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Im in California the states if I'm not wrong I believe that you mentioned the UK so anyhow I won't go into too much detail because there's detail here of 20 years. What if I was to tell you that this did happen to me and I am without my children now through the courts who has the kids it's his mother and I strongly believe that they plotted for a long time. Over the outcome of what happened and I was very much submissive and afraid always well this is something that you could see on a regular basis happening to Father's I found myself being able to relate to dads and only dads for I am like the only person I know that is a female and basically when I tell you trauma I'm a fear really controlled me. I'm not an angel don't get me wrong but I never wanted to remove my children away from their father. And when we're talking extreme p***on his behalf what does be considered extreme if the children themselves like ran into it on a couple locations because of his amount of p*** watching after all this is something that would be in his accounts and follow him I think like any other you knowany on the computer that would want to be looked into and you can pretty much attached it to them why not search for the evidence instead of taking somebody's word on it because I tell you now this did happen to me on every level but it really did all 20 years

Ppl just don't know what they don't know... 🙏

God bless you Phil, and people like you. Blessed are the peacemakers. 🙏🙏

Spot on...

Hi I couldn’t find the document in your website to read. Is it still there?

If you get to fact-finding, you already failed. They aren’t hard to avoid if you didn’t engage in questionable behaviour in front of your kids.

Corrupted in family court, all female judges are corrupted and no diversity policy is included in family court. monopoly female corruption system adheres in family court. Caffcase are more corrupt.

Cafcass lied in the safeguarding letter. I made a complaint. They completely ignored it saying "the case is closed, bring it up in court". I brought it up in court and they ignored it. Then my ex stated that I was controlling and coercive because I complained... my exes solicitor got investigated and warned by the police for harassment, then by the SRA... my ex said I was controlling and coercive because I was trying to "remove her support network". Much like the whole relationship really. Never allowed to disagree with anything

Cheers Phil, I never did express my support and tools you gave me. Thank you for opening my eyes

Cafcass are all part of the stealing children team, all run by shadow goverment. They cant steal them from both parents, so they delay things for the other parent. Even some of the Mckenzie friends you have, and that there are generally about charge a lot (£500 plus per day due to preperation work too), so leaves the parent who wants/needs to see the children in not a great place in terms of representation, and the other side has barristers and solicitors. A completely unfair game. If there is such palaava, parents should sign agreements before having the child, that would hold up in 'court'. Then the time involved is ridiculous. Cafcass have no understanding in my opinion of whats going on, they like sheep following procedures and dont give a toss what they write, meaning they can assist delay things unnecessarily due to personal opinion. Legalised theft is not fair, when the traveller community caused a riot up north, they all shut up and gave children back (despite making a few arrests). When a child in the systems care gets hurt, its seems to be normalised, yet when it happens with parents, its a social services issue. Plain theft going on

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Ive had no less than 4 of these MUPPETS who were abysmal, ill mannered, bullies and totally inept when it came to the bills of Exchange Act 1882. Foster, Stockdale, Skalskyj, and Hill. All utter shit houses, no wonder it serves no good to go to civil court when the judges are this badly read. MORONS!

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Despite of your useful videos however undermining the role of legal representation is not correct

Well said.. same old shyt across the country

months are an understatement lets say four years in two cases i know

Agree, what happened to your web page ?

B safe please

The fact that there are no repercussions for these clearly unethical practices is disgusting. When my lawyer requested the other party to fix the issues she doubled down and made it even more inaccurate. These people are vile.

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I think this important message should reach to as many people as it can. Well done Phil 👏

Anyone 'in' the family court system knows it's rotten from the core and the family lawyers are like vultures picking over the bones of normal people slain in the name of the law

I’d imagine a very high percentage of family court judges are dishonest (low integrity role)

I disagree with the views expressed in this video. Contact centres are used to abuse fathers and set the stage for more hurdles placed between a dad and his child. Most contact centre arrangements lead to eventually booting of thw dad out of the lives of the children. Mom just lies while at home she puts the children under psychological pressure and eventually says the kids don't want to come and its game over. The child will eventually get qorn down by the mothers behaviour amd will want to stop attending because mom feels bad that the child was happy to see dad. The whole family court system.needs to be torn down.

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Good stuff. My case was very similar. Judge decided no fact finding after historic allegations however asked cafcass to do a section 7 and attend court next hearing.

How much do you charge for a non mol and occupational order for a one day second hearing ?

That description is verbatim what happened to me. The judge even made an order that I wasn't allowed to apply again without permission. I never saw my son again. The courts don't even do any follow up studies on the long term effects of these disgraceful orders; if there was some data to show the destruction caused, eg. male suicides, fatherless children ending up in prison, whether the children were ever re-united with their paternal families, etc. it would make a good argument for them to stop going down this crazy path

Does this apply to a non-resident person with irrefutable evidence in the early stages? Are ALL lawyers' money grabbers with no loyalty to their clients? Are all judges immune to impartiality? There is no doubt that the family court and all other agencies connected to these cases are in disarray due to a multitude of reasons. There needs to be a parliamentary review/investigation into every aspect of the handling of these cases in order to bring together the court, all agencies, and the whole family, swiftly and fairly. Every case is different. However, they are all treated the same in my view. Good luck to anyone out there trying to navigate it, with or without legal advice.

