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Religious and cult ideologies often use the practice of shunning to silence their critics and to control their members through fear. This podcast sheds light on this practice through real life stories as told by the people that have lived through it. Learn what their lives were like and where they have ended up in life after shunning. Featuring stories from Jehovah's Witnesses, Scientology, Amish, Mennonite, FLDS, the Moonies, and more, you will learn about the real lives of former members that have been shunned.
193 - Sam Survives Jehovah's Witnesses With Only Moments To Spare
Treated terribly by those that were supposed to protect and love her, Sam looked to things like baptism and being "The Bible Girl" at school to escape into serving a god that she was also seeking love from. She tried desperately, even seeing herself as "Jephthah's daughter", trying to dedicate herself to Jehovah, nearly meeting a similar fate. Ultimately the congregation would take away everything that she wanted and leave her searching for identity in a marriage that mirrored the rest of the abuse that she had suffered at the hands of others that claimed to love her as well. In a desperately haunting moment she faced the end of everything, not knowing that it would work out a new beginning for her, one that she has seized as she has fought for survival.
Are you struggling in some area of life? Feeling stuck? Struggling with perfectionism, building a social network, codependency, or feeling like you're not enough? Need an accountability partner or some encouragement? Need to talk to someone that understands cult life? Reach out and let’s talk. I have affordable programs to help as a Cult Recovery Coach. I work with many ex-JWs, along with ex-other groups, and your average person that has never been in a cult that wants better things in their life. Find out more here:
storyworkscoaching.com
I also have an ExJW specific site here:
exjwhelp.com
Please consider supporting the show's Patreon if you appreciate the time that goes into producing these stories, and get yourself some exclusive bonuses, at:
www.patreon.com/shunned
Show notes and information on how to be a guest or find other resources for the podcast can be found here:
shunnedpodcast.com/episodes/
Read my free online book, based on my original podcast This JW Life (still available on podcast apps), called Becoming Jehovah (in English and Spanish) at:
becomingjehovah.com/
An ExJW podcast and an ExJW TH-cam channel
#exjw #jehovahswitnesses #cult
Are you struggling in some area of life? Feeling stuck? Struggling with perfectionism, building a social network, codependency, or feeling like you're not enough? Need an accountability partner or some encouragement? Need to talk to someone that understands cult life? Reach out and let’s talk. I have affordable programs to help as a Cult Recovery Coach. I work with many ex-JWs, along with ex-other groups, and your average person that has never been in a cult that wants better things in their life. Find out more here:
storyworkscoaching.com
I also have an ExJW specific site here:
exjwhelp.com
Please consider supporting the show's Patreon if you appreciate the time that goes into producing these stories, and get yourself some exclusive bonuses, at:
www.patreon.com/shunned
Show notes and information on how to be a guest or find other resources for the podcast can be found here:
shunnedpodcast.com/episodes/
Read my free online book, based on my original podcast This JW Life (still available on podcast apps), called Becoming Jehovah (in English and Spanish) at:
becomingjehovah.com/
An ExJW podcast and an ExJW TH-cam channel
#exjw #jehovahswitnesses #cult
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192 - Unconventional Convention Activism - Dino's DIY Activism - Anyone Can Do This
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Dino, a Shunned Podcast veteran, came up with an idea to reach out to convention locations for Jehovah's Witnesses to challenge their messaging that is featured, at times, even on the campuses of institutions that they condemn. You will learn who to contact and we're even including a downloadable sample letter/email that you can use directly. This is something that anyone can do from the comfor...
191 - ExJWs Helping ExJWs - ExJwHelp Day 2024 & Garden of the Gods, Rim Rock, Cave In Rock Illinois
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Thank you to all of the wonderful people that donated this year for our "day" of giving. Because so much is received, it takes more than a day, but we were able to do the following in September and October 2024. An accounting is below, and mirrored in the video: Amount Raised - $1525 plus $10 for $1535, explained in video (Thank you soooo much to all of you that gave generously!) Accounting: $4...
190 - Stalked by Elders - Running away from Jehovah's Witnesses
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Imagine feeling that you have to run away from your family, leaving them physically, so that you can hope to continue to have them in your life through the bond of a cult. For Jodi, this was a reality. She knew that if she stayed where she lived and with the person that she was falling in love with, a person that was not one of Jehovah's Witnesses, it could cost her relationship with her family...
