God loves Jews because they do all this ancient stuff and keep the traditions alive.. Christian’s are for the light and to keep the idea of peace in the world.. I’d mention the other one but you don’t want to hear where I think it comes from
The truth is I never liked that Charlotte had to change religion to marry Harry because he could not accept that she was of another faith also he came out with the excuse that he had to marry strictly with a Jewish woman sorry I respect the religions of others but I will not give up my beliefs for a man
People complaining about him making her convert, he didn't. He was upfront and told her he couldn't marry anyone who wasn't Jewish, he never asked it of her. Converting was her own idea and her own decision... and even when they broke up for a bit she said she intended to remain Jewish, and she practiced Judaism from then on more than we ever saw her practice her previous religion. He even encouraged her to keep her old Christmas traditions, but she chose to let go of her previous traditions and embraced new ones. I think she had a real conversion, even if her first reason for considering it was to be able to marry him. I agree no one should be pressured to change their faith for someone else, but in their case, it just doesn't sound like that was the issue, this was her choice.
Wow that so interesting. I hadn't watched that part of the show and I didn't know that. As an aside, I am sure that at least one of the primary writers was Jewish lol
I would never give up my religion or beliefs just to marry someone. If I was non religious and oblivious to those things in general I could be open to it but Charlotte is supposed to be Episcopalian, and she would give it all up for a man? Never in my book. That’s way too shallow.
@@rebelraccoon9018 Sacrificing God is incredibly shallow. Your belief in God is the very foundation of who you are. Not something you “sacrifice” to be with a guy. Anyone who can do that was not much of a believer to begin with and that’s just a fact.
@@justincase7848 I think that’s really great actually. I like that they try and weed out the ones who might convert on a whim without really considering what being Jewish really means, but it also allows the ones who are serious about converting the opportunity to reflect on their choice and know that they are welcome to join if it’s really what they feel is the right path for them.
@@nadiadelphi6850 a hundred percent. I don't remember much history lol but I seem to recall that there were times in history when this was a problem- people would convert for the wrong reasons and then they wouldn't want to stick with it. So the sages instituted these laws. According to the Talmud, this is the conversation that took place between Naomi and her non Jewish daughters in law Ruth and Arpah. First she urged them to return to their land. When Ruth insisted she wanted to come, Naomi began telling her some of the difficult laws of Judaism in order to deter her from something she couldn't follow through with. Ruth's response hinted towards her acceptance of all these commandments, down to the harsh ending of "as you die I will die and there I will be buried"- a response to Naomi's warning that certain sins are punishable by death, and those killed by the Jewish court are buried seperately. (This was an extremely unusual thing to happen, but Naomi was giving her the absolute worst case scenario in order to deter her.) When it was clear that Ruth was absolutely determined to become Jewish despite the hardship, Naomi accepted her. Historically Ruth is considered one of the great heroines of Judaism and is the mother of the Davidic/messianic dynasty, indicating the value of a sincere convert.
For anyone who's wondering: aside from being funny for the show, she keeps getting turned away because, traditionally, you are required to ask and be turned down 3 times by the rabbi before conversion can begin. It's to signify that you understand the work and responsibility that comes with joining the faith and that you're serious about converting.
Yeah it's to discourage people who aren't very serious because being Jewish takes hard word and dedication. But they don't actually slam the door in the person's face. They just explain to them politely that it's not a good idea for them to become Jewish because it would necessitate lifestyle changes that would be difficult and annoying to them. Also orthodox rabbis typically don't convert people for the sake of marriage because such a person is not doing it out of conviction and may ultimately decide it's too hard.
" We're not interested." So true. They're like Catholics that way. We don't bang on your door to beg you to join us, and neither do Jewish people. Not that all doorstep witnesses are terrible people. A couple came to our door after we moved here, welcomed us to the neighborhood, and kindly invited us to visit their church some Sunday. I believe they were Pentecostals--is that what they're called? Then the lady gave us a little green plant. How sweet, I thought, and decided not to mention that I am the Grim Reaper of house plants. Three years later, our beautiful glossy green Pothos (I think) has a trail of leaves that is longer than I am tall. i am trying to figure out where we can hang the pot, as it has taken over our kitchen counter. .
