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Daniel Pelegreen
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 24 ก.ค. 2024
If you're a gay man who wants to find & keep the love of your life - this is for you.
You'll get actionable, grounded, pragmatic advice based on countless dates I've been through, countless heartbreaks I've experienced... and 10 years of a loving relationship.
I share my learnings so I can help other gay men avoid going through the long, frustrating, and challenging dating and relationship rollercoaster that I’ve been through.
My mission is to help gay men find a healthy, authentic, happy relationships - and to let go of insecurities, self-doubt and limiting beliefs that holds us back from having the happiest, best lives we can!
You'll get actionable, grounded, pragmatic advice based on countless dates I've been through, countless heartbreaks I've experienced... and 10 years of a loving relationship.
I share my learnings so I can help other gay men avoid going through the long, frustrating, and challenging dating and relationship rollercoaster that I’ve been through.
My mission is to help gay men find a healthy, authentic, happy relationships - and to let go of insecurities, self-doubt and limiting beliefs that holds us back from having the happiest, best lives we can!
Gay and Over 50: The Unspoken Truth About Loneliness
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About this video:
Feeling lonely, invisible or disconnected as a mature gay man? I get it. And I discovered something that changed my perspective completely. In this video, I'm sharing what I've learned about finding real connection and joy, even when it feels impossible.
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These videos are for entertainment and informational purposes only and reflect Daniel's personal opinions based on his own life experiences and the research he has conducted. Daniel is not a certified therapist, and the information presented should not be considered as professional mental health, legal, medical, or relationship advice. Always consult with a qualified professional for any advice specific to your situation. Some links provided may be affiliate links, and offers or resources mentioned could change over time, so please verify that the information is still current. Enjoy the content, and remember to do your own research and make decisions that are right for you.
Sign up for my free newsletter here:
daniel-pelegreen.beehiiv.com/
About this video:
Feeling lonely, invisible or disconnected as a mature gay man? I get it. And I discovered something that changed my perspective completely. In this video, I'm sharing what I've learned about finding real connection and joy, even when it feels impossible.
__________
These videos are for entertainment and informational purposes only and reflect Daniel's personal opinions based on his own life experiences and the research he has conducted. Daniel is not a certified therapist, and the information presented should not be considered as professional mental health, legal, medical, or relationship advice. Always consult with a qualified professional for any advice specific to your situation. Some links provided may be affiliate links, and offers or resources mentioned could change over time, so please verify that the information is still current. Enjoy the content, and remember to do your own research and make decisions that are right for you.
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Very informative video with great advice, hopefully it will be viewed by those all-too many people who experience loneliness and isolation - valuable for non LGBT also. As a gay man with a partner of twenty years, I try to always remember how lucky I am and wish the same for others. Thank Daniel. Martin.
How is this gay secrets? Isn't this just common sense? 🤔
tbh I really appreiate the video itself, everyhing, the time went into it and etc also that this topic gets more exposure but In my experience this isnt that simple, also it depends a lot on where you live because in smaller countries you just ran out of people after sometime
first thought, you have a lot of hair for your age, lucky you! haha
Haha thanks! Good genes and lots of conditioner 😉
@@DanielPelegreen haha
If it makes you feel any better, older straight guys don't have it any better!
Appreciate you sharing that perspective. That's what I hear from some of my straight friends too! Though our paths to finding connection can look pretty different.
These was a great video.
Thanks so much! Really happy you enjoyed it. Feel free to share it with anyone who might find it helpful!
Those apps are toxic, BUT your body is a currency irl as well. I delete Grinder from time to time to connect with myself and love myself.
I hear you! Sometimes a break from Grindr is just what’s needed to focus on self-care and personal growth.
That’s true
I'm not gay, but I can tell you that straight men suffer the same.
Thanks for your input! It's important to recognize that these feelings of disconnection aren't limited to just one group.
Thank you Daniel
You're very welcome! Thanks for watching!
Daniel, you made a great many phenomenally excellent points in this video -- and a video of less than 9 minutes! Your points about connection are spot on. There is a book called "Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression - and the Unexpected Solutions," by Johann Hari, which came out about 6 years ago or so, It's one of the extremely rare books that I read more than once. The book does not address gay situations directly, but everything the author says overlaps every point you made. I'm in my mid-60s, and have always struggled with loneliness. One lesson I learned is that loneliness can have a positive side. This was expressed by another author, Thomas Merton (a catholic monk who was killed in 1968), who said that we should not be afraid of our loneliness bec it is also our individuality. Merton said that we should embrace our loneliness bec it signifies what makes each of us unique, and helps us understand and appreciate the thngs we can offer to others that others may not be able to offer. Loneliness does not have to mean self-isolation. Sorry for the long post, And I could go on. But I wanted you to know how much I admired your thoughts and presentation in this video.
George, thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! I can relate to the struggle of loneliness and how challenging it can feel. Your insight about loneliness being tied to individuality is powerful, and I love how you’ve framed it as something to embrace rather than fear. I'm glad the video resonated with you! and that it brought to mind such meaningful books and lessons.
This is a really worthwhile relevant and helpful video Daniel! Thank you
I'm so glad you found it helpful and relevant! Your comment means a lot to me. Thank you!
Nice (couldnt think of anything)
(With nice i mean nice that you try to help people)
Appreciate your feedback and glad you liked it!
So very true, and I am 61. Parental abuse and neglect with all of the above mentioned. I wish you well. Thank you for sharing. Blessings.
I really appreciate you opening up about your childhood experiences. Sending you warmth and wishing you healing and peace. Blessings to you as well!
Thank you so much. I'm still in that phase of feeling alone for being bi but it feels almost relieving that some people also feel the way i do. I don't feel that alone anymore. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your comment and kind words! I’m truly grateful that my video helped you feel less isolated. You’re never alone in your experiences. Stay strong and take care!
Date at your own pace! Knowing where we stand! and Communicate! What feels right to me! >>> golden nuggets!
Absolutely! When you date at your own pace and stay true to what feels right, things just flow better.
Thank you so so so much for shining even more light on this key topic of loneliness and focusing on the deeper issue rather than just staying on the superficial surface! so so RAWSOME! - Being Alone is not the same as Feeling Lonely!
‘RAWSOME’ - I love that! And yes, you’re right on the mark: being alone is so different from feeling lonely. I’m so glad this resonated with you! Thanks for the feedback and engagement.
This is very very true! Talk it out is really key, to come to both meaning of fairness and balance!
Totally. Sometimes just talking it out is what brings everything into balance, even when it feels impossible at first.
I love love love your examples and case studies with relevant and relatable details! <3
Thank you so much! I’m glad you loved the examples. it means a lot! 💖
Some great sound advice!
Thanks so much for your feedback. Happy to hear the advice resonated with you!
Im liking this before i even hear the advice because the truth is. We need more role models around these topics. Been married 4 years and together 9
Love that you're already finding value in this! Congrats on 9 years together. That’s amazing to hear! We definitely need more conversations & guidance around these topics.
@@DanielPelegreen Thanks. Excited to watch your channel grow!
this is fucking disgusting
My boyfriend is 18 I'm 16 almost 17
Thanks for sharing! Wishing you both the best in your relationship 💖
Indeed, opposites attract - not just age, but in all other aspects as well.
True, and it can make things more interesting and fun! :)
Great advice - especially for those couples embarking on a new relationship.
Thanks so much for your feedback! It's great to know you find the content helpful.