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Relaxers don't even make sense. Your ROOTS will alwayyyyyyyys be knee-grow. Chasing a hair type you will never naturally have is just sad.

black hair is not insulting, let’s stop finding something to be mad about. Also his sarcasm fell on deaf ears but he was basically pinpointing how biracial ppl are easily scrutinized from their monoracial black peers as far as not being “black enough”. He keeps overstating the term black hair to help ppl come to terms with him being black. Biracial people do have it hard as well.

The lovely TikToker's second mistake - after deciding to relax - was doing it herself. She's probably not a licensed cosmetologist/black hair specialist...

I don’t wear make up so I don’t care but you see how they all have curly hair and not coily hair so don’t tell me wearing a wig is not natural I rock both my hair and wigs

I like her hair, it’s chic, gives French idk

Relaxing = self hate, ignorance and laziness. I agree with the comment, “your hair , your business.” The versatility we have is unmatched! The chemical exposure and increase risk to cancer is not worth it. I rather her wear straight bundles. 4:23 she should had this professionally done or restored her natural hair first. All she did is further damage her hair.

Ofc, an ex that comes to mind is Jackie Aina. She has 4c hair. Defined and beautiful! It’s very sad that mostly type 4 hair women, vent about wanting a looser curl pattern. When the main frustration is, just learning to do your hair. If you want faster results, go to a trusted professional and build hair plan. Otherwise , it will be a lot trial and error.

2:14 just buy bundles that match your hair and learn how to do your hair 🙄. Self love girl

The reason why their natural hair looks thin with ugly ends after relaxing is because they don't take care of their hair whilst natural nor trim their hands. The difficulty they experience with their natural is usually because they don't do what their hair needs them to do in order for it to be healthy and they just wing it or do bare minimum because it's natural and think a relaxer will save them. But relaxer just end up exposing how reckless and careless they are with their hair in the end. Nobody wins

They are not Amish LOL. They are just very conservative Christians. They would not be online if they were Amish

Whilst i agree with them there not Amish there actually apart of a separation fundimentlist cult but even a broken clock is right twice a day

THERE IS A WHITE PASSING BIRACIAL FEMALE ON TH-cam SHE TALKS ABOUT ACCEPTING HER NATURAL KINKY HAIR. SHE IS ALSO IN THE TIGHT COILS TEXTURE HE ACCEPTS HIMSELF BUT THE RETURN ARGUMENT WAS BECAUSE HE WAS UPSET EIYH THESE COMMENTS FROM STRANGERS. THE PHRASE CAME FROM HIS MOTHER I GUARANTEE HE WILL MOST LIKELY MARRY WHITE AND SHAVE IT CLOSE. THE REASON MOST MEN LIKE HIM WILL USE AFTER BEING WITH A WHIYE OR OTHER IS BECAUUSE OF THESE STUPID NEGATIVE COMMENTS FROM BLACK WOMEN

Bm created him so why are they mad at what they created? 🤦😂😂

What I eat dont make you poop !

You only show your ID if law enforcement can prove you are in the commission of a crime.

I think people who think natural hair is too much work are the same people who dont want to or know how to take care of their hair. I give my natural hair the same care I gave to my relaxed hair. Both are beautiful but it doesnt just happen. I still wash my hair EVERY week, deep condition, use protein treatments, and get regular trims. I have learned along the way what works for me, specifically that my natural hair doesnt like alot of the products my natural hair liked. Last thought, the quality of products NOT price but quality of products used makes the difference. The shampoo and conditioner used makes the most difference, imo.

Funny story, I met a White Amish boy at a church I was visiting. I later learned that as the months went by, he had a crush on me. I even watched them race their buggies. It was during Rumspringa. On another note, Amish women are taught to be "plain" and that vanity is a sin. I wonder which parent is Black? 🤔

I think people these days are misusing ( and incorrectly using) the term white passing. White passing is someone who is very fair skinned ( or light) who has black ancestry but who is pretending to not have black ancestry and even may fully pretend to be white. I don’t think he is “white passing” because he admits to being mixed and even says he is part black. He is not white passing. Ever seen the movie “imitation of life”? That is an example of white passing. Someone who is light enough to pretend he is fully white and will live their life as a white person and deny all suggestions that he is black or mixed is a white passing person. If he was white passing he would have straight his hair and denied any black blood at all, not highlight it. Give people a break. Also when he calls it “ black hair texture” to him just means curly,coils, or kinky because of course to him white people don’t have hair like that. So to him it’s just one form of hair texture that black people have. I don’t really like the word nappy either but some black people are proud of the word nappy aka nappy roots musical group. There is a natural hair creature and she calls herself napturally85 which is a play in the word nappy and natural. Many full black people are embracing the word nappy now a days. I’m a full black person who doesn’t care about how he wants to call his own hair. There are groups called “ happy to be nappy” online. They are proud of the term and texture. We have people who say the N-word who are complaining about the word nappy. It’s just another word for tangled or knotty. Knotty just means lots of knots in the hair and there is nothing wrong with that term. The fact that WYT people and BLK people tried to shame us for our kinks by calling it nappy doesn’t mean the kinks don’t exist. Give me a break we need to worry about other things to be upset with going into 2025. I love your channel but I think you are wrong here. Keep doing your thing

I will never ever understand why people care so much about what someone else does to their body! People are haters.