189 - But I'm The Good One - An ExJW Attorney Tells Her Story - Jehovah's Witnesses Shun Kenesha
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Young Kenesha knew from the time that she was a teacher's pet in school that she wanted to be "the good one". Growing up in a life that she hated as one of Jehovah's Witnesses, Kenesha continued trying to be "the good one", but somehow found herself in situations where she was being backed into corners by people seeking to punish her, both at home and in the cult. Over and over again she would ...
188 - An Autistic Bipolar ADHD ExJW Comedian Tells His Story - Shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
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Today we meet Mikey, aka Mikey J Havoc on the comedy stage, a stage that is very new for him in his life as he explores his past as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. In this episode we explore that past together, from the "divided household" that he grew up in, to growing up having to mask not only the fact that he didn't believe, but also masking his autism while in the Kingdom Hall. Despite his obs...
Oops! Rolled up on Jehovah's Witnesses with my ExJW Cart and disrupted their preaching.
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For a playlist of other cart encounters and to learn how to start your own cart, go to this link: th-cam.com/play/PL22RVnuOCWvC9qymdIediQ2DQx-s0fliQ.html&si=PnPT3Myo22v-8Swl Please subscribe to follow the journey, and like these videos to help expose the cult even more. These projects all have real costs attached to them. Parking, tolls, gas, cameras, equipment, carts, and so much more time tha...
187 - The Strength To Take A Stand - Kelsi is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
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When Kelsi was a young girl growing up in the cult of Jehovah's Witnesses, her head was filled with fears of great tribulations and doomsday scenarios. As most faithful Jehovah's Witnesses would, her mom let her know that there would be no compromise, and that if push came to shove, she would choose her faith over her children. As she grew into her own person, Kelsi would realize that she would...
186 - I Did Something Good - Megan is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses
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After a life growing up in the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses, where she thought she was going to do something good but only found pain, Megan made changes. Today she may be shunned by a group that holds women down, but she has done something good with her life and wishes to inspire women to see the good that they can do too. Earlier this year she was recognized by Women’s Magazine as one of 70 Wo...
Would You Like To Help Others? - September 2 is ExJwHelp Day 2024
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To participate by donating to the cause, you can donate here (I will personally match the first $200 dollar for dollar): www.paypal.com/paypalme/shunnedrecovery You can also Venmo to @michael-shemwell-1 (last four digits of phone are 3279 if needed) To learn more about this day and how you can go out and participate on your own visit: exjwhelp.com/exjwhelpday/ #exjw #jehovahswitnesses #exjwhelp
Episode 185 - It's Too Bad, So Wrong, So Long - Jason is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
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Jason describes his life like a cult version of the Nickleback song Too Bad and the accompanying video. The house was a bad day away from being condemned. Home was a place where his parents hated each other. His dad had an affair, got disfellowshipped, and took off. Mom was working at a cafe. Jason had to go fend for himself, and eventually his 15 year old brother was shipped off to stay with h...
Episode 184 - Announcing Becoming Jehovah - A NEW Free ExJW Book
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It all started in 2017 when I first told my story as the podcast This JW Life, the podcast that kicked off everything that has happened since, including this channel. Now, years later, that podcast has been turned into the book Becoming Jehovah, a book that can be read online at becomingjehovah.com/ in both English and Spanish. In this episode I talk about how this came about, the work that wen...
183 - Black Sheep - The Worst Judicial Committee Ever? - NOBODY Should Be Treated Like This
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Shayna was a person that stood up to bullies in school that were hurting other kids, but unfortunately the biggest bullies were the adults in charge of her care in life. A mother that left her with her alcoholic dad and that took the other kids when they split is just a small glimpse into what she was facing at home. But the later judicial committee discussing rape encapsulates why Jehovah's Wi...
182 - Layers Of Shame - Hali is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses
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Hali grew up in the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses, but also in what was thought to be a trap house. One of her first memories, at just 5 years of age, was a SWAT team breaking into her house, taking everyone out, and holding her father at gunpoint to arrest him. So she experienced the shame of being one of Jehovah’s Witnesses and having to be different from other kids at school, but she suffered ...