@@lepetitchat123 no actually in the Torah the Jewish text that says they’ve been chosen by god but obviously that doesn’t mean every Jew thinks they’re better than every other race that’s ridiculous there are loads of same sex Christian couples even though Christianity directly forbids homosexuality
Im a moderate Christian. I wouldn't mind dating or even marrying someone of a different faith, non religious, or even atheist, but i would never convert just to be with that person. That would make me a hypocrite. Instead I'd like for my partner and i to learn about each other's faiths just to have a clear understanding of our backgrounds and pass that on to our kids.
@@2expressmranderson pretending to believe is not the same as practicing a religion. You can keep your own personal beliefs that a lot of religious people born into religious families have anyway
This is why I wouldn't marry someone of my faith, I don't want to be taken away from my beliefs but I can't ask my potential spouse to convert out of their beliefs, it's not in my nature to do so. Everyone is entitled to choose what they believe in.
My mom is Jewish, my brother and I were raised completely Jewish but my dad grew up with no religion so when my parents got married my mom told my dad she was fine with him not converting as long as my brother and I grew up Jewish. He was convinced (more convinced than her parents at first when my dad told them he was Atheist)!
.but its easier when its the woman who is jewish ....not so much when its the guy .....that is why you get rabbis keen to convert non jewish women marrying jewish men
Why she had do change her religion, and he didn't even think about that he should be one to change his? Or even compromise that both leave their own religion?
Sometimes I wish I were Jewish, but only ethnically, not religiously.
“I am reproductively challenged!”
So what? Once you attend Sabbath, you become Jew?? Initial steps??
This is all Yiddish...not hebrew
i don’t know how to feel about charlotte converting into a different religion just because she wanted to get married
God loves Jews because they do all this ancient stuff and keep the traditions alive.. Christian’s are for the light and to keep the idea of peace in the world.. I’d mention the other one but you don’t want to hear where I think it comes from
Jews celebrate christmas?? They deny christ, but they celebrate his birthday. So funny
i love how charlotte wants to be jewish but has no idea when the sabbath is
Another reason to hate this show.
I love the look the wife gives to her husband the Rabbi like saying "honey, she is in love,give her a chance".
And Jews don't go door to door trying to force their views on other people.
i DIE every time she walks up to the janitor, flashes a big smile, and says in the most sincere and respectful voice, “Shalom.” 😂
What show is this?
Sex and the city
and then he rather watch baseball but she has to apologize. this pairing never made sense lol
Lame and pathetic. All she does in order to get a dick
The truth is I never liked that Charlotte had to change religion to marry Harry because he could not accept that she was of another faith also he came out with the excuse that he had to marry strictly with a Jewish woman sorry I respect the religions of others but I will not give up my beliefs for a man
She went from one mommy’s boy straight to another - “I can’t marry you if you don’t convert to my dumb religion, my mother will FREAK. OUT.”
How is Judaism dumb?
Oh dear. Really?
Love this woman, she's pure innocent determination personified.
People complaining about him making her convert, he didn't. He was upfront and told her he couldn't marry anyone who wasn't Jewish, he never asked it of her. Converting was her own idea and her own decision... and even when they broke up for a bit she said she intended to remain Jewish, and she practiced Judaism from then on more than we ever saw her practice her previous religion. He even encouraged her to keep her old Christmas traditions, but she chose to let go of her previous traditions and embraced new ones. I think she had a real conversion, even if her first reason for considering it was to be able to marry him. I agree no one should be pressured to change their faith for someone else, but in their case, it just doesn't sound like that was the issue, this was her choice.
