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When I heard Fox 5! I knew this was a DMV story ❤

If you are not married, don't expect to be giving everything. A boyfriend owes you nothing.

I love your hair 🥰

Y’all full of shit

I don’t think people really understand that our country is crumbling and all these FUCKING GENDER ROLES AND EXPECTATIONS NEED TO STOP CAPITALISM IS DESTROYING US AND KSTEAD OF US CREATING A SOLIDARITY ECONOMY WE WORRIED ABOUT WHAT STROKES OUR EGOS PEOPLE ARE DYING AND STARVING AND ALL I HEAR IS LEAD BE A MAN AS OF THESE RESOURCES ARE JUST UNLIMITED I FUCKING HATE HETERO NORMATIVITY GORE SOME FUCKING FOOD BUIKD SOME SHIT TOGETHER OTHERWISE WE NEED TO ENFORCE FULL BLOWN 100 percent PATRIARCHY

You can sit on here and pander all you want men are realizing they’re just feeding these women and it’s going nowhere. and women don’t like it, Social media has changed the dating scene you probably haven’t been dating in years so you don’t understand how it goes. I make over a 100k as a police officer so money not a issue I live a basic life almost all women want to have this luxury lifestyle without putting the work in for it. Women expect men to just right off the bat spend 100s and 100s of dollars on dates since every woman nowadays have top tier standards for some reason. Y’all so outta touch with reality and it’s obvious

Yes this is my husband , I love him but he’s definitely a workaholic. I know he’s trying to get us in a better spot financially, but I like balance. I truly believe if my husband could he would simply work and go to church and that’s it no travel or fun. My husband is kind natured and a giver and I had to reign that in a lot when we got married bc I truly believe family took advantage of that and I peeped their game. He’s super ambitious and driven, but he allowed folks to pull on him, take from him so much that I feel like now that we’re married he’s actually able to focus on his goals and kind of playing catch up in a way.

SO much cap on this dam video Y'all didn't study or have any other opinions

New subscriber here🎉🎉I’m so glad I just found ya’ll channel, I’m newly married and my husband’s mom is too much, I don’t know what else to do except pray, and what worse is that my husband doesn’t see how she is too much, I hope she doesn’t ruin the honeymoon phase of our marriage ❤

No you only Marry your Spouse not their family! But You have to love in-laws like your own family. But Marriage to your spouse is a whole different level

Me and wife been 50/50 for 10 years, we are doing jus fine!!! Wats the problem?

I do 50/50 with myself!!

Why are some Men doing 50/50 in marriages, dating and relationships: 1. According to a 2024 report from Azusa Pacific University and UC Merced, 33% of women are on dating apps to used Men solely for “FOODIE CALL “ which means 33% of women schedules dates with Men they aren't interested in just to get a free meal. 2. According to New York Post! These women claim If they had been forced to pay, they probably wouldn’t have been able to eat for months afterward. So what do those women do on social media on daily basis they shame Men! Using tactics like insult shame and guilt to keep habitually taking advantage of the Men generosity. 3. According to daily Mail, HALF of all married women, women in serious relationships, women who are seriously dating have a fall-back partner on standby who has always fancied them, in case their current relationship turns sour. 4 According to AmericanSociologicalAssociation 70% all divorces are caused and initiated by women: Partly due to how many men have been screwed over by “good” women. If things go bad in a marriage, the Men generally has the most to lose financially. Child care and alimony are typically paid by the Men. To all the women in the comments using insults, shame and guilt towards these Men! Tell Me that after knowing all these facts you will advise your brother, uncle, son, father, etc to keep on moving with a blind eye knowing what some of these women are out there doing to good Men. in a capitalist society that’s adjusted for dual income households, you’re basically saying over 90% of men are “broke”. And those 10% that aren’t broke are wealthy individuals with a lot of options that will likely choose a woman with a healthier mental state than you’ve displayed in this video, so good luck.

Thank you for making this video. Although, I’ve just come across it 3yrs later. I feel like I’ve met my person but he works a lot. We’ve been together for 4months. He is very focused on his goals and work. I am too but I make time and my peace/smelling the roses is priority. I am going to have a convo with him on this so we can discuss, balance and find a solution together. However, if there are no changes made, I will walk away, as quality time is huge for me in a relationship.

