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I don't understand why people think this life or being a wife I a blessing

Why would I want ro bring a kid into this world when it's so cruel and horrible nah fuck that

I’m 21 years old, I have been married for two years and everyone is waiting for me to have children, to give them Grandchildren and Nieces and Nephews. I never want to have children, I actually want to get my tubes tied in the next few years. But all my Husbands family members are upset I don’t want children. I have been called Selfish, Spoiled, even Cruel. Even my husband has come to want a child. I feel so alone and ganged up on.

M O N E Y!!! Nothing natural is affordable ! And EVERYTHING ELS too! That is why

Celibacy helps you focus a lot and reach your goals faster. Soul ties and sexual energy exchange is REAL. Some soul ties take a lot longer to break because you’re literally carrying someone’s demons and bad karma. Be wise ladies! ✌🏽 protect your womb and be careful who you choose to have seggs with.

then people wonder from CF women " b-but why you wont have kids? " not really the kids.. it is what happens AFTER the kid is around..men wont appreciate the sacrifice and abuse the shit out of you to boost his income not giving shit about your health either... why bother lol

"I can't wait for menopause so that nature couldn't make that decision for me." One of the most contradictory things I ever hear come out of (primarily) men's mouths is how pregnancy and motherhood for women are these bastions of nature, not to be belittled or denied. But when it comes to decimating the natural landscape of the planet we call our home in the name of civilization, they call it "progress." Not bringing another soul onto this planet has proven time and time again to be my greatest accomplishment in this life.

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Good lord, the story about the woman who was pursued and assaulted at the gas station. I don't think it's unfair at all for her to be honest with herself and her feelings. She does *not* need to feel "grateful for the experience" she's endured.

You can't ignore environmental factors, too. As in: Parenthood in the US varies VASTLY from parenthood in Germany, for example. Here in GER all regular checkups up to and including birth are 100% covered even with the basic healthcare plans. Up to three (3!!) years PAID (by govt) parental leave (which can be split between the parents, too) whereas I've heard that US parents sometimes have to surrender their child to daycare at two months old bc of money issues, etc. That's bound to set you up for a difficult toddler phase ... Please excuse my language, I'm not a native speaker!

I’m struggling enough raising a puppy rn, I’m not gonna survive a human child, asking ppl around me to puppysit him for small errands is making me feel bad; but he’s only 9 weeks old. I can’t leave him alone for enough time to go to the store, he’s just a tiny puppy, so it’s not like he’s mature enough to learn longer separation periods on his own yet. It feels like I’m a new parent, things like showering or doing laundry is basically harder than I ever knew they could be. Shopping, I knew that would be harder, but showers and laundry I didn’t. I love my little guy, I don’t think I made a mistake in adopting him; I’m so happy he’s here! I’m just glad he ISN’T a human baby.

When the children grow up, they are ungrateful for all you've done and by then, the father has cheated on you and left. Don't bother.

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Men are all over TH-cam saying marriage isn't worth it, women are awful, they can't risk losing half their money in a divorce, it's better to be a passport bro, etc., and now they're mad women are adjusting and thriving? Why do they care whether single women are happy or not? After all, these are the same single women they claim not to want, right?

Thank you so much for sharing ❤❤ I’m 37 and childfree and all these honest stories online have helped me make my decision !

I was married for twenty years, and a SAH mom, who homeschooled our children. I was still in most instances a “single parent”! After I separated from him, I definitely struggled financially, and also because he rarely saw the children. BUT, my life was still better than the twenty years under the cloud of his narcissism! Ladies, obviously the father of the children will have an impact on them. I’m still living with the fallout of having some adult children, who are either narcissistic themselves, or still alienated from me, because of his tactics. I love my children, and still applaud those of you who are deciding to go childless. Being a “trad wife”, without a backup plan, basically ensures that you’ve chosen a life of suffering, and your sacrifices for your children, may not ever really be acknowledged. Think about yourself, and your own path to happiness, BEFORE getting married, or having children.

Chose not to have children… best decision I ever made.

Coming from a man this is 😂. I get it that this is what women want. Now if I can only change men's mentally to do the same in reverse the world would be a better and quieter place.

I relate to the girl at 10:12 sooo much!! Because same girl! 😄

omg the girl at the end was so speaking my language

“Lose hearing in my left eye”😂😂😂

If you want children get ivf you don't need men

If relationships don't last forever don't have kids because kids only bring unnecessary drama and stress into relationships

I am so grateful that my parents got divorced while I was young enough not to remember any conflict between them. They were much better to each other once they ended their relationship and they never put me in the middle of anything and they never talked badly of each other in my presence. That being said, I think it says a lot about marriage (and their marriage specifically) that he got remarried and she never wanted to marry her new partner. I don't need to know the particulars, they were good to me, they handled it well from what I saw, and I don't need to know what went down.