My granfather went through something similar. He converted to Catholicism to marry my grandma and he was a devoted Catholic afterward.
Wow that so interesting. I hadn't watched that part of the show and I didn't know that. As an aside, I am sure that at least one of the primary writers was Jewish lol
I would never give up my religion or beliefs just to marry someone. If I was non religious and oblivious to those things in general I could be open to it but Charlotte is supposed to be Episcopalian, and she would give it all up for a man? Never in my book. That’s way too shallow.
Not shallow at all. She loved him so she was willing to sacrifice something. That's beautiful.
@@rebelraccoon9018 Sacrificing God is incredibly shallow. Your belief in God is the very foundation of who you are. Not something you “sacrifice” to be with a guy. Anyone who can do that was not much of a believer to begin with and that’s just a fact.
I'd run as soon as I see that rabbi...nobody can convert me to any religion.
I'd run as soon as I see that rabbi...no man can convert me to any religion.
I love that he finally gave in and invited her to sit with his family for dinner after she pretty much barged in and demanded to convert 😂
It's according to Jewish law- if you push the person away and they still demand to join, then you know they are serious and you welcome them
@@justincase7848 I think that’s really great actually. I like that they try and weed out the ones who might convert on a whim without really considering what being Jewish really means, but it also allows the ones who are serious about converting the opportunity to reflect on their choice and know that they are welcome to join if it’s really what they feel is the right path for them.
@@nadiadelphi6850 a hundred percent. I don't remember much history lol but I seem to recall that there were times in history when this was a problem- people would convert for the wrong reasons and then they wouldn't want to stick with it. So the sages instituted these laws. According to the Talmud, this is the conversation that took place between Naomi and her non Jewish daughters in law Ruth and Arpah. First she urged them to return to their land. When Ruth insisted she wanted to come, Naomi began telling her some of the difficult laws of Judaism in order to deter her from something she couldn't follow through with. Ruth's response hinted towards her acceptance of all these commandments, down to the harsh ending of "as you die I will die and there I will be buried"- a response to Naomi's warning that certain sins are punishable by death, and those killed by the Jewish court are buried seperately. (This was an extremely unusual thing to happen, but Naomi was giving her the absolute worst case scenario in order to deter her.) When it was clear that Ruth was absolutely determined to become Jewish despite the hardship, Naomi accepted her. Historically Ruth is considered one of the great heroines of Judaism and is the mother of the Davidic/messianic dynasty, indicating the value of a sincere convert.
And you are telling me the Miranda got to be the "Karen" in Just like that and not Charlott?! With this attitude?!?!
She made me so proud to be Jew. And she is not one.
Joining just to get married. Isn’t that a form of cultural appropriation?
It's toxic to change your religion for someone
She wanted to though and he was supportive he didn’t force it
For anyone who's wondering: aside from being funny for the show, she keeps getting turned away because, traditionally, you are required to ask and be turned down 3 times by the rabbi before conversion can begin. It's to signify that you understand the work and responsibility that comes with joining the faith and that you're serious about converting.
Wow thank you for this explanation
Was about to ask that. Thank you!
Interesting that u said rabbi thats the name of allah that muslims use.
Yeah it's to discourage people who aren't very serious because being Jewish takes hard word and dedication. But they don't actually slam the door in the person's face. They just explain to them politely that it's not a good idea for them to become Jewish because it would necessitate lifestyle changes that would be difficult and annoying to them. Also orthodox rabbis typically don't convert people for the sake of marriage because such a person is not doing it out of conviction and may ultimately decide it's too hard.
It's worse than chasing women
People sometimes forget that the Jewish faith is from the mother side. If the mother isn't Jewish then you're not considered truly Jewish
It depends.
