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A Gender Fluid Life
United Kingdom
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 24 ต.ค. 2018
I've set up this channel both to share my experiences as I occasionally step into the shoes of my female and other alto egos, including weekly #transformationtuesday offerings, AND to offer reflections and guidance for those exploring their trans nature, along with the family, partners and friends of crossdressers who are trying to make sense of this often misunderstood topic. Male and female, young and old (well, not too young!), the famous and everyday, and even ethereal inspire my creations. The experience can be liberating, challenging, surprising or disturbing-but always revealing! Call it channelling, acting, playfulness or brief moments of escapism. Transforming has helped me unlock aspects of my personality that I didn't know existed and gives vent to what is too often suppressed. Here you can also find various curated playlists, profiling videos made by others.
Masculine & Feminine
What are the great, dualistic principles of the Universe called masculine and feminine all about? What are the Divine Feminine and Sacred Masculine? How can energies be described as being either feminine or masculine? How do they dance together, and where do the two powers come together? What do we mean when we talk about ultra masculinity and ultra femininity? Do common expressions of femininity and masculinity in dress and behaviour play to social constructs or tell us something about the nature of these two phenomena? This playlist seeks answers through video reflections created and curated by me, aiming to get away from the labels and lists of attributes that are usually offered as ways of distinguishing these two great powers. What are they ultimately about? That's the quest here to understand.
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Third Gender, Androgyny and Intersex Playlist Intro
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Introducing my playlist of mainly curated videos exploring all things third gender, androgyny and intersex. Yes, these are distinct, but grouped together here on my trans-oriented channel as related topics that folks who are exploring questions of gender and sexual variety may find of interest.
Trans Book Club
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Profiling books of interest and (I believe) value for folks interesting in crossdreaming, transcending gender and all things trans.
Transcending Deities Playlist Intro
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The gods, goddesses and deities of many traditions love to change their gender or not be tied to everyday ideas of the binary. Shape shifters, archetypes and healers, in this playlist, I profile videos exploring who these transcending deities are, and what we might learn or invoke from them. The list includes videos curated by me as well as fetauring my own occasional creations.
F2M Playlist Intro
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Introducing my playlist F2M, which profiles videos exploring masculine gender expression, transformation and transition for those born into a female body. While many seeking to raise the profile of female to male expression, transmen's experiences and the serious side of gender dysphoria, you'll also find the odd video here from the world of entertainment celebrating drag kings and female to ma...
One to Read: Hermaphrodeities
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I don't usually offer book suggestions or reviews on my channel, but one that I think deserves a special mention is this book, 'Hermaphrodeities: The Transgender Spirituality Workbook' by Raven Kaldera. An excellent reference on trans and third gender deities from many traditions, interviews with some inspiring individuals on the crossover between their spirituality and gender, and essays on a ...
Misgendered Pronouns
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When we wish "namaste" to another, we acknowledge their inner being. Not to do so is, in my view, at the very least, disrespectful. And too, deliberately misgendering someone may say more about where our compassion lies. Here, I appeal to those who refuse to see the souls of others to please think again.
Trans TV Series 7
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View from this playlist to allow for watching the linked videos: th-cam.com/play/PL9o5tOyHDAKdUkmtjfkMz8QVo1ySJksZg.html Watch a human-hosted binge-watch selection of some first class trans- and crossdream-themed videos. This is a human-hosted playlist, with one video following on from the other and a little continuity hosting from me in between. Rather than just watch a playlist of videos that...
Is this crossdressing thing really about dressing up?
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Is it the trappings and perceived attraction of feminine adornment-make up, hair styling, clothes and the like-that crossdressers really want to indulge, or is there something deeper going on? While there can be no one answer to this question, here I give my thoughts - and yes, they've changed from the associations I used to have way back when.
Acting Out (A Boys Will Be Girls Video Diary)
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In an experiment to see if I might be able to connect with the feelings in a situation first acted out and then put into a photograph that filled out the background, I embarked on a happy adventure of exploration and discovery. Makeup, styling and photography by Cindy Conti, Boys Will Be Girls, London. Hear my post visit reflections on looking back on the processed photos: th-cam.com/video/qq23...
