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Thank you kindly, my friend.

Hi Robo: Helping men cope with the dating world is my purpose :)

Hi Julien. I absolutely do want you dating younger women. There are 4 billion women on the planet. About one in four are relationship material, so that means about 1 billion women. However some authorities claim that foreign women are better prospects than American so the number may be much higher than 25%. You look like a young and good looking guy, so you probably only want to date women in their 20's. There are 600 million women on the planet between the age of 20 and 29. That means you have a pool much larger 150 million to choose from. Here is a video I made about dating younger women: th-cam.com/video/pVjvmwnVpyA/w-d-xo.html Good luck to you!

Hi Steve. It all depends. In todays' world, yes many women will bring nothing but problems. As I have said, only 1 woman in 6 may be high quality. However if you can get that 1 she will bring a great deal of positives into your life.

Hi Jaime, welcome to the channel. You make a great point! We always want women to think that we have options, but of course we don't rub their faces in it. That is why we confine our #1 gals to dating on Monday-Thursday. If she asks "why don't you take me out Saturday, are you seeing other women" we reply "only 12 but you are my favorite, ha ha."

You make another very good point, Jaime. Glad to have you here!

Hi srb. That is only true is you are not dating with a systematic program. There are high quality women out there, you just need to know how to find them. You need to sift and screen.

​@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach Who has the time, luck or money!? I'm out, done. I choose peace.

@@bluebyyou7504 Hi Blue. Yes, dating today is tough. For us older guys, only about 1 in 6 women are high quality and long term relationship material. And yes, it does take some work. However it does not take a lot of money or luck. What it takes is a highly disciplined and developed program. If you date systematically and constantly screen out undesirable women you can find a good one. I did and ended up dating many excellent women. Ultimately you may not wish to get married, but you can have good women in your life. Check out my new video on screening out toxic women: th-cam.com/video/MpSRqlRI-9M/w-d-xo.html

Hi SuperQ. Yes, everything about my dating program is designed to sift and select the best woman for you to date.

Hi Mike: I believe God helps those who help themselves.

Hi Russel. He actually has a high paying job and travels a great deal. Also, he has found that his time is taxed to the point where he is no longer happy.

Hi Kerry. Correct. The man has admitted to not being happy.

Hi Nick. I agree. Becoming good at getting women to love you, and stay in love with you requires a great deal of hard work and discipline.

Biologically and religiously one should date with the intent to create a long term relationship so as to make children amd perpetuate the species. If you are a selfish human and probably massively damaged soul, then you should continue on with many short term relationships.

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Good luck with that then!!! 😆😆

Hi Crom. Actually I agree that we should ultimately seek a high quality long term relationship. However it is necessary to date many women until you find that special one.

Hi Joshua. I think the happiness issue depends upon what stage you are at in your life. If you are a very young man who has not had a lot of success with women, but you develop yourself to the point where now you are very successful, yes that will bring happiness. Also, if you are coming out of a divorce sleeping with many new women is exciting. Let's be honest: Seduction is a thrilling process. However I do not think that such happiness is sustainable in the long term. This man is approaching 40. I personally found myself much happier managing a 3 woman rotation of very high quality women, and then finding that one very special woman. I think that ultimately, happiness comes from managing and achieving your goals.

@@rajroyofficial thank you for your kind word. Let me know if I can be of help.

You are probably right.

Your ultimate goal perhaps. Not everyone's. And long distance can work. People have had to make them work for many centuries as men fought overseas or served on merchant ships. Several of mine are long distance. Not overseas long distance but several hours drive each way. If the relationship is important to those involved, you make it work.

