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Riding the Chronic Illness Roller Coaster with Rheumatoid Arthritis, Endometriosis and Cancer: St...
Stephanie and Cheryl also reflect on the “roller coaster of acceptance,” or their journeys towards self compassion and acceptance in the face of fluctuating, unpredictable conditions. They also delve into the challenges of living with cognitive dysfunction or “brain fog” and Stephanie shares how she copes with this while serving as an adjunct professor.
Stephanie also shares resources that have helped her in her chronic illness journey, including her work with Atlas Assistance Dogs and her impactful writing on disability identity. Together, Cheryl and Stephanie show how living with chronic conditions can foster resilience, deepen self-awareness, and lead to a fulfilling life despite challenges.
Trigger warning: miscarriage
Episode at a glance:
• Personal chronic illness Journeys: Stephanie shares her experiences of living with rheumatoid arthritis and the emotional challenges of a new diagnosis after surviving cancer and endometriosis.
• Developing resilience and adapting to the ebb and flow of symptoms.
• Building Community: The value of connecting with others who understand and the role of a support system in managing arthritis.
• Practical Advice: Learn how adapting and being less rigid can improve quality of life despite chronic illness.
• Coping with difficult symptoms like brain fog
• Service animals: Stephanie shares the impact of animal assisted therapy and tips for caring for a dog when you have rheumatoid arthritis.Medical disclaimer:
All content found on Arthritis Life (arthritis.theenthusiasticlife.com/) public channels was created for generalized informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
Episode Sponsors
Rheum to THRIVE, (arthritislifeschool.thinkific.com/) an online course and support program Cheryl created to help people with rheumatic disease go from overwhelmed, confused and alone to confident, supported and connected. See all the details (arthritislifeschool.thinkific.com/) and join the program or waitlist now!
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Riding the Chronic Illness Roller Coaster with RA, Endometriosis, and Cancer: Stephanie’s Story
มุมมอง 554 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Summary: In this podcast episode, Cheryl and Stephanie discuss Stephanie’s journey learning to live with endometriosis, cancer and rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis. She explores the social impact of living with invisible conditions and highlights the importance of social support from others who “get it,” found through Cheryl’s Rheum to THRIVE support group. Stephanie and Cheryl also reflect on th...
What’s it like to be a Counselor with Psoriatic Arthritis? Amber’s Story
มุมมอง 4021 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
They also discuss the importance of support and community, and Amber shares her experience in Cheryl’s Rheum to THRIVE program. Cheryl and Amber emphasize the importance of adaptability, finding joy in everyday activities like cooking and cheering for their favorite sports teams, and embracing flexibility in the face of unpredictability. Episode at a glance: • Personal Stories of Resilience: Am...
What’s it like to be a Counselor with Psoriatic Arthritis? Amber’s Story
มุมมอง 3421 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Summary: In this episode, Amber reflects on what it’s like to work as a mental health counselor while managing psoriatic arthritis. She also shares some of her best mental health tools for life with chronic illness including: having boundaries, allowing yourself days to “just be,” acceptance and family based therapies, and leaning on tools like therapy to thrive. They also discuss the importanc...
Art, Advocacy, and Adaptation: Carrie’s Journey with Difficult to Treat Axial Spondyloarthritis
มุมมอง 5321 วันที่ผ่านมา
She discusses how she’s learned to adapt to life’s changes, uncover tools to improve her quality of life, and embrace creativity as a way to thrive. For instance, she shares how her power wheelchair allows her to explore her surroundings while conserving energy, and how her Spoonie Coloring Book brings joy and meaning to her daily life through art. Carrie and Cheryl also dive into topics like s...
Art, Advocacy, and Adaptation: Carrie’s Journey with Difficult to Treat Axial Spondyloarthritis
มุมมอง 7121 วันที่ผ่านมา
Summary: In this episode, Carrie shares her inspiring journey of living with “difficult-to-treat” axial spondyloarthritis while building a new life in Taiwan after growing up in Canada. She opens up about her struggles with treatment-resistant symptoms, her experiences trying various medications, and how these challenges motivated her to create My Several Worlds, a blog dedicated to patient adv...
The 6 Ingredients to THRIVE with Rheumatoid Arthritis: a Peek Behind the Rheum to THRIVE Curtain
มุมมอง 7628 วันที่ผ่านมา
Cheryl shares how the program has evolved based on participant feedback, offering flexible learning options including self-paced options for those who would like to learn the self management tools without the support group. Cheryl and Lauren also discuss the ways in which the program has offered essential education, community and realistic hope for people who previously felt lost and overwhelme...
