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Mia "Maya" Mariah
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 22 ม.ค. 2024
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Part 1: The Nag-Paradox
Part 2: @Laura Danger says;
"The nag-paradox is a setup for both people. Because after a while you don't wanna be vulnerable, you don't wanna open yourself up to that feeling of ‘I can't do anything right. I feel like I'm constantly letting you down’.
And the other person is saying, ‘I feel like I'm constantly being rejected’...
The whole honeydew list being told what to do, being bossed around, and then people who are upset about this are called nags. Which just brushes off the value and the seriousness of this issue.
Domestic labor matters. It runs our lives."
|| Sound cred: Laura Danger. #DomesticLabor #MentalLabor #NagParadox #LaborDistribution #Marriage #Relationships #Divorce #Nag
|| meal prep by: @Rachel | Freezer Meal Prep Coupon code: TikTokMiaMariah
#MealPrep #FreezerMeals #TCH #ThisCraftyHome
"The nag-paradox is a setup for both people. Because after a while you don't wanna be vulnerable, you don't wanna open yourself up to that feeling of ‘I can't do anything right. I feel like I'm constantly letting you down’.
And the other person is saying, ‘I feel like I'm constantly being rejected’...
The whole honeydew list being told what to do, being bossed around, and then people who are upset about this are called nags. Which just brushes off the value and the seriousness of this issue.
Domestic labor matters. It runs our lives."
|| Sound cred: Laura Danger. #DomesticLabor #MentalLabor #NagParadox #LaborDistribution #Marriage #Relationships #Divorce #Nag
|| meal prep by: @Rachel | Freezer Meal Prep Coupon code: TikTokMiaMariah
#MealPrep #FreezerMeals #TCH #ThisCraftyHome
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The Nag Paradox
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Part 1: @Laura Danger describes the nag-paradox so well & how @TheGottmanInstitute teaches about “the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse”. These are four behaviors & “if they're present in your relationship predicts an ending. Two of those things are criticism and defensiveness and they are baked in to the nag paradox”. || #NagParadox #GottmanInstitute #Marriage #Relationships #Divorce || meal pre...
Secondary Infertility
มุมมอง 153 หลายเดือนก่อน
#SecondaryInfertility #InfertilityJourney #Infertility #EndometriosisAwareness #Endometriosis #MLD #metachromaticleukodystrophy #Grief
Infertility Journey
มุมมอง 183 หลายเดือนก่อน
This is one of the most intimate & vulnerable posts I’ve ever made. Please be gentle & hold your tongue if you don’t have something kind to say… So many women struggle with infertility & not every woman has a miraculous outcome. People say hopeful things like, “keep trying!” Or, “once you relax it will happen”… but that’s not always the case for many. It’a healing to be seen & to share in one a...
Partnership & Change
มุมมอง 223 หลายเดือนก่อน
“You can change for your partner without changing who you are”. || sound cred: @Ced #Marriage #Relationships #Change #Growth #BeConsiderate
Part 2: Self Love
มุมมอง 53 หลายเดือนก่อน
Part 2: “When you measure (love) against the barometer of the love you have for yourself, you can’t even consider allowing petty, manipulative love into your life, because YOU treat YOU better than anyone else could treat you. #SelfLove #Womanhood #HealThySelf || sound cred: @Florence Given
Part 1: self Love
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Part 1: “I’m interested in encouraging women to cultivate a life they love, & a love for themselves & their life that is so potent that disrespect feels foreign”. || sound cred: @Florence Given #Women #SelfLove #SelfRespect #Boundaries
Kindness & Relational Happiness
มุมมอง 73 หลายเดือนก่อน
Kindness delineates & differentiates between happy & unhappy couples. || sound cred: @Jimmy Knowles #relationships #Marriage #GottmanInstitute #Gottman
“Why Can’t She Just Leave”
มุมมอง 55 หลายเดือนก่อน
using this comment as an example - no hate towards the commenter. Often times people have strong opinions on life circumstances that they have no point of reference to fully understand. For many women, leaving is not so simple. There are a host of factors that impede womens abilities to walk out the door. Lack of access to funds, lack of access to affordable housing, lack of job opportunities, ...
“Stand By Your Man at All Costs”
มุมมอง 215 หลายเดือนก่อน
Insert “Weaponized incompetence” here…. & it’s also unacceptable. Men are grown adults & are fully capable of functioning as such. They excell at their careers, no one needs to excuse them for just “not being adept enough”. Stop making excuses for a mans *unwillingess* to be equitable, considerate partners. More importantly, stop trying to shift the onus onto women for not being understanding e...
“Why Do You Have So Many Towels?”
มุมมอง 195 หลายเดือนก่อน
Great question! We use cloth napkins instead of buying paper napkins & paper towels. It’s budget friendly & easier on the environment. #LifeHack #ClothNapkins #PaperProducts #KitchenHacks
“Create Your Own Happiness”
มุมมอง 265 หลายเดือนก่อน
If we choose to stay, or if leaving isn’t an option, we can choose to create our own happiness. We can put up boundaries that help prioritize our peace even within an unfulfilling union. #Happiness #Peace #MentalHealth #Motherhood #Marriage #Relationships #Wife #Divorce
“If We Talked to Boys How We Talk to Girls”
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“If We Talked to Boys How We Talk to Girls”
“Response : Quality of the Mother’s Happiness”
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“Response : Quality of the Mother’s Happiness”
“The World is a Harder Place for Women”
มุมมอง 45 หลายเดือนก่อน
“The World is a Harder Place for Women”
“The Quality of the Mother’s Happiness”
มุมมอง 265 หลายเดือนก่อน
“The Quality of the Mother’s Happiness”
“The Burden of Prompting Your Partner”
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“The Burden of Prompting Your Partner”
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How far can castrated and get surgically disfigured just for science and I was artificially inseminated to bear children for a scientific research, so how about that?
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Maybe something like this isn’t good for young women to hear like how it’s great to be single and a cat lady than to have a family and kids and grand kids and great grand kids like really? wtf millennials we don’t believe this garbage we got screwed by the world and system in place and you want to spread this crappy ideas, gen z is out of control and is the end of the western way of life
What a strange and odd comment. So you’re advocating for women to suffer entrapment & remain in unhappy & abusive marriages? You think telling women not to have an education so she can support herself is the answer to “keeping families in tact” ? Wow. What a great plan. Let’s trap women & remove their ability to live independently … and ensure we get great grandchildren. Your logic is deeply, concerningly flawed. This isn’t 1950 where women are forced to live in subservience. PS- we would rather be happy with our animals than suffer under the tyranny of an abusive man. So your attempt to insult is really just a very poor reflection of you.