181 - Trojan Horse ExJW Activism - Engaging Active Jehovah's Witnesses
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I have created a website with a trivia quiz to help reach Jehovah's Witnesses online. The goal of the quiz is to get them sharing, talking, and above all, thinking. Through carefully crafted questions and answers, where even the wrong answer can introduce a person to something that they never knew, my hope is to help people have fun while learning about the very destructive thing that they are ...
180 - How DARE You Make Me Look Bad - Daisy and Jehovah's Witnesses
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180 - How DARE You Make Me Look Bad - Daisy and Jehovah's Witnesses
Takeaways & Tips From My 2024 One Man Protest - Evansville Indiana Convention Of Jehovah's Witnesses
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178 - A Cult Blind To Abuse - Felicity is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses
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178 - A Cult Blind To Abuse - Felicity is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses
Day 3 - A New Type Of Protest At The Evansville Regional Convention Of Jehovah's Witnesses 2024
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Day 2 Protest - Wild Goose Chases, Impenetrable Walls & New Friends - Jehovah's Witnesses Convention
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Day 1 - A New Type Of Protest At The Evansville Regional Convention Of Jehovah's Witnesses 2024
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177 - Hypocrisy - Greg is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
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177 - Hypocrisy - Greg is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
176 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Controlling Your Relationships
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176 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Controlling Your Relationships
175 - An Overseer Found Dead, Secret Memos, CSA Exposed, & A Brave Couple - Meet The 2x2s
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175 - An Overseer Found Dead, Secret Memos, CSA Exposed, & A Brave Couple - Meet The 2x2s
174 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control Part 5 - Patterns, Positivity & Projection
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174 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control Part 5 - Patterns, Positivity & Projection
JW Red Flags #9 - Kentucky Derby 150 - Jehovah's Witnesses Getting Decadent And Depraved
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173 - Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places - Catherine is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses
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173 - Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places - Catherine is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses
172 - How Jehovah’s Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Part 4 - “The Truth” Creates Liars
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172 - How Jehovah’s Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Part 4 - “The Truth” Creates Liars
171 - Child Custody - Waking Up In Court On The Witness Stand - Darrin is shunned
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171 - Child Custody - Waking Up In Court On The Witness Stand - Darrin is shunned
170 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Part 3 - Weaponizing Your Desires
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170 - How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control - Part 3 - Weaponizing Your Desires
Way way way too long man. I appreciate you having a channel but I’ve always felt you talk way too much. We are here to listen to the experiences of other.
This is an awesome conversation! I truly appreciate you sharing your story Sam. My mother is a narcissist so I understand some of what you went thru! I also appreciate protecting your peace. Coming out of a cult that expects you to have no boundaries, being able to choose the people and experiences that you deal with now is an amazing part of freedom! Im so glad that you've got the friends that you care about back as well!! Thats amazing!! There are a bunch of us from all my old Halls that have reconnected. It is so neat to see how they have grown and healed and become who theyve always wanted to be. And it is so cool to have wildly different ideas and beliefs and still be friends and enjoy each other's company!
I feel so bad for you! I appreciate your story! You have scars but are healing. Jesus never acted the way you describe the elders/fellowship. Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, King David, all knew God as a loving caring being, not a judgmental condemning God. Just as I was going to type “ I just want to give you a comforting hug, @32:40 your talk of being forced to hug; I thought, whoa! I need to watch this to the end! As aa grandfather who just left a cult after 51 years, I sure can relate to many of your experiences. Thanks for sharing. I believe your story will help others.❤️💕🤗
27:51 looks a lot like the movie 'Don't Look Up.' In fact, I was thinking that once people were talking about you when they entered the venue, using DRONES carrying banners with messages from ex-JWs would be amusing. It would be funny if that led them to say 'don't look up.' People would remember the movie. Regarding the elders speaking on the radio, I imagine it’s because they might be planning to lead the JWs along a route where you aren't present. Another thing I was thinking about is whether it would be possible to bring people who have studied the JW yearbook to talk about the tactics that the 'false religion' used to try to silence the JW message. If these tactics are similar to those of the JWs following you (perhaps blocking your image from other brothers), it would be an interesting step. Maybe PIMOs could be involved. Of course, it couldn't be public discourse, but small conversations about these two situations.