Nothing wrong with being single and childfree it is better then being abusrd and enslaved or being a bad.wife and mother marriage and motherhood id not for everyone

Well what about focusing on the issue of absentee father's.....but nope men are allowed to have babies and then shut on their life but women are allowed to prevent that shit

Jesus, this sounds like one of the levels of hell

This is a weird conversation on both sides. The internet has made everyone loss their minds 😮

I don’t believe anyone is happy alone and single long term be them men or women.

PHEW!!! I’ve never been so grateful that I didn’t have children. These stories are depressing af 😬

The thought of getting germs from a man is disgusting to me.

I'm an older woman. Most of the women I know have been in relationships, but have come to a place in life where they've been divorced or widowed. They have spent their lives running around after men, do ing all the emotional , raising a family and looking after elderly relatives. Nowadays, they are single, have a job, a house, a car.Nobody tells them what to do. And they are happy!

every man i’ve tried has mostly brought me stress and confusion with nothing good in return for me. i’ve accepted i’ll probably never get married but if i do he would need to be financially well off and generous because honestly, how else can the typical straight man benefit me? it’s not like their personality’s are just sooo awesome 🙄

You cannot really know if you are happier without children if you have never had children. You can assume but it's hard to know for sure. I am a mother and I have loved it so much. Hearing your baby cry for the first time is the most amazing moment. I would do it all over again. There is a weird misconception pregnancy ruins your body...not necessarily I have seen plenty of childfree women that do not have that great of a body. Plus there are benefits to pregnancy, the baby's stem cells have been proven to repair damage in the women's body.

I- Listen.... I'm not saying it would be *right*....but if she ended up on the news, I would understand.

Many women would rather be single than be in an abusive relationship. However, very few would rather be single than be in a healthy relationship. Some women don't want to admit this. I know for a fact that some of these women on the internet screaming "I love being single; Decenter men; I don't want or need a man for anything," are having unprotected sex with men they barely know and entering monogamous relationships with men.

The 47 year old woman looks so youthful!!! 😍 one of my favorite reasons for choosing this lifestyle is that it has less stress and hence a wonderful effect on your appearance especially if you eat clean and exercise regularly...😊

If women are going to be childless and single, wouldn't that mean men will be too? I mean, for DECADES, men made fun of marriage as the "ball and chain", how they don't commit when they are young, how women are too desperate to get married and when they propose they do them a favour, how they don't want kids and responsibility.... so NOW, you got women adapting to this, so you can just have intercourse without commitment, and marriage and family is no longer a priority. It sure seems to be ok only for men to pursue this. The same men who want to sleep with their virgin girlfriends in their teens and twenties without marrying them, , are the one who are concerned with "high body count".

I often hear from men that marriage isn’t worth it and it’s better to be single. But in the same vein they say that women aren’t happy single. I am like why? Women have more benefits being single and child free. No need to undergo pregnancy and child birth and the permanent body changes and the health concerns, financial stability, no need to take stress to manage work and the child, not having to deal with a man because you had a child with him, and so much more.

ChiIdren do not exist so grown ups can grow up. This damnn commentSection ffs.

Love my life with my bestie and husband. My body looks good too lol :) However I’m happy if the person is happy. None of my best friends want kids and I think that’s the best. Only problem I see is that hole of time you now have can turn to neuroticism if not filled with projects, goals, purpose.. this goes for empty nesters and moms as well! Just about balance.

I would say even for those that do want kids, better to not deal with the man and set yourself up for success. Largely even the ones that appear competent devolve into man children once there's other actual children around. (Former married single mother, now free aibgle mother).

I KNOW at least 4 women who are 30 years old. Been with their partners for 12 years , 3 children, AND STILL THEIR MAN DO NOT WANT MARRIAGE.

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what!!! kids are not a retirement plan or elder care strategy !!!!..I cant believe people are even saying "who will take care of me when i get old"..How about you plan for your own retirement and not burden your children!!!

I love your videos! Thank you!

The solution would be to live communally, as our ancestors did. More and more people are doing that now, and I really hope it catches on with mainstream society at some point. Imagine how much less stress someone would feel as a mother if they knew that there were dozens of other women able to step in and watch their kid and vice versa.

I’m starting to want to be in a relationship with just women,cause men have got some raising of themselves to do. I want to be with another adult.

Even if we are not, why does that concern them?

Anything worth having takes work. This sounds like people just don’t want to do the work.