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Self Diagnosing | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
In this video, we discuss what self diagnosing is, the good and bad ways to go about it, and why it can be dangerous.
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND, THIS VIDEO IS BASED ON OPINION, RESEARCH, AND EXPERIENCE, AND WE ARE NOT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS. We know this is a touchy subject and if you disagree with what we've stated or would like to add anything, feel free to comment, but keep it respectful. Thank you.
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Birthday Blues and Anxiety | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 1663 ปีที่แล้ว
Birthday blues and anxiety are more common and complex than you might think. In this video, Kai delves into some of their birthday anxieties. Please like and subscribe for more content in the future, and comment ideas for what you'd like to see. Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and_co_27?s=11 Our TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/Z...
Baking Brownies And An Update! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 1353 ปีที่แล้ว
Bake coffee brownies with Kai! Coffee Brownie Recipe: walkingonsunshinerecipes.com/coffee-and-brownies/ Music: Mornings Musician: Jeff Kaale Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and_co_27?s=11 Our TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZMJnjpqsv/ Our Facebook: kai.reese.714 Order Our Book: www.amazon.com/Broken-Little-Thoughts-...
Types of Alters (Pt.3) | STORYTIME! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 3923 ปีที่แล้ว
Thank you for watching Part 3 of our Types of Alters series where we discuss internal helpers, work alters, and nocturnal alters. Please like, comment, and subscribe if you enjoyed and want to see more in the future! Also, sorry about the sunlight reflection on the flag in the background...we didn't realize that was happening until editing. :/ Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_an...
MEET THE ALTERS! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 1.9K3 ปีที่แล้ว
We have Dissociative Identity Disorder - a dissociative, trauma-based disorder characterized by distinct, separate personality states, also referred to as alters. Meet 4 of those alters in our system! Thank you for watching! Please like if you enjoyed and subscribe for more videos like this in the future. Also feel free to leave a comment telling us what you'd like to see on our channel or givi...
Trying Asian Foods!
มุมมอง 1903 ปีที่แล้ว
We try a variety of Asian foods with our cousin, Charlie. :) Thank you for watching! Please like, subscribe, share, and comment what you'd like us to try next. Order Our Book: www.amazon.com/Broken-Little-Thoughts-Kylee-Reese/dp/1521182779/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and...
Types of Trauma Responses | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 5963 ปีที่แล้ว
In this video we discuss the well-known 'fight or flight', and the lesser known other types of trauma/stress responses. If you learned something new or enjoyed the video, please like, comment, share, and subscribe for more content in the future! Our Sources: - www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-4690778/Researchers-reveal-SIX-responses-stress.html - www.thecut.com/2017/07/when-stress-makes-...
Trying British Foods!
มุมมอง 19K3 ปีที่แล้ว
We try a variety of British foods with our cousin, Charlie. :) Thank you for watching! Please like, subscribe, share, and comment what you'd like us to try next. Where We Got the Food: britishfooddepot.com/ Order Our Book: www.amazon.com/Broken-Little-Thoughts-Kylee-Reese/dp/1521182779/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid...
OUR PUBLISHED BOOK!
มุมมอง 1173 ปีที่แล้ว