I was always made to feel by my mother that nothing I ever did was good enough. I spent my whole life letting her meddle and her opinions shape my choices. The only thug that would’ve made her happy was me being a baptized JW.
Oh my gosh... I am so sorry you went through all of this, and you are so brave to leave that dumb cult. The rope breaking is truly a metaphor for you, one in which one part died and you were literally reborn. You deserve this life you're creating, and while it can be lonely, totally worthwhile. Not related to you, but can tell you that I'm proud of you.
Some lessons 1- Personal cards with you pphone number 2- A Big Letter that tarjet wordly peoplee to see you side of history 3-...idk
End disfellowshipping practices and shunning policies in Jehovah witness organizations
It's in the Bible
@@ucanliv4everyou listened to this testimony, and still think that disfellowshipping and shunning are GOOD? The Bible is a horrible book, and you need a moral reset.
Great interview, Sam! Really enjoyed it. You have overcome so much! Yes, during covid you would've been stuck in India. My uber PIMI mom got stuck there and getting home was pretty harrowing.
Enjoyed hearing about your life as a former JW. Glad you have overcome many hurdles you had faced growing up. That 'accent' you spoke of is when some 'self-righteous' JW is talking down to you. My only recourse was to feel sympathy for a person who felt the need to degrade another. No excuse for their arrogance. Don't resent them. Pity them. It will help with your healing.
Sam, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so happy you survived the JW'S. You should be proud of yourself. Keep healing, keep growing and keep learning. ❤
It's amazing how well you come across after all you've been through. Obviously you're carrying deep scars but I'm sure, like me, everyone watching will be wishing/willing the best for you. Well done and all power to you!
here's a kicker... as an MS being expected to become an elder some day, it was emphasized, as a shepherd, elders need to be careful because an elders are accountable for causing others to stumble, or can be blood guilty if a decision (like removing or taking away privileges unjustifiably) causing a brother/sister to fall away from jehova or the organization.
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So impressive, you got a scholarship for your saxophone musicianship! Do you still play?
55:46...it's G for good....W for work on.....for the old format ministry school
Jesus shuns Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you workers of lawlessness!’ Matthew 27:3 You see, Jesus will shun the wicked just like 2 Tim 3:1-5 tells Christians to turn away from the wicked one. 2 Tim 3:5 says to shun the wicked aka turn away. Jesus shuns and Christians should also shun the wicked just like we read at 2 Tim 3:5 Christians must do what the Bible says, not listen to wicked people who don't know what they are doing! Read 2 Tim 3:1-5
I bet nobody in your congregation helped. I would be shocked if they did.
Hell is real.
Such a sweet lady. So sad what happened to her brother. When he needed love and caring.
Putting Jehovah's Witnesses in the same category as other cults really shows the proper context. You lose that perspective when you are down in it.
They don't love you they love control over you. This doesn't even have to be the elders this is even the other publishers too 😮
You don't want to get involved with this cult. They believe you can only get saved by doing good works. Plus they revised the Bible to suit their doctrine. And you're supposed to obey the Governing Body over God because they're "so anointed." This is unbiblical. Their strict teaching is not "the truth." They even control your thoughts by inflicting fear and guilt.
Baptism in the JWs is a complex contract involving a huge enormity of rules and consequences. By law, a contract with a minor is invalid and illegal. Sue 'em! Press charges for child abuse. What they did to you is a crime.
How traumatic for you! They shouldn't be shunning children. Because getting baptized into JWs involves waiving all your rights plus the complex doctrine they shove down people's throats, it means baptism is a contract, and by law, a contract with a minor is invalid. This is grounds for a lawsuit, plus criminal charges for child abuse. Sock it to 'em!
Jesus was begotten, not made. The Father was greater than Him when He was on earth as a flesh and blood human being. Also, the Father was greater than Him while Jesus was on earth. He also says, "The Father and I are one." My King James Version. Not your New World Translation. JWs have their own Bible that the GB revised to suit their doctrine.
