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My Life With Autism
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 27 พ.ย. 2018
I sincerely am considering abandoning this channel
I sincerely am considering abandoning this channel
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How not to autism 3: showing no empathy to your fellow autism community members
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How not to autism 3: showing no empathy to your fellow autism community members
How not to autism 2, comparing fellow autists who are hurting to Chris Chan
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How not to autism 2, comparing fellow autists who are hurting to Chris Chan
The autism community did it again…. And I wasn’t even trying to interact this time!
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The autism community did it again…. And I wasn’t even trying to interact this time!
This comment perfectly encapsulates the problem with modern friend culture
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This comment perfectly encapsulates the problem with modern friend culture
Rant, stop acting like not replying to texts is acceptable
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Rant, stop acting like not replying to texts is acceptable
Edge of an HP supercell in Texas 5-3-24
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Edge of an HP supercell in Texas 5-3-24
New video series, abuse and neglect by the disabled community
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New video series, abuse and neglect by the disabled community
He isn’t even smart enough not to post his full name on YouTube! Another cringe reaction
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He isn’t even smart enough not to post his full name on TH-cam! Another cringe reaction
Reaction to a cringey video posted by someone awful who wronged me
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Reaction to a cringey video posted by someone awful who wronged me
My most memorable scream fortress games.
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My most memorable scream fortress games.
A partial response to a comment and update
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A partial response to a comment and update
Anti-crepuscular rays: the shadows of distant clouds! Amazing natural phenomenon episode 1.
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Anti-crepuscular rays: the shadows of distant clouds! Amazing natural phenomenon episode 1.
The autism PSA needed to be made, and if you have an issue, you be their friend, it isn’t my job!
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The autism PSA needed to be made, and if you have an issue, you be their friend, it isn’t my job!
A follow up to the autism community PSA video
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A follow up to the autism community PSA video
Awesome natural phenomenon episode 1, Earth Shadow
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Awesome natural phenomenon episode 1, Earth Shadow
In which an autism community member doubles down
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In which an autism community member doubles down
You’re just proving my point by acting this way autism community…
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You’re just proving my point by acting this way autism community…
A PSA about the autism community, stay FAR away
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A PSA about the autism community, stay FAR away
A meteorology major criticizes ‘RUN if you see this cloud’
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A meteorology major criticizes ‘RUN if you see this cloud’
Titanic exhibit, Honor and Glory ambience full loop
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Titanic exhibit, Honor and Glory ambience full loop
Hey dude, been following your channel for over a year and if it's worth anything, I've found your videos helpful and I hope you don't abandon this channel. I identify with a lot of your vents and I hope you don't let all the negativity discourage you from continuing to upload.
@@4395tjh maybe, the behavior o received on recent videos though was unacceptable and a lot of them came from the very autism community I was supposedly trying to help, no reason to help a group that craps on me
@@mylifewithautism3958Fair enough, you gotta do what's best for you.
That's a handsome kitty.❤
Wow! ❤
Awesome!
Sadly its easy for people to hide behind a keyboard and be mean. Trolls are always out there, they just need to go back under their bridge. You do what’s best for you. You could try turning off comments for a bit and see if things get better.
Please don't quit your channel. Just switch it to a topic that attracts less chodes. You don't get very many attacks for videos about the weather and outer space.
Thanks, and idk, my issue is would I be better just focusing on those topics on another channel instead, I have zero intention of giving up uploading entirely for the foreseeable future
@mylifewithautism3958 the only downside to getting another channel for that reason is your subscribers on this channel might not be able to find you.
Best of luck whatever you decide to do. The struggle is real, I get it.
@@FamilyHistoriandudeyeah true, the victorthemisanthrope one is monetized though which is a major boon
Thanks for telling that guy to shut the hel up
Theres nothing wrong with having boundaries and yours are perfectly valid. Everything you are saying makes sense to me.
@@elizadawne3896 glad to see someone else actually gets it, the allergy it of toxic comments acting like I’m the bad guy is just wow
I agree, it’s fucking goddamn annoying. Another annoying ass thing is when you’re in a conversation with someone irl, they ask you a question while they’re compulsively on their phone and after you answer they’re like “Oh sorry, what did you say? I was looking at something.”. Not everyone is like that but we all know some people who are.
Same with phone calls...if you see me calling and you have a second, pick up. You think I take time to call everyone?! No!
Enjoy the hides from The channel, anyone else who tries to bully me will Meet the same fate, this is MY channel, I am in control, and don’t you forget it
TL;DR - Anger and passion is seen as "crazy" and nobody wants to deal with "crazy". Maybe they lack experience maybe idk? I think there is a time and a place to vent, i mess that up all the time because my sense of humor gets the better of me. Fake rage or all caps (sarcasm) because i think its funny but i should really stop doing that. Though i do think people lack empathy in regards to anger and passion and just don't have the mental stamina to deal with those kinds of emotions coming from other people. Personally i don't think its difficult as its more of a know how/experience thing and you just speak calmly and plainly and obviously be respectful but also understanding. I'm used to talking to angry people as there are alcoholics in my family and also why i don't drink. Though it gets more complicated as having empathy for people you see as evil would be difficult. For me i personally don't associate with prejudice people but i am willing to have a discussion to change their minds. Usually prejudice is backed by unjustified anger.
ill be your friend man, it pisses me off people dont reply either ive lost a lot a friends from lack of trying over text. you got discord?