The 6 Ingredients to THRIVE with Rheumatoid Arthritis: a Peek Behind the Rheum to THRIVE curtain
มุมมอง 9028 วันที่ผ่านมา
Summary: In this episode, Cheryl, usually the interviewer, steps out of the host seat and has Lauren interview her about the origin story of the Rheum to THRIVE program. She and Lauren delve into the six core pillars of the THRIVE framework: Tools for pain and fatigue, Healthy habits, Relationships and social life, Inner World (mental health), Values, and Executive Functions. Cheryl shares how ...
It’s Not Just Joint Pain: Sleep, Fatigue, Brain Fog & Mental Health with Rheumatic Disease
มุมมอง 190หลายเดือนก่อน
In episode 148 of The Arthritis Life Podcast, Cheryl and Eileen dive into their “It’s Not Just Pain” presentation from the American College of Rheumatology's annual Convergence Conference. They share practical tips for improving fatigue, sleep, cognitive dysfunction (“brain fog”) and mental health challenges that often accompany rheumatic disease. See full episode details including a transcript...
It’s Not Just Joint Pain: Let’s Talk about Sleep, Fatigue, Cognitive Dysfunction, and Mental Heal...
มุมมอง 72หลายเดือนก่อน
Cheryl and Eileen stress the value of self-advocacy, working with a multidisciplinary team, and accessing reliable resources to navigate life with confidence and care. Episode at a glance: • Mental Health and Support Groups: Cheryl and Eileen explore the transformative power of support groups, not only for attendees but also for those facilitating them. They discuss how mental health practices,...
From Marathon Running to Double Hip Replacements and Back: Carrie’s Story
มุมมอง 55หลายเดือนก่อน
From Marathon Running to Double Hip Replacements and Back: Carrie’s Story
From Marathon Running to Double Hip Replacements and Back: Carrie’s Story
มุมมอง 49หลายเดือนก่อน
From Marathon Running to Double Hip Replacements and Back: Carrie’s Story
From Teaching to Leading Support Groups: Jed’s Ankylosing Spondylitis Journey
มุมมอง 61หลายเดือนก่อน
From Teaching to Leading Support Groups: Jed’s Ankylosing Spondylitis Journey
From Teaching to Leading Support Groups: Jed’s Ankylosing Spondylitis Journey
มุมมอง 75หลายเดือนก่อน
From Teaching to Leading Support Groups: Jed’s Ankylosing Spondylitis Journey
How to Prevent and Cope with Rheumatic Disease Flare Ups (Re-Release)
มุมมอง 1632 หลายเดือนก่อน
How to Prevent and Cope with Rheumatic Disease Flare Ups (Re-Release)
Supporting Black Women with Psoriatic Arthritis: Ayesha’s Story
มุมมอง 642 หลายเดือนก่อน
Supporting Black Women with Psoriatic Arthritis: Ayesha’s Story
Supporting Black Women with Psoriatic Arthritis: Ayesha’s Story
มุมมอง 502 หลายเดือนก่อน
Supporting Black Women with Psoriatic Arthritis: Ayesha’s Story
What’s it Like to Run Your Own Business with Rheumatoid Arthritis? Sarah’s Story
มุมมอง 1132 หลายเดือนก่อน
What’s it Like to Run Your Own Business with Rheumatoid Arthritis? Sarah’s Story
What’s it Like to Run Your Own Business with Rheumatoid Arthritis? Sarah’s Story
มุมมอง 612 หลายเดือนก่อน
What’s it Like to Run Your Own Business with Rheumatoid Arthritis? Sarah’s Story
Grieving the “old you” After Your Diagnosis, with Catina Morrison,
มุมมอง 1272 หลายเดือนก่อน
Grieving the “old you” After Your Diagnosis, with Catina Morrison,
What is Integrative Medicine and How can it Help with RA? With Dr. Saimun Singla
มุมมอง 822 หลายเดือนก่อน
What is Integrative Medicine and How can it Help with RA? With Dr. Saimun Singla
Advanced Exercise for Arthritis with Dr. Randi Blackmon
มุมมอง 572 หลายเดือนก่อน
Advanced Exercise for Arthritis with Dr. Randi Blackmon
Myth versus Fact: Body Weight & Autoimmune Disease with Jenifer Tharani, Registered Dietitian
มุมมอง 912 หลายเดือนก่อน
Myth versus Fact: Body Weight & Autoimmune Disease with Jenifer Tharani, Registered Dietitian
Navigating Healthcare Systems: tips from a Nurse Practitioner Living with RA, with Stefanie Remson
มุมมอง 202 หลายเดือนก่อน
Navigating Healthcare Systems: tips from a Nurse Practitioner Living with RA, with Stefanie Remson
How to get the Most out of your Virtual Rheumatology Care, with Dr. Kara Wada, "Crunchy Allergist"
มุมมอง 312 หลายเดือนก่อน
How to get the Most out of your Virtual Rheumatology Care, with Dr. Kara Wada, "Crunchy Allergist"
Tips for Finding the Right Wrist Brace with Sarah Dillingham & Trevor Petrie
มุมมอง 142 หลายเดือนก่อน
Tips for Finding the Right Wrist Brace with Sarah Dillingham & Trevor Petrie
Tips for Advocating as a Young Person with Arthritis with Natasha Trehan
มุมมอง 332 หลายเดือนก่อน
Tips for Advocating as a Young Person with Arthritis with Natasha Trehan
Tips for Pregnancy and Parenting with Arthritis, with Mariah Leach
มุมมอง 292 หลายเดือนก่อน
Tips for Pregnancy and Parenting with Arthritis, with Mariah Leach
How to Explore Nutrition without Becoming Stressed and Confused, with Cristina Montoya
มุมมอง 352 หลายเดือนก่อน
How to Explore Nutrition without Becoming Stressed and Confused, with Cristina Montoya
How to Build Your Own Flare Toolkit with Laura Jean
มุมมอง 392 หลายเดือนก่อน
How to Build Your Own Flare Toolkit with Laura Jean

