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Hanging Out 4ever
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 18 เม.ย. 2023
We couldn’t find a therapist so we started a podcast to help other people better navigate some of the challenges we’ve already been through and the ones yet to come. Real, raw, and honest dialogue about dating. The ups, the downs and everything in between on making it work. Through our podcast and vlogs, hopefully, our journey helps yours!
-Aja & Grant
-Aja & Grant
Epic THEME PARK birthday SURPRISE
I surprised Aja with a trip to San Diego for her Birthday! We started the trip at Belmont Park, which is a theme park right next to the ocean. Then we ate and drank our way through little Italy in downtown!
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Leaving an ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
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Episode 19: In this episode we have Soft Bunny joining us on the pod! We met Soft Bunny randomly one night while we were in Hollywood filming street interviews. She shared her experience about leaving an abusive relationship and how being empathetic to struggle can cause you to fall into bad relationships. We posted her story and it went viral! The people loved her and wanted to know more, so w...
HARDEST part of INTERRACIAL DATING
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Episode 18: In this episode we talk about our experience as an interracial couple. We have been through it all! From having clashing cultural differences to recieving outside criticism and hate. For the first time on our podcast we dive deep into our personal experiences of interracial dating.
We FOUND a SECRET restaurant BEHIND a BOOKSHELF
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Aja took me on a date night! We started in Hollywood at EP LP, where they had a limited time roller rink on the rooftop! Then we made our way downtown to the Moxy Hotel. You guys have to check out Level 8 at the Moxy Hotel. 8 restaurants and bars, including one of our new favorite speakeasy's in Los Angeles!
Why we're NOT GETTING MARRIED
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Episode 17: Okay y'all! In this episode we get really real on why we're not married. I'm talkin REALLY REAL. That's the whole point of our podcast is to keep things honest and raw and have the conversations some people are scared of. Aja cries AGAIN
MODERN WOMEN ARE DELUSIONAL?? | Ft Chef Junie | EP. 15
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MODERN WOMEN ARE DELUSIONAL?? | Ft Chef Junie | EP. 15
She BROKE INTO HIS HOUSE| Relationship Advice From Strangers
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She BROKE INTO HIS HOUSE| Relationship Advice From Strangers
Valentines Day Relationship Advice | by Hanging Out 4ever
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Valentines Day Relationship Advice | by Hanging Out 4ever
Episode 10: Podcasting Saved Our Relationship- 2023 Recap
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Episode 10: Podcasting Saved Our Relationship- 2023 Recap
Episode 8: 'GHOSTS AND NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES'- HALLOWEEN BONUS EP
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Episode 8: 'GHOSTS AND NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES'- HALLOWEEN BONUS EP
Episode 7: We're Not Getting Engaged (BONUS EPISODE)
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Episode 7: We're Not Getting Engaged (BONUS EPISODE)
Hanging Outside: Malibu Beach- DATES ARE IMPORTANT
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Hanging Outside: Malibu Beach- DATES ARE IMPORTANT
Episode 3: "Leave Her Bro, XO" - The Internet
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Episode 3: "Leave Her Bro, XO" - The Internet
The lady in blue is delusional 😂😂
@@sumairshirazi maybe you’re delusional? There’s no on in blue in this entire video 😭
@@HangingOut4ever it was meant for another video
@@HangingOut4ever but I will still say the lady is delusional
A 100k man can date and marry a mcdonalds woman, a 100k woman wouldn't do that at all. So the 100k man has more option's unlike the woman , unless the woman chooses to date a man who makes lower than her.
How is this white dude dealing with that?
Listening to the dude debating these 2 women was painful
Good thing don't hang with sugar stuff
She is very combative, made her man look like a poosie !!!
White dude is ALWAYS going to disagree with a Black male...
This woman is toxic af and he's just a pxxxy. She's nails on a chalkboard annoying and he's a pandering beta male simp just a weak ass push over of a man. Brother with the shades is on point.