Yeah, what yours
Back when I went to college, I somehow connived my way into being allowed to live off-campus in an efficiency. One of the other residents in the building was an older dude, non student who worked on campus, who I thought was pretty cool, he loved making music on his Amiga, bought alcohol for me a few times, and was actually the only person to ever get me to play MTG and those kinds of games. We weren't super close or anything, but I liked him, hooked him up with free cable when I broke into the building box, yadayadayada, different times. After my freshman year I moved to another building, just to get into a more lively part of town, but I exchanged numbers with him and said we should hang out sometime. He had mentioned he was looking to score some weed and I knew some guys at school who usually had quantity and I said I would try to hook him up when I was able. Anyway, like a week after I moved out, he had called and left a VM for me (this was in the mid-90s and cell phones were still very rare) on a Friday, which I didn't get as I was out with friends probably until 3 or 4 in the morning, then I was busy the next day and worked a graveyard shift Saturday night, so I didn't hear it until Sunday afternoon after I woke up. He apparently thought I was ducking him and proceeded to leave a series of increasingly irate, irrational and completely unglued messages, accusing me of all these bizarre failings, when the truth was much simpler: I was 19, irresponsible, and busy. That's it. That's all. I would've gotten to him when I was able, but after the 5th or 6th such message, I just clicked the erase all button on my answering machine and went about my day, and never spoke to him again (which was a huge shame for him as I would soon have more connects than he would've known what to do with). I haven't thought about him in years, but it's still a little sad in retrospect, he was a cool guy, just really misguide, lacking in social graces and too inclined to believe the worst. You remind me of that guy. You should look up Hanlon's Razor sometime.
Congrats morons, you all proved EXACTLY why I don’t associate with the autism community anymore. Because god for bid you try to vent about a very real issue and not get wrongfully crucified. Phuck you all
@@mylifewithautism3958 I’m sorry the failed abor shuns in this comment section treated you this way, shameful behavior by the vast majority of people here, and you deserve so much more
Can see the imbeciles Found this video, what the heck is this comment section, ya’ll are sociopaths
You look like you don’t have a job, and I wouldn’t respond to you either. People who don’t respond to your texts are bad guys? What in the actual F is wrong with you?
A lot of pseudo intellectuals rping wisemen with basic stoic platitudes in these comments. Im of two minds about it, its up to individuals to set our expectations of others to a reasonable degree. And its also up to us as individuals to put effort into our relationships with other people. Since we are both givers and receivers, we can be those who give too much or receive too little and vice versa. Extreme reactions like "going your own way" or "never expecting others to consider you" are just easy to apply coping mechanisms. Tldr; almost no one is ever truly alone, and the person you can rely on the most is yourself.
@@bubbadumps3747 wonder if they even have the brain power to understand what you said lol, or to google it if they dont
Holy crap its amazing how a lot of people in the comments do not understand that relationships are a two way street. You cannot just take an take an take and never give back.
@@modtyrant1784 100 percent,
What’s this, a commenter with functioning brain cells? What has this world come to
@@justiceseeker2nd963 To be fair certain subjects bring out my bad sense of humor (ragey). I had to unsubscribe from all D&D content cuz my DMing days are over to say the least.
Had a girl who was hitting on me and asking me out on dates doing this exact same thing to me. Now I have no idea what to think around women.
@@thecorbeauxking7342 ikr, us women suck, side note of you’re open to foreign women try the PinaLove all, people actually initiate sometimes and while some are scammers a fair number are legit, just block anyone asking for money lol
@@thecorbeauxking7342 ikr, us women can be a pain especially on apps! you open to foreign?
@@thecorbeauxking7342 main reason I ask is I have a good potential avenue if you are
I think you and several people in the comments section need to take a step back and think about what your place in the universe is. Nobody has to reply to you. Nobody owes you acknowledgement for your existence. this is a selfish and deeply troubling thought process, to the point where I would seriously recommend seeking professional help, especially if you want friends. Nobody wants to put up with this from anybody. IDK how old you are, but I'm old enough to remember a time before everyone had a cell phone and I can promise you it IS possible to survive without receiving a reply. And its your right to block whoever you want, but if you blocked me because I forgot to reply took too log replying, then i would consider a bullet has been dodged. Your take on social stimuli being comparable to caloric intake is completely laughable. I promise that if you were locked in a box without your phone and were fed regularly you wouldn't die. Not replying to texts IS completely acceptable. You DO NOT have ANY authority to control someone's actions or have any right to expect that they owe you ANYTHING just because you chose to message them. You do NOT get to choose who you hold verbally hostage because you've chosen them to grant you the stimulus you think you deserve. Believing that someone owes you a response is actually crazy, and I hope everyone who needs to read this does so and understands. Call me a hater or a bad guy or whatever because I don't agree with you if you want, but ignoring me will only yield the same sad, lonely, and quite frankly, pathetic results you are currently experiencing. OTHER PEOPLE DO NOT EXIST FOR YOUR PLEASURE/CONVENIENCE AND CANNOT BE TREATED LIKE TOYS. I legitimately can't fathom having to actually explain this to anyone, regardless of where they are on the spectrum. I used to be a paraprofessional, which is why I feel the need to help explain this, because this is a lesson that someone else forgot to teach you, and now they have done you a disservice. I hope you can adapt. Just be genuine, don't fixate on others. Do what you need to do every day to make yourself and your life better. Worrying about other people is what leads to a path of misery, but it looks like you are starting to figure that part out. i promise, the more frustrated you become wanting other people to conform to your world view, the less people will want to interact with you in general. Do yourself a favor and take deep breaths and something else to engage in.
