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is paris all it’s cracked up to be?
After hopping around Paris for six weeks, my trip is coming to an end. So let’s discuss how I REALLY feel about this city (& France in general) - and the biggest lessons I’ve learned throughout this solo adventure.
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So … I’m in paris
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While I cook up some pasta, let’s talk about all the times I’ve cried in Paris, being afraid of French people, the joy of listening to Nicki Minaj, and why I’m visiting the “city of love” :).
I moved to NYC with big dreams. A year later, I'm back living with my parents.
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I moved to New York City right after graduating college. I had big dreams ... and almost exactly a year later, I left and moved back in with my parents. Keep watching to learn why and the true cost of living in New York City.
what I wish I knew before attending Northwestern University & a small campus tour
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Hello, and welcome to the channel! This is part two of my Northwestern University series. In the first episode, I talked specifically about my experience in NU’s journalism school. This episode I’m giving five tips for any incoming freshmen or transfers coming into Northwestern. From the school’s hustle hustle culture to extracurriculars, we're getting into everything! I hope you walk away from...
I studied journalism at Northwestern University. Was it worth it?
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Hello, and thank you for stopping by my channel! Today, I decided to do something a little different. I went and visited my alma mater, Northwestern University. I graduated from Northwestern's Medill School of Journalism last year, and have been reflecting on my college experience ever since. Did I learn a lot in my classes? Was my degree worth going in debt for? Is Medill really one of the bes...
Starting your own podcast, being a woman in sports journalism, and more with Katelynne | PT.2
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hello :) Last episode, we got to hear Katelynne's experience becoming a mom in college and how she managed to get her degree. For part two, she's talking all about her passion project, the Bear Down Girl podcast. It's a show all about the Chicago Bears where she talks about trades, recaps games, and more. Listen as she gives tips for how to start your own podcast - and shares the challenges she...
Becoming a mom at 18, tips for balancing school and parenthood, and more with Katelynne | PT.1
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hi my friends :)! Today, my friend Alexis is taking over the mic and interviewing Katelynne Lener, the host of the Bear Down Girl Podcast. In the first part. of the conversation, Katelynne’s shares her experience of becoming pregnancy in undergrad, how she managed to put herself through college, and landing her first full-time job as a young mom. Throughout the interview, Katelynne is honest an...
my winter morning routine (ft. my puppy 🐾) // no talking
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my winter morning routine (ft. my puppy 🐾) // no talking
I took my first day off of work, let’s celebrate || nyc diaries ep.003
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I took my first day off of work, let’s celebrate || nyc diaries ep.003
nyc diaries ep.2: day in the life of a journalist, exploring Chelsea + how to manifest journal
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nyc diaries ep.2: day in the life of a journalist, exploring Chelsea how to manifest journal
nyc diaries: my first-ever vlog, exploring brooklyn, and overcoming self-limiting beliefs
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nyc diaries: my first-ever vlog, exploring brooklyn, and overcoming self-limiting beliefs
Let’s Talk About Friendship: Compatibility, Differences, Breakups and More
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Let’s Talk About Friendship: Compatibility, Differences, Breakups and More

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  • @gritsgalraisedinthesouth
    @gritsgalraisedinthesouth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cassidy are you aware that your name is missing from the 2021 Commencement Program?😢

  • @josephhuang1163
    @josephhuang1163 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you have to do the work to pass. you have to have no life.

  • @2ndnature777
    @2ndnature777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    DONT QUIT YOU GOT THIS IF YOU WANT IT GO GET IT THAT GOSE FOR ANYONE

  • @georgiabrown9458
    @georgiabrown9458 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My daughter went to college in Manhattan and stayed for 6 years. She loves many things about the city,but it's a lot to do every day to just live. Her rent was over $2,000 a month for a tiny box. She's leaving the city and I'm so glad. It's good you had the experience and a blessing you had parents and a home to come back to!