As a recipient, I cannot thank you enough for what you do. And this really did make me teary eyed. It's not just the financial gift, but that it disproves the JW lies that "worldly" people are selfish and sinister. I'm so glad it helped others to move forward in their recovery. ❤❤❤
May the Lord bless you be safe and spread love ❤️
I'm Shunned too! 😉
2:50:12 “I don’t know who you are. . . “ that’s why we go through a period of time where we don’t believe in god. We have to grieve the loss of our identity, our community and our relationship with whom we thought was a mighty god. Long process.
1:18 Poor judgment can be expected when people have no experience with social behavior. As teens, we didn’t go wild because we weren’t expected to be perfect. So sorry about your brother and all the people who abandoned him.
Jehovah's Witnesses are the true worshippers of YHWH
Wow great convention
I wasn't brought up Jehovah Witness but I was brought up in a very tight knit non denominational Christian church group. We weren't really allowed to watch t.v. or listen to music if it wasn't Christian in nature. I remember when Amy Grant all of the sudden was on the list of things of what not to watch. So besides the whole thing that it wasn't a Christian cartoon we especially weren't supposed to watch the Smurfs. This was of course because of the fact that there was a sorcerer in the whole mix of the cartoon. So I've never heard this very specific story about Smurfs, but the prevailing thought of Smurfs bad is pervasive into many sectors of these religious groups. I just now found this channel kind of on accident but I was also shunned from my church as a child after my mom decided to "come out" at our church campout. We were promptly asked to leave and I never again saw or talked to any of the only people that I had known growing up after that day. So just know that it's not only Jehovah Witnesses that shun. Lol. Have a good day:)
Most evil cult in the world
What? What happened? 😢
This video is awesome!! You do amazing things for people! Thumbs Up all the time and shared and Much Love to you and Jenny and Mad respect to you. A+++++++
💯💯💯that was a good point they go to prison and preach to killers in jail but shun their own people!
They do nothing to discipline pedophiles, but smoke a cigarette and you're out. I came that close to joining up, but they made me feel so discouraged. I also didn't like the fact that they don't consider Jesus a deity.
Many years ago I heard of gay bethel orgies. Are there any truth to it?
Thanks for the hike! What a beautiful place. Thank you for going to the trouble to do something nice for others. Blessings will come back to you. 🦋🌠
Hope all is still going well for you.
It's always in the back of your head this is very cathartic those books gave us all nightmares.
I hear that same voice in my head.
Similar situation happened to my mother in the mid to the late 60's. Two Witnesses knock on my mother's door engaged her in conversation regarding this system of things and that this world is passing away. This meeting lead to her starting a Bible study using the Truth Book. Eventually she was baptized and brought myself and my three siblings up in the Truth. I was baptized and grew in the Truth, however eventually I was disfellowship for being homosexual. I had went to counseling to change my thoughts I prayed I tried to not have impure thoughts. I was bringing my self to the point of ending my life. I told this all to the Elders they told me that I was not repentive enough and that the only recourse was to disfellowship me. My sister had no contact with my mother had limited contact, I was not allowed to know my nieces and nephews. The guilt this cult pours on you is really impossible to put into words.
JWs are so discouraging. Understatement, though. Don't let mean people turn you away from the one true God. ❤️
Lady you are so brave to leave... congratulations! Having been down a similar path, I can't wait until you reach a point in your discovery of self that not only JW is total baloney, but ALL religions are, and all about control. I couldn't believe some elder picked you up from school, alone, and talked with you in the car.... not happening today! My only advice is "onward, every day".
You have an amazing story. Thank you for sharing the ugly truth about this satanic cult.
The Infancy Gospel of Thomas, a Gospel rejected by the Catholic Church, talks about Jesus as a 6 yo creating sparrows out of mud , Jesus gets roused on for working on the Sabbath, causes his accusers to drop dead the Gospel dates to the 3rd century CE ,there are over 60 different gospels rejected by the Catholic Church at the council of Nicea after 325 CE. The oldest complete gospels date to around 325 CE ..
I noticed the congregation never seemed to help your mom who was in a bad state of health & economy. They couldn’t chip in a few euros? No, they left your mom to the German State aka Babylon. The most happiest people on earth.
I heard alot of roumers maybe 10 years ago about secret gay orgies in bethel. Do they hold any truth?
Brilliant