Trans TV - Series 6 (Pageant)
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View from this playlist to allow for watching the linked videos: th-cam.com/play/PL9o5tOyHDAKeEue2hodGfg4kwO6-q-zQl.html Watch a human-hosted binge-watch selection of some first class trans- and crossdream-themed videos. This is a human-hosted playlist, with one video following on from the other and a little continuity hosting from me in between. Rather than just watch a playlist of videos that...
Putting Yourself in the Picture (A How To Guide)
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Putting Yourself in the Picture (A How To Guide)
Game, Set, Match (A Boys Will Be Girls Video Diary)
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Game, Set, Match (A Boys Will Be Girls Video Diary)
Coming Out as Trans or a Crossdresser (Subtitled)
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Coming Out as Trans or a Crossdresser (Subtitled)
Transgender Awareness Week and Transgender Day of Remembrance 2024
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Transgender Awareness Week and Transgender Day of Remembrance 2024
Is Masturbation a Sin? (for trans folk and crossdressers of faith) Subtitled
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Is Masturbation a Sin? (for trans folk and crossdressers of faith) Subtitled
The Isogynic Being - The Original Gender Transcender
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The Isogynic Being - The Original Gender Transcender
Trans TV - Series 5 (Vintage Female Impersonators)
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Trans TV - Series 5 (Vintage Female Impersonators)
Words, Words, Words...And Their Impacts
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Words, Words, Words...And Their Impacts
What is Abomination? (A Multifaith View)
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What is Abomination? (A Multifaith View)
What is Abomination? (A Biblical View)
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What is Abomination? (A Biblical View)
Basic reality matters more than the feelings of a few... no offense ;)
I have true compassion for myself to support my integrity in not being coerced into the fantasies of others. Being made to lie in order to satisfy the needs of others is morally wrong.
Dont worry, Brothers! In Starmer's new Socialist state, we will now address each other as "Comrades."
I must be in a very unique situation as I have a quite a large circle of trans and nonbinary friends and absolutely ZERO of them demand a special pronoun. And I live in liberal SoCal!
Are they still banging on about that nonsense,...... give it a rest.
Chopping it off doesn't change the genetic makeup. I refuse to call a fella her. I fully support women's rights not having to play sport with them or allowing them in women's bathroom's. Especially with little girls. Women's and girls rights trumps someone claiming to be.
Rubbish.. you are you, and words are just words.We are all bigger than labels!
No, they get upset when people don't pander to their narcissism.
Forcing people to use the incorrect pronouns is the stain on a soul. People are using the incorrect pronouns is a weapon to beat other people into submission. Just by being calm and collected doesn't make you right. It just makes you nicer to listen to than others and I appreciate that. However I will not be coerced into speaking out of turn to prevent other people's feelings being hurt, especially when they would not do the same for me. Respect is a two way street.
Okay so you talk about what 'offends', upsets a Trans person. But do you know how OFFENSIVE it is to a biological woman for a biological man to say that he is female? Have you any idea how insulting that is to a biological woman. What a trans person is saying to us is - Anyone can be a woman if they feel like it! No!. A Trans person cannot understand the fear or embarrassment of coming on your period in a public place and without sanitary protection. They cannot understand the absolute fear of finding out you're pregnant when you don't want to be or vice versa. They cannot understand the ingrained fear that women have of being raped. They cannot understand the historical and cultural comraderies of what it has taken for women to get the vote, gain equal rights BUT remain physically weaker than men. They cannot understand what it is to have a hysterectomy or ovarian cancer (the silent killer). Women's Chromosomes are different to those of the male and this provides us with a very physical and mental understanding of womanhood than no man can every understand. So taking all of this into account - can you understand WHY a biological woman is never going to accept a man thinking that he can be a woman? We don't want to harm you or stop you from wearing whatever you want to or living the way you want to. But please don't ask us to call you a woman. You are a man with some feminine traits but you cannot and will not EVER be a woman.