The intro alone says a lot. You have a problem with him bringing up Women first after you acknowledged him saying Women don't take accountability is literally proving his point. Imagine thinking 100k a year isn't a lot of money when you previously 5 seconds ago read the percentages of people making X-Amount of money isn't even 1/4th. Clearly it's a lot of money if 80%+ don't make it let alone on average. It's easy to think like this when your spoiled, entitled, delusional or you're not the one footing that bill but when you are that's a different story. Then you try to excuse it by hiding it behind "dynamics". Hypocrisy is still Hypocrisy regardless of "dynamics", gender, up bringing etc. Women want to scream Misogyny/Slavery just bcus a Man says he wants a Wife that knows how to cook, clean and cater to him but mysteriously don't see it as Misandry/Slavery when they say they want a Man that makes X-Amount of money that pays for everything and they do nothing. Women say they want a Man to be a Leader but then in the next breath say they don't want to be told what to do yet at the same time be able to tell him what he needs to do. Women will say a Woman who Divorced her Husband deserves Half of everything he owns despite the fact she didn't work for it but will complain about a Man who Divorced his Wife taking Half of everything she owns despite he didn't work for it (Mary J. Blige for example)...that's Counterintuitive. Willful Cognitive Dissonance is one Hell of a Drug. The Average everyday Man isn't saying he deserves a Beyonce that's freaky as idk what but the average everyday Woman is saying she deserves 6ft+ with top accolades. You don't have to be looking to hear certain things just to come across it, that's not how this works. Now as far Men wanting a Woman to go 50/50 with is a "No,No" or "Impossible" is completely wrong. This is something that has been going on since Time and Memorial. You can literally go to any country, any race during any previous time frame and find Men and Women going 50/50 just fine. My Uncle and Aunt have literally been doing that for well over 40 years and they both look good. Why? They're living within their means, they're not trying to live an unnecessary lifestyle, they're not trying to flex to impress other people and they have Good Money Management Skills. The issue that Women of today have with 50/50 is they don't want to contribute to the family unit and they wasted their time doing 50/50 with the blatantly obvious Bad Men. Especially when more times then not they prioritized the Bad Boy's and overlooked Legitimate Red Flags over Good Men. We are literally living in a Society that is heavily requiring a 2 person income in the home but Women are saying "if he can't pay all my bills he can't do nothing for me" meanwhile they're struggling to pay their own bills in full by themselves. You mean to tell me you'd rather struggle staying afloat by yourself then to go half with someone else and save money...special kind of stupid
He's not in touch with today's women she has him trained.
I agree with a lot of what Chef Junie said, excluding his views on *The Passport Bros.* They are not the same guys online crying about 50/50. These men are traditional. With many of Aja's takes on relationships and doing whatever she wants, it looks like she wants to act single while she's in a relationship. That’s crazy.
@@DigitalWraith love this take! It’s not that I do whatever I want, it’s just that we both prioritize our individuality 💗 Also, thanks for spelling my name right :)
@@HangingOut4ever When in a relationship, it's no longer about his or her individuality. It's about the unity they are trying to build and maintain. This is what I mean when I said acting single while in a relationship. I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not, but I only got the name from the descriptions. I don't like to misspell names if I can find it. Just like with the Chef.
@@DigitalWraith I wasn’t being sarcastic.
@@HangingOut4ever Oh, you're welcome, then. 😎👍
Women with money don't got options like that. They don't share their shit to begin with. Those women want 6 figure dudes to pay for their lifestyle while they do fuckall with their own money. That "My money is mine, his money is ours" BS. Fuck That. And also "100k is not that much" my left nut. 13% of men in the US make that and for shits and gigs if you want him to also be 6ft you cut down to 3%. Go back to Economics class then tell us what you learned.
Thanks for watching!!
I have noticed that neither one of you have used the word I love you. You state about the respect trust I know you need those things in a relationship, but you also need love that has to be the foundation of everything else. No matter how long you been together, you should heard the word love once. But every relationship is different and if it work . Every body else should be happy. Did you?
@@juliawillams-ld4bj watch a few more episodes. We say it all the time! But I agree! Love is incredibly important. We probably didn’t mention that in this one because we assumed it was implied 💗 Love is the foundation of course, but everything else we mentioned works in tandem to support that love.
😂 when he said no Successful Man don't want to deal with a difficult woman. He started sweating, blink twice if you need help buddy
He's not wrong, The "I can change her" wears off fast. Ask Ben Affleck.
