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My dad accused my mom of this but my dad had been physically abusive to me. His reality was not accurate. Divorce is terrible

I'd not rely too much on diagnosis of AP. They can pass the Mmpi with flying colors and go undetected, especially if the forensic evaluator doesn't feel like they are being paid enough for their work.

I have tried to commit suicide over this .......I can't even talk about it anymore

I’m watching my son, targeted parent attempting reunification. He has teenagers. Don’t know how competent counselor is. Grandparent alienation is hell as well. Same alienation symptoms. So evil in nature.

Insidious under recognized form of child emotional abuse with devastating life long consequences if it's not promptly discovered assessed diagnosed and treated. Thank you for your valuable time, expertise, and collaboration

What happens when these crazy alienators beat the forensic "doctors?"

Thank You for an unusual and important video. Being an amateur in psychology, psychiatry etc, I still have a feeling that the prevalence of borderline PD (in the Cluster B sense) is underestimated in most, if not all, countries. These people rarely go to the doctor to find out what's wrong with them as they seem to believe that all their problems actually are due to other people's problems/behaviors & actions etc. The neuroscience aspect (down to cells and their complex intercommunication, including epigenetic mechanisms), as an integrated part and perhaps cause of the behaviors also seems worthy more attention. Too sad that Dr. Miller no longer is around - he would have been a valuable asset in the development of the understanding of this field.

"Give me a child till the age of 7 and I will show you the man." Aristotle Now apply that to what divorce courts did to fathers, and subsequently their children, for the past 50 years.

"climate change deniers"?... no matter how much science you present, they won't change their minds? Ummm, do you mean the data of temperature reading stations that have been proven to be tampered with to fabricate the data? That "science"? That's fraud... not science. Environmentalism has become a religion to many and is not a science... or not an objective science that adheres to laws and principles that have historically been used to define "science". To ignore data like ... from the Sun (the largest heat producing object within a million miles) reaks of cognitive dissonance and pseudo-science. There is no objective or rational thought from the climate change crowd. They just repeat fraudulent and false data over and over until their minions repeat the lie as well. Then they attack opponents to misalign their character with adhominem attacks and other unscrupulous tactics. The emperor has no clothes with "global warming". The climate changes with seasons and Solar Storms. These same types of people ignore the data and science that the common flu disappeared statistically and covid numbers appeared ever so strangely in almost the same numerical proportions as the common flu disappeared. If it doesn't fit their religious and political agenda, they ignore it , but still claim it's good science. Rubbish. There's very good reason people don't believe the lies from the "experts"... because it doesn't add up. Use the brain that God gave you. Otherwise, I have some beach front property in the Sahara desert to sell you.

Science is ever evolving, then that big angry ball in the sky hits so hard you got 3 days to write your thesis, antithesis and hypothesis in stone so the survivors might find it in a couple thousand years. Follow the money. Youll get there faster. Big parmasian cheese and big PASG minus the PS. I also suggest growing a pair and hitting back, because all theyre gonna do is call a truce, youre gonna agree, the whole ishtshow then starts over where they left off.

How many times do i have to hear John's story before society does something about the Agents of Chaos? They will forever be perpetual victims. 105 years. One Hundred and Five Years.

Family Court assisted murder

Im fine that my daughter is a covert narcissist that blames me for everything. I'm done with the blame game. Said goodbye finally, done with it.

It's easy to accuse a parent of alienation - it's a smear.

This video is confusing...too many short clips without context or enough time to understand the issue before jumping to another specialist. This seems very biased toward parents, not the child who disassociates from a parent. Poorly done!

Forensic Science is not based on true mental health evaluation. They may be trained for court stuff, but should not be involved in parental alienation cases. It needs to be given to professional mental health people. Forensic Science becomes a part of the child abuse and spousal abuse. They are not trained mental health professionals.

