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Lol this guy got some small dick energy

Yep understand this very well sadly

I dated a guy for three years. He yelled at me once. I broke up with him. Not putting up with that sh!t. My dad wasn’t like that. I would rather be alone.

Vilifying the mom for speaking the truth, making a mess and then telling the woman to clean it up ... oh, that's so familiar.

I last about 2 secs and this guy would be in the garbage. Wonder why some don’t see this crap?

The movie is good, but I would like to know how she get rid of it... anyway....

Thank you all for sharing these very sad but Brave stories. I am a little bit confused about something..... she didn't seem to remember when she woke up. However, he specifically told her not to take the medicine. Did he want her to remember? Do you guys think she remembered it in the morning?

Stupid woman she only like him because of his face en what he is doing

A true coward

This is really scary. The woman has been cut off from the world and her family. She can't take any decision on her own 😢

My ex husband was very similar to this.. I just had our son and he called be fat,that I should go to the gym,I never had any money of my own,I couldn’t even go to the store unless I brought him the checks just to be sure I didn’t get anything for myself. Told me I was ugly,can’t cook,lazy cause I was at home with our son and I was so exhausted from being up 24/7 alone that sometimes I didn’t have the strength to go outside with him. I left when my son was 5,we lived in a safe house for 4 months til I got on my feet. 3 years later,my son has grown into this beautiful loving little boy and I have an absolutely amazing partner and a companion for my son,he treats us with kindness and respect,compliments me daily,takes my son to fishing,tells him how good he is doing at school . I will never forget when my ex told me that I would never find anyone cause I have a child and I’m fat.

Nadie debe permitir ser maltratado ,la primera pasa a la segunada ya no me ven la cara ,quien soporta esta tan emfermo como el q maltrata

I understand that spreading awareness is important, but it somehow bewilders me, reading these (at times very heart-felt) comments and seeing the ad for spreading the video that the channel posted as response. Again, I get it, but it still feels strangely detached.

I wanna cry at how many comments are about relating to this film… every abuser out there need to read this comment section as well as watch this film to see how their actions really affect people and how many people are traumatized by people like them..

It grosses me out how easily i can spot the red flags and its always the same thing. I see two people in a relationship and whenever i have the sensation of a specific tension, i know something is UP. And EACH time, i end up being right. That quirk saved me many times from red flags.

I can never understand people who stay in abuse

Team bear, team 4B... and if you voted Trump don't complain if your rights get taken away. You elected a predator, congrats.

I went through this. I was cheated on. He did drugs. Punched me in the face when I was pregnant because I had to go to the bathroom. Put a sawed off shotgun to my head while on drugs. Raped me. When he hit my 4 month old baby, I left and never went back. There was so much more. For anyone reading this, don't wait as long as I did. Go. Go now and tell someone. God bless you.

I lived with an abuser for 9 years. I was too terrified to leave. I was beaten, raped, held hostage in my home and had a gun held to my head several times. I was told if I left he would hide in the bushes, kill me and whoever else was with me and then kill himself. It took a plan to get away...but thank God I finally did. I still suffer PTSD. And so do my now grown children...funny thing is- he is now a preacher.

Aos primeiros sinais. FUJA

comienzan con actos muy suevas difíciles de detectar y va aumentando, mi ex me llego a acorralarme contra las paredes, mientras me tenia de los dos brazos. Termine con el y debo admitir que tenia miedo a su reacción, pero no quería ser la victima, así que hice todo lo posible por dejarlo y que entendiera que aunque me amedrentara en la universidad con la ayuda de sus amigos, aunque me dañara mis objetos, como mi bici y me la escondiera, luego de mucho tiempo pasara mis conversaciones personales a mis padres ya cuando no éramos nada, solo por venganza, pues que no seria mas su victima porque saldría de esa situación fuera como fuera. Lo logre, saque a todos los que me lastimaban de mi vida. Lo mas triste es no poder contar todo porque las personas no me creen, porque el era tan buenos con ellos que les parece imposible, y eso me indigna.

GENDER VIOLENCE

DISGUSTING. ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING!!!!!! OUR GOVERMENT AND CONSTITUENTS MUST DO BETTER!! THERE ARE NO OTHER WORDS.

Excelente trabajo! Todo lo que se pueda hacer para concientizar es una gran obra no solo para las mujeres sino para toda la humanidad, millones de niños y niñas crecen traumatizados en hogares infectados por la violencia de género, lamentablemente en mi país Argentina que venia implementando politicas para paliar este mal el nuevo gobierno de Milei ha cerrado el Ministerio de género y diversidad, cerró los refugios para mujeres en situación de violencia; ahora si una mujer denuncia a su abusador no tiene donde escapar, estamos viviendo una situación muy dificil aqui en mi país , temenos un presidente misógino!

It is really a shame that such a sensitive video is interrupted every 5 seconds by ads.

I have been through this and when your significant other or partner tries to separate you and your family it’s being narcissistic in every way and Abusive. If they hit you once they will never stop hitting you ever

This is my father except he doesn't love bomb or rape. 😭☠️

He drugged her

So basically this man would spike her drink with her own sleeping pills, or whenever she takes them herself, to basically violate her while she slept. Then insists she don't go to the doctor because the doctor would find out she had been r*ped - unbeknownst to her. Now that's a whole other level of psycho crazy!!!!! 😮

I feel it in my soul

took so many years to get away legal ways as well.Later after he had finally given up, he got cancer. I wanted to at least tell him I cared but still I knew I could not. I didn't contact him people, friends wondered how I was able to do that..just stay away. I was so terrorized by this man it was like a built in fear meter even when I wanted to , the fear meter rose within me

I knew a couple who had the "perfect marriage" and always appeared affable and happy. I have excellent intuition and I was duped. When the husband died of a heart attack the wife was "free" and finally able to talk to people about years of repeated horrific abuse. Thank you for posting this important video.

A sequel is needed using the same actors but with roles reversed to show the tactics and forms of abuse in that scenario.

Purgare! Meaning to cleanse! Would of been nice to see the mother acting in this short film aswel! Purgatory is religious I don't understand. All forms of abuse is sad.

All of the judging in these comments have run me away from ingesting the film. People are not perfect. Education and early childhood intervention is necessary for everyone boys and girls. But if people would take God seriously and his scripture truly in their hearts, we would be so much better

My story wqs awful too. The scars are always there

This resonates with us Survivors. Thank you x

Muchas gracias por difundir este corto tan sincero , explicativo y porque no decirlo como tantas otras mujeres tambien he vivido estas situaciones...gracias , saludos Marianne desde España.

It makes me sad to see how many people in this comment section can relate to this film. I’m so sorry for anyone who has or ever had to go through this.

Narcissist love giving us those fear tactics, they make me sick by the pleasure they get sick!! I don't know that I like being sensitive too how common this really is, or if I'm just so screwed up, from it all, that i can also be too quick to judge with some people and stay away, that keeps me from forming any relationships too. to all those suffering God is close to the brokenhearted

This was my life 20yrs ago he murdered our animals too and got away with it 🥺😭😭🛡️🙏🙏🙏so many different types of abuse but the same thing,it's all about power🤔🔦

Not everyone woman comes out such situations.....responding the same.....some women go rogue....with no regret

No debemos permitir ningún tipo de violencia,ni sometimiento,cada día aumenta el feminicidio en todo el mundo,qué nos estará pasando cómo sociedad,qué lo estamos normalizando !

#BreakTheCycle

My sisters husband is an abuser, mentally physically emotionally you name it he’s done it or threatened it over many years, she stayed despite all the family help, interventions, money for housing lawyers. We tried for years, and in the end all we got was abuse, from her, her husband and finally their daughter. Unfortunately their daughter is an exact replica of her father, and family have distanced themselves, from all of them. I love my sister but I lost her many years ago.

Just in case, no such thing as purgatory. JESUS was more than enough for our salvation. Its either you are saved or you are not. TRUST in JESUS and what HE did for us on the cross. HE said it is finished!

Weak sauce ,Ladies stop being victims wait till he's asleep and take care of business.

Pesado demais!!!

What kind of wine glasses are those ?

Exactamente eso pensé: "es un ciclo". Todos estos patrones son aprendidos. Desde que empecé a soñar con casarme tuve miedo de que el hombre con el que me casara fuera a ser así. Y a pesar de ese miedo tuve novios que me maltrataron de varias maneras y aunque sabia que estaba mal siempre decía "no encontraré a nadie que me ame" o "me ama" cuando ya sabía que eso no era amor. Pero vi como mis padres se trataban y pensaba "esto es normal" y NO. NADA DE ESO ES NORMAL. Gracias a Dios fui a terapia y cuando al fin empecé a tener amor propio pude empezar a ver las red flags como en este video. Actualmente estoy casada con alguien que también vivió con padres abusivos. Y de vez en cuando nos tratamos igual pero gracias a Dios estamos tan traumados que cuando se nos sale ese patrón reaccionamos rápido y dejamos de hacerlo. Nos pedimos perdón pero mejoramos el comportamiento y cada vez la relación es mejor y mejor. Es difícil pero es un esfuerzo mutuo dejar el ciclo por el bien de nuestro matrimonio y nuestra hija. La chica del video puede irse perfectamente pero esta bloqueada psicológicamente. Primero hay que desbloquearse. Y Hay que construir una red de apoyo para poder salir de eso. Y finalmente pedirle a Dios que te aleje de personas que te hieran.