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You cannot win with a narcissist. You did the best thing for Your daughter and You.

Hugs Mama. I hope Your daughter comes to You. 2 more years. You are beautiful and no one deserves to be abused

Your story don’t mke sense I wud like to hear the man’s side Just saying From SA

What did I just watch, am sorry that is your lived experienced, hope you heal and leave a fullfiled life❤

That guy is cursed

He was wicked to make you terminate the pregnancies

Thank you so much for the life lessons. You’re more than a conqueror! Be blessed gal

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Girl you were molested . That wasn't a marriage it was a kidnap. You were held hostage and your parents were threatened . The man you met is a pedophile. I am not sure you truly know this . Please don't say you were married .

I watched 3 of your videos so far. Your sense of style is just out of this world. Your dressing is superb sis and the complexion! ❤❤ Hope you will also do fashion videos as time goes.

Tatu, you do you! Your daughter will eventually look for you for closure. At her age, she has already gathered some truth for herself. You keep walking strong and know that you have done nothing wrong. None of this is your fault!!

I'm loving your story dear. Well done for defeating obstacles 🎉

Aaa so were the children triplets or at 18 with 3 children and more so the laws in ur country y will they allow hmmm

Madam, dis ur story no clear ! Wot nonesense ! Ur both parents r alive, yet a family friend had d guts 2 kidnap u, fck & impregnate u, turn u on a sex slave ? Taaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh !! Dem no born dat man well ! Unless my father is not alive. Unless u kill my father. Infct wtvd upbringing I hv, evn if my father was dead, at age 18, I was already too bold, enlightened 4 anyone 2 opress me in such manner. Nonesense !

3 am was he a night dancer?

That is a real abuser that’s how they act. Thank God you were able to leave. So sad a situation

I don’t know but this story is very incomplete and makes it so hard to be believe. 1. Where was his wife when he took you to this his other house? 2. How come his two older children suddenly appeared in the house? 3. Your parents never called the police? What of your siblings? They also didn’t think of calling the police? 4. Did your parents have an arrangement with this man without your consent and later changed their mind? I could literally go on and on with the questions. Please if you want people to learn from your experience, be honest about the life you lived.

So happy you came out strong to tell the story.

I like the fact that you are just yourself and you can decide what best for you and run with it .

Frankly, I think u are the cause of your problems. Which is a major reason why no one who wants to have a good marriage should read ur book. The man was very wrong for taking u without ur parents consent & blessings, very wrong. But who says u are too young to have a baby @ 18, you are already an adult. I see young wayword girls(13, 14, 15 yrs of age) get pregnant for fellow small boys their age who are not ready for family life, the girl's parents end up training there daughter's child. Queen Esther whom we all read about in the bible in the book of Esther married at 17, & knew her limits as a wife which endeared her to her husband. U can't be offending ur husband & expect him to keep loving you. Even the Bible in Ephesians 5:22 says wife's to submit to their husbands. U had an house help, if u wake by 3am, u have an house help to aid u prepare the meal of few people & u go back to sleep, go & check on ladies that sell food, they wake that early too, I know a single mother who sells food, she wakes that early to start cooking for multitudes, after which she starts selling, she closes around 11pm. U cook for few people & u are here sympathising with urself, life is not a bed of roses. Now that u have divorced urself, do u have a better life? U slept off, & ur husband had to scale the fence, where was ur maid? He was wrong for slapping u, but u should have known the kind of husband u have & enjoyed him. U should have made plans for the maid to wake u or open for him. Esther could be killed for seeing her husband without his consent, she had to declare a fast for herself, her maid, & kinsmen before she could access her husband & she had no issue with that. You just had bad advisers who made u think ur husband was a devil, now that u have left the devil, I hope u are in heaven. U said he alienated u from friends, I think it's probably bc u don't have good friends, he feared that they were influencing u wrongly. But his efforts were not even enough to keep u homely. U still managed to get an implant without his concent, that's very bad, u were still listening to people who don't have good intentions for u. If I was him, I wouldn't have touched u, bc am not d violent type & completely against domestic violence. But I would have sued the medical practitioner who did d procedure for u, bc such procedure should have been carried out with d concent of both parents. Even though he tried to shield u from bad friends(bad influences) , u still managed to keep bad advisers. If u humbled urself, that man would never have cheated on you. He would literally have laid down his life for u. But u can't be his opposition in his house & expect that. If u were submissive, u would have had time to take enough sleep during the day & he won't worry u. U could go back to bed after cooking & take a nap for one hour, if u prepared everything u need to cook the meal the night before, besides u have a maid to give u a hand too. Ur husband does not trust u, bc he must have seen rebellious tendencies in u. Otherwise, u could have told him that u would love to further ur education, & he would have sponsored & supported you with all he has. I know a lady who did her 1st degree, masters & PhD in her husband's house, sponsored by her husband. Submission is the only secrete to a good marriage. No man would be happy to spend his hard earned resources on a wife who would counter him & listen to outsiders against him, even u ladies, when u spend on a female friend & she takes sides against u instead of being loyal to u, u become enemies quickly, but u do it to ur husband & expect a different result, he too may want to look for another lady who will be loyal to him.