Did you know we have a published book of 400 poems? Order it here: www.amazon.com/Broken-Little-Thoughts-Kylee-Reese/dp/1521182779/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and_co_27?s=11 Our TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZMJnjpqsv/ Our Facebook: kai.reese.714
2020 Reflection
มุมมอง 823 ปีที่แล้ว
A quick, little impromptu video I was inspire to make today discussing 2020 and New Year's resolutions. Comment what you'd like to see on this channel in 2021! :) Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and_co_27?s=11 Our TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZMJnjpqsv/ Our Facebook: kai.reese.714
Fall City ~ November 9, 2020
มุมมอง 753 ปีที่แล้ว
Just a little aesthetic vlog-type video of a mini adventure we had with our cousin, Charlie. She filmed and edited it, so big thanks to her and her talent! Songs Used: - Vas by Jagger Finn - All Mine by Jagger Finn Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and_co_27?s=11 Our TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZMJnjpqsv/ Our Facebook: faceboo...
Polyfragmentation | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 1.7K3 ปีที่แล้ว
Thank you so much for watching this video! Please don't forget to like, subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss out on any future videos. If you notice any errors, have anything to add to what was said in the video, or just have something to say in general, please feel free to comment below or DM us on instagram! Lots of love! Resources: Informational Website: traumadissociati...
What is Self Care?
มุมมอง 923 ปีที่แล้ว
Hello, everyone! It's been a while, and we are very sorry about that. We moved across the country and then were dealing with personal things and getting settled. Since this video was filmed, Hattie (a fictive/persecutor), Rosie (trauma holder), and Kai (host) integrated, as well as two littles, and a fragment and protector. Our 'alter count' is now 31. As stated in this video, we are doing okay...
Dreams
มุมมอง 1904 ปีที่แล้ว
Thank you all so much for watching this video! If you enjoyed, please like and subscribe. Feel free to comment below any feedback or suggestions you might have! Links to Our Research: - nobaproject.com/modules/dissociative-disorders#content - www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-science-behind-dreaming/ - www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dreaming-in-the-digital-age/201712/the-science-dreaming-...
Cottagecore Goodwill Haul
มุมมอง 4104 ปีที่แล้ว
Thank you for watching this highly requested video, everyone! We hope you enjoyed. If you did, please give it a thumbs-up and subscribe for more videos in the future! Comment below any video ideas you have or any feedback. Have a fantastic day! :) Find Us Online: Our Instagram: kai_and_co_27?igshid=1p7ktfajvx65x Our Twitter: kai_and_co_27?s=11 Our TikTok: vm.tiktok.com...
Our Notebook Collection
มุมมอง 1794 ปีที่แล้ว
Our Notebook Collection
Kai's Wisdom Tooth Removal
มุมมอง 1684 ปีที่แล้ว
Kai's Wisdom Tooth Removal
Spoken Word - "You Are Not a Number"
มุมมอง 1374 ปีที่แล้ว
Spoken Word - "You Are Not a Number"
Types of Trauma | Dissociation caught on camera! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 7K4 ปีที่แล้ว
Types of Trauma | Dissociation caught on camera! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
Types of Alters (Pt.2) | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 3614 ปีที่แล้ว
Types of Alters (Pt.2) | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
Types of Alters (Pt.1) | Dissociation caught on camera! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
มุมมอง 7004 ปีที่แล้ว
Types of Alters (Pt.1) | Dissociation caught on camera! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | Kai&Co
Vlog #1 (ft. Kyleigh Laikan)
มุมมอง 2694 ปีที่แล้ว
Vlog #1 (ft. Kyleigh Laikan)
Welcome to Our Channel! - Introduction
มุมมอง 6424 ปีที่แล้ว
Welcome to Our Channel! - Introduction