  • @twalsh1801
    @twalsh1801 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love that pooch

  • @georgenoregina
    @georgenoregina 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I did the same thing but only for 2 months I just got back home a couple weeks ago and am trying to figure out what the next best move is for me. There's so much romanticization of NYC, especially for the way it was 20-30 years ago, and living there made me realize that the old narrative no longer exists. It's really hard jumping straight from A to Z, but the realization could only have come through experience! Good for you for posting this!!

  • @hansonel
    @hansonel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your story is very similar to mine. In 2010 I moved to NYC from Chicago right after graduating from university since it was a life long dream, since like you, I thought living in New York would solve all my problems and "reinventing" myself since I identified more with being a NYer than a Chicagoan since I was a child (NYer's would probably roll their eyes at that and I cringe now looking back at how I acted like a caricature of a NYer in my first year there) I lived there for about 5 years before the 24/7 grind and competitive lifestyle, paying increasingly expensive rent each year, pressure to keep up with not just your social group but even wealthy NYers since 1/2 the city seems like their millionaires started to add up (New York does something to people's perception of money and how much things should cost also) I also had my first job and first relationship. The first 2-3 years I loved it. Though, after a break up in late 2013 that's when it started to unravel into anxiety and depression. I hadn't done any inner work or preparation to deal with everything life throws at you and experiencing the real world for the first time in NY is at 22 is crazy unless you have tons of money. In 2016 I moved back home to Chicago devastated I had "failed" to make it there and thought I was giving up my NYC dreams but now I realized I didn't fail and also wasn't ready financially and emotionally to live in New York. There are TONS of young adults who also moved away from NYC (in fact I noticed a trend of NYC influencers moving away post-pandemic) since it is such an expensive and difficult city to live in. Honestly, I'm glad I wasn't living there during the pandemic and was in the burbs of Chicago instead. It was just an interesting chapter of my life. I still like NY but now I go back to visit as a tourist. Life does def come in seasons.

  • @Mauckjw
    @Mauckjw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    no actual racism just black students fantasizing about being a victim of racism at Northwestern

  • @JohnVKaravitis
    @JohnVKaravitis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    7:43 It's spelled "Kellogg."

  • @JohnVKaravitis
    @JohnVKaravitis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    $80,000 a year?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! There is NO college degree worth paying that much per year, JUST for tuition!!!!

  • @WattPheasant
    @WattPheasant 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm probably going to Northwestern next year for graduate school. This video was great, you put a lot of effort into this and it is fairly genuine and impactful.

  • @tearp60659
    @tearp60659 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am an Evanston resident. I don't believe it is quite as wealthy as you say. Now Winnetka is a very wealthy suburb. While I wish there were more affordable apartments, the area I live in (SE) does have several affordable apartment buildings. My 1 bedroom apartment is $830 a month. Just looking at the downtown area can scew one's perception. But I agree that it is advisable to do research and use the intercampus shuttle or public trans. to check out Chicago.

  • @bajoy273
    @bajoy273 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate your video, as a mom of a hs teen about to apply to colleges. Thank you. You are very well- spoken, articulate, concise, not trapped by fillers kids these days do all the time e.g. um, like, cos....

  • @mellocello187
    @mellocello187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a Kellogg alum from the early 90s when it was the top rated graduate business school in the country. I made some good friends that I have to this day, as everyone was so smart and also gracious. The faculty was very respectful of the students. I was in the part time evening program (Chicago Gold Coast) and my employer paid my tuition which was pretty great of course. A point I would add is that the El and Metra run from Evanston to downtown Chicago so no, you are not isolated in Evanston. There is an alcove on the lake with a tiny beach on campus and I took sailing classes one summer. There is a beautiful newer recital hall with a view of the Chicago skyline. It’s a bit of rarefied air there and was a life-changing experience for me.