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  • @laurenlohmeyer7257
    @laurenlohmeyer7257 53 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve been on methotrexate injection for about 5 months, once weekly. I’ve never been able to get over the bloated feeling I have for a couple days after. I burp a lot and have a lot of gas that I feel I have trouble expelling ( like trapped gas somewhere in my GI tract). Simethicone helps minimally, but I still have to do methotrexate on Fridays because all the next day I’m in bed. 😞. Anyone else experience this?

  • @MoniLynne2008
    @MoniLynne2008 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm just starting my methotrexate injections, not sure how to measure though. I'm hoping to use insulin syringes instead of the 18 gauge needles they sent with the medicine.

  • @angiedillman7963
    @angiedillman7963 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So true with autoimmune diseases

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm sorry you can relate!

  • @br0kenjaws285
    @br0kenjaws285 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love this, i wish i could have one of those !!!

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's pretty awesome!

  • @pamelafreeman726
    @pamelafreeman726 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have Sjogren's, Small Fiber Neuropathy, Raynaud's, Hashimotos and currently PMR. My first sign was bi-lateral trochleitis of the eye area. A few shots in the eyes did not relieve the pain. They say I have to cure the autoimmune causing it. Well, I don't think that is so simple.

  • @janetcorey5102
    @janetcorey5102 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Said a lot and gave nothing

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the feedback :-)

  • @wandacurl8107
    @wandacurl8107 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I went to an internal medicine Dr. Did all the testing. At the appointment he just began talking about treatment. I had to make him pause after a while and just say what is my diagnosis you never did say. He looked back to my chart. He seemed uncomfortable. He said I have polymyalgia rheumatica and just kept talking. I had to stop him again to explain it to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sorry you weren't given a clear explanation at first!

  • @hellenurcuyo7375
    @hellenurcuyo7375 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi! Thank you for your content. I take metotrexate and lab results show "normal". recently stopped taking prednisone and pain is coming back. Even so I have tried yoga, weights, biking etc but still i get pain the day after. I told my dr and he said theres not much to do since the lab results show alright? 😢 Any recommendations anyone?

  • @placeholderplaceholder2304
    @placeholderplaceholder2304 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi, Cheryl! Just curious, would you know how people can know they have seronegative RA? I had scans with small erosions and mild inflamation, but I don’t know if that means it’s for sure and I’m just denying it or if I need to push to keep looking.

  • @lindajakub624
    @lindajakub624 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What supplement help?

  • @OsoFocused
    @OsoFocused 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love his group!! He’s the inspiration for the start of my Group 💙

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's wonderful to hear, thank you so much for sharing!

  • @fibromyalgianational
    @fibromyalgianational 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love it!! So happy to see you both talking to each other!

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for the encouragement!

  • @qgodgaming9238
    @qgodgaming9238 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    can i use ur video for marketing purpose?

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you work for the company that makes these?