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  • @muslimwarrior9891
    @muslimwarrior9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The people here in the comments have went thru *veryyyyy* bad stuff

  • @Sarah-ts1jh
    @Sarah-ts1jh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pleased to meet all of you! all the best on your DID journey ❤

  • @anonymousprivate6814
    @anonymousprivate6814 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good video. I am late diagnosed autistic with previous diagnosis of BPD and Major Depression and Mood Disorder. I have recently been diagnosed with CPTSD. I suspect I may also have some kind of dissociative disorder but am taking my time exploring and careful of what content I view and like to look at the latest science on the subject and listen to people like yourself and professionals in the field. I am aware of overlap of conditions and misdiagnosis. Interestingly there is a history of both autism and mental health conditions on both sides of my family. I am planning on seeking professional evaluation when I have done more research and am in a position to do so.

  • @anonymousprivate6814
    @anonymousprivate6814 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was really helpful. I am late diagnosed autistic and recently diagnosed CPTSD. I experience a lot of dissociation symptoms and am educating myself about various types of dissociation disorders. I previously had BPD diagnosis which never felt right.

  • @nathanbernards
    @nathanbernards 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This help us alot, very validating. Thank you❤

  • @inappropriatebible
    @inappropriatebible 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate to say this because it is a yet another depressive thing that you know people say they hate to say it but it's like maybe you're going through what I go through and sometimes I feel bummed out because it feels like somebody else achieved whatever milestones I achieved and I don't really get to be there for them someone else does and so it's like someone else did that someone else rode the bike someone else did this someone else did that it's like f****** who cares anymore

  • @inappropriatebible
    @inappropriatebible 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy belated birthday! I found out that I have something like what's going on with you. Sometimes I feel like all of these people that I have neural networks of are just all the people who stood around with their fingers up their ass and never helped me when I was a child and that I somehow thought that they were better than the abuser that maybe they would have saved me but in reality they're part of the army and the neighbors that left me there. So whenever I don't channel one of their voices and I have an off-key voice I know it's just me and I'm not channeling and then I'm loving my voice more than anything because listen to the people in Hollywood they are certainly channeling. And as we know there's a horrible history to how they do it and so I think having an off key voice means you're not a piece of s***

  • @Schneesonne1988
    @Schneesonne1988 ปีที่แล้ว

    maybe a bad question (and it may be that my English skills are not the same while I am/ we are writing bc our main language in our system isn't English): How did you count these numbers? Did you write down all those names/ description names with sometimes just the age? Is there someone in the system who keeps track of everyone on the inside? Bc ... we tend to go like "oh, a new name? Is it a new alter? Okay ... next topic please" and there was a time in therapy, where we should write down every hour "who is there" and sometimes there were names the front team didn't knew - and sometimes those new names came in pairs or more ... but as long as I know we are currently with the known number in the 50s ... but I myself am not able to enter the inner world for the most part, just some tiny spots on one island ... so there may be more alters in the inner world ...

  • @misunderstoodpersons7975
    @misunderstoodpersons7975 ปีที่แล้ว

    <3!

  • @djgrant8761
    @djgrant8761 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vegemite’s from Australia. It is disgusting. Yuck!

  • @subzerowashere6920
    @subzerowashere6920 ปีที่แล้ว

    No dont self diagnose.

    • @Flyingsearat
      @Flyingsearat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some people might not be able to get diagnosed though , for example im a minor so there is a rare chance of me getting diagnosed . And in some countries they might not be able to afford it

  • @makennamilem8978
    @makennamilem8978 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are very late to this but we are planning to get tested when we are older because we are a minor and this was very helpful thank you so much!

  • @traciemann485
    @traciemann485 ปีที่แล้ว

    We actually have 3600 alters

  • @piotrra8811
    @piotrra8811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    is there any chance to meet you ?

  • @piotrra8811
    @piotrra8811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this girl on the left side you are the most beautiful and wonderful being that exists the stars gave your eyes all the glow

  • @piotrra8811
    @piotrra8811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Kai&Co I want ask you do you maybe be in Poland or you know somebody from Poland ?

  • @timmartin2894
    @timmartin2894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dandelion and Burdock is apparently similar to what Americans call root beer, although I've never tried American root beer so I can't compare. Dr Pepper also initially tried to get the recipe from Dandelion and Burdock to produce its own variation. I love it!