  • @jamilladiallo1321
    @jamilladiallo1321 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do not know why people they can make it in NY.everything is overpriced, crime is rampant.No one could pay me to go live in NY

  • @rpgvag
    @rpgvag 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There's nothing joyous about NYC lil girl. You watched too much Sex And The City

  • @nd76588
    @nd76588 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    all of this is so relatable i experienced the same moving out of state and now im back home and so much happier

  • @xensationss
    @xensationss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was beautifully shot!

  • @ctjmaughs
    @ctjmaughs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Those rents seem to be Manhattan. Got to look for cheaper housing options

  • @jjamerican93
    @jjamerican93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good on you for following your gut and staying with your parents. That’s a level of maturity and self awareness that will serve you well over the course of your life. 😊

  • @psalm9166
    @psalm9166 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is a good thing you went, so many people spend their lives looking back at the road not taken and imagining a false existence that would have made them happy. They don't appreciate the life they have because of that. Im from a smaller town I encouraged my kids to leave and try things on their own. If they come back, they come back knowing what they are choosing.

  • @thelaughingman1
    @thelaughingman1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    *wherever you go, there you are*

  • @MuhammadkamranMuhammadsa-io1wm
    @MuhammadkamranMuhammadsa-io1wm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alone living a life 34?My education graduate? My life wait a woman as a life partner? My life without wife living a life? My life is missing life partner My life wait a woman as a wife?

  • @ekayaniperforms
    @ekayaniperforms 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Were you eating out all the time?

  • @ghstbird3338
    @ghstbird3338 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NYC is NOT the same as it was in the 90’s. I lived there from 1993 to 2003. It was wonderful- very good broadway shows, lots of cheap restaurants to pick from, excellent night life, etc etc. It was also funky, dangerous in some area, horrible subway, lots of construction. It changed in the early 2000’s for the worst. I lived in Greenwich Village and my rent was $500 plus (my parents bought the apartment, explained my rent) …. I saw how it all went downhill. I enjoyed my time there, now I’m a country guy living in the woods.

  • @diamcole
    @diamcole 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not sure how I stumbled across this, I'm much older (30), but I have to say you did exactly what you should have. There are many people my age and older with a slew of regrets because they let someone, often their own self, box them in. You did something different, you took a risk. You went, you tried it, it didn't work out the way you wanted and that's totally fine! My mom used to tell me that not every closed door is rejection, sometimes it's protection - you never know what you dodged by deciding to move back home when you did. No shame in turning to community and your support system during transitions. Congratulations on venturing out on your own, it's been awhile since you posted so I hope you're feeling more validated in that decision. If not, I promise - by the time you turn 30, this will be something you pat yourself on the back for.

  • @ohhhhhnooooo
    @ohhhhhnooooo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    well yeah, I moved to Los Angeles, I had a few family members, but they don't know me well. And men come to me, if you don't have friends.... those men will take advantage of you. People don't care about you. and they don't know you. I just wish my family would live in Los Angeles before I was born, so that I can grow up there and know many people there. But oh well.

  • @str8gamer964
    @str8gamer964 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could have told you it wasn’t going to work but it’ll all be ok

  • @helena3631
    @helena3631 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thats great for a bachelors degree

  • @dral22
    @dral22 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know how old you are but you look extremely young, you'll be fine. You're still breathing, it's not the end of the world. God less you.

  • @Keep-Believing-Mark536
    @Keep-Believing-Mark536 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just hang in there, turn your situation to God, the dreams he started in you he will finish in you. Here are some amazing quotes for your journey. -Every failed experiment is one step closer to success. -Thank God in advance for what's already yours. -True desire in the heart for anything good is God's proof to you sent beforehand to indicate that it's yours already.

  • @susanb.8285
    @susanb.8285 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm old (33, married, with two kids - happily settled in life), but I just want you to know that almost every single regret we have in life is from never trying to do something you want to do. I know I'm some random stranger, but I'm proud of you for trying it out, even if it turned out to not be exactly what you wanted. I was always afraid to take risks, and now I'm having a mid-life crisis. But my life is way more complicated now. Try out as many things as you want while you're still really young. Once you have a house, a husband, and kids, you can't try things out freely.