@@carterbrockman4223 actually yes if they are friends they DO owe you a reply, relationships are give and take and I’m sick of the simp squad trying to defend people constantly taking and never giving. And actually studies have shown that prolonged lack of social interaction has caused depression, insanity, and unaliving, so yes, my caloric intake example fits perfectly,
I noticed a lot of this growing up. People are apparently so sideswiped by anxiety, adhd, blah blah blah that they physically cannot use a nifty little device in their pocket to send a one word reply. Its not like I was rapid firing texts to people either.
Ikr, If only there was a thing you could use to reply to people’s messages with a. Built in keyboard to type on
hot take buddy, maybe you say some off the walls crayon eating bs or you're just unlikeable i don't reply to a lot of texts and it's mostly because people say dumb shit
Im with you 100% buddy. My "friends" are the same way. At this point i would rather them tell me straight up to go fuck myself if they dont vibe with me than just being ghosted for literally nothing.
Ya i blocked and unfriended people that do that, they like to blame it on ADHD. They only acknowledge things they care about instead of anything you talk about.
Lots of disabled people pull that, trying to act like their disabilities excuse awful behavior. I mean maybe they explain it to a point but it’s NEVER an excuse to not even try
@@mylifewithautism3958 it sounds like you feel like you need more community in your life. Have you considered joining a group that shares an interest of yours or maybe volunteering for a cause you feel strongly about? You might find new friends who have values more in line with yours and will gladly return your texts
At least when you send a message to me. I AT LEAST Respond.
Yes you do and good on you for the st
Do you not have autism ? I’m just trying to make sense of this. Is the video purpose to be engaging with autistic people as someone who is neurotypical? Because these people are just typical autistic adults that never learned how to communicate properly so what you should do in this situation is try and be the bridge to a proper conversation with them instead of giving standard answers and questions. As someone who personally is autistic myself the way you engage these people through texting I would almost give you similar or the same responses as most of these people here before I learned how to properly communicate. It’s not easy at all. These people are not being picky, rude or mean. They are autistic they literally just need more in depth questions. The standard open ended stuff that works for most normal people are the hardest to answer. The more detail you put in a question to someone with autism the better the answer you will get and vice versa.
This is the first video of yours I seen I just noticed your channel name lol. So you do also have autism. So based off all the research I’ve done personally form my perspective is that you’re judging these other autistic people too harshly you need to understand that they do know how to communicate just like you do they just struggle to just like you do they’re just a bit more timid and one step behind you in terms of conversational skills so try to bridge that gap instead of lengthen it. Also calling it “disabled community” referring to other people with autism is crazy. It is not a disability it is just an alternate form of living we just have a harder time finding out how we do our shit. Saying it’s a disability is a nasty crutch. Idk what I’m even ranting on about anymore but TLDR the community of adults with autism and the views on it is so frustrating it just pisses me off
This is why dating apps are worthless.
They really are, though I have had some success on PinaLove
No treu him is steel heart from evry one who see him❤❤❤❤
hey wheres mo
Aww what cute kitties😻
Let me be first to say that cats know when you are sick or injured..mine laid on my legs to promote healing after knees and hips replaced...❤❤
the way they were circling him telling IF YOU DONT GIVE US THE TREETS WE WILL DO AS WE PLEAS
Get a job
@@keithchapman8380 giving this comment the pin of shame
Yeah. No clue. Cats are mysterious.
👌👌👌🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤
Ernie has a master and that's whybhe is chill like that 😂
I like Ernie
I think her neck belt is too tite😢😮
Neck belt?😂😂 you mean collar?
oh cat collars just look like that due to the fur, bernie is fine
Waiting on your next rant video
Your cat is so cute!
The cop said to the child that he would hit him with the belt because he was mad that the child called the police on his mother
Pretty!!!
silly cat
Awwww hi baby.
😂😂😂❤❤
language - watch how you use your words, they have consequences
You must live in Texas!
@@fatracing20 Illinois believe it or not, that’s why this is so dang unusual, somehow haven’t had a hard freeze yet
Tell that to the illlegal migrants!
Thank you.