She is so mature for her age, that’s impressive, she is great
@@Pedroacamposs FR, she’s so amazing.
If u want masculine energy then show feminine energy then.
@@sumairshirazi dressing masc doesn’t mean she doesn’t carry feminine energy
@@HangingOut4ever I never said about dressing
@@sumairshirazi fair!
It can be easy to get sucked into abusive relationships especially when ur an empath. Such a good episode. Thank u for sharing awe soft bunny
This was such an intense episode! Ur beautiful and I totally get where ur coming from.
Then stop dating abusive people simple as that.
It’s actually not as simple as that..
@@notyetrated3410 it actually is
@@sumairshirazi it’s not that easy for everyone. Some people fall back into patterns of what they’re used to and don’t quite realize it’s a pattern until they’re already invested.
@@HangingOut4ever then that's their loss then
Since the lady said she would choose a bear over the man , then why is she still with a husband who is a man. Why isn't the bear her husband though ?
On average, do you think women are smart or dumb? Like as a whole?
@@HangingOut4ever both smart and dumb actually
@@sumairshirazi so it’s the same thing with men, I feel like men can be kind and dangerous. But that doesn’t stop me from wanting to be with a man. Just like you thinking a woman is smart and dumb doesn’t stop you from wanting to be with a woman. You may be more selective in what situations you choose to cross paths with them because of your perspective. In a crisis situation, you might not want to be around a woman because you think that they might be dumb or a hindrance in a situation. That’s the same reason I would choose a bear in the woods. I would rather take my chances with something I know is dangerous than not be certain of a man’s dangerous intentions until it’s too late.
@@HangingOut4ever dumb meaning women choosing the bear that's makes y'all dumb
@@HangingOut4ever u can't reason with a bear unlike a man
Never date a project: people you have to fix; it will drain you. One of the problems is that the people you choose to invite in your life is a reflection of what you think you deserve.
@@ItsSageof this is so true! She makes a good point in the episode though too when she says she doesn’t like “giving up on people who she thinks just need a chance”. I can totally understand that. At a certain point, you have to determine what your time is worth. That’s something she said she’s working on. 💗💗
Sure but it causes alot of problems.
White bol soft as shit you see how she was looking at him when he was simping all crazy
With love in my eyes, because I’m so obsessed with him 🥹
@@HangingOut4ever I agree it was with love in your eyes of course you're going to feel that way when you wear his balls on the necklace around your neck
Lady your boyfriend/husband is a beta a minimal!!! He's borderline ghey if you really want the truth
That’s not the truth though, that’s an incorrect assumption. Thanks for watching!!🥹🥹
@HangingOut4ever that's a fact.... nothing about that guy says man or masculine..... his delivery and his manorism screams I'm confused. But hey you can turn the blind eye
@@letstalkaboutit9730 that’s not how facts work. They’re objective. Not subjective. This is subjective information, therefore it’s not factual. Hope this helps! ☺️
one man vs two women, the soy in this caucasian fella 😭, seems like a nice guy nonetheless
They said RIP to the late great Kevin Samuels. 1:33:01 she said rest in poop then laughed. That’s crazy! Super disrespectful.
Shorty a straight clown
Thanks for watching!! 🥹🥹
When are you going to admit that you’re only dating that white boy because he’s a liberal Simp that you can control and manipulate to agree with you all the time? 🤣🤣🤡🤦🏽♂️
Never, because that’s not the case. Thanks for watching!! 💗😘💗
“Nothing immoral about having an onlyfans “ are you kidding me bitch
Put a quarter in the swear jar! That’s not nice 😔
I honestly don’t know how humans like these two air heads exists or have platforms to even share their thoughts the level of delusion is unbearable
We have a platform cuz folks like you keep watching! Thank you!! 🥹🥹
@@HangingOut4ever i can assure you i watched this because of a far bigger channel reacted to yall make a fool this shit won't last
@@Jayaree3x doesn’t matter why you watched, you watched. And the fact that we’re on a bigger channels radar means bigger things are on the horizon. Tootles, Pumpkin 😘 thanks for the engagement!
🤨She's proving the point that women are delusional. 😑We continually tell women what we want and like, but they don't want to listen. 😐Then they complain when guys fly all the way across oceans, deserts and seas to find women that were raised to be wives. 😏It's clear why she's with the Caucasian fella, he's a simp. Wow.... Just wow...