" We're not interested." So true. They're like Catholics that way. We don't bang on your door to beg you to join us, and neither do Jewish people. Not that all doorstep witnesses are terrible people. A couple came to our door after we moved here, welcomed us to the neighborhood, and kindly invited us to visit their church some Sunday. I believe they were Pentecostals--is that what they're called? Then the lady gave us a little green plant. How sweet, I thought, and decided not to mention that I am the Grim Reaper of house plants. Three years later, our beautiful glossy green Pothos (I think) has a trail of leaves that is longer than I am tall. i am trying to figure out where we can hang the pot, as it has taken over our kitchen counter. .
Except for the whole… Holy Roman Empire thing
Actually Roman Catholic priests were sent all over the world to ya know “civilize” the heathens for a good several hundred years.
This was the coolest scene in the show hahahaha i love it!!!!
I think Charlotte was very rude
When he says ‘We’re Not Interested’ 😂😂😂
This is not far off from the truth. They need to make sure it’s genuine.
Aren't they racist? Come to think it, these "chosen people" think they are superior to people of other races?
@@lepetitchat123 no actually in the Torah the Jewish text that says they’ve been chosen by god but obviously that doesn’t mean every Jew thinks they’re better than every other race that’s ridiculous there are loads of same sex Christian couples even though Christianity directly forbids homosexuality
Charlotte, Charlotte, Charlotte!!!! NO MAN is worth losing your Faith over, unless you didn't have any to begin with!
Hahahaha 🤣🤣 🤣
0:44 BRUH HIS FACE NAAAH💀💀💀😭😭😭
Charlotte: No change your religion because a man, a religión si not an underwear to be changed every day.
I would never convert to a new religion just to marry someone xD but then again, It's Charlotte. She always wanted to get married
"Dreidel, dreidel, dreidel.. I made it out of clay. And when it's dry and ready. Oh dreidel, I shall play." *🎵🎶*
Im a moderate Christian. I wouldn't mind dating or even marrying someone of a different faith, non religious, or even atheist, but i would never convert just to be with that person. That would make me a hypocrite. Instead I'd like for my partner and i to learn about each other's faiths just to have a clear understanding of our backgrounds and pass that on to our kids.
Good for you but also in some communities Judaism is passed solely from mother to child Soo I think that’s why they did this
It would be hard for me to marry an atheist.
I'm an atheist and it would be a deal breaker for me. I shouldn't have to pretend to believe something for my partner if I don't.
@@2expressmranderson pretending to believe is not the same as practicing a religion. You can keep your own personal beliefs that a lot of religious people born into religious families have anyway
@@2expressmranderson Charlotte wasn't prending.
This is why I wouldn't marry someone of my faith, I don't want to be taken away from my beliefs but I can't ask my potential spouse to convert out of their beliefs, it's not in my nature to do so. Everyone is entitled to choose what they believe in.
I can marry somebody from another religion, but I wouldn't convert.
@@antigonarosaura7845 how would that work then?
@@redshot5403 I can of you respect each other. Way better than changing your values for a relationship.
My mom is Jewish, my brother and I were raised completely Jewish but my dad grew up with no religion so when my parents got married my mom told my dad she was fine with him not converting as long as my brother and I grew up Jewish. He was convinced (more convinced than her parents at first when my dad told them he was Atheist)!
Well considering that the Jewish faith is "transmitted" by the mother I'd say it's normal
@@jojoaugustus1383 true. My dad even goes to some temple services at times, such as Rosh Hashanah.
.but its easier when its the woman who is jewish ....not so much when its the guy .....that is why you get rabbis keen to convert non jewish women marrying jewish men
The rabi was like nahhhh 🤣🤣
I do be forced to watch this for RE
Why she had do change her religion, and he didn't even think about that he should be one to change his? Or even compromise that both leave their own religion?
trisha paytas be like
first person i thought of haha
She had sex with a hasidic jew in season 1. Wasnt that enough to enter the tribe?
I know
The look the custodian gives her when she hits him with a "Shalom" 🤣🤣🤣.
i literally die with laughter every damn time
Charlotte had a lot of chutzpah - the perfect giyoret tzedek! ♥️