  • @terigranados2704
    @terigranados2704 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I self diagnosed myself with Sjogrens. Then had a positive lip biopsy. I had emergency GI surgery for an obstruction and rupture of my large intestine. I also had an inpatient admission for interstitial lung disease from Sjögren’s and I am now experiencing cognitive decline. Sjögren’s has been desvastating to my body and mind. I am declining rather quickly.

  • @patsyhairston8277
    @patsyhairston8277 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My ra doctor prescribed methotrexate Nd never did blood work. Always said next time. I dont drink or smoke or do illegal drugs 79. I got to where i didnt eat lost alot of weight. Went to gastric doctor who did liver biopsy etc. I havemeyhotrexate induced cirrhosis. Methtrexate has black box warning for cirrhosis. Told ra doctor and all she said was well get better. U dont get better u die

  • @DjRBLX3
    @DjRBLX3 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Technically, gingerbread houses arent meant for eating because the gingerbread is meant to build, so, using hot glue works, but make sure it doesnt heat up the house too much

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much for the tip!

  • @psychotherapistmft7927
    @psychotherapistmft7927 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God help you if you have an hmo ..

  • @veenakrishna2198
    @veenakrishna2198 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you. Wonderful and useful. Newly diagnosed

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so glad it was helpful, thank you for taking the time to let me know!

  • @cindyglass5827
    @cindyglass5827 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ... some of these Dr.'s are BRUTAL !!! : ( Just Horrible ! I'm so sorry you went through soooo much : ( Anyways, Thank-you ladies, lots of Great info shared here : )

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so glad you found this information helpful!

  • @gaylemartin3094
    @gaylemartin3094 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Webinar

  • @benantakikam6121
    @benantakikam6121 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    good stuff

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!

  • @FTTPRO
    @FTTPRO 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks

  • @ElizabethPilley-qn9zw
    @ElizabethPilley-qn9zw 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I lost all my teeth to Sjogrens. I had beautiful teeth so it was heartbreaking. I have dentures now but my mouth is always raw due to Sjogrens. So it hurts to wear my teeth. I'm so frustrated.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sorry to hear this, I hope there are new and better treatments on the horizon soon!

  • @briannasouthwell4304
    @briannasouthwell4304 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    5 years later and your still helping folks with this video. Did my very first self injection just now with this as my support and had zero issues! Didn't even really feel it either. ❤ thanks, Lady! ❤🎉

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aww that means the world to me, as this was one of the first videos I made for this page! Thank you so much for letting me know it was helpful!

  • @LionhartM
    @LionhartM หลายเดือนก่อน

    I definitely wonder sometimes if women would be down marrying a guy who was just diagnosed with PsA and most likely will need double hip and knee replacements by age 50

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      I definitely think there are women who would be open to it, "in sickness and health!" <3

    • @LionhartM
      @LionhartM วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thanks for the support. Thankfully, I’m blessed in that women tend to be attracted to me, but I don’t know how one would react finding out the extent of my condition

  • @LionhartM
    @LionhartM หลายเดือนก่อน

    My dad was diagnosed at age 7 in 1962. Destroyed his body since they had no treatments back then. Wreaked havoc on his heart and other organs, too, so even though he went into full remission in his 20s, he ended up passing in 2012 from heart disease. My grandfather (his dad) got it 30 years later than my dad in 1992, so I watched it destroy two people close to me. My brother and I were sure we weren't going to get it, since We'd already reached our 30s, but I was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis last year at age 37. It's already damaged multiple joints and some flares are so bad I can't do physical work Also, I totally relate with most people not understanding or even taking it seriously. Makes you feel alone and unsupported. Growing up, I always wondered why my dad never tried to explain his health conditions to anyone. Now I understand - he must've learned early that most people either don't believe you or don't care.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so sorry to hear that, it really is hard to find others who "get it" outside the chronic illness community. You are not alone <3

  • @MelaneySmith-x2d
    @MelaneySmith-x2d หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is Sjogrens disease hereditary?

  • @laurenforbes8293
    @laurenforbes8293 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you. This is very helpful.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for taking the time to let me know it was helpful!

  • @sleepyeepy
    @sleepyeepy หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this!! 💜

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome, I’m so glad it was helpful!

  • @jacobfiorelli7895
    @jacobfiorelli7895 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I also had a double hip replacement at age 41 about 8 months ago...and I am currently starting to run! Good for you!

  • @user-zn3rm3pl4b
    @user-zn3rm3pl4b หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good one.❤

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much!