  • @seomei
    @seomei ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl, move to Chicago it’s a nice city

  • @mindyourownbusinessplease1120
    @mindyourownbusinessplease1120 ปีที่แล้ว

    You took a chance and it wasnt for you. Life is about changes. This one wasnt meant for you. At least you didnt waste more time on something that wasnt working for you.

  • @bkstandard882
    @bkstandard882 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where were you living that it was 1500 a month? That's cheap!

  • @JHOffSuit
    @JHOffSuit ปีที่แล้ว

    First off let me say good for you for sharing your story. You are a very smart person I'm sure that any company would love to have you. Sounds like financially you were able to move back home without much to worry about, which is awesome. This is the best time to find what makes you happy.

  • @TylerJ__
    @TylerJ__ ปีที่แล้ว

    Only people who are well into their careers should move to New York City, and make sure that career is cracking 6 figures. This is advice that I would give to anybody. If your just starting off, get a job in a small town or small city. The only time you should move to a big metropolitan area when your just staring out is if your entry level job is bringing in 120k+. If not, start off in a smaller, cheaper area, stack your money, invest, buy property, and move around once your stable.

  • @1stclasstaco844
    @1stclasstaco844 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a very helpful video and gave me a lot to think about, thank you!

  • @MetaDoll
    @MetaDoll ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been in NYC most of my life, and could never understand why people would want to come here so badly. It is hard over here. I am not a hater but things are not all that it seems here.. NYC is a nice place to visit but it is not a great place to live UNLESS you own a home here. If you don't own a home here, you have to have a job that will have you make 100K a year to live comfortably. It is also dirty and a lot of the structures are old, and so in. For the cost of living there it is not worth it. There is nothing wrong with moving back home if you have a wonderful family that loves you and will support you. I think in America in general, Americans are told to get out there and leave your family and do it all on your own, that's not always a good idea.

  • @smellymala3103
    @smellymala3103 ปีที่แล้ว

    Little sis I’m so proud of you for trying it out, most people never try out! Sometimes it doesn’t work out. One of my homegirls had to be a hard bitch for three years before she found a full nyc bartendership - that’s cool but tbh for what? You are going to find your most happy place, and the fact you were unafraid to move back home and calculate is amazing. You did right. A stranger but I’m proud of you. :) you are going to have a happy interesting life!!

  • @DrManHattan3n20
    @DrManHattan3n20 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah statistically women find less success when moving to a completely new location than men. This is greatly due to psychological issues of being alone and toughing it out.

  • @animekkgjgirl
    @animekkgjgirl ปีที่แล้ว

    You have two viral videos. You can actually blow up on here - but you may want to work on your consistency. Don't let this opportunity pass you by.... Also, look at the types of videos that went viral and try to use that as a guide for how you film, ideate and title your future ones.

  • @Shineynsparkles
    @Shineynsparkles ปีที่แล้ว

    No one can survive NY

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel ปีที่แล้ว

    Never give up.

  • @bondwithchrist
    @bondwithchrist ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. I too have a similar story…

  • @sidnistandard
    @sidnistandard ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes you gotta take a step back to leap forward! Hold the faith and trust God's plan 🙏

  • @rocket4444
    @rocket4444 ปีที่แล้ว

    i've lived in nyc for 7 years, grew up right outside of the city. imo you need to be making a minimum of about $90k to live here alone in one of the super trendy, safe areas, and still be able to comfortably save for your future. honestly even when i was making that i still had 2 roommates..

  • @oalatishe
    @oalatishe ปีที่แล้ว

    Lived in NYC all my life with my family but did I watch this whole video as if I could resonate? Yes😂

  • @CF.
    @CF. ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for you for taking a chance and trying something new. You’ll land on your feet. Prayers and hugs.

  • @Sydneyrella
    @Sydneyrella ปีที่แล้ว

    super relatable