Respect. I needed this today. Yall have no idea what I'm going through in my relationship. I'm soon to be married and everything started out great. 2 years in. We are both deserving ppl of mature love but so many things take effect in our growth. I want to stand my ground on who I am and he wants to stand on his. I want to be myself at all times I don't want anyone calling me out. Def on my attire I'm so basic is ridiculous. But when I want to look like something other than Harriet it's a problem I'm exposing myself I'm for the streets. Thank you for letting me know it's not just my relationship that can work but needs working on

The fact that you have to put up boundaries to prevent romantic improprieties between “friends” tells you everything you need to know if opposite sex friendships are practical or natural. They’re not. no matter how much we want to tell ourselves that there are no issues with these types of opposite sex “friendships”.

I had to come subscribe after seen your homecoming/fashion video on IG.

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That a happen to me all I had was a wings and one drink bill came he went to bathroom when I paid he came back mind you I bought him 3 blooms and a birthday card🎉he only order free water I'm scared to date now I always keep money one thank God

What we need are competent professional compassionate people in the delivery room the color of the skin has absolutely nothing to do with it

❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂 I loved this

yeah

this ain't disrespectful at all it's literally just annoying in the event that you hear it over and over. it's also not a big deal it's stupid words with no hostility behind it lmaooo ignore and move on

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉we love that y’all are back 🩷🩷

It's a shame health-care has to turn into a racial issue. 😢 We need to do better as a people.❤ facts are facts, but that's what's 😔

I love to hear this

It has nothing to do with color and everything to do with the fact that hospital practices are outdated and unsafe. Get a midwife.

The skin color of a nurse isn't the issue. It's the egos the nurses have. They need to be put in check and people need to realize, they aren't your boss, you're theirs.

Imagine a white person saying this. Y'all really want Jim Crow back. 🤡

I'm white and the worst nurses I've ever had were fillipino. They absolutely didn't care and were rude af. I've had some rude white & black nurses too but I've also had really nice ones as well.

I agree

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m sorry but that talks more about her perception of the world than reality….

black mothers dont need black nurses and doctors lmao. changes nothing at all. idk what ur on.

I understand but it's so damn sad. I have encountered some nurses who would torture an angel--just because. Everyone of those cruel nurses was white. I'm white. I don't know what it is that happens with some of these nurses, as it has to be something more than burnout.

So white nurses and Drs wouldn’t care for you?? This is why we have a race problem if I was in health care it wouldn’t matter who was on my table I would take care of them all the same and make sure everyone of them were safe and treated well! Stop making everything about race and making white people look like the problem

Amen 🙏🏾, I love this!

Love this so much! You should do another ep about the other birth stories!

Child birth is so beautiful and traumatic at the same time. Congrats again and welcome to your beautiful and blessed baby girl

A ginger ale and a cold pack 😂😂😂

So glad y’all back fam!!!

How many stitches did you have to have being that it was a natural birth with a almost 10lb baby?

Mila was ready to get here!!!!!! I love this so much!!!! 🥳🙌🏽

Not about to give you a ginger ale 😂😂😂

Welcome back and thanks for sharing. I know y’all busy these days, but we love y’all stories. Back labor is crazy! And Mila is a doll 🥰

Welcome back!!

GangGang! 🤞🏾

Bs to the world

So glad I found this I have been struggling with a workaholic and it’s so confusing at the moment. I related so much to how this beautiful lady felt at the time because I am in this space now. And listening to him resonates with my spouse. This is no cake walk but I’m finding that it is leaving me to work on myself in soooo many ways. But some days I’m like hell nah to the nah nah nah. Other days it’s like Jess you got this because In the end no matter the outcome you will also be better for it.. it can do a number on the mental. Feeling very put on the back burner at times but also work in a sense is like his therapy and I dnt want to be resented or resentful. God knows the beginning and the end so let’s ride lol .

This the most authentic advice 😅

Love the authenticity ❤