  • @bdavis4099
    @bdavis4099 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well explained! Thanks!

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad it was helpful!

  • @lotsamoxie
    @lotsamoxie หลายเดือนก่อน

    True Love! This is the first item I ordered because of your recommendation, about two years ago I think. I'm grateful to you every time I take it out of the drawer and plop it on a can. The arthritis in my hands has gotten worse over time, and this one tool has made a huge difference.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife วันที่ผ่านมา

      This made my day, thank you so so much for letting me know it's working for you!

  • @laurenforbes8293
    @laurenforbes8293 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg! I have a red one. It was one of my first buys when diagnosed with RA in 2019. It is a lifesaver. ❤🙌🏽

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad to hear you like yours also! Thank you for letting me know!

  • @user-zn3rm3pl4b
    @user-zn3rm3pl4b หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to listen to this a few more times to harvest all the goodness out of it. Thank you so much for what you do. I listen, I take notes. I learn more with each bump in the road and I come here to find you and learn more tools.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so so glad you like it, please keep me posted if you have topic requests for future episodes!

  • @Jame6999
    @Jame6999 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How's your diet? ARE you limiting sugar intake or zero sugar?

  • @Autumn.x.o
    @Autumn.x.o หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg I want to make one so badly now! It’s so cuteeeee✨✨✨💅💅💅

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dooo it, I ended up keeping mine up all year round, NO regrets!

    • @Autumn.x.o
      @Autumn.x.o หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ lol I made one! It’s so cute thank you for the inspiration!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @NusaibaAhmed-pz1wp
    @NusaibaAhmed-pz1wp หลายเดือนก่อน

    MmM ThAt WaS dElISoUs

  • @Selahnoblea717
    @Selahnoblea717 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good idea it’s more fun though to use the frosting and just have chaos lol

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      I definitely love eating the frosting!

  • @Paulo34343
    @Paulo34343 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've inserted the bottom ones over two years ago, and it helped me exactly 0%. Now two years later, i'm putting two upper ones, hoping it will start making a difference. I have chronic dry eyes.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry the bottom ones didn't work and I hope the upper ones do the trick!

  • @AnnaChristina-l6o
    @AnnaChristina-l6o หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I have more internalised ableism ( besides that word doesn't exist outside the AE language so many people may be like "americanisims") in me, than I would like to admit, but I do see, hear and feel it now more than ever. The mere fact, I am may be forced to go to work with Miss Rona, because I can't get sick note, when my colleagues could legit die from this if they get a worse version or are sensitive is pretty ableist to me.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing - access to work environments and covid precautions are definitely examples of structural ableism!

  • @jivedurkee9225
    @jivedurkee9225 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So helpful! Do you take folic acid every day, including your injection day?

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, that's what my doctor recommends and I am aware some other docs recommend skipping your injection day. I just take my personal doctor's advice!

    • @sallysandyful
      @sallysandyful หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ thanks! That’s what my rheum has now recommended too ❤️

  • @sff.f1114
    @sff.f1114 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just started this and it feels like hell, i’m losing so much weight as well. I’m glad i found this channel. Do you have any side effects?

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry to hear you're dealing with unintentional weight loss! For me, once I got my disease under control with the right combination of medications, my unintentional weight loss / muscle loss reversed and I was able to regain the weight. To answer your other question, I dont have any side effects from the meds. Let me know if you have any other questions!

  • @Fantascticz
    @Fantascticz หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am very much this person! My own husband has refused me and told me I am at fault he does not want me anymore. I have an ileostomy and gtube. Every since I had to have my Colectomy, my husband has refused me "that way". He only wanted me one way. None of my old "friends"want to associate with me now because I am sick. I am completely alone. Plus I am told that it's all my fault, ignore that I am sick, and it's all in my head? My whole family including my children are this way also. I'm starting to think it must be in my head and I am a horrible person because I have this illness. I can't make friends either because they get scared and turn away.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my gosh, I'm SO sorry you're dealing with such discrimination. I personally think it's a very limiting and insulting view to blame people for their disabilities. I hope you are able to get some better social support soon, often the disability community online is very supportive and accepting <3

  • @DougTheServiceDog
    @DougTheServiceDog หลายเดือนก่อน

    I mostly agree. I do think it's important to make the definition of "disabled" and "normal" clear. Chronically ill is one thing, but if a condition is disabling, it's important to make sure it's not felt as "normal." I totally see where you're coming from, it's just with my experience with chronic illness, it's easy to convince myself I'm not trying hard enough and knowing I'm not "normal" helps me find motivation to fight the aspects of everything that makes it hard to live

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is SUCh an important nuance, thank you for taking the time to point that out! That makes sense to me!