You can't change sex, your gender is what it always was from birth. Because reincarnation is real, weve all been the opposite sex at some point, if you have an imbalance of anima or animus because of your fear or attachment to embodying as a particular sex that it has now skewed your anima/animus expression, it nows bleeds through the current sex, that's not a positive. That is a problem and its YOURS. No one is obligated to reinforce a spiritual imbalance. We accept that it jas occured but it foes not help the person to reinforce their problem. Literal spiritual s posting on YT
These comments are reassuring!
yeah, that there are still normal, sane people on the planet that dont use another language to say "whats Up"
I refuse to use language chosen by another. Using imposed language does not indicate you are a compassionate spiritual person.Sorry, I mean no harm bur basically get over yourself!
yes agree! Look at my comment
People don’t deliberately misgender people to be hurtful, they are only being true to themselves by not speaking lies (to themselves), as they see it. The touchy-feely, woke brigade (that you are championing) feel they have the higher moral ground, when in truth they are just spouting a position that is best described as ‘that experienced by a pre-pubescent child’. Feelings are everything and the rational, adult part of the psyche just hasn’t kicked in yet. I hope y’all grow up soon. Namaste 😌🙏
Well said.
Dis cringe dog!
I don't think anyone should play along with a person's mental health issues. If a person asks to be referred to as They/Them then said person is mentally unwell. Same goes for a transsexual, do what you like as long as it affects no one else but you just can not expect others too join in with the insanity.
No, It' about denigrating women.
Love dressing up ladies love tights and makeup 💄 dress 👗
Thanks keep them coming
I will try!
Let's say Cinderella's Fairy Godmother decides to do you a favor and offers to transform you until midnight. She's not entirely sure what you are after, so she asks you if you would like to keep your own body and just have expert makeup, prosthetics, underwear, shapewear, wig etc applied to make you look like a gorgeous woman (at least from a distance) or if you would prefer to have your body be transformed into a normal yet attractive female and have minimal (everyday) makeup and relatively androgynous clothes (jeans, T-shirt, hoodie and just ordinary, comfortable women's underwear). Your answer may reveal your true desires. Because the latter is pure fantasy (or requires medical treatment over a long period of time), we often resort to the first one even though it might not really be our deepest desire. So yeah...I think for most crossdressers, it's not about the clothes, but clothes are the easy gateway into femininity.
As usual with your content, it is very thoughtful and thought provoking. I checked out the links and am impressed by the depth and thoroughness of the questions.
Bless you, thank you.
Looking amazing Claire ❤❤❤❤
Thank you!
Looking amazing love your hair makeup 💄 😍
Thank you!!
Great video Clive thanks you I'm cross dresser keep it secret 😉
Bless you.
Hi do you know anyone that does makeover’s
In the UK, I use Boys Will Be Girls in London. There are others here. I know of Tranity Fair in Bavaria, and Dafni Girls in Spain, but am not too familiar outside of Europe - although they should be fairly easy to find with a little Google searching.
Who is and what qualifies the book author?
He is a philosopher, a transwoman, and has written quite extensively on the subject. Just his views and theories, of course that not everyone will agree with, but I've always found he puts forward well thought through arguments.
I'm sorry that a power hungry doctor fed you dangerous propaganda that made you believe you could change gender if you pay them enough money for pills and potions.
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we are aware enough thanks.
I hope you are considering how to survive a trump FCC that will be forcing all trans/crossdresser channels off the internet. Maybe finding an internet home outside the US and followers we need to get VPN's for privacy and freedom of speech.
I am starting to put my mind to what I might do to be more active in raising trans awareness, on and off the web. It's early days in my exploring yet, but certainly something that's on my mind.
Jesus loves you ❤ Jesus died for your sins and rose from the grave three days later satan is trying to confuse people with LGTBQ if you want to get closer to Jesus I have a video on my TH-cam
Bro wtf is this, you still look like a a man and that is NOT your shade of foundation 😂
Still looks like a man though so where is the transformation ? I could dress my dog as a cat doesn't mean he will meow
Wow Claire love your hair and makeup 💄 amazing dress love stockings so sexy 😍
❤ increíble
Increíble ❤
Creep.
My favorite three books on this subject: 1. As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl (John Colapinto) 2. Trans: When Ideology Meets Reality (Helen Joyce) 3. Lost in Trans Nation: A Child Psychiatrist's Guide Out of the Madness (Miriam Grossman)
Thanks. I'll have to check these out!
Shit
This is so funny I couldn't keep up my gender fluid!
Looking amazing Claire ❤
Thanks you video I'm a gay cross dressing
Assume transformer
Uh, you really want me to comment? You were better as the OG and not the variant.
Wow!!such a pretty andg
Hit button by accident,Wow!!such a pretty and gorgeous girl so femme and lovely 🌹🌹🌹🌹
Hello and good afternoon,you certainly are a very deep thinker,i do hope you are well take care and keep safe Tim😊