Thank you so much for this video. It helped me beyond words. I was at an all time low with being the targeted parent. I felt as if the whole world saw me the way he made my daughters see me. I social isolated myself & stoped living. I walked through motions of life but not living life’s almost 4 yrs I think I was completely numb I didn’t feel anything but shame. I battle this daily. A lot times it’s 24/7 my mind rarely stops thinking of the whole mess. What it does to the children is beyond heart breaking. With me I hurt for them. I feel their pain I would do anything to take it away and place it on myself. Then as a targeted parent I’m feeling my own pain, hurt mentally exhausted m. The targeted parent carries a lot but the child whom is affected I cannot begin to imagine how their mind is and what they are thinking. My daughter now 28 is having such difficulty she still not accepting the PA she will say it’s always about yall you talk about him he outs you down, etc. I don’t say anything at all about him I suggest reading and videos . I want them to see for theirselves. My other daughter is 21 been alienated almost 6 yrs no contact. Right now my oldest daughter is in a mental rehab for 35 days because all things coming to a head and I believe she will realize a lot and begin questioning alot now. She’s so amazingly strong. In this video you described the ways, actions and words exactly as my daughter used them. The horrible words, actions she done you described a lot of. She said alone and did a lot worse. She has actually begged me twice to kill myself. I’m just now learning that what I thought was hate by her actually wasn’t. Since she was 7 real bad since she was 22 I thought was hate I knew he was turning her against me started when she 7. I’ve thought without doubt since she was 12 she hated me hated the sight of me. I’m so thankful that I’ve now learned it wasn’t at least I hope. I’ve learned that through educating my self and support groups. Bless your work and blessings you for helping keep shining the light making a way for these precious children.

There might be a very good reason that one parent is alienated. That parent might be abusive. It seems that mothers are often the ones who think the fathers are abusive, and those fathers counter with an accusation of alienation. I've read this is the common way things happen in family courts, and about 70% of the time, the fathers are favored. I know of a specific incident where a mother's warnings about the father were ignored and the judge, in his almighty wisdom ordered the little girl to spend time alone with her father. the father murdered her. This is a recent case - the little girl's name was Ellie Obi Lorenzo. Look it up.

Grandparents as well

Thank you!! Very helpful video.

So what is the roadblock with you restoring a good relationship with your Dad who was alienated by your mom.

Tell that to social services and judges.

You didn't deserve that. Thank you for sharing your experience and strength

Were you alienated from Dad or Mum?

You have no idea how your are Guardian Angel like on earth for so many parent alienation used and abused children out there. You should see all the parent and child parental alienation support groups out there on social media! No person of public trust / manditory reporter like a school teacher, pediatric care professional, civil family law attorney or even judge well help them escape the parental alienation for profit child custody chaos for cash for all involved.

This video was so validating. It’s been almost 2 years since I’ve seen or spoken to my daughter and every day I’m on the verge of tears. The pain is indescribable. People always say ‘oh don’t worry, she’ll come back’ and it’s infuriating because there’s no guarantee that she will be back. But hearing these experts gives me hope and I feel way less alone. Thank you.

Great info from this man. BTW, as a non-blood parent involved in a defacto parentage case vs the bio-mom (suffering from extreme menta health crisis and substance abuse) the alienation argument along with a host of other elements essential to win our rights to see the child again as we once had, will be strong and potent. Anytime a 'wholly compromised' mother says in court that suddenly the child in question is scared or doesn't want to see the people caring for him since infancy, while bio-mom herself has created all the chaos and fear events for everyone is someone admitting to coercion of a child. I truly do not see any problem with alienation when its proved overtly. If a judge fails to recognize it as evident and valid in a case then perhaps that judge should educate herself/himself in this aspect of toxic parenting. To those men and women suffering custody or defacto cases, I stand and support your efforts to win rights in order to save and protect the child's best interests to have a successful life. Peace and love and prayers to the judges especially who must rule on these awful matters. A'ho.

4 years ago this was submitted ask yourself has anyuthing changed, in 2024

Mothers especially who are protected in family court of keeping children away from family members who give selflessly to the child, are criminals. Period. As one of these specialists said’it’s assault.’

UCC researcher!!! The likes of this PA idiologist needs to be exposed.

No doubt a fan of Gardner, Jordan, Woodall, Long and the horrors that hide behind the 'in camera' rule.

Disgusting. The likes of this archaic 'denier' upholding the PA concept.