@@kenofken9458 Hi Ken. My apologies for the delayed response. The answer (do long distance relationships [LDR] work?) is complex so I needed the chance to answer it more fully. If you are high school sweethearts going off to college, then no, only 2% of those work out. The average long distance relationship lasts 4.5 months. But here is where it gets interesting: One study found that 58% of LDR's were successful, a prima fascie, pretty good number. However, the definition of success was "it turned into something more serious." That means it made it past the 4.5, maybe 6 month mark. That is far from the Golden Year, further from marriage, and light years say from a successful marriage. That is why I advocate dating women within driving distance. Doing so is the best way to manage a 3 woman rotation. Now let's say you ran across a woman on social media you clicked with, and she lived far away, why yes you could engage her but she is not a replacement for a woman you can physically date.

@@jayvander7156 you are right Jay, the key is to work on ourselves and constantly increase our value as men.

@@JamieTransNyc the best strategy is to do both

Better yet, give them one!

Hi Nshandles. Sorry for the late reply. It is true, having money and a good career helps, but if you do not manage a relationship properly all the money in the world does not matter. I have seen this first hand myself.

Hello to you my friend.

@@WonkyWomanLife greetings. I have to run to the gym now, but that’s an excellent question. I will have an answer to it later.

"Just be yourself" JBY. I will quote a guy by the name of Allen Thompson: This is not good advice or help to a person who's been struggling with women his whole life? A person who goes on one date every 6 months... and never gets a second date? A person who's lonely, depressed, unhappy? A person who's obviously doing something wrong but has no idea what it might be? Rather than simply JBYing, and waiting patiently, and having faith, perhaps it would be more beneficial if the troubled person would decide to TAKE CHARGE and actively create the kind of life he wants. To learn the mistakes he's been making in the past and how to correct this in the future. To learn the correct attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts which will enable him to attract and keep the woman or women he wants. This would be useful advice! Here is a link to the full article: www.sosuave.com/articles/at/whynot.htm I will expand on this answer in a video soon.

@@WonkyWomanLife I actually did a whole new video on this topic. Thanks for the idea.

Thank you for your kind words. Todays' dating environment is so tough for men, I am just trying to help.

Hi Viking. Indeed. That is exactly why we build a 3 woman rotation of women competing for our love.

Hi Red. Actually, the idea that women will compete for you is central to my program. That is why we aggressively build a 3 woman dating rotation of high quality women that are contestants for our attention. Here are a couple of videos about dating multiple women at once. th-cam.com/video/OD3rDpSIylM/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/QwZ9DmMC5p8/w-d-xo.html

Nobody’s worth all the games you have to play to please a woman , No matter how they look. What do you have when they aged without virtue or a pleasant personality ? Someone you don’t want to live .

@@edbair5480 Hi Ed, absolutely great question. The video you just watched is only one of many, many I am making. It is based upon the book I wrote. Over decades (starting with the academic material on relationships....which is mostly terrible) I have developed a program/system for finding high quality women. It all starts with a biological understanding of how the female brain works. My program incorporates many, many checks and selection methodologies that ensure you get a high quality woman, one that is kind, loving, and a flexible giver. My program is meticulously designed to get that woman to fall in love with you, stay in love with you, and then become a major asset to your life. This woman will be well worth it.

Au Contraire my friend. I know dating is tough today. But if you use my system you can be successful. I was managing a 3 woman rotation of beautiful women for several years. All these women were competing for marriage and it was great time in my life. I eventually married the best one and 18 years later we are still happily married. She is much younger than me and very pretty as well. You too can be successful but you have to be disciplined and stick with the program.

That is an excellent point. The whole purpose of my program is to carefully select and screen women in order to find one that is high quality. Only about 25% of women (maybe less) are long term relationship material. Granted, that is not an easy task in todays world. But everything I do is a selection process. The first 3 dates are a trial/selection process. So is the purpose of managing a 3 women dating rotation. Only after at least 2, preferably 3 months of dating/screening do we commit to a woman. And then she must give you what I call "The Golden Year" do you have someone with marriage potential. Here is a recent video on this process: th-cam.com/video/QwZ9DmMC5p8/w-d-xo.html

@@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach The world is filled, over-filled with women. They are not difficult to find, in fact, many of them are fat and in the way. Half are obese, more than half are ugly, 3/4s are unintelligent, and the rest just aren't very interesting or have any ideas. No one "dates" anymore. Marriage is over, unless you're a willing target for divorce. No matter how much she works on herself, she is still a b*tch at her core.

