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Donielle Jolie Yanez
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 10 พ.ย. 2013
Narcissism: Coercive Control by Psychological Abuse, sexual coercion, trauma bonds, smear campaigns
My book "Decoding the Narcissist: Psychological Manipulation Tactics" is available for download at:
narcissist101.etsy.com
B.S. Criminal Justice (Minor in Criminology) (Middle Tennessee State University) [Summa cum laude]
A.A.S. Police Administration & Crime Scene Investigation (Nashville State) [Summa cum laude]
Police Science Academy
Studied Criminal Law at Charlotte School of Law
Master's level studies in Psychology & Criminal Behavior
Currently enrolled in pre-med courses for medical school
Research submitted for PhD in Forensic Psychology
My book "Decoding the Narcissist: Psychological Manipulation Tactics" is available for download at:
narcissist101.etsy.com
B.S. Criminal Justice (Minor in Criminology) (Middle Tennessee State University) [Summa cum laude]
A.A.S. Police Administration & Crime Scene Investigation (Nashville State) [Summa cum laude]
Police Science Academy
Studied Criminal Law at Charlotte School of Law
Master's level studies in Psychology & Criminal Behavior
Currently enrolled in pre-med courses for medical school
Research submitted for PhD in Forensic Psychology
Coercive Control Tactics: Withholding Resources #devaluation #narcissist #coercivecontrol
Coercive Control Tactics: Withholding Resources #devaluation #narcissist #coercivecontrol
มุมมอง: 178
วีดีโอ
DEVALUATION. Grooming TESTS. #narcissist #emotionalabuse #devaluation
มุมมอง 2822 หลายเดือนก่อน
DEVALUATION. Grooming TESTS. #narcissist #emotionalabuse #devaluation
ACCOMPLICE SYNDROME. Decoding Narcissists & manipulative people #narcissisticgaslighting #narcissist
มุมมอง 1913 หลายเดือนก่อน
ACCOMPLICE SYNDROME. Decoding Narcissists & manipulative people #narcissisticgaslighting #narcissist
Narcissists abuse resources: HANDICAP PLACARD. #narcissisticgaslighting #narcissism #narcissist
มุมมอง 1473 หลายเดือนก่อน
Narcissists abuse resources: HANDICAP PLACARD. #narcissisticgaslighting #narcissism #narcissist
Narcissistic behaviors in vehicles. HANDICAP PLACARD. Video footage. #narcissism #psychologicalabuse
มุมมอง 1733 หลายเดือนก่อน
Narcissistic behaviors in vehicles. HANDICAP PLACARD. Video footage. #narcissism #psychologicalabuse
Narcissists CHALLENGE your decisions. #gaslighting #devaluation #coercivecontrol
มุมมอง 1773 หลายเดือนก่อน
Narcissists CHALLENGE your decisions. #gaslighting #devaluation #coercivecontrol
SARCASM. Gaslighting & Devaluation. #devaluation #gaslighting #emotionalabuse #narcissist
มุมมอง 1633 หลายเดือนก่อน
SARCASM. Gaslighting & Devaluation. #devaluation #gaslighting #emotionalabuse #narcissist
GASLIGHTING: CYCLE OF ABUSE. #lovebombing #devaluation #discard
มุมมอง 2094 หลายเดือนก่อน
GASLIGHTING: CYCLE OF ABUSE. #lovebombing #devaluation #discard
GASLIGHTING & PROJECTIONS. Video footage of my mother.
มุมมอง 2424 หลายเดือนก่อน
GASLIGHTING & PROJECTIONS. Video footage of my mother.
#narcissist "You've changed" GASLIGHTING & PROJECTION #gaslighting #npd #discard #narcissism
มุมมอง 4319 หลายเดือนก่อน
#narcissist "You've changed" GASLIGHTING & PROJECTION #gaslighting #npd #discard #narcissism
#gaslighting COERCIVE CONTROL #narcissist #npd #narcissism #coercivecontrol
มุมมอง 2629 หลายเดือนก่อน
#gaslighting COERCIVE CONTROL #narcissist #npd #narcissism #coercivecontrol
SLEEP DEPRIVATION & Narcissistic PROJECTION #narcissist #npd #narcissism #sleepdeprivation
มุมมอง 3279 หลายเดือนก่อน
SLEEP DEPRIVATION & Narcissistic PROJECTION #narcissist #npd #narcissism #sleepdeprivation
FUTURE FAKING. The #narcissist is TESTING you. #devaluation #discard #futurefaking #narcissism #npd
มุมมอง 73411 หลายเดือนก่อน
FUTURE FAKING. The #narcissist is TESTING you. #devaluation #discard #futurefaking #narcissism #npd
Christmas Eve Bike Ride. Happy Holidays!
มุมมอง 191ปีที่แล้ว
Christmas Eve Bike Ride. Happy Holidays!