  • @timmartin2894
    @timmartin2894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    red fruit flavoured lol - talk about being vague

  • @terencecarroll1812
    @terencecarroll1812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Burdock is a root from the liquorice family

  • @terencecarroll1812
    @terencecarroll1812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd love to know what you're eating for a sherbert lemon to taste like tyres. They are lemon and sugar with citric acid

  • @terencecarroll1812
    @terencecarroll1812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The UK has very strict food regulations so we use more natural flavours, colours and preservatives and far less sugar 😀

  • @DaveBartlett
    @DaveBartlett 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you were checking out Tizer online, I suspect you read past one article and into another, when you came out with "it's the best selling soft drink in Scotland" because Tizer, though popular throughout the UK, certainly isn't the most popular soft drink in Scotland: that title is indisputedly held by "Barrs Irn Bru".

  • @monarch_apostate
    @monarch_apostate 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We're polyfrag and a sra survivor (I as an alter prefer the term 'systematic ritual abuse' to 'S*tanic ritual abuse' due too stigma and accuracy to how it actually is vs the sensationalized view of how it works) but thank you for acknowledging our experinces, we just subbed 😊

  • @noxdinosovereign9845
    @noxdinosovereign9845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can u exsplain fushion a bit more

    • @noxdinosovereign9845
      @noxdinosovereign9845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also would it be classified as a self diagnosis of pollyfragmented did if I was diagnosed with complex mpd when I was younger?

  • @noxdinosovereign9845
    @noxdinosovereign9845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got diagnosed with complex mpd when I was younger im now doing research properly I refused to belve my diagnosis for years and now I'm doing some research on this disoder and this really help so much Alos is there a way to help thes alters to develop interests ?? Like if we descover a new alter if the front more would they Beable to develop and can you speak about from splitipliting from hormones which is a positive thing right dose that mean you can split from over positive emotions anyway this was super helpful thank you

  • @GaryUnFiltered
    @GaryUnFiltered 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    People shouldn't be self diagnosing. It can be very harmful even if you have your own degree.

    • @TheGreenSystem
      @TheGreenSystem ปีที่แล้ว

      It's completely fine aslong as you've done intensive research and are certain you have it. Ik some toxic people in the autism community say it's bad and I used to believe them but I learned it's not and sometimes people litterally can't get the diagnosis due to medical bills

  • @ido8071
    @ido8071 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have to bite the head off of the jelly babies and eat it first before you eat the rest. Jaffa Cakes are round and flat like a flying saucer you can get other flavours as well now. Dandelion and Burdock wine is nice. you are not allowed to grow blackcurrants in the USA.

  • @dundeeguy
    @dundeeguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy shitballs ribena straight shots 😂

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      we didnt know to dilute it 😂

  • @Crow_crossbow
    @Crow_crossbow 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so cool

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤️

  • @davebirch1976
    @davebirch1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You've never had anyrhing English??? So you've never had skittles, kitkats, starburst? ..... Shall I continue with the list 😂

  • @himawari_system6888
    @himawari_system6888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello!!! Im Oliver the host of our system and i was wondering if we could be able to exchange discords because we do not have instagram or a way to make one atm and we woudl really love to talk and be friends possibly!!

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately we don't have discord 😕 We do also have twitter and facebook though, if you want to contact us that way!

  • @stevebeardsmore3303
    @stevebeardsmore3303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Before Coke and Pepsi were available in the UK Vimto and Tizer dominated the softy drink market. Lucozade on the other hand was considered a drink if you did not feel well and was available at the pharmacy not general stores. .

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, thank you for the information!

  • @stevebeardsmore3303
    @stevebeardsmore3303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The custard creams are best dunked in tea or coffee.

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So I've heard! Thank you :)

  • @another_one2852
    @another_one2852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also, thank you for posting this. Sending hugs

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @another_one2852
    @another_one2852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Having things thrown at you” I remember asking “it’s normal right?” And my fitness all said “no, that’s abuse” and my heart just sank… I thought it was just idk a part of life I guess… he almost punched me in the face, barely stopped himself. I felt it, and I think that’s when it finally sunk in…. I thought it was just rape and other sexual abuse, I thought maybe it was just emotional or financial… it didn’t realize it was physical too. It’s been tough carrying this realization. Just know, anyone who reads this, it’s not your fault and you’re far more valuable and lovable than you or someone you know may realize. You will get through; you are strong. And you will be okay ❤️

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry you've experienced those things. You're so very strong and I hope you never go through that again. I also hope you've been able to find some healing. We are sending lots of love your way ❤️

  • @belindakennedy5828
    @belindakennedy5828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Drunk on Suger😂

  • @ElizabethDebbie24
    @ElizabethDebbie24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    VEGEMITE IS AUSTRALIAN MARMITE IS BRITISH

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, thank you for the information.