Hi Phil. Your experience/ insights are all very helpful. I'm on the slightly opposite side of this scenario, and as a resident parent (father) of a child I can attest to the fact that the family courts are indeed (even when the roles are reversed) far more empathetic towards the mothers wishes and needs. Even in a case where there's been proveable bold lies made to the court from the mother, plus psychological abuse and neglect of our child, and the child refusing to contact with the mother in most instances .. they still seem to lean towards the female point of view. I was even scolded in court about making sure I attend the next court hearing on time, when in fact I was 50 mins early and it was actually the mothers solicitor who was late and held up proceedings! Being a looked down upon male in this almost entirely female dominated arena is quite hard to comprehend and deal with at times. Luckily for me I am being helped by one of your fabulous (female) team members, who has been incredibly helpful/ insightful/ informative and professional throughout, and has honestly been a god send to me at a time of great, and mostly unnecessary, extra stress and worry. I thank you for all you do, and also to my brilliant McKenzies friend. The truth will out, and my sons mothers attempts to manipulate myself and the family court system has rather backfired. She's hobbled herself, and almost completely put herself in a situation where her mind games and gaslighting are now pretty much futile. Her tactics have mostly been shut down and any attempts to cause issues are being used to show the court just how covertly manipulative and somewhat deranged she actually is. Hoisted by her own petard. A note to all parents out there going through this process: be honest/ factual/ well prepared/ patient, and collect evidence of actual wrongdoing towards the child's best interests. Look for resolution, but accept that the other parent may not have this constructive approach ever. Minimise contact down between parents, and act professionally and in a way that you can be proud of, even when the other parent does all they can to trigger negative reactions from you. Look after yourself and your emotional well-being, not just your childrens. Instruct a McKenzies friend/ keep a diary of everything relevant/ always only use a co-parenting app and forget about instructing a solicitor. They only seek to enrich themselves and to create further problems and disharmony.

Sounds very very familiar. Fortunately my ICFA worker wasn't quite as stupid as CAFCASS, who still did their best to bury the positivity of the contact visits & the ICFA recommendations. Even though the mother also kept trying to throw a spanner in the works too. Moving forward is all well & good but when 1 party continues with their bitterness & the court does absolutely nothing to remedy it, it is very soul destroying.

Hi Phil, I’ve tried to get in touch with even sent you an email but no reply

4 years later and the university of Manchester has released a study showing that “parental alienation” is used as a defence by abusive men to seek continued access to their children (often who they have abused).

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Yes, sir...depending....but not always from a family experience.

I tried to go onto your website, but it looks like its not working

I needed your help… filled in your form at contact Phil, emailed… anyway, ended up with a 3 year barring order because WE MUST NOT STRESS MUM.

Who is this advice for? The bad one or the good one?

Absolute rubbish founded on personal opinion not factual or research based.

Absolute nonsense! There’s a mixture of sexes in the family court - male and female judges, barristers and ushers too (who are not involved at all - so that comment was irrelevant). Lots of men employ female barristers - you are at liberty to choose who you like. This video is biased

That’s because it’s so RARE! Also, the DAPP is now defunct.

Dont you just send the Form E? Are you sure you have to send the statements if so, can these be emailed or do they have to be printed?

My son’s mother attempted to alienate my son against me. Fortunately, my son saw through her negative comments and conversations about me. It resulted in my son wanting to live with me and not his mother. She would shout and get angry at him when he told her to stop and that he didn’t like it…. This was 12 months ago, and having told my son he could live with me, he told his mother he was moving to Nottingham to live with me. Long story short, I’ve been absolutely hung out to dry throughout the court process, not being given an opportunity to ask questions or have the courts put questions and allegations to her. We’ve just had a section 7 report. I requested the carcass officer to ask my son one question….. ‘Why didn’t he want to live with his mum any longer and move to Nottingham with me?… This wasn’t asked…… Which goes hand in hand with a carcass officer, saying on record in court, that ‘It’s not really relevant’ when I asked why my sons mother hadn’t been addressed regarding assaulting me in front of her daughter, which has resulted in a section 47 Charge (ABH) ….

I understand fathers not wanting to go contact centre. I’ve now been having to go for almost 2 years. It’s extremely distressing to go through. It’s unnatural. You’re watch by strangers. It’s costly. The mother pays nothing and still expects child maintenance. You are treated like you are a criminal or mentally ill… just different. It’s extremely gaslighting when you know it isn’t right to be going through. It’s immensely demoralising. It’s immensely emasculating God knows what this does to my child view of me as a father. I can not do normal father things or take my child places. Feels like mourning after every contact and you then have to endure it to continue other aspects of life and try pursue some success. You then have to go again and it just amplifies. It’s soul destroying to endure. By the time my child is in his teens I’m afraid I’ll be a shadow of the man I was and can be.

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Would welcome some advice as I think your statement on reasonable, balanced and proportionate was inspirational

I'm currently self representing in a family court. Just been through a fact finding hearing. Love to share my experiences on any relevant chats in hope it helps others. Mother disappeared with kids 2.5yrs ago. Endless lies to police, court, everywhere. She didn't have much at all as evidence other than mainly her word and our daughters word who went with her. Verdict judge tried hos best ever not to blame either side despite all her clear lies. Felt like he chose to search search search and delve into every nut and cranny to find something on me however tiny. He ruled by me jokingly on a text calling daughter dumbo amounted to abuse. Also that eventhough I rarely swore throughout our marriage of over 25 yrs I text mother "you fucked me up" I swear more than claim. Only police involvement was me and mother had TINY argument, she told me to Shift, I replied you shift and wait your turn, that's it. Daughter blew her top at me I told her to shut up and mind her business. She stormed upstairs was very hysterical on phone to police they visited and went not long after. No caution or anything just went. But stated on report daughter was very emotional, cried and was hysterical so judge ruled something more must have happened, but it didn't.