He’s a very light skinned man with beautiful Afrocentric features INCLUDING his hair! I think he is handsome and people need to quit tripping. He’s obviously not a white man. 🙄

I just cut my locs off and I retwist my hair in two-strand twist every week or two weeks depending on how my hair looks in a week once my hair grows back to the length I want it I'm putting the wigs up once again but until then a wig it is 🤷🏽‍♀️ p.s I don't glue my wigs I just put my headwrap on I don't know how to do wigs foreal

I never heard of this woman. The hair in the back do look funny and make me laugh. Reminds me of that stranger things guy crying meme. But who cares.

If you don't take care of your own hair. It will never be a protective style.

I don’t want to seem negative but I really do feel that black women just like to put other black women down. Whenever coffee cuties make a video calling us out. Black women are agreeing and having a time in the comments but now since she’s talking about a biracial woman that still has textured hair it’s off limits and coffee cuties is in the wrong? Even some black women in the comments are getting upset with coffee cuties about this one. Hmm this is very interesting.

I don’t feel straightening your hair means you’re trying to be a white girl … cause I know I’ll never have their hair texture …once water touches my hair lol the roots don’t lie … lol

I’m natural, but it is disingenuous to say natural hair is easier than a relaxer. I guess it depends how cool your natural hair is 🤷🏽‍♀️

She looks timeless and elegant with this haircut. Her neck is perfect . Looks better than all of these glued down edges and side part wigs or (”buss down" 🤨😩wigs) I lost 5 percent of my brain cells saying that. Thanks for the video sister!

3:20 I’m glad they noted the separation. They are not and should not be labeled BW or touted as representative of BW. Because the separation becomes much more clear when only ‘BW’ of that shade and hair type gets the ad campaign/ leading role, or the state/national beauty title, or some low value entertainer rich man. Then folks acknowledge they are not necessarily black. The distinction is importance to me. Just my POV.

1:40 she just doesn’t know how to do hair. I’m confused why she relaxed her hair if she wasn’t going to straighten it. And also her hair looks super dry! Even before the relaxer.

Sad that some Blk women are so hung up on a biracial foreign lady

I just put the active ingredient (in Mary Ruth's ) Lustriva in my Amazon cart. It's much cheaper, and I already have a multivitamin

I decided long ago to have confidence in my hairs natural state because it’s truly how I believe God wanted me to look and is beautiful. For maintenance I got mini locs and never looked back. 7 years in my hair is down to my backside and I don’t have any regrets!

Imo the back of her neck would look better if the ends weren't bumped under but it's not as bad as its being made out to be as it is. I can't imagine being the type of person that tears any woman down about their hair. I'm so over the hate and criticism we get for our hair. I

Haven't we learned from the older women in our family? Micro braids can be extremely damaging..

I was trying to remember who Norman Freeman is until it hit me .....yikes 😮👀😳

People are so bitter and mean to this girl. It really doesn’t look bad. I wouldn’t get it but she’s pretty enough that it doesn’t look awful. I think her German side is coming out because that’s how some girls in Berlin wear their hair. People always trying to take a melanated sister down. She’s living her best life and unhappy women are bitter as always 🙄

I don't have eczema, but I do suffer from intense dandruff. Her choice of oils are pretty solid. The only things I would add are 1. Pre-poo with acv for 15min (dilute 1:1 for sensitive scalps and add 5 min) 2. Add tea tree oil to the scalp oil 3. Always rinse with cool water

Her hair looks thick and healthy. It looks a million times better than throwing a limp, lank horse fur rug that a lot of black woken wear.

Do I like her haircut? No. Do I care about her haircut? No. Will anybody care about her hair next week? Doubtful.

I think Shea moisture has sold to unilever😢 their body wash has the logo now on the back and formula has changed to crap!

If her hair was healthy and the relaxer process was done by a good professional, her relaxed hair would have come out very nicely. It would have been thinner, of course, since relaxer actually eats through the hair (it's related to nair), nothing to do with disulfide bonds, but it wouldn't have looked so bad at the ends. She probably didn't have a healthy haircare routine to begin with, which is why her ends look like that, and why she turned to the relaxer at this stage. I guarantee it would have looked similar if she'd pressed it out. If you do do a deep dive on relaxers, make sure you actually read the entire studies beginning to end, and not just the headlines. Because the results WILL surprise you.

I think there’s a little bit of lucky manipulating her 10:28

Black Women forever being crabs in a barrel

How petty will black women collectively go? Dang

People are too fixated on something as trivial as that. It may not look most amazing, but it’s probably because she was fine with it. And that’s okay

The back of my head is none of my business is a TikTok trend. Not a typo

I don't know what to do with my hair the times I've flat ironed it. I'll just stay with my curls thank you ❤.

The same way pages like ecist to decry hat hair, its fair game to judge women for having a bad haircut. Im always team stay in my lane but everyone is fair game. Get thicker skin.