  • @stuartmorrison690
    @stuartmorrison690 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    irn bru is the most popular soft drink in scotland

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's really neat!

  • @emzz2263
    @emzz2263 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How come theres always s british one?

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not sure what you mean.

    • @MommaMeow23
      @MommaMeow23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We have one.Her name is Emily ❤

    • @emzz2263
      @emzz2263 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MommaMeow23 Tacky.

  • @krystalharwood6359
    @krystalharwood6359 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She looks like Harry Potter!

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who?

    • @krystalharwood6359
      @krystalharwood6359 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kaico9585 dont tell me you never heard of harry potter. the famous wizard from the children's book series by JK Rowling

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No haha we love harry potter. I was just asking if you meant us in general or one of us specifically.

  • @guitaroffthecuff-davids5528
    @guitaroffthecuff-davids5528 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you and God bless you.

  • @davidrogerson3228
    @davidrogerson3228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur supposed to dunk custard creams in tea

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the information!

  • @chrisfoster6455
    @chrisfoster6455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sensible advice, thank you.

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course. Thank you for your comment ❤️

  • @tiredhero
    @tiredhero 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i really think your hair is cool

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @raquelpurpleboxes
    @raquelpurpleboxes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    National center for analysis of violent crime ❤️ I wanted to work there too, but couldn't also because of my mental illness.

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah! It's really frustrating but ultimately for the better good. Having a lapse in judgement on the field could cause a lot of harm. People like us are needed elsewhere ❤️

  • @smileonlegs1
    @smileonlegs1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this really helped me. Do you know why you do that with your hands while dissociating?

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      To be honest I didn't really notice I did it until you pointed it out, but it is to help with grounding! The sensation of squeezing and shaking is great for grounding. If you have a partner/friend you can do hand squeezing with them as a grounding technique. Thanks for asking! Great question.

  • @SRSMYTH1
    @SRSMYTH1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shandy is simply beer with added lemonade, can be either Bitter or lager. Also, as a Brit. I totally agree on the pickled onions, just the smell is enough to make you gag.

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the info! Yeah, it was nasty 🥴

  • @seanhickling7340
    @seanhickling7340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    At last, a US reaction video where the participants actually read the ingredients! Kudos.

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha thanks

  • @Jamie_D
    @Jamie_D 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alcohol laws are much more relaxed here in the UK, for England and i guess most of if not all of the UK it's 18 to buy alcohol in shops and at clubs and pubs etc as well as to drink in premises such as pubs and clubs, with an exception that if you're 16 or 17 an adult can buy you a beer, glass of wine or a cider as long as it's with a cooked meal. But the most crazy thing is that if you're at home, or any other private premises you can drink from the age of 5 years old, but it's obviously not encouraged or advised, but it does mean for example that it would be perfectly legal for Charlie or Charley (not sure how she spells it) to drink alcohol at home or yours/parents or whatever if living here :)

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, America is very strict about smoking and drinking laws!

  • @Jamie_D
    @Jamie_D 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks like your chocolate bars (candy bars) were kept too cool, especially the Lion bar

    • @kaico9585
      @kaico9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They were cold, yeah.

    • @Jamie_D
      @Jamie_D 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kaico9585 thought so that's the problem, most chocolate isn't great when cold, room temperature is great and sometimes we even stick some in the microwave for a few seconds, just to make the centre gooey :)