You will see yr daughter in 3 yrs time. She will be an adult Hugs

all this in Africa?

I just came across your videos today and your content is uplifting. Continue to be strong and God WILL see you through. Thank you for sharing.

Too much drama😢😮

Amazing, almost unbelievable story! That man is a monster😮😢😢😢

You are such a beautiful lady, I will check out your story

This story is not adding up? Three Children at 18? Blaming yourself when you got pregnant because it was a mistake and yet it was a kidnap? Father reacting with unprintable words but not reporting to the Police. Tye gaps are just too much and places doubt on the credibility of the story unless you can address these concerns

What is happening in Kenya, this is day light kidnapping

A very emotionally intelligent woman❤

You were dealing with a narcissist.

Your parents and older siblings! I know I have no moral authority to judge them but just how could a man steal my child or sister and even notify me and I let them?

Very sad story,but your parents sold you out to that monster!I mean what power/hold did he have over your father 🧑🏿 🤷🏾‍♀️.Something not adding up here.im glad you made it out alive!you are beautiful and well articulate lady❤

Yoh! You really don't know what you are doing to my life dear, I spent the whole day listening to your motivational story yoh, I don't even know how to explain, but full of joy bcos I experienced pain in my marriage that almost led me to take my life. I am busy trying to build my channel too. Though it's not easy. I wish I can just talk to you privately. But anyway may God bless you you for me.

I came across your video just yesterday 4/8/2024 and I’m clouded to it. God’s grace.

Do not let people judge you, you was only the one who had suffering from the evil husband

A relationship should be happy not unhappy, you doing what is the best for you, if you’re staying a little longer your husband will definitely kill you. God is good at all the time for saving you. When a time to meet your daughter god will it happen

You are a strong woman

How i have missed this channel of our 'busaa'taker all this time😲😲

Some of the stories coming from Kenya make me cringe. Where were thus lady's parents when somebody would kidnap their daughter and they are silent. Is it because they were poor? Does poverty make a person blind and stupid? But the lady spoke good English meaning that she knew there was police somewhere. Also there were no human and women right organization.

Bravo💕💕

Practically kidnapped and turned into a slave. Being a child at 18 , it did not occur to her that she could say no and resist her kidnapper. Unfortunately some African upbringing of their girls esp., grooms them to go into a marriages of abuse. The parents were poor and with the mentality that the kidnapper had already impregnated her, she was seen as "damaged goods" and they gave up on getting her back. I cant imagine this kind of trauma. So glad that she stood up for herself eventually. I wish her healing and happiness. And i hope that kidnapper gets his karma.

I would love to do a podcast but have no idea how or where to start and my immediate requirements

Your parents should have known better not to expose you to a male friend.

Why you Didnt you think of going back home

Keep up. I have always known your star will never be deemed!

3am? What wizadry is this😂 that man was a wizard for sure. The lost pregnacies is also telling, having miscarriages like that most times is a result of a ritual.

I can relate. The shock of being hit as an adult by another adult outdid the pain of the impact

So sorry, they wouldn’t have been angry with you, you were kidnapped.

I assume she got pregnant and also inherited 2 kids who were not hers biologically. Her fear of going home sounds like she was groomed by the man and to some extent made a choice to be with him. It is the adult man’s fault but she probably feels guilty about playing a role in the situation. This is common for young people who are groomed to be willing to participate in their own exploitation. The gaps in her story explain that subconscious feeling of guilt. The true violator is the man but sometimes victims do play a role in creating a situation where they are emotionally coerced.

I am really humbled by your story, knowing that all this happened to you at such an early age. May God have mercy on all women especially those going through such a situation and bring vigilance to the rest who are yet to be there. This Life is beautiful and everyone is entitled to happiness and love ❤❤❤