Trauma Bonds & Love Bombing. #narcissist #narcissism #traumabond #lovebombing #npd #devaluation
มุมมอง 338ปีที่แล้ว
Trauma Bonds & Love Bombing. #narcissist #narcissism #traumabond #lovebombing #npd #devaluation
Trauma Bonds & Love Bombing. Why doesn't the #narcissist care? #npd #traumabond #lovebombing
มุมมอง 449ปีที่แล้ว
Trauma Bonds & Love Bombing. Why doesn't the #narcissist care? #npd #traumabond #lovebombing
#narcissist The DISCARD is your FREEDOM #npd #narcissism #devaluation #discard #narcabuse
มุมมอง 4.5Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist The DISCARD is your FREEDOM #npd #narcissism #devaluation #discard #narcabuse
#narcissist will NEVER change or love you. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #discard
มุมมอง 1.9Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist will NEVER change or love you. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #discard
#narcissist THANK YOU SUBSCRIBERS 😊 #npd #narcissism #gaslighting #narcabuse
มุมมอง 260ปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist THANK YOU SUBSCRIBERS 😊 #npd #narcissism #gaslighting #narcabuse
#narcissist HATES when you're sick. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #narcabuse
มุมมอง 1.8Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist HATES when you're sick. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #narcabuse
#narcissist destroys the lives of everyone around them. #npd #narcissism #narcabuse
มุมมอง 2.2Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist destroys the lives of everyone around them. #npd #narcissism #narcabuse
Corruption & Crimes. Wood county, OH Sheriff's Dept. #narcissist #npd #narcissism #gaslighting
มุมมอง 303ปีที่แล้ว
Corruption & Crimes. Wood county, OH Sheriff's Dept. #narcissist #npd #narcissism #gaslighting
#narcissist uses children to abuse and control you. #npd #narcissism #gaslighting #manipulation
มุมมอง 657ปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist uses children to abuse and control you. #npd #narcissism #gaslighting #manipulation
#narcissist Sexual Coercion, abuse, & trauma bonds #npd #narcissism #gaslighting #traumabond
มุมมอง 1.7Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist Sexual Coercion, abuse, & trauma bonds #npd #narcissism #gaslighting #traumabond
Narcissistic Mother v. Scapegoat. #narcissist #npd #narcissism #narcabuse #discard #gaslighting
มุมมอง 674ปีที่แล้ว
Narcissistic Mother v. Scapegoat. #narcissist #npd #narcissism #narcabuse #discard #gaslighting
#narcissist FINAL DISCARD. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #gaslighting #discard
มุมมอง 5Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist FINAL DISCARD. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #gaslighting #discard
#narcissist will NEVER PROTECT you. #DEVALUATION #PROJECTIONS #npd #smearcampaign
มุมมอง 3.9Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist will NEVER PROTECT you. #DEVALUATION #PROJECTIONS #npd #smearcampaign
The #narcissist isn't a FRIEND to anyone. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #triangulation #manipulation
มุมมอง 2Kปีที่แล้ว
The #narcissist isn't a FRIEND to anyone. #npd #narcissism #devaluation #triangulation #manipulation
#narcissist refuses to acknowledge you or your accomplishments #DEVALUATION #npd #narcissism
มุมมอง 1.4Kปีที่แล้ว
#narcissist refuses to acknowledge you or your accomplishments #DEVALUATION #npd #narcissism
Yes like demon, they are born a narcissist and will die a narcissist and they will NEVER CHANGE!👿👹By Amelia
❤❤❤❤TELL IT !!!!!
I ran for my life and went dark. I did go back to get my valuables and gave him a little supply. The second time i went back to get more stuff i was doing better. He looked like a shadow of a man. Drained, weak and of course...impotent. Im going one more time next week. And if youre wondering why im doing this....we live in a foreign country. All my valuables, irreplaceable things are in that house of horrors. Im acting like I didn't figure him out...he still has to give me half of everything. Which is actually mine since he didn't work in 15 years. So, in my case...wise as a serpent and innocent as a dove until I get my half. My trauma bond is broken. It took 2 months. It happened in a moment, in a flash, listening to a song ..."Fool like you" At that moment, I realized that he didn't just want to destroy me. He wanted me dead. When your survival instincts kick in, trauma bond is out the door. Since then, when I think about him, I feel nothing but repulsed...when 2 months ago I was waiting by the phone forgetting to breathe. Yet I have to play the role a bit to get something that belongs to me in the first place. Is sad when you realize what they are. You are split between pitty and revulsion. At least that where i am right now. He underestimated me, yet I rose above in peace, love, self-love, kindness, confidence, and radical self-acceptance. I did the work, and Im free. I am the storm that no longer ask for his permission. I am the mountain that cannot be moved. I WAS THAT ALL ALONG...HE ONLY BLINDED ME Him on the other hand, will be the scared little boy who never was.
This is relatable even if you haven't dated a narcissist, but rather grew up with a narcissistic family. After the cruel treatment I've received this year, the most difficult year of my life, I have had absolutely ENOUGH of my narcissistic dud and golden child sister. Goodbye FOREVER. I want to heal, but it's been very difficult after being retraumatized several times. I've been losing sleep for weeks because of them.
This video was amazing and so validating. Thank you!
Hi Christine, You are so very right. I am a born again christian for over 45 years meaning I gave my life to the Lord. With him I would not have gotten through brain surgery, spine surgery and 2 other surgeries I had. I also have a. narcissistic sister who made my life hell because of my disability until I deceided to change for the better and have brain surgery and after surgery 25 years of CBT which has made me mature and independent for the rest of my life !