  • @sarahmarginson7006
    @sarahmarginson7006 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a life long condition l was told that l would never reach my full potential at work asleep will sometimes be ill and yes with a bowel condition does make you less attractive

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      The way I see it, even if you don't reach your full potential, it can still be possible to see yourself as worthy and attractive, if that is meaningful to you - sending lots of support your way, thank you for sharing your thoughts <3

  • @CremeBrulee543
    @CremeBrulee543 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the love, sending some back your way!

  • @maiaheiss2991
    @maiaheiss2991 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t have a health condition, but there are people who have a more full life than I do for other reasons. Isn’t that ok? I think that my life would probably be less full than it is now, if I had an ongoing health condition . I think that would make sense, and also be ok. Just love God everybody, and let God love you.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I think we all are free to see this issue in whatever way resonates with us - to me, I 100% believe my life would be **easier** if I didn't have rheumatoid arthritis. If I had the choice, I would choose NOT to have RA. However, given that I have it, I find it meaningful to say that my life can be just as full and vibrant WITH pain and fatigue from RA as it would be without it. To me, that is personally meaningful viewpoint, but I respect if others feel differently!

    • @maiaheiss2991
      @maiaheiss2991 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ I think that you and I are saying the same thing ultimately. I am just not sure we need to advocate use of a new term called “able-ist” that is going to end up pointing a finger at those who do not have health conditions. It ends up being another way to create a grouping of victims. I just think that we could go straight to grouping ourselves altogether as one in common knowledge that we all have challenges and that the challenges aren’t evenly distributed.

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​The term ableist isn't new. It's the discrimination, prejudice and/or bias towards disabled people. Any act that belittles, devalues and/or dehumanizes disabled people is a manifestation of ableism. Ableism typically comes from non-disabled people. ​While disabled people can certainly internalize and act on it (that's lateral ableism) it typically comes from non-disabled people. It's important to put a name to these issues so we can combat them. @@maiaheiss2991

  • @GenXGamerGirl_
    @GenXGamerGirl_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    An interesting view. I wonder what my daughter, who has Rett Syndrome, would think about this - just like I have to wonder about what she thinks about anything. Some disabling conditions are life-limiting, so your definition of "ableism" is exclusionist and hurtful. What would be wrong with loving and accepting someone as they are - even if they aren't able to have a 'full life' experience? And who are you to decide what a "full life" is for other people? You seem very aware and open, so I'm not sure I'm getting the right message from this short clip. I can't imagine you would truly be insisting that everyone can do anything they want. Maybe some more explanation is needed.

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi @GenXGamerGirl_ - first of all, I apologize if my definition of ableism is hurtful to you. I want to first acknowledge that this 60 second video is "Franken-edited," which is a term people use to describe videos that are edited down from an originally longer video, which sometimes takes away context. I apologize if my truncating of my original points led to a confusing or misleading conclusion. I'll try to clarify here in the comments! According to StopAbleism.Org, ableism is " The practices and dominant attitudes in society that devalue and limit the potential of persons with disabilities. A set of practices and beliefs that assign inferior value (worth) to people who have developmental, emotional, physical or psychiatric disabilities." I also often define it as "prejudice or discrimination against people with disabilities / disabled people," which I was trying to do in this video. I think the context I might not have explained fully in this video, as it relates to rheumatoid arthritis, is as follows: when doctors say "don't worry, you can have a 'normal life' with rheumatoid arthritis on the current medications,' the subtext is that "when you take the curent medications for rheumatoid arthritis, your disease will go into remission and you will become 'healthy and able bodied' again and thus 'normal,' which is WAY better than actually having to live with the disability of rheumatoid arthritis." Does that make sense? Well intentioned doctors, in my opinion, often define "normal" as "able bodied" and not disabled, and in doing so they subtly reinforce the idea that they ONLY way to live a "full life" or "normal life" is to heal or cure or put your disease into remission. They are implying that you CAN'T live a full "normal" life with a disability. That is what I take issue with. My goal in this video is to open people's minds to the idea that you CAN redefine normal to include disability, and that you can and should aspire to live a full vibrant life no matter what your ability is. I'm sorry if my message was interpreted as the opposite!

  • @stephi_1111
    @stephi_1111 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Totally agree. Thank you for making this

    • @ArthritisLife
      @ArthritisLife หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad it resonated, thank you for letting me know!