completely agree-change only came AFTER. A full overhaul of the healthcare system is long overdue. Thank you for adding your voice to this conversation.

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We all need a little break. Fragrance offers rest for me. Especially with all that's happening right now! 😊

  • @rudolphpieters7918
    @rudolphpieters7918 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The people on the Internet were not gleeful,they were flabbergasted by the system of " healthcare". Where was the outrage when 10s of thousands of people had claims denied and became sicker or even died because of that. Was there outrage then?

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re absolutely right-this isn’t just about one individual’s role but the systemic failings of the healthcare system that have harmed so many.

  • @christycharitychambers1830
    @christycharitychambers1830 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hawaii has blue cross and Kaiser only in regards to private health care. There has to be some fishy going on there. And one HMSA ( aka blue cross) plan I had with my job covers things another HMSA plan wont cover from my husband's job even though we both have jobs with great companies. Also his company is nation wide and ONLY Hawaii has no choice for health care plans including the flexible health spending plan. Hawaii employees have no choice besides HMSA and Kaiser period. That can't be legal.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s such an interesting observation about Hawaii’s healthcare structure. It does make you wonder about the deeper issues at play. Thank you for sharing your experience with us, seriously!

  • @sondranewall4462
    @sondranewall4462 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    CEO makes ten million plus a year, because he denied coverage to patients on that insurance life saving procedures to earn a horribly unreal amount of money, while people died, went blind, deaf, in pain, sick etc. I do not condone murder, either with a gun or a pen that denies care.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All of what you said: 💯❤️

  • @GoKayvonGo
    @GoKayvonGo 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    6 months into my nursing career, I learned it was always profits over people. I left nursing this year.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sorry. I'm sure you got into it because you truly wanted to help folks. The industry doesn't allow for that. It's a mess!

  • @MrWiibetrollin
    @MrWiibetrollin 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Based

  • @itgetter9
    @itgetter9 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I appreciate your presentation, and I am so very angry over the state of health "care" in this country, which isn't care at all. Also the insurance companies want to be known as health care "providers." More like health care GATEKEEPERS, and their goal is to keep us AWAY from access to health care. New subscriber.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is maddening! We all deserve better!

  • @bp1194
    @bp1194 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They have money to fund Israel and Ukraine. The irony is Israel have a universal healthcare for their citizens funded by us taxpayers. However, out here.........

  • @DimaRakesah
    @DimaRakesah 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We don't have healthcare. We have profit care.

  • @walterbenjamin1386
    @walterbenjamin1386 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good question. Also, why can't this country, which has the strongest, most expensive military in the world, identify the drones that are harassing military bases and cities?

  • @amourflower9893
    @amourflower9893 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But its not just about being deny coverage folks are paying into this health coverage, so its the patients money this company stole from them too.

  • @veramae4098
    @veramae4098 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    National healthcare !

  • @sarahgabriella84
    @sarahgabriella84 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Started watching for Shannon Kane, kept watching for all the Black girl magic i was getting. Emayatzy Corinealdy is amazing! I love me a black show and this one is it.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She is EVERYTHING!! I can't wait for next season!!

  • @imani6547
    @imani6547 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ur voice is giving Eartha kitt

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love her voice soo much! Thank you!

    • @imani6547
      @imani6547 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, very unique

  • @YvaJStoryTime
    @YvaJStoryTime 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Here's wishing you all the best in overcoming whatever it is you are dealing with.

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I receive that - thank you. Here's to a good 2025 for us all! 🙏🏾

  • @MrFreshkiid95
    @MrFreshkiid95 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lmao why you turn off the comments on the Charlemagne video?

  • @inderjitmore6107
    @inderjitmore6107 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Billions of American tax dollars are sent to Israel because American politicians are bought and paid for by AIPAC

  • @jewel7553
    @jewel7553 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What you said. You are not lying. They are killing us.

  • @TrangPakbaby
    @TrangPakbaby 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are such a brilliant orator. 🙏🏽💕

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! I try my best to make sure I'm explaining things clearly. You all make me better 😊

  • @Motomus007
    @Motomus007 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s not necessarily the country’s fault. The blame is to be put on capitalistic healthcare. Alternatively to have a really good healthcare system you have to go socialist. When I was 3 years old we went homeless and bankrupt because my mom had a lot of complications during pregnancy No.3. She almost died and needed a plasma transfusion. If it had been another hour wait she would have died with my brother. We were homeless for 6months and if it wasn’t for a certain religious charity, we wouldn’t have been able to make it back west to family where we could stay

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Facts! This is crazy! Thank goodness you and your family made it...seriously!

  • @悪魔-x3t
    @悪魔-x3t 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Skill issue

  • @chella007
    @chella007 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Don't hate in the corner" - Ha! Yes, we have to be in positivity and exude that genuine wish for other's success. I 100% believe that.

  • @sharongillesp
    @sharongillesp 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    AMERICA IS THE WEALTHIEST NATION … IN ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY … because of its PEOPLE!!! American’s have EARNED outstanding universal healthcare and universal education.

  • @drunn41
    @drunn41 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the prompts. This was great

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Of course! More on the way 👩🏿‍💻

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Americans are fed up and I get it. UPDATE - bit.ly/3P8j9yZ

    • @justrosy5
      @justrosy5 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm thinking that it's high time that rich people are charged in the $billions for healthcare so they are forced to go on these insurance companies' healthcare plans. Every doctor, nurse, clinic, and hospital in America should require everyone's taxes from the previous year, and then have a tiered charging system based on peoples' incomes. Any excess funds collected by them can go to things like homeless shelters, soup kitchens, down payments and other move-in costs for housing and transportation (including RVs and tiny homes), and towards poor peoples' college educations, job placement services, etc. They can then use that donated money as a tax write off. They should love it!

    • @flowersforme375
      @flowersforme375 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good chat. I clicked on your video because you look like me. Who is this woman looking like me? 😂 six degrees of separation.

    • @caseymays46
      @caseymays46 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sad

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@flowersforme375 Thank you, thank you!! 🤗

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People are exhausted and rightfully so.

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tech for good? 👀🍳👩🏾‍🍳

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This tech comes with the bad and the good. What do y'all think? 👀

  • @PancakeDiaries
    @PancakeDiaries 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ur just blogging for views.... Be thankful for Drake. Only ninjas will say "if it aint true, then why dont he sue??" and then when someone sues, say "Aww he aint keeping it street."

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Morris Chestnut....man oh man ❤

  • @theajayieffect
    @theajayieffect 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Have y'all seen this show? I'm obsessed!

  • @monilaninetynine3811
    @monilaninetynine3811 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Drake is definitely a weak Karen

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right?! 😂😂😂

  • @73lyfe96
    @73lyfe96 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Favorite Mary style is when she wears her hair in an updo, as shown on the Gratitude album cover. Regal!

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yesss! That one was iconic 😌✨️

  • @trawlins396
    @trawlins396 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's sad how BW are always so easily manipulated.