Yep my young child is a weapon and she is so demonic I worry for him alot smh. Sad situation
Nobody notices, take care
One of the best ever!
I love this. I have a Malignant narc sister. No more will talk to her again. She stole from me she abused me. I am sorry I am done.
yes
Girl you are so on point it's nuts that was him never bothered to get to now me. It's was all about his money how much he makes and investments and on and on. Oh yeah not to mention we can't let go of the other bitch he was with when he met me. Iam over it. I deserve someone that values me. Thank you for this video ❤
Sick sick narcissist, they in medication
She fraudulently used my credit card 4 times 6 days apart. I pressed charges and she is facing felony charges in Michigan. 52 year old idiot.
yes it helps thank you very much
You’re The Best!
You are dropping truth bombs and the incredible stale, smelly, air that is the narcissistic becomes visible and apparent. What your saying is that once the healing process starts correcting your thinking, its like opening a window and breathing the clean, fresh air and saying to yourself, do I really want to walk back into that stinky, putrid smelling room for another day, decade, or lifetime?
Please, keep your channel. Thank you for what you share.
I forgive my ex girlfriend. They need to repent to Jesus so their heart be as Jesus. Just pray and forgive them.
my mother....... listen to hotel lobby LONG LIVE TAKE OFFFFF they sacrificed him without his knowing
they hide behind legal drugs... pills are very easy to conceal
Narcs be popping pills endlessly also
My name is Jolie!!!!!! YES BABE
Yes! Healing almost 2 years now and it's been absolutely amazing! But acted like he hated me & it taught me to look within after 18 years in codependency and addiction. Healing everything that attracted me to that! Loving life now!❤️🔥☀️🧘🏻♀️🌀🙏⚖️🌈🦄
When are u walking the dog again
Nothing but inspirational Facts!!! 🙌💯🔥
Amen and the best revenge is ," living well" I honestly am at a loss for those who want total control over every detail of my life ...at least I've done my very best ...he said I'd never graduate
I had all this but im a chosen one i got rid of them
Do deliverance really work on them? My ex narc divorced me. I tried everything. I let her swot to become a Spiritual counselor. I'm today exactly divorced for 8 years. And she is still doing hoovering and smear complains and she acts every time different. Thanks God I'm free
I always wondered why the narc never tried to understand me. Only used all of my insecurities against me, used everything against me. He discarded me and a few months later he says "you never asked me to come back here, not once." My response was why would I, you have wanted this for years and years. The damage these people do is barbaric.
It’s unbelievable that I heard this today. I was messed up last night over exactly this! I am/was struggling with the hurt of her trauma bonding and my loneliness. I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts and most of them are just knowledge of narcs, but this addresses our pain and how to deal with it! Donielle I know you hear this a lot, because it’s true. You are the most encouraging coach of all cause we can hear it in your voice and it’s incredible how accurate you are. Thank you… I really, really needed this right now!
Do u like Tina?
Yes this true and I am healing after finally realize the drama Thanks for the reinforcement
i actually made them dump me and i walked away after 3 weeks i got a hoover but never responded. Not sure where they are in life probably more chaos and destruction but glad im out and healed
well done as she describes, i'm glad i got out after 9 months. took months of therapy and self reflection which led to a spiritual awakening and my life purpose. So they acted as a catalyst for my new journey. In a strange way im thankful!
There is healing and actual Joy in this teaching. Christ is King and He has brought us through all, we ever could be in need of. This is so full of hope and sweetness !
My narcissist neighbor friend ghosted me for at least 3 months and yesterday she wouldn’t stop talking to me and asking questions and acting like nothing’s ever happened. How do I deal with this?
This has been my lifetime. My only sister is a pathological narcissist and it's been a hell ride to figure this out for 40 years and it's the most irritating angering thing that I have been putting up with and I just cannot do it anymore.
I love how you articulate this problem
Wonderful 🎉🎉🎉 👍👍👍
A hoover is only a hoover if you are sucked up, I watched the hoover attempts for over two months and didn't bite.
Holy shit this is good. Thank you so much.
Thank you that was really good I haven't seen your channel before I'm going to subscribe😊
I came across your videos a couple of days ago I have listened to most of them . Congratulations to you for taking your power back!
You know it’s just like a woman to use words like phenomenal and over exaggerated sayings like that, why can’t you just be realistic and say you know you might not be the best person but you’re a good person or you have good qualities why does it always have to be amazing!because I’ll tell you what chick most people aren’t amazing and it’s women who seem to think that everyone has amazing inside them. Break your delusion OK people suck but that’s OK. Quit lying to people.
They eventually discard everyone they're in a relationship with. It's just the sick cycle of the narcissist !
These are truly sick individuals. They make their whole life a mistake! Let them go mess up someone else's life! They don't desire you and you know that!
✨️🙏🏾💜
He had 5 wives before me.. and he laughed about their failures
i'm still in huge shock 3 months after she left us .... I'm totally down and are not able to change it - I miss my wife ...