Please explain what makes it clear that I’m with a white guy
@@HangingOut4ever 🤨I already explained. 😑I'll break it down farther. He's not stoic and he has constantly expressed feminine views regarding masculinity/femininity. 🙂Despite being a weak man he seems like a cool guy personality wise, and I've got no ill will towards him; but like I said before "he's a simp". Women like you like guys like that. 😏That's your choice. 😎I was just pointing out the obvious, that's all.
@@monroesmind5581 thanks for the feedback! And for watching 🥹🥹
In other words, I am a racist, left-wing woman who has been with sexist men, who treated me like garbage (I call it hyper masculinity), now that I meet normal men, it doesn't fit with them and the sexism and violence that I acquired
Lollll so loud and wrong. How is it possible to be both so boldly?
People are people, black or white I'm a black man I don't care love who you wants . We are human's interracial marriages of all races. Be going on for centuries.
I am sorry but I am 14 minutes in and I am cringing for the guy in the middle. I hope he is happy in the relationship cuz that’s all that matters and my opinion/feelings are not important but the way the woman keeps looking at him and shutting him down and contradicting what he is saying is a little alarming. How are you going to say “all my guy friends have had a crush on me apart from you” in front of the whole world. I am not sure I could take that (I am not in their shoes but I don’t think I would 🤷🏾♂️)
@@nnamdionyegu337 I mean, it’s the truth. I didn’t say I dated or messed with all my guys friends, so any feelings they may or may not have had for me don’t truly hold weight unless I acted on them. :) He’s happy tho! Thank you for watching!!
White boy is a siiiiiiiiimp. 😢 Hella beta. No bass in his voice neither
Beastmode did a reaction video to this video. Therefore, I watched this video again with a more open mind... this aint it. Both of you, my friends, are clueless and just out of touch with reality and relationships. Sorry. Im still going to support but damn...
@@RoblEsquire thanks for sticking with us anyway, Rob! 🥹 Also, thanks for telling us folks are doing reactions to our content! That’s super cool! 💗💗
Yes, modern women are delusional. And year 2030 45 percent and more will be single. Although, “Beauty Fades, While Dumb Is Forever”.
Most black men could care less, were the most sought after and desired the most out of every other ethnic group. But what I've been noticing is that when a black female chooses to get into a relationship with a white boy, they usually choose the lamest dorkiest most weakest white guy that they can find, yet when they date black men, he has to have swag, be 6 feet, have a big 🥒 which is the exact opposite of the white simp dudes that they normally choose. Why is that?
Speaking as a black man, trust me, I have far more important things in life to be concerned about. I can care less if blacks and whites want to date and/or marry. Just be glad you found love, regardless of the person's color, because we live in a society where to many people are so busy being fake. If you just so happen to find someone that's real with you and loves you ....go for it.
Love this!! 🥹 Grant is honestly one of the best humans to ever walk into my life. I totally agree, life is already hard enough. Finding love is already hard enough. So like you said, if it’s real, go for it!
She is masculine and the guy is super feminine. And strangely, he doesn’t understand how men think in relationships either.
you guys are not a real couple, the way you act towards each other is not natural and we can tell that its a phony relationship. you are probably payed by some satanic NGO to promote this harmful lifestyle and normalize it.
She’s definitely cheating on him for sure
@@AllwheelsAutoBody wanna go thru my phone? 📱
The show would be better with just the two friends. The white guy kills the show 🤷🏾♂️
That white person has to be a woman
That poor white man is so Uncomfortable 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She needs a man like her “best friend” to get her straight
This might be the biggest simp I’ve ever seen in my life 😳 it’s scary
@@AllwheelsAutoBody he’s a man in love 🥰
No disrespect, but she know that no black man would accept the stuff she’s doing so she definitely picked him purposely. That woman wants control
@@AllwheelsAutoBody you’ve revealed my intentions. The inner workings of my mind have now been exposed. I must retreat in shame. You’ve cracked the case, Mr Detective AutoBodyWheelsBody.
She’s extremely toxic
She looks like she is the man of the house !!! she definitely use d!ldo on him