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I just wanna un - a - live myself because things are so out of control now, not even my family members love me anymore.. :)

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For my I get really angry with bullies in school sometimes. Due to that I notice if I'm by myself or around close family I like and I cannot do something I get annoyed and give up. Most hobbies I've started were gone due to me giving up. Not to mention I'm always mentioning to my brother to not give up Incase he gets into the habit

This video is misleading in so many ways that it advises you to be weak and let your guard down rather than to stand, fight, and take matters in your own hands.

I will probably get dragged for this and maybe I do deserve it but it’s really hard for me to express negative emotions like sadness anger etc I don’t like feeling negative emotions I like only feeling the positive ones and having others feel the same. I know it most likely stems from hearing yelling from my adult figures my whole life and being yelled at for stuff that u shouldn’t be yelled at for. This one particular person is a good adult figure to me but does speak before thinking and will just start yelling when mad even if it’s not something to yell for so since I grew up around that my brain probably thinks it’s ok too though Ik it’s not. I just bottle up my negative emotions and then I get mad and argue with people online usually twitter mostly when they are being mean to others. I know I can ignore but I don’t like people being rude so I try to stand up for people though I may be doing it all wrong. I know it’s not right but I just don’t like being vulnerable and also admitting that some of my arguments were wrong on my end. I feel like a bad person and I’m scared that people also feel the same way and I don’t wanna be. I’ve definitely said some mean things that I wouldn’t say if I was mad. This is probably the first step in fixing my problem writing it out in the comments

Girlies with Retroactive Jealousy here 🙋🏻‍♀️

Idk why these days I get so annoyed and mad easily over the silliest things I don’t like this about myself at all I’m trying to change but whenever I encounter any type of situation that I do not get my way I get so mad but I don’t overreact or throw stuff or anything I say something that would literally ruin the entire thing I’m suffering it’s not like I don’t like that person but it’s how I react to every inconvenience I hate it tho Its making all the ppl I know think I hate them or something but in fact I don’t even realise it until it’s already out of my mouth

This escalated in a worse way because accidentally I found videos an photos of their past... hooking up with strangers. I found them while clearing up space in the notebook we share. I'm still recovering.

Maybe that’s why ppl take advantage of me because I bottle up my anger so much idk if someone has crossed a boundary 🙃 maybe I should figure out what triggers my anger and why?

It’s maybe not even accurately jealousy It’s odious feelings and contempt often more than jealousy

if you want a happy life, find yourself an ugly wife

i find it funny how people with “anger issues” are aware they have anger issues and a short fuse but won’t learn from it so they make it part of their lifestyle. people should just be more honest about themselves and say they love being angry rather then the “i hate being angry all the time i don’t like how it’s affecting my life!” bullshit

Anger makes me cry to but im not mad fully im like mad and sad

How to deal with a RJ partner?

I don't know how I express my emotions.

I Get mad at my family because they keep telling me I have no common sense. One time I went to the bathroom my sister came home with starbucks and when i came out I immediately grabbed the first stay i see, then less than 20 seconds after doing so my sister says "did you use the big straw" and im like "What big straw?" "The one thats an inch and a half bigger than the others, don't you have any common sense,? If so use it! THAT ONE WAS FKR MY BOYFRIEND WHEN HE COMES OVER" and then I just go like "WHAT?! DO YOU EXPECT ME TO WASTE 2 SECONDS OF MY LIFE MEASURING STAWS?! THAT'S BASICALLY THE SAME FREAKING HEIGHT! AND ALSO IF THATS THE CASE THEN WHERE IS HIS CUP?!"

all your vids feel like gaslighting 😭

Every time I'm mad, my mom comes me down but I just can't let my anger go because sometimes my sister disturbs me and my two big sisters but my big brother is a bit good. I'm so lucky. I'm the second last born so when I get mad my mom calms me down, thank you for letting me know😊😊😊

I get jealous because my partner hangs out w other guys more than me but it's weird because I can't control myself from distancing more

But that’s not good enough I need some more help a solution

Dude the reason i watched this bc i give a enemmy smt bc i couldent not give him the ting but i watched this video befor asked him for the ting i give him but i keept geting angury and wanted the enemy to die bc hes 1000% not gonna give the ting back but i cant say no bc the enemy aka the bully is stornger then me if i say no hel start stealing stuff i have a problem with that this video is helping a lit bit

Lying and omitting relevant facts of the past is selfish, dishonest and disrespectful, and takes away from the other party the right to choose what is best for them. For me, what people have done in the past, good and bad, matters, and matters a lot. It is by far the best and most accurate predictor of what a person is capable of doing, good and bad, in the future. In addition, if you are in a serious relationship, it is only fair that the truth of the facts of the past be presented in a clear and serene way. Open and honest. BTW, I'm not talking about sordid details, but the basics (how many partners, when, etc.).