3:06 courts are intentionally corrupt and filled with perjury with no consequences! and police don't enforce and assist for visitation. Divide and conquer is the government agenda. Step #1 - Need to end Title IV-D incentives for government workers.

This lady we can tell how much she manifested herself, very intelligent woman with critical thinking wish we had more of her in our children’s lives

Coercive control? Thats one way to put it, but realize its done without the alienated parents AND the courts knowledge. Sunlight is the best disinfectant. I call it brainwashing.

I have been researching for years to find hope for the situation that I have been put in with my children. Since divorcing my ex-husband in 2018, my children have been completely alienated from me. My son is now 21 and he told me the other day that his dad’s girlfriend (this is his dad’s 4th girlfriend in six years, that my ex has introduced to my children. And the ironic part is that they all look like me) has been more of a mother to him in the past two years than I have in his entire life. It’s beyond painful. Sometimes I look at photos of my kids and I wonder if it was all a dream. The pain is indescribable…

Yes. Finally one police person who calls out the terrorists who violate children's human rights for money and power - divorce judges. lawyers and police.

As the child in this situation, the confabulation comes from my mother. She will turn around and straight up deny that she said something when I have her text in my phone saying it to me and she will go change her number just to say it wasn't her. She has had more cell phone numbers than I have had tooth brushes. She goes through them every few months because she makes some ridiculously bad statement in writing and then to "get rid" of her paper trail, she sells her old phone, buys a new one, and changes her number as if it deletes the texts received by other people. I don't think you should automatically assume confabulation on the child's part because in my situation, I have external evidence, physical proof, and recordings of what my mother has said and done and she will watch it and then try to claim it's a misinterpretation of what's happening in the recording. The problem with your clients might be that the parents are the ones confabulating and you're just believing the parent's narrative over the children because you don't want to accept the idea that a parent could harm their child in that way. I regret to inform you that there are monsters out there that will do unspeakable things to their children and you have to stop assuming children lie about the horrible things their parents do to them.

and yet the law still allows this to happen

Thanks for making this video Petra

Wilhelm Reich wrote 3-4 lines about the motive in his 1945 version of "Character Analysis". Here is from the next edition (1949, page 521): ""The welfare of the child is always a spurious, and as the results show, unfulfilled motive. The real motive is to wreak revenge on the partner by depriving him or her of the pleasure of the child. Hence, in the fight for the child, one partner resorts to defamation of the other, whether he or she is healthy or sick. The absence of any consideration for the child is brought out by the fact that his love for the other parent is not taken into account. As means of alienating the child from one or the other parent, he is told that his mother or his father is an alcoholic or is mentally ill, a statement which usually does not correspond to the facts of the case. The result is that the child is the one who suffers most; the motive is revenge on the partner and domination of the child. Genuine love for the child is not an issue.""

After listening to this I can’t believe there is a consistent science to this abuse; I got the 8 behavioural manifestations. All. And had my own terms to explain it but wow. 😢

Excellent video. It's a must-see for legal and mental health professionals besides alienated parents and grandparents. Dr. Kathleen Reay, Founder and Director of the Family Reflections Reunification Program Inc.

Thank you for presenting such an important issue, Catherine. Warm regards, Dr. Kathleen Reay

What makes it alienation is that the courts are part of the problem.

I know my daughter is suffering mentally but her dad changed her doctor without telling me and we have 50 custody but do to his family in law enforcement and attorney and nothing I've done will help. She will suffer and it's his fault

I've been a targeted parent at this point my daughter doesn't know why she doesn't want to see me because extended family and their dad is feeding them lies. I've tried 3 times to kill myself because of this and the CPTSD. What can I do? Please🎉🎉🎉 please tell me what to do.

Law enforcement role: making money for lawyers, social services, judges, psychologists and the whole corrupted Circus around It. Abuse the dad or mom alienated, try to make them separate from their kids and make them so desperate that they take their lives. Etc. Put them in prison. Fake reports. What else...oh just talking from personal experience in hell separation in lovely Sweden. 🤮

Lost my two kids 7 years ago in Sweden. False complaints and the mafia of solna family courts