Why so negative? Everybody is damaged one way or another. Just find someone who's damage is compatible with your damage.

Hi Randy, thank you for your reply. Actually I absolutely would call myself a Libertarian. I also identify as an Independent. The last time I voted for a Democrat president was Obama. That was his first term, he spent too much money for me, but you can see I am most certainly no far right winger. I hope you are well!

Hi again Randy. Actually, you are thinking about old Doc Love. I am a different guy. I do, however, have a PhD. I also studied the old Doc Love material fairly intensely. Doc generally gave very solid advice and my program is consistent with his system. I explore the science behind the female brain more in depth than the old Doc and I also incorporate more material from the now gone seduction community. My book is more detailed. Doc was certainly correct about the importance of challenge and spoon feeding yourself to a woman. Sadly, Doc Love passed away a few years ago although his system is still for sale. As stated, you will find his theories fairly consistent with mine. I encourage guys to study all the good material they can. Check out my video about getting advice from academia: studio.th-cam.com/users/video1KY-mDWhr80/edit

That's not Doc Love lol😊

@@marty7wizard7 Correct Marty. Sadly, Doc Love passed a few years ago. However his advice was solid and as mentioned consistent with a lot of my material.

Yes...as I discussed in my video, this happening is very possible, especially if you train. Thank you for your comment.

WOW! A plus, plus, plus! I was just getting ready for bed and your comment really made my night!

Yep. When the money is gone, she will be too. When I met my wife I was making tons of money and she was a food service worker. Today I don't make much and she is a "Girl Boss" but I am blessed that she stays with me. The key is to always, always stick to the rules. Please let me know if there is any way I can be of help, my friend.

I will take a look at the Emory study. In my analysis, the number one reason why women divorce (and 70% of divorces are filed by women) is because they fall out of love/are hypergamous. With a younger woman, yes you must work hard to keep her in love...but that is true at any age. studio.th-cam.com/users/videoEBDlalyXyOM/edit

@@Dr.SeanReed-DatingCoach That is my observation as well. Hypergamy has to be kept satisfied which is increasingly difficult for most men as women advance more in society due to most careers being process-following advancement. That is why entrepreneurs are in such high demand these days as they easily can. Its not just about money though, as you mentioned in that bodybuilding video. I think its about a general feeling of inferiority which they cannot have if the man lost his status which was all had going for himself.

@@levismirnoff5450 Hi Levi: You raise a critical question. The issue of hypergamy is going to create more challenges (IE difficulty) for relationships in the future. The question is, how can men succeed in a world where women have more education and earning ability? Here is a recent video I did on the topic: th-cam.com/video/y6QeuoXc6z0/w-d-xo.html

@@levismirnoff5450 Hi Levi. The issue of hypergamy will be faced by men more in the future. Here is a video I did on how to handle the situation (how to handle a "Girl Boss"): th-cam.com/video/y6QeuoXc6z0/w-d-xo.html

Not at all, my wife will rob banks for me.

Good question. My wife is a "Girl Boss" so she is very busy with her own job. She does keep track of me, however. She is 15 years younger that me and looks even younger (she is still very pretty) while on the other hand turning 60 beat my face with an ugly stick, LOL. Even so she can be very jealous. But no women leaves her husband over jealousy alone, if there is no actual infidelity. The way it work is, if you actually cheat you will do genuine damage to your relationship. However if a woman thinks that you have the ability to get other women (but don't out of respect for your marriage) her interest level rises.

Actually, I keep it simple. I tell my wife I will always pick her if she wants to go out dancing or to watch some music. If she does not I will go out without her, it is her choice.