Thankyou everyone here. I have learnt my mind is not my friend. My mind has made me feel the most ugliest, degrading feelings imaginable. If my mind was my friend, it is the worst friend I could imagine. I have created this catalyst to break my model of myself. I have never experienced such emotional trauma as RJ, it is like I had to create this to wake me up from my sleeping slumber. I needed the most intense experience, so this is it. To be so in love with someone and to equally have the most disturbing feelings is the most intense experience. If you had issues with a family member, or work colleague you can seperate your heart from that much easier, but when the experience is with your most loved, well, enter the death of your mind! Let go let go let go, simple instructions, but this is the way. If you choose to kill off your mind, you will clear so many samskaras that you will wish it happened sooner! The person that is on this side of the fence, yes, we are deeply sensitive and vulnerable compared to the other side. I don't understand them, and they don't understand us, it is just the way it is. We have our strengths and weakness, and they may have the opposite. It is quite fascinating!

i get angry so easily over little things and say things that i wouldnt normally say. Like i yell at my loved ones over really really little things and break their heart by saying rude things that i wouldnt normally say and the thing is i dont wanna be like that anymore. Pls help me if u ve experienced this before i fr hate myself why am i doing this

I really get angry always the same

Ever since 2020 this has been happening to me 🙁

My level goes down sometimes and I feel like I’m the low level person

Whenever I get mad or frustrated getting I get angry at my brother, I defense myself sometimes and they say bad things

Your parents screw up your childhood and your partner pays the price. Time to recognize these issues, resolve it by myself and save my partner from unnecessary and unfair hurt my speech causes her when I am angry.

I always got told off if i showed my feelings to my dad , he always used "i don't care , i dont care " , and never asked after

0:38 this is me when enemies roast me from behind and roll at me

I just wish someone would comfort me when I'm upset for once, I wish someone would take the time to look past it but that's just not a realistic expectation, I feel so unbelievably overwhelmed and exhausted all the time

I get mad so easily when something stresses me I get MAD

im mad cs my friend ruined my mood now i dont feel like watching tik toks that i like and listening to music and i js almost blocked him cs he made me so mad it ruined all the excitement of listeing to music or watching tik tok edits. This may sound really stupid and thats js because it is. I get angry so fast for so many reasons and i hate it

Sometimes I get angry just cuz I always have to be the mature one in the argument otherwise it might get worst and someone will get hurts even tho most of the times i'm the younger one

Tbh for me I get so much more pissed off around my parents then around anyone else. I think it is because I grew up around my parents constantly yelling at each other for the smallest things. So that is how I learned to deal with things. I been trying to get rid of my anger issues, but it just seems like my family triggers me.

I felt like this video is made for me 😭

Repressed anger sounds so relatable... "Sounds"

I'm still so confused ... For now...

i have never been angry before. i dont know how it feels to be angry. so its weird when someone is angry at me cause i wont be angry at them back.

I’ve been in a relationship the past couple months and she’s supportive and gentle and the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. The only problem is that my retroactive jealousy got me asking questions and those questions led to visuals playing in my head of her and her past partners and the other day I lashed out over it and now the relationship is on very thin ice. I don’t exactly know what to do about it but I know I don’t want to get in my own way of accepting such a beautiful person Any thoughts or advice or anything at all?

Guys im just watching this

2:17 He sent him to Jesus.

THIS STUFF DOES NOT WORK

I got pissed off by my classmate, they literally don't want to stop laughing at me for explaining bad feelings, and they ignoring me for stopping them and supports teacher to telling me a bad things, they support hurting me for no reason, and next one that boy annoyed me and i told principal to stop him for annoying at me, and he tells principal a lies. And principal told me "He didn't do anything to you." And i got angry and freaks out and he told me to go to lunch now, and now i got freak out and i start raging about and teacher thinks i am a young actor and other teacher trusted teacher thinks i am a actor, she stopped thinking i am a actor, and starts arguing and skips my explainer, i got insane when teacher thinks i cried like a baby and calling baby threats and i don't trust them anymore.

How can we l stop that?! 😢 My partner has a gazillion photos of, seriously, more than 15 girls he’s dated with in the past!! When he rolls his camera, I happen to see some photos sometimes! I feel disgusted!

Ha..this vid helped me out a lot I only have 1 symptom.

My ex said my body was ugly im extremely thin and I gained weight its just my countenance.

You feel RJ because your character and moral values are not compatible with the others. Its your minds filtering system telling you to bin this person. They have failed quality check. Its a major red flag and you should step back. Skunks cannot marry rabbits.

Everyone should hide their past relationships. Why do you need to tell your new partner about many people youve screw#d with? Keep your mouth shut. Your partner doesnt deserve to go through the pain of jealousy. And if you have the compulsion to brag about your exes you are clearly not over them yet then go